This document discusses the importance of building relationships and social connections for people with disabilities. It argues that caregivers, while temporary, have a responsibility to help the person build networks without relying solely on the caregiver. The three-step process outlined involves asking the person and others about their interests to learn about them, scouting out community spaces where they may fit in, and creating initial opportunities for them to engage in these spaces and potentially form new relationships. Emphasis is placed on seeing the person's humanity and abilities rather than just their disabilities and needs in order to open doors to a more fulfilling social life.
Stop searching for your passion -- Design it insteadTerri Trespicio
You've heard that you should follow your passion--and when you do, your life falls into place. Well, if you ask Terri Trespicio, this is bogus advice--not to mention profoundly unhelpful. This keynote address, based on her popular TEDx talk "Stop searching for your passion," which has earned nearly 5 million views to date, was delivered to the Commercial Interior Design Association, in May 2019. In it, Terri debunks this cultural myth, and talks about how to tap your greatest resource to create a life that matters.
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Chronic Disease and Wholistic Health in First Nations Communities
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Stop searching for your passion -- Design it insteadTerri Trespicio
You've heard that you should follow your passion--and when you do, your life falls into place. Well, if you ask Terri Trespicio, this is bogus advice--not to mention profoundly unhelpful. This keynote address, based on her popular TEDx talk "Stop searching for your passion," which has earned nearly 5 million views to date, was delivered to the Commercial Interior Design Association, in May 2019. In it, Terri debunks this cultural myth, and talks about how to tap your greatest resource to create a life that matters.
Moonias Perspective Working in First Nations Communitiesgriehl
Chronic Disease and Wholistic Health in First Nations Communities
my view of the world as a white privileged male working with Indigenous people for more than 25 years
Authors: Dr. Bob Chaudhuri (1), Melissa Crawford, MED-3(1), Gerry V Martin, Anishawbae(2).
Affiliations:
1.Northern Ontario School of Medicine
2.Thunder Bay, Traditional Teacher
Realizations at Alberta Association for Community Living Apr 2012Realizations
"A Partnership Approach to Supporting People with Complex Needs and Challenges to Live a Rich and Inclusion Life" - Presentation at Alberta Association for Community Living by Hope Leet Dittmeier and Anne Scott
The US & India: Bridging the Communication Gap Bryan Walton
Contrast and compare Indian and American culture and communication styles to improve bi-directional communication and working effectiveness between groups. Useful for American managers with offshore teams in India.
Community Development,
Community Relations
Community Participation
Sociology
Social Work
Organizational behavior
Inter personal relations
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We do not have a scarcity of ideas, we should have a conversation about how we are treating eachother. This is a draft, should be a living document. For something that becomes our Northstar of human to human interaction.
Because otherwise, machines will be even better at that.
Building community Keynote address for DDS Merimack Valley of Massachusetts Cheryl Ryan Chan
Among our most precious treasures are the people in our lives; we all have them, we need
them, we rely on them and they help us define ourselves. People with disabilities live with
barriers to finding and building their own communities. Those may be internal barriers related
to their disability, but many more of the barriers are external; societal presumptions, support
system limitations, and freedom of access. The approach to building community for those we
love must be done with far more intention and planning than what we do for ourselves. It
requires a lifetime of stewardship, so it’s time to start now.
Authors: Dr. Bob Chaudhuri (1), Melissa Crawford, MED-3(1), Gerry V Martin, Anishawbae(2).
Affiliations:
1.Northern Ontario School of Medicine
2.Thunder Bay, Traditional Teacher
Realizations at Alberta Association for Community Living Apr 2012Realizations
"A Partnership Approach to Supporting People with Complex Needs and Challenges to Live a Rich and Inclusion Life" - Presentation at Alberta Association for Community Living by Hope Leet Dittmeier and Anne Scott
The US & India: Bridging the Communication Gap Bryan Walton
Contrast and compare Indian and American culture and communication styles to improve bi-directional communication and working effectiveness between groups. Useful for American managers with offshore teams in India.
