A Systemic Approach to the Treatment of the Autism Spectrum Disorders
           Greater Washington Society for Clinical Social Work
                          Jonah Green, MSW
                           January 18, 2009



     Schedule:
    10-10:15-Introduction/Overview
    10:15-11:00-Part I
    11:00-11:15—Break
    11:15-11:45—Video of individual with ASD
    11:45-12:30—Part II/Video
    12:30-12:45—Break
    12: 45-1:30—Part III
    1:30-:45--Discussion
    1:45-2:00-Evaluations

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Introduction
                              ___________________
Part I                        ___________________
   Defining Autism,           ___________________
   Symptoms, Etiology,        ___________________
   Screening/Diagnostic       ___________________
   Process, Differential      ___________________
   Diagnosis, Co-Morbidity,   ___________________
   Effects on Functioning,    ___________________
   Epidemiology, Non-         ___________________
   Systemic Approaches to     ___________________
   Treatment                  ___________________
                              ___________________
                                                2
Part II                        ___________________
                               ___________________
 The Systemic Context—        ___________________
  Effects on Overall Family    ___________________
  System/Interactions          ___________________
  Outside of the Family,       ___________________
  Effects at Particular Life   ___________________
  Stages, Effects on           ___________________
  Specific Family              ___________________
  Relationships                ___________________
                               ___________________
                               ___________________
                                                 3
Part III                        ________________________
                                ________________________
  Systemic Approaches to        ________________________
  Treatment                     ________________________
 Support and Problem-          ________________________
  Solving: the “Family Focus”   ________________________
  Approach                      ________________________
 Generating a Stronger         ________________________
  Family Structure:The          ________________________
  Contemporary Structural
                                ________________________
  Framework
                                ________________________
 Couples therapy when one
                                ________________________
  partner has Asperger’s

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Part I:
   Understanding Autism and Non-
    Systemic Approaches to Treatment             ___________________________
                                                 ___________________________
    Definition of Autism and the Autism         ___________________________
    Spectrum                                     ___________________________
   “The Triad” of symptoms: impaired            ___________________________
    relationships, difficulty with               ___________________________
    communication, restricted                    ___________________________
    interests/behaviors                          ___________________________
   The 5 discrete diagnoses: Autistic D/O,      ___________________________
    Asperger’s, PDD-NOS, Rett’s,                 ___________________________
    Disintegrative D/O                           ___________________________
   The three primary diagnoses and their        ___________________________
    different symptoms; Asperger’s lacks         ___________________________
    delay in verbal IQ, PDD-NOS lacks full       ___________________________
    symptomatology
                                                 ___________________________
   Additional symptoms/challenges for
    people on the spectrum: sensory              ___________________________
    processing, sleep, gi issues,
   Effects on Functioning throughout the Life
    Span
   The drive for comfort and stimulation
   Common Strengths for people with
    ASDs:visual abilities, memory, splinter
    skills                                                                     5
 The Question of Etiology
 Medical Screening: Modified
    Checklist for Autism           ________________________
                                   ________________________
   Making the Diagnosis: Team
    of psychologist, OT SPLP,      ________________________
    educator, social worker        ________________________
   The Various Rating Scales:     ________________________
    Gilliam, Autism Rating Scale   ________________________
   Resources for making the       ________________________
    Diagnosis: DDA/School          ________________________
    System/Private providers       ________________________
   Differential Diagnosis: OCD,   ________________________
    ADHD, Social Anxiety
   Co-Morbidity: OCD, ADHD,
    mood issues
   Epidemiology: 1 in 150                                6
   Common Non-Systemic
    Approaches to Treatment                     _________________________________
                                                _________________________________
                                                _________________________________
   Characteristics of Successful               _________________________________
    Approaches: begins early, intensive,        _________________________________
    involves family, structured, utilizes       _________________________________
    behavioral principles                       _________________________________
   “Normalization”, or helping kids to “feel   _________________________________
    normal” vs. “Treatment”                     _________________________________
   Applied Behavioral Analysis; intense,       _________________________________
    specific skill-building                     _________________________________
                                                _________________________________
   TEACHH:visual structure and                 _________________________________
    organization                                _________________________________
   LEAP: educational inclusion                 _________________________________
   Picture-Exchange Communication              _________________________________
    Systems: communicating with pictures        _________________________________
   Greenspan/Denver/DIR Model: play            _________________________________
    which develops reciprocity                  _________________________________
                                                _________________________________
   Social Skills Groups: teaching specific     _________________________________
    skills
   Educational Supports (504s, IEPs,
    accommodations/special programs,
    FastForward, Cogmed, Kurzweil)

