This document discusses the concept of "broken wings" as a metaphor for emotional trauma that prevents one from truly loving. It states that childhood trauma often goes unresolved, resulting in "broken wings" that interfere with relationships. To find true love and freedom, one must heal emotional wounds from the past by letting go of negatives and gaining introspection. For a relationship to succeed, both partners must address any unresolved emotional issues to avoid having problems "splatter the good intentions." True love requires courage to untangle all barriers from within and stay focused on transcending limitations.

1. Broken Wings
September 27, 2019
Who needs a heart when a heart can be broken? Everyone has two wings. The heart
wing and the mind wing. Many don’t get out of childhood with out trauma and the
majority of those just exacerbate it with more ‘pile on’s’ of bad habits that make life
for themselves and those close to them unnecessarily uncomfortable. The unfixed
psychological damages don’t get fixed without ‘fixing them’. For those seeking
spiritual happiness, first work on the basic repairs of letting go of negatives.
So … just what does the phrase ‘broken wings’ mean? A person who has been hurt very bad and very deep
emotionally. An angel with one wing still in tact symbolizes freedom and that no matter what happens, there is still
hope. Love with unacknowledged ‘broken wings’ never gets off the ground for long. Love with a couple needs four
wings to fly the highest into a freedom and bliss that remains forever. To really love, you have to ‘let go’ of things that
create a love that flutters and get’s lost in flight, even before love has really begun. Love isn’t a trip to a Safari park,
or to a caged love, but a journey out of all cages to a freedom beyond words that has no limits.
Love is free, but freedom has constraints! The biggest constraint is ‘you’ unprepared for the transcending of who you
are not, but are trapped into thinking you are. An escape from all impediments, begins to heal the
emotional broken wings. The birth of a new dimension in experience is in your hands to choose. No
choice is a choice. Doing nothing but living out your life with no introspection is to ‘bypass’ the
possibilities of evolving the spirit of life and love. Giving up freedoms is not just an outer
containment, but an inner prison that shuts out the growth of the emotional and spiritual. The mind
alone isn’t adequate without paying attention to emotional/spiritual barriers.
Bonding as a couple if one or both of you is an ‘emotional broken wing’ from uncleared
negative childhood issues is akin to ‘walking a high wire tight rope’ without the
acquired skills. Things may at first seem good, but the issues come up and splatter the
good intentions. Most are conditioned to accept problems, and end up moving around
them while the intended love is kept together by fears, and well, by a fragile string.
People are more prepared today to be smarter, and educated so as to be a success financially, but
almost nothing in schools works on the emotional, spiritual life. Why? Easy. The teachers/professors
are too emotionally/spiritually handicapped themselves!
Open communication, sound agreements, and the focus on a total heart opening are especially
important if one or both partners have any unresolved issues from underlying fears, be it fear of
abandonment, intimacy, trust, and so forth. The fear of ‘flying, uninhibited into a total freedom of love’
evades billions, and likely no one in your lineage has been able to heal into a love that transcends all blocks. Don’t
let it be in competition with other priorities as rarely it is not the case. The only problem in life is missing enough
love! Trying to grow roses in a garden of weeds is futile. Weeds are personal insecurity, jealousies, self doubt,
miseries, ego trips, being someone you are not, and on and on.
There are no tomorrow’s for love – only now! Time to have the courage to ‘untangle’ all barriers,
and staying focused on the highest possibilities. No moment in history has been
better for so many to fly with uninhibited love than the moment now!
Arhata~