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Itโ€™s A Matter of Choice
Jerry is the manager of
a restaurant. He is
always in a good mood
When someone would ask him
 how he was doing, he would
 always reply,
"If I were any better, I would be
  twins!"
Many of the waiters at his
restaurant quit their jobs when
he changed jobs, so they could
follow him around from
restaurant to restaurant
Why ๏ผŸ
Because Jerry was a natural
 motivator.
If an employee was having a bad
day, Jerry was always there,
telling the employee how to look
on the positive side of the
situation.
Seeing this style really made me
curious, so one day I went up to
Jerry and asked him ๏ผš

"I don't get it! No one can be a
positive person all of the time.
How do you do it?"
Jerry replied, "Each morning
I wake up and say to myself,
I have two choices today. I
can choose to be in a good
mood or I can choose to be
in a bad mood.
I always choose to be in a good
mood.

Each time something bad
happens, I can choose to be
victim or I can choose to learn
from it. I always choose to
learn from it.
Every time someone comes to
me complaining, I can choose
to accept their complaining or
I can point out the positive
side of life.

I always choose the positive
side of life."
"But it's not always that easy,โ€œ
I protested.


   "Yes it is," Jerry said.
"Life is all about choices. When
 you cut away all the junk
 every situation is a choice.
โ€ข You choose how you react to
  situations.
โ€ข You choose how people will
  affect your mood.
โ€ข You choose to be in a good
  mood or bad mood.
โ€ข It's your choice how you live
  your life."
Several years later
I heard that Jerry
accidentally did something
you are never supposed to
do in the restaurant
business.

โ€ฆ He left the back door of
his restaurant open
And then ???
In the morning, he was
robbed by three armed men.
They Wanted $ *# $$$...
While Jerry trying to open
the safe box, his hand,
shaking from nervousness,
slipped off the combination.
The robbers panicked and
shot him.
Luckily, Jerry was found
quickly and rushed to the
hospital.
After 18 hours of
surgery and weeks of
intensive care,
Jerry was released from
the hospital with
fragments of the bullets
still in his body.โ€ฆ
I saw Jerry about six
months after the
accident.
When I asked him how he
was,he replied,
"If I were any better, I'd be
  twins. Want to see my
  scars?"
I declined to see his
wounds, but did ask him
what had gone through his
mind as the robbery took
place.
"The first thing that went
through my mind was that
I should have locked the
back door," Jerry replied.
"Then, after they shot me, as
I lay on the floor, I
remembered that I had two
choices: I could choose to live
or could choose to die. I
chose to live."
"Weren't you scaredโ€
 I asked?
Jerry continued, "The
paramedics were great.
They kept telling me I was
going to be fine.
But when they wheeled me
into the Emergency Room
and I saw the expression on
the faces of the doctors and
nurses, I got really scared.
In their eyes, I read 'He's a dead
  man.โ€˜
I knew I needed to take action."
"What did you do?" I asked.
"Well, there was a big nurse
 shouting questions at me,"
 said Jerry. "She asked if I
 was allergic to anything.โ€œ

       'Yes,' I replied.
The doctors and nurses
stopped working as they
waited for my reply.
I took a deep breath and
yelled, 'Bullets!'
Over their laughter, I told
them, 'I am choosing to
live.
Please operate on me as
if I am alive, not dead'.
"Jerry lived thanks to
  the skill of his doctors,
  but also because of his
  amazing attitude.
I learned from him that
Every day you have the
choice to either enjoy
your life or to hate it.
The only thing that is
truly yours -- that no one
can control or take from
you-
Is your Attitude,
So if you can take
care of that,
everything else in
life becomes much
easier.
Now you have two
choices to make:
1. You can delete this
  message or

2. You can forward it to
  someone you care
  about.
I hope you will choose
the second as I did.
Have a Great Dayโ€ฆ

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A matter of_choice

  • 2. Jerry is the manager of a restaurant. He is always in a good mood
  • 3. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would always reply,
  • 4. "If I were any better, I would be twins!"
  • 5. Many of the waiters at his restaurant quit their jobs when he changed jobs, so they could follow him around from restaurant to restaurant
  • 7. Because Jerry was a natural motivator.
  • 8. If an employee was having a bad day, Jerry was always there, telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.
  • 9. Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Jerry and asked him ๏ผš "I don't get it! No one can be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?"
  • 10. Jerry replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, I have two choices today. I can choose to be in a good mood or I can choose to be in a bad mood.
  • 11. I always choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be victim or I can choose to learn from it. I always choose to learn from it.
  • 12. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I always choose the positive side of life."
  • 13. "But it's not always that easy,โ€œ I protested. "Yes it is," Jerry said.
  • 14. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk every situation is a choice.
  • 15. โ€ข You choose how you react to situations. โ€ข You choose how people will affect your mood. โ€ข You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. โ€ข It's your choice how you live your life."
  • 17. I heard that Jerry accidentally did something you are never supposed to do in the restaurant business. โ€ฆ He left the back door of his restaurant open
  • 19. In the morning, he was robbed by three armed men. They Wanted $ *# $$$...
  • 20. While Jerry trying to open the safe box, his hand, shaking from nervousness, slipped off the combination.
  • 21. The robbers panicked and shot him.
  • 22. Luckily, Jerry was found quickly and rushed to the hospital.
  • 23. After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care,
  • 24. Jerry was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body.โ€ฆ
  • 25. I saw Jerry about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was,he replied,
  • 26. "If I were any better, I'd be twins. Want to see my scars?"
  • 27. I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the robbery took place.
  • 28. "The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have locked the back door," Jerry replied.
  • 29. "Then, after they shot me, as I lay on the floor, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live or could choose to die. I chose to live."
  • 31. Jerry continued, "The paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine.
  • 32. But when they wheeled me into the Emergency Room and I saw the expression on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared.
  • 33. In their eyes, I read 'He's a dead man.โ€˜ I knew I needed to take action."
  • 34. "What did you do?" I asked.
  • 35. "Well, there was a big nurse shouting questions at me," said Jerry. "She asked if I was allergic to anything.โ€œ 'Yes,' I replied.
  • 36. The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply.
  • 37. I took a deep breath and yelled, 'Bullets!'
  • 38. Over their laughter, I told them, 'I am choosing to live. Please operate on me as if I am alive, not dead'.
  • 39. "Jerry lived thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude.
  • 40. I learned from him that
  • 41. Every day you have the choice to either enjoy your life or to hate it.
  • 42. The only thing that is truly yours -- that no one can control or take from you-
  • 44. So if you can take care of that, everything else in life becomes much easier.
  • 45. Now you have two choices to make:
  • 46. 1. You can delete this message or 2. You can forward it to someone you care about.
  • 47. I hope you will choose the second as I did.
  • 48. Have a Great Dayโ€ฆ