                                                                                7
   Language-Communication Therapy:               _________________________________
    intense teaching of pragmatic language        _________________________________
   Functional Behavioral Analysis;               _________________________________
    addressing the function of behaviors          _________________________________
                                                  _________________________________
   Medication: anti-depressants, stimulants,     _________________________________
    anti-psychotics                               _________________________________
   Collaborative-Problem Solving: relating       _________________________________
    more flexibly                                 _________________________________
   Relationship Development Intervention         _________________________________
    (RDI): making use of ‘productive              _________________________________
    uncertainty’                                  _________________________________
   Sensory Integration Therapy: modulating       _________________________________
    sensitivities and increasing awareness        _________________________________
                                                  _________________________________
   Dietary Interventions: reducing gluten and    _________________________________
    casein, adding Omega-3s                       _________________________________
   Emphasizing Strengths; memory, visual         _________________________________
    abilities, etc.                               _________________________________
   Individualized sports: karate, tennis, etc.   _________________________________
   Mentor programs                               _________________________________
   Play Dates/Controlled social events
   Social Stories: improving behavior and
    teaching skills
   The battle against screen time
                                                                                  8
   Individual therapy:                   ________________________
       Make concepts concrete:           ________________________
        play-dough, rubber bands,         ________________________
       Offer specific guidance: ask      ________________________
        when, where, with whom, use       ________________________
        cartoons and role plays
       developing the ‘theory of
                                          ________________________
        mind’ using speech bubbles        ________________________
       Using sociograms or               ________________________
        “closeness circles” to identify   ________________________
        and improve relationships         ________________________
       using the relationshipL “I        ________________________
        wonder if you do this when?”
       Use active empathy but avoid
        intrusiveness
       The need for patience
       Meeting with counselors and
        friends
       Decision-making analysis
       The Reality Principle; getting
                                                                     9
        these guys to look beyond
        typical women
   Part II: The Systemic
    Context of Autism                           _______________________
   Common Family Dynamics:
    time/resource demands, stigma,isolation,    _______________________
    behavior issues, guilt/blame, parental      _______________________
    strife, problems with other siblings
   The Stages of Grief Model: shock, denial,   _______________________
    anger, bargaining,acceptance. Family        _______________________
    members can be at different stages, need
    to grieve again at each developmental       _______________________
    stage                                       _______________________
   Common Ways of Coping: Normalization
    (addressing autism within the context of    _______________________
    other needs), Crusadership (illness as an   _______________________
    occupation), Altruism (can neglect own
    needs), Resignation (can lead to            _____________
    depression)
   Positive Effects of Having An Autistic
    Member of the Family: increased
    cohesion, empathy among siblings,
    personal growth