Community Development,
Community Relations
Community Participation
Sociology
Social Work
Organizational behavior
Inter personal relations
Human Resource Management
Leadership and Management
Investor Relations
Presentations and Public Speaking
Self Improvement
Marketing
We do not have a scarcity of ideas, we should have a conversation about how we are treating eachother. This is a draft, should be a living document. For something that becomes our Northstar of human to human interaction.
Because otherwise, machines will be even better at that.
Building community Keynote address for DDS Merimack Valley of Massachusetts Cheryl Ryan Chan
Among our most precious treasures are the people in our lives; we all have them, we need
them, we rely on them and they help us define ourselves. People with disabilities live with
barriers to finding and building their own communities. Those may be internal barriers related
to their disability, but many more of the barriers are external; societal presumptions, support
system limitations, and freedom of access. The approach to building community for those we
love must be done with far more intention and planning than what we do for ourselves. It
requires a lifetime of stewardship, so it’s time to start now.
Skills capital:How investing time and hard work now in practicing some of the...Cheryl Ryan Chan
Caregivers should always have an eye on the future, the time beyond themselves, when new caregivers will be taking
over. We want the next people in our loved ones lives to be ready to take on the duties we carry out, but are they all
REALLY necessary? Are we doing things that they could learn to do themselves, in whole or in part? Are we expecting
that the next caregivers will do things exactly as we do? This is a dangerous presumption, because it is certain that they
will not. So, how do we use the time now to work on skills that will make them more prepared, safer, less vulnerable,
give them more dignity and pride in themselves?
Preparing for Caring: strategies for families and caregivers Cheryl Ryan Chan
Hosted by the MA Dept of Health, this guide was presented online as a workshop on June 25, 2020. The guide contains practical information, resources and strategies for caregivers to prepare for the event of an alternate caregiver stepping in if they are hospitalized.
Nicky's Law: the Journey from Tragedy to TriumphCheryl Ryan Chan
As presented in May 2020 to the AFC Summit, hosted by Nonotuck Resource Associates in Massachusetts, USA; and to Massachusetts Families Organizing for Change, June 2020
A companion document to go with the "How to Plan for COVID Hospitalization & Disability" presentation. This document can be used by parents & caregivers to increase safety and positive outcomes during hospitalization of a loved one.
Autism Housing Pathways Meeting Minutes Dec 2019Cheryl Ryan Chan
Autism Housing Pathways, Inc. We are a Massachusetts-based nonprofit providing housing information and referral for individuals with autism and other disabilities.
Circles of Support workshop presented in Northampton, MA, April 2018Cheryl Ryan Chan
The Northampton Special Education Parent Advisory Council, in collaboration with Northampton Public Schools, sponsored this workshop and invited community stakeholders to begin the conversation around building an inclusive community.
Autism and Life Transitions: Hard Lessons Learned & Taught as a Person-Center...Cheryl Ryan Chan
In December of 2015, I presented this webinar to members of the National Association for Dual Diagnoses (thenadd.org). I've been conducting Person-Centered Plans for 4 years, and over that time I've seen a number of disturbing trends around the lack of understanding and planning for preparedness in transitioning students; in particular, in the areas of independent skill building specific to the anticipated environment, and personal safety skills. I feel it's important to talk about what I've observed and how my team of co-facilitators and I have identified and tackled these issues within the PCP process. I hope that the "lessons learned" will assist people in planning for IEP/ISP goals that can help maximize success. I offer it free to anyone who would like to attend.
Understanding the Challenges of Street ChildrenSERUDS INDIA
By raising awareness, providing support, advocating for change, and offering assistance to children in need, individuals can play a crucial role in improving the lives of street children and helping them realize their full potential
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By raising awareness, providing support, advocating for change, and offering assistance to children in need, individuals can play a crucial role in improving the lives of street children and helping them realize their full potential
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A process server is a authorized person for delivering legal documents, such as summons, complaints, subpoenas, and other court papers, to peoples involved in legal proceedings.
Jennifer Schaus and Associates hosts a complimentary webinar series on The FAR in 2024. Join the webinars on Wednesdays and Fridays at noon, eastern.
Recordings are on YouTube and the company website.
