Adopting actors was a journey and some of our early assumptions would create issues later on. Slowly we realised we had not fully embraced the let-it-crash philosophy, did not understand how the atomic nature of actors effects data sovereignty or how parts of our application would have to be eventually consistent. In this talk I will share some of our mistakes, how we arrived at those mistakes and how we eventually resolved them. I explore the reasoning behind our mistakes and the lessons we discovered, so hopefully you can recognise and avoid them. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4R1u7EEDn8Y