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Challenges for Families At
    Particular Developmental                 ___________________
    Stages
   Infant and Toddler Stage: the stress
                                             ___________________
    of diagnosis, difficulty bonding,        ___________________
    negotiating different family             ___________________
    reactions, finding supports
   School-Age: Need for advocacy,           ___________________
    arranging treatments/child care,         ___________________
    managing behaviors
   Adolescence: coping with chronicity,
                                             ___________________
    isolation/peer rejection, need to        ___________________
    build functional living skills, facing
    dangerous tantrums
                                             ___________________
   The Transition to Adulthood:             ___________________
    coordinating services                    ___________________
   Adulthood (Autism vs. Asperger’s):
    maximizing independence and
                                             ___________
    supports/ongoing demands
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Typical Challenges for Particular
    Family Relationships (in middle-
    class America)
                                                   _______________________
   Mother-Father: enmeshment vs.                  _______________________
    disengagement                                  _______________________
   Mother (typically)-Autistic Child: “doing
    for” autistic child, depression/guilt in       _______________________
    Mother                                         _______________________
   Father (typically)-Autistic Child: Father
    can be rejecting/withdrawing, focused on       _______________________
    behavior and achievement, Father’s self-       _______________________
    esteem effected
   Mother or Father—non-autistic child: may       _______________________
    neglect needs of child, pressure child to      _______________________
    care for or ‘make up’ for autistic child
   Autistic child-non-autistic child: jealousy,   _______________________
    “survivor’s guilt”, embarrassment              _______________________
   Grandparents-parents: can be critical and
    non-supportive
                                                   _______________________
   Caveats: these responses are typical
    of dominant social group, all families
    and relationships are different, and the
    presence of the autistic child can also                              12
    have positive effects
Part III: Systemic
  Approaches to Addressing       ___________________
  the Challenge of Autism
                                 ___________________
 Goals: Maximizing
  functioning for all family     ___________________
  members, increasing            ___________________
  normalization, increasing      ___________________
  support, knowledge, and        ___________________
  capacities of family to        ___________________
  manage stress, advocate,
  and manage the treatment       ___________________
 The Need for support as well
                                 ___________________
  as re-structuring              ___________________
 The need to address            ___________________
  systems issues beyond the      ___________
  family
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Initial Systemic Approaches
    for Families with Young            _______________________
    Children                           _______________________
   Initial Engagement:                _______________________
    Normalizing, reframing, and the    _______________________
    drawing out of individual          _______________________
    narratives                         _______________________
   Considerations for segmenting      _______________________
    sessions                           _______________________
   Assisting in Generating Order,     _______________________
    Obtaining Resources, and           _______________________
    trouble-Shooting
                                       _______________________
   Empowering the “Treatment          _______________________
    Managers: Offering Information
    and Support
   Facilitating Positive Ways of
    Coping: Advising them to look at
    needs of family, individual
    needs, and other relationships
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Systemic Approaches in Working
    With Older Adolescents and                          _______________________________
    Adults                                              _______________________________
                                                        _______________________________
                                                        _______________________________
   Navigating systems: Obtaining vocational            _______________________________
    assistance, education, getting benefits, housing,   _______________________________
    finding respite care, transportation, peer groups   _______________________________
   Addressing isolation, overuse of t.v.,              _______________________________
    pornography                                         _______________________________
   engaging staff and family: meet both with adults    _______________________________
    with autism and without, and coordinate with
    agencies                                            _______________________________
                                                        _______________________________
                                                        _______________________________
    Strengthening the Family Structure (for             _______________________________
    Families who Have Autistic                          _______________________________
    Children at Home)                                   _______________________________
                                                        _______________________________
   Continuing with Normalization, Reframing, and
                                                        _______________________________
    Supportive Interventions, and developing a          _______________________________
    systemic worldview via relational questions         _______________________________
   Applying a Contemporary Structural Approach:        _______________________________
    What it is and why it works with these families     _______________________________
    (see handout)                                       _______________________________
                                                        _____________


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_______________________________
Goals of Family Therapy And                _______________________________
                                           _______________________________
Interventions to Achieve Them:             _______________________________
                                           _______________________________
   The Strengthening of the               _______________________________
    Hierarchy                              _______________________________
                                           _______________________________
   Putting parents in charge of           _______________________________
    discipline                             _______________________________
   Encouraging parents to position        _______________________________
                                           _______________________________
    themselves as a unit                   _______________________________
   Assisting parents with collaborative   _______________________________
    problem-solving, limit-setting         _______________________________
                                           _______________________________
   Applying the “guard rail” technique    _______________________________
   Cautions/considerations: especially    _______________________________
    watch for “unbalancing” against the    _______________________________
    “enmeshed Mom”                         _______________________________
                                           _______________________________
                                           _______________________________
                                           _______________________________
                                           _____________


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   The Development of Caretakers’
    Nurturing and Understanding                   _______________________________________
                                                  _______________________________________
   Encourage both parents to position            _______________________________________
    themselves to offer nurturance                _______________________________________
   Ask children’s opinions of parents’           _______________________________________
                                                  _______________________________________
    remarks                                       _______________________________________
   Maintaining a connection with parents         _______________________________________
   Scripting parents in “practical empathy”      _______________________________________
                                                  _______________________________________
    (wanting as opposed to feeling)               _______________________________________
   The Development of “Skill-Building            _______________________________________
    Skills” by parents                            _______________________________________
                                                  _______________________________________
   Showing them how to build a theory of         _______________________________________
    mind in their children: getting them to ask   _______________________________________
    kids what others may want or think            _______________________________________
   Showing parents how to coach kids in          _______________________________________
                                                  _______________________________________
    emotion regulation: getting kids, to slow     _______________________________________
    down, separate, ask “So what?”                _______________________________________
   Role-playing (including puppets and           _______________________________________
    figures) to develop problem-solving skills    _______________________________________
                                                  _______________________________________
   Games such as “Stop, Relax, and Think”        _______________________________________