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Given the small scale of housing associations and their relative high cost per home what is the point of them and how do we justify their continued existance
Jennifer Schaus and Associates hosts a complimentary webinar series on The FAR in 2024. Join the webinars on Wednesdays and Fridays at noon, eastern.
Recordings are on YouTube and the company website.
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This session provides a comprehensive overview of the latest updates to the Uniform Administrative Requirements, Cost Principles, and Audit Requirements for Federal Awards (commonly known as the Uniform Guidance) outlined in the 2 CFR 200.
With a focus on the 2024 revisions issued by the Office of Management and Budget (OMB), participants will gain insight into the key changes affecting federal grant recipients. The session will delve into critical regulatory updates, providing attendees with the knowledge and tools necessary to navigate and comply with the evolving landscape of federal grant management.
Learning Objectives:
- Understand the rationale behind the 2024 updates to the Uniform Guidance outlined in 2 CFR 200, and their implications for federal grant recipients.
- Identify the key changes and revisions introduced by the Office of Management and Budget (OMB) in the 2024 edition of 2 CFR 200.
- Gain proficiency in applying the updated regulations to ensure compliance with federal grant requirements and avoid potential audit findings.
- Develop strategies for effectively implementing the new guidelines within the grant management processes of their respective organizations, fostering efficiency and accountability in federal grant administration.
Building Bridges: creating relationships that build lives of dignity
1. "Lisa Smiles" by visualthinker is licensed under CC BY-SA 2.0
Creating relationships
that build lives of dignity
2. SPREAD THE WORD: Oddly, the idea of helping a person build a network
of support and relationships in the community needs to be approached with
the mindset that you are temporary, whether you are a family member or a
loved one or a non-relative paid care provider. You will be moving on at
some point. So while we focus often on authentic relationships within the
home, it is a responsibility as caregivers to support the person in being the
best and most prepared person they can be WITHOUT YOU.
3. You are in a position to create a shift in thinking with the team
you work with. Your approach, your actions have a huge impact
on those who are providing direct care. By leading the
conversation from one of disability to ability, from physical care
first to humanity first, you will open doors of possibility.
7. "Being connected to others
socially is widely
considered a fundamental
human need--crucial to
both well-being and
survival. Extreme
examples show infants in
custodial care who lack
human contact fail to
thrive and often die, and
indeed, social isolation or
solitary confinement has
been used as a form of
punishment," said Julianne
Holt-Lunstad, PhD,
professor of psychology at
Brigham Young University.
"Yet an increasing portion
of the U.S. population now
experiences isolation
regularly."
Social Isolation and Loneliness
Greater Threat to Public Health
Than Obesity – Disabled World,
2018/08/06
"Walk on by" by Kiril Strax is licensed under CC BY-NC-SA 2.0
8. Do people with disabilities have the same opportunities to find & develop relationships?
11. ASK, LISTEN, LEARN
STEP ONE MUST BE to ask the person who is important to them. Who do they
like? Who do they love? Why do they enjoy them?
STEP TWO MUST BE to assemble or reach out to the people who are currently
involved in the person’s life. Ask them to “think of a time when the person was
very happy, engaged, having fun, working well, comfortable.” Then ask them to
describe the what, where, who, when, and as many details as possible. DON’T ask
“what do you think makes the person happy?”
Collect this information. Make a list of the things you’ve learned about the
person through these stories.
You now have a picture of the person and can begin to take the next step.
12. ASK, LISTEN LEARN
WHY SHOULD WE SEEK INPUT
FROM OTHERS?
Imagine if you were introduced to
everyone by just one person…
13. ASK, LISTEN LEARN
The dangers of ”presumed
familiarity”
No one person can paint the entire picture of
another person, no matter how much they
think they are the expert.
14. Who is in my life What they know about me
FAMILY I like to go to bed early, wake up early. I
speak Japanese. I love live concerts.
CHURCH COMMUNITY I’m a Christian, I love to sing, I don’t like to
teach.
FITNESS FRIENDS I prefer small groups to large groups, I’m
competitive, I hate loud music.
