This is a free resource with information about adult language development milestones. Vocabulary Connecting Strategies in Conversation: Learn about terms clinicians use when targeting conversation. Pick up and build on words or ideas shared by the family member or friend. Comment to indicate a caring, shared history. Make comments that sustain participation. Provide guidance rather than directives to move partner to success. Show respect, and politeness; not patronizing. Suggest joining in the activity or conversation using a style that makes it easy.