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 The Development of                   _______________________________________
    Emotional Bonds Between            _______________________________________
    Particular Parents and             _______________________________________
                                       _______________________________________
    Children                           _______________________________________
                                       _______________________________________
   Hold sessions with the “less       _______________________________________
    close” parent and child(ren)       _______________________________________
                                       _______________________________________
   Filial Play Therapy, encouraging   _______________________________________
                                       _______________________________________
    reflection and empathy             _______________________________________
   Encourage enjoyable activities,    _______________________________________
                                       _______________________________________
    physical closeness                 _______________________________________
                                       _______________________________________
   Breaking Down Dysfunctional        _______________________________________
    Coalitions                         _______________________________________
                                       _______________________________________
   Supporting the “less competent”    _______________________________________
                                       _______________________________________
    parent                             _______________________________________
                                       _______________________________________
   Blocking (and supporting) the      _______________________________________
    enmeshed parent                    _______________________________________
   Blocking inappropriate cross-
    generational alliances

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_______________________________________________
                                          _______________________________________________
   Minimizing Scapegoating               _______________________________________________
                                          _______________________________________________
                                          _______________________________________________
                                          _______________________________________________
   Allying with the scapegoat (sitting   _______________________________________________
                                          _______________________________________________
    next to)                              _______________________________________________
                                          _______________________________________________
   Checking in with the scapegoat        _______________________________________________
                                          _______________________________________________
   The Alter Ego Technique (“speaking    _______________________________________________
                                          _______________________________________________
    for”)                                 _______________________________________________
                                          _______________________________________________
                                          _______________________________________________
                                          _______________________________________________
   Strengthening the parental            _______________________________________________
    relationship                          _______________________________________________
                                          ___________________________________


   “Turning towards”/time for
    themselves
   Improving communication
   Making a safe space for emotions
   Generating more equity/more
    flexible roles

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   Supporting the non-autistic child            ____________________________________________
   Position them close to you and parents       ____________________________________________
                                                 ____________________________________________
   Offer individual sessions and filial         ____________________________________________
    sessions                                     ____________________________________________
                                                 ____________________________________________
   Strengthening the sibling relationship       ____________________________________________
                                                 ____________________________________________
   Sibling sessions—foster fun and problem-     ____________________________________________
    solving                                      ____________________________________________
                                                 ____________________________________________
   Developing Family Unity                      ____________________________________________
                                                 ____________________________________________
   Games and exercises—Family Sandtray,         ____________________________________________
    Life Stories game, play with puppets and     ____________________________________________
    characters                                   ____________________________________________
                                                 ____________________________________________
   Improving the relationship with              ____________________________________________
                                                 ____________________________________________
    grandparents/other family members            ____________________________________________
    Encourage their support and block            ____________________________________________
                                                 ____________________________________________
    criticism/intrusion                          ____________________________________________
                                                 ____________________________________________
                                                 ____________________________________________
The vision: An adaptable and functional family   ____________________________________________
                                                 ____________________________________________
    that is supported and supported, supports    ____________________________________________
    each member’s needs, attends to each         ____________________________________________
    relationship, and supports and
    empowers the person with autism

   Addendum: Couples Work when one                                                             20
    partner has Asperger’s Disorder