DISABILITY COMMUNITY I’m a good public speaker, I’m good at
advocacy, I know a lot about autism, I know a
lot about person-centered planning.
GGA I love rum & coke, I love to try local food/food
tours, I love the beach, I like a little alone time
each day, I prefer my own room
15. What have you just learned about me? (What if just one person had been
asked to describe me?)
This is the start of the next part of the ROADMAP…
Who is in my life What they know about me
FAMILY I like to go to bed early, wake up early. I
speak Japanese. I love live concerts.
CHURCH COMMUNITY I’m a Christian, I love to sing, I don’t like to
teach.
FITNESS FRIENDS I prefer small groups to large groups, I’m
competitive, I hate loud music.
DISABILITY COMMUNITY I’m a good public speaker, I’m good at
advocacy, I know a lot about autism, I know
a lot about person-centered planning.
GGA I love rum & coke, I love to try local food/food
tours, I love the beach, I like a little alone
time each day, I prefer my own room
18. DEPLOY, RECON
Take that list that has been created. Now assemble or reach out to everyone again.
Provide the list and ask them ”Where would these gifts and interests be welcome in
the community?”
Head to the spaces that you or others recommend, on your own first. Ask others if
they are willing to help you. Take a look at the spaces; what is the environment
like? What might be some of the challenges to accessing and/or participating
successfully? Write your thoughts down.
Talk to the members of that space, without mentioning why you’re there. How
often do they meet? Do they communicate outside of the space? What is the most
fun part of the group? What are the expectations of each participant?
WHY MIGHT “DEPLOY, RECON” BE IMPORTANT?
21. CREATE OPPORTUNITIES
Create a list of the spaces that have been suggested. Assemble or communicate
with the team of participants. Ask them if they know anyone in the spaces, if they
are willing to make introductions and/or accompany the person to those places.
(What opportunities did THIS just create?)
Share the list you now have of the spaces you’d like to introduce to the person, with
the person. Ask them which ones they would like to try.
Make a plan and GO!
BUT THINK BEFORE YOU GO – WHAT DO THESE FIRST OPPORTUNITIES
LOOK LIKE?
22. How do we get to know them? What do we ask? What do we learn?
23. They’ve likely already been introduced, by someone who has gone ahead
for the purpose of “explaining what’s wrong with them” and what they
can’t do, their issues, what might happen, etc.
24. CREATE OPPORTUNITIES
THE STORY OF ANDY
https://youtu.be/zpK6KKzuFzY
What are the takeaways from
this story in terms of
relationship building?
25. CREATE OPPORTUNITIES
Quote from Andy’s ACTUAL
caregiver:
“It wasn’t my job
to BE his friend.
It was my
job to FIND
him friends!”
26. You are in a position to create a shift in thinking with the team
you work with. Your approach, your actions have a huge impact
on those who are providing direct care. By leading the
conversation from one of disability to ability, from physical care
first to humanity first, you will open doors of possibility.
LET’S
REMIND
OURSELVES
27. you are temporary, whether you are a family member or a loved
one or a non-relative paid care provider. You will be moving on
at some point. So while we focus often on authentic
relationships within the home, it is a responsibility as caregivers
to support the person in being the best and most prepared
person they can be WITHOUT YOU.
LET’S
REMIND
OURSELVES
28. Humans are social creatures by nature. The opposite of
that is loneliness, which leads to health problems, greater
need for services and supports, and lower life expectancy.
Those who rely on us MUST RELY ON US FOR
EVERYTHING…imagine if you needed someone else to
take care of the human need for relationships!
LET’S
REMIND
OURSELVES
29. THANK
YOU
It is up to every one of us to steward the humanity
of those who are considered less.
Failure to do so is a failure of humanity in general.
Relationships are part of our very humanity. Without
people in our lives, we are all incomplete.
It TAKES WORK but must BECOME A PRIORITY
for those of us who care for others.
Hold the space for the voices left unheard.
Today’s slides are available at:
https://www.slideshare.net/cherylryanchan
/
My website:
www.personcenteredplanning.com
Email me:
cheryl@personcenteredplanning.com
Cheryl Ryan
Chan