Autism Spectrum Disorders

  • 1.
    A Systemic Approachto the Treatment of the Autism Spectrum Disorders Greater Washington Society for Clinical Social Work Jonah Green, MSW January 18, 2009 Schedule:  10-10:15-Introduction/Overview  10:15-11:00-Part I  11:00-11:15—Break  11:15-11:45—Video of individual with ASD  11:45-12:30—Part II/Video  12:30-12:45—Break  12: 45-1:30—Part III  1:30-:45--Discussion  1:45-2:00-Evaluations 1
  • 2.
    Introduction ___________________ Part I ___________________ Defining Autism, ___________________ Symptoms, Etiology, ___________________ Screening/Diagnostic ___________________ Process, Differential ___________________ Diagnosis, Co-Morbidity, ___________________ Effects on Functioning, ___________________ Epidemiology, Non- ___________________ Systemic Approaches to ___________________ Treatment ___________________ ___________________ 2
  • 3.
    Part II ___________________ ___________________  The Systemic Context— ___________________ Effects on Overall Family ___________________ System/Interactions ___________________ Outside of the Family, ___________________ Effects at Particular Life ___________________ Stages, Effects on ___________________ Specific Family ___________________ Relationships ___________________ ___________________ ___________________ 3
  • 4.
    Part III ________________________ ________________________ Systemic Approaches to ________________________ Treatment ________________________  Support and Problem- ________________________ Solving: the “Family Focus” ________________________ Approach ________________________  Generating a Stronger ________________________ Family Structure:The ________________________ Contemporary Structural ________________________ Framework ________________________  Couples therapy when one ________________________ partner has Asperger’s 4
  • 5.
    Part I: Understanding Autism and Non- Systemic Approaches to Treatment ___________________________ ___________________________  Definition of Autism and the Autism ___________________________ Spectrum ___________________________  “The Triad” of symptoms: impaired ___________________________ relationships, difficulty with ___________________________ communication, restricted ___________________________ interests/behaviors ___________________________  The 5 discrete diagnoses: Autistic D/O, ___________________________ Asperger’s, PDD-NOS, Rett’s, ___________________________ Disintegrative D/O ___________________________  The three primary diagnoses and their ___________________________ different symptoms; Asperger’s lacks ___________________________ delay in verbal IQ, PDD-NOS lacks full ___________________________ symptomatology ___________________________  Additional symptoms/challenges for people on the spectrum: sensory ___________________________ processing, sleep, gi issues,  Effects on Functioning throughout the Life Span  The drive for comfort and stimulation  Common Strengths for people with ASDs:visual abilities, memory, splinter skills 5
  • 6.
     The Questionof Etiology  Medical Screening: Modified Checklist for Autism ________________________ ________________________  Making the Diagnosis: Team of psychologist, OT SPLP, ________________________ educator, social worker ________________________  The Various Rating Scales: ________________________ Gilliam, Autism Rating Scale ________________________  Resources for making the ________________________ Diagnosis: DDA/School ________________________ System/Private providers ________________________  Differential Diagnosis: OCD, ________________________ ADHD, Social Anxiety  Co-Morbidity: OCD, ADHD, mood issues  Epidemiology: 1 in 150 6
  • 7.
    Common Non-Systemic Approaches to Treatment _________________________________ _________________________________ _________________________________  Characteristics of Successful _________________________________ Approaches: begins early, intensive, _________________________________ involves family, structured, utilizes _________________________________ behavioral principles _________________________________  “Normalization”, or helping kids to “feel _________________________________ normal” vs. “Treatment” _________________________________  Applied Behavioral Analysis; intense, _________________________________ specific skill-building _________________________________ _________________________________  TEACHH:visual structure and _________________________________ organization _________________________________  LEAP: educational inclusion _________________________________  Picture-Exchange Communication _________________________________ Systems: communicating with pictures _________________________________  Greenspan/Denver/DIR Model: play _________________________________ which develops reciprocity _________________________________ _________________________________  Social Skills Groups: teaching specific _________________________________ skills  Educational Supports (504s, IEPs, accommodations/special programs, FastForward, Cogmed, Kurzweil) 7
  • 8.
    Language-Communication Therapy: _________________________________ intense teaching of pragmatic language _________________________________  Functional Behavioral Analysis; _________________________________ addressing the function of behaviors _________________________________ _________________________________  Medication: anti-depressants, stimulants, _________________________________ anti-psychotics _________________________________  Collaborative-Problem Solving: relating _________________________________ more flexibly _________________________________  Relationship Development Intervention _________________________________ (RDI): making use of ‘productive _________________________________ uncertainty’ _________________________________  Sensory Integration Therapy: modulating _________________________________ sensitivities and increasing awareness _________________________________ _________________________________  Dietary Interventions: reducing gluten and _________________________________ casein, adding Omega-3s _________________________________  Emphasizing Strengths; memory, visual _________________________________ abilities, etc. _________________________________  Individualized sports: karate, tennis, etc. _________________________________  Mentor programs _________________________________  Play Dates/Controlled social events  Social Stories: improving behavior and teaching skills  The battle against screen time 8
  • 9.
    Individual therapy: ________________________  Make concepts concrete: ________________________ play-dough, rubber bands, ________________________  Offer specific guidance: ask ________________________ when, where, with whom, use ________________________ cartoons and role plays  developing the ‘theory of ________________________ mind’ using speech bubbles ________________________  Using sociograms or ________________________ “closeness circles” to identify ________________________ and improve relationships ________________________  using the relationshipL “I ________________________ wonder if you do this when?”  Use active empathy but avoid intrusiveness  The need for patience  Meeting with counselors and friends  Decision-making analysis  The Reality Principle; getting 9 these guys to look beyond typical women
  • 10.
    Part II: The Systemic Context of Autism _______________________  Common Family Dynamics: time/resource demands, stigma,isolation, _______________________ behavior issues, guilt/blame, parental _______________________ strife, problems with other siblings  The Stages of Grief Model: shock, denial, _______________________ anger, bargaining,acceptance. Family _______________________ members can be at different stages, need to grieve again at each developmental _______________________ stage _______________________  Common Ways of Coping: Normalization (addressing autism within the context of _______________________ other needs), Crusadership (illness as an _______________________ occupation), Altruism (can neglect own needs), Resignation (can lead to _____________ depression)  Positive Effects of Having An Autistic Member of the Family: increased cohesion, empathy among siblings, personal growth 10
  • 11.
    Challenges for FamiliesAt Particular Developmental ___________________ Stages  Infant and Toddler Stage: the stress ___________________ of diagnosis, difficulty bonding, ___________________ negotiating different family ___________________ reactions, finding supports  School-Age: Need for advocacy, ___________________ arranging treatments/child care, ___________________ managing behaviors  Adolescence: coping with chronicity, ___________________ isolation/peer rejection, need to ___________________ build functional living skills, facing dangerous tantrums ___________________  The Transition to Adulthood: ___________________ coordinating services ___________________  Adulthood (Autism vs. Asperger’s): maximizing independence and ___________ supports/ongoing demands 11
  • 12.
    Typical Challenges forParticular Family Relationships (in middle- class America) _______________________  Mother-Father: enmeshment vs. _______________________ disengagement _______________________  Mother (typically)-Autistic Child: “doing for” autistic child, depression/guilt in _______________________ Mother _______________________  Father (typically)-Autistic Child: Father can be rejecting/withdrawing, focused on _______________________ behavior and achievement, Father’s self- _______________________ esteem effected  Mother or Father—non-autistic child: may _______________________ neglect needs of child, pressure child to _______________________ care for or ‘make up’ for autistic child  Autistic child-non-autistic child: jealousy, _______________________ “survivor’s guilt”, embarrassment _______________________  Grandparents-parents: can be critical and non-supportive _______________________  Caveats: these responses are typical of dominant social group, all families and relationships are different, and the presence of the autistic child can also 12 have positive effects
  • 13.
    Part III: Systemic Approaches to Addressing ___________________ the Challenge of Autism ___________________  Goals: Maximizing functioning for all family ___________________ members, increasing ___________________ normalization, increasing ___________________ support, knowledge, and ___________________ capacities of family to ___________________ manage stress, advocate, and manage the treatment ___________________  The Need for support as well ___________________ as re-structuring ___________________  The need to address ___________________ systems issues beyond the ___________ family 13
  • 14.
    Initial Systemic Approaches for Families with Young _______________________ Children _______________________  Initial Engagement: _______________________ Normalizing, reframing, and the _______________________ drawing out of individual _______________________ narratives _______________________  Considerations for segmenting _______________________ sessions _______________________  Assisting in Generating Order, _______________________ Obtaining Resources, and _______________________ trouble-Shooting _______________________  Empowering the “Treatment _______________________ Managers: Offering Information and Support  Facilitating Positive Ways of Coping: Advising them to look at needs of family, individual needs, and other relationships 14
  • 15.
    Systemic Approaches inWorking With Older Adolescents and _______________________________ Adults _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________  Navigating systems: Obtaining vocational _______________________________ assistance, education, getting benefits, housing, _______________________________ finding respite care, transportation, peer groups _______________________________  Addressing isolation, overuse of t.v., _______________________________ pornography _______________________________  engaging staff and family: meet both with adults _______________________________ with autism and without, and coordinate with agencies _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ Strengthening the Family Structure (for _______________________________ Families who Have Autistic _______________________________ Children at Home) _______________________________ _______________________________  Continuing with Normalization, Reframing, and _______________________________ Supportive Interventions, and developing a _______________________________ systemic worldview via relational questions _______________________________  Applying a Contemporary Structural Approach: _______________________________ What it is and why it works with these families _______________________________ (see handout) _______________________________ _____________ 15
  • 16.
    _______________________________ Goals of FamilyTherapy And _______________________________ _______________________________ Interventions to Achieve Them: _______________________________ _______________________________  The Strengthening of the _______________________________ Hierarchy _______________________________ _______________________________  Putting parents in charge of _______________________________ discipline _______________________________  Encouraging parents to position _______________________________ _______________________________ themselves as a unit _______________________________  Assisting parents with collaborative _______________________________ problem-solving, limit-setting _______________________________ _______________________________  Applying the “guard rail” technique _______________________________  Cautions/considerations: especially _______________________________ watch for “unbalancing” against the _______________________________ “enmeshed Mom” _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _______________________________ _____________ 16
  • 17.
    The Development of Caretakers’ Nurturing and Understanding _______________________________________ _______________________________________  Encourage both parents to position _______________________________________ themselves to offer nurturance _______________________________________  Ask children’s opinions of parents’ _______________________________________ _______________________________________ remarks _______________________________________  Maintaining a connection with parents _______________________________________  Scripting parents in “practical empathy” _______________________________________ _______________________________________ (wanting as opposed to feeling) _______________________________________  The Development of “Skill-Building _______________________________________ Skills” by parents _______________________________________ _______________________________________  Showing them how to build a theory of _______________________________________ mind in their children: getting them to ask _______________________________________ kids what others may want or think _______________________________________  Showing parents how to coach kids in _______________________________________ _______________________________________ emotion regulation: getting kids, to slow _______________________________________ down, separate, ask “So what?” _______________________________________  Role-playing (including puppets and _______________________________________ figures) to develop problem-solving skills _______________________________________ _______________________________________  Games such as “Stop, Relax, and Think” _______________________________________ 17
  • 18.
     The Developmentof _______________________________________ Emotional Bonds Between _______________________________________ Particular Parents and _______________________________________ _______________________________________ Children _______________________________________ _______________________________________  Hold sessions with the “less _______________________________________ close” parent and child(ren) _______________________________________ _______________________________________  Filial Play Therapy, encouraging _______________________________________ _______________________________________ reflection and empathy _______________________________________  Encourage enjoyable activities, _______________________________________ _______________________________________ physical closeness _______________________________________ _______________________________________  Breaking Down Dysfunctional _______________________________________ Coalitions _______________________________________ _______________________________________  Supporting the “less competent” _______________________________________ _______________________________________ parent _______________________________________ _______________________________________  Blocking (and supporting) the _______________________________________ enmeshed parent _______________________________________  Blocking inappropriate cross- generational alliances 18
  • 19.
    _______________________________________________ _______________________________________________  Minimizing Scapegoating _______________________________________________ _______________________________________________ _______________________________________________ _______________________________________________  Allying with the scapegoat (sitting _______________________________________________ _______________________________________________ next to) _______________________________________________ _______________________________________________  Checking in with the scapegoat _______________________________________________ _______________________________________________  The Alter Ego Technique (“speaking _______________________________________________ _______________________________________________ for”) _______________________________________________ _______________________________________________ _______________________________________________ _______________________________________________  Strengthening the parental _______________________________________________ relationship _______________________________________________ ___________________________________  “Turning towards”/time for themselves  Improving communication  Making a safe space for emotions  Generating more equity/more flexible roles 19
  • 20.
    Supporting the non-autistic child ____________________________________________  Position them close to you and parents ____________________________________________ ____________________________________________  Offer individual sessions and filial ____________________________________________ sessions ____________________________________________ ____________________________________________  Strengthening the sibling relationship ____________________________________________ ____________________________________________  Sibling sessions—foster fun and problem- ____________________________________________ solving ____________________________________________ ____________________________________________  Developing Family Unity ____________________________________________ ____________________________________________  Games and exercises—Family Sandtray, ____________________________________________ Life Stories game, play with puppets and ____________________________________________ characters ____________________________________________ ____________________________________________  Improving the relationship with ____________________________________________ ____________________________________________ grandparents/other family members ____________________________________________ Encourage their support and block ____________________________________________ ____________________________________________ criticism/intrusion ____________________________________________ ____________________________________________ ____________________________________________ The vision: An adaptable and functional family ____________________________________________ ____________________________________________ that is supported and supported, supports ____________________________________________ each member’s needs, attends to each ____________________________________________ relationship, and supports and empowers the person with autism  Addendum: Couples Work when one 20 partner has Asperger’s Disorder