1) Divorce terminates a marital union by cancelling legal marriage duties and dissolving matrimonial bonds between parties.
2) Common factors contributing to relationship breakdowns include significant differences in values/beliefs, traumatic life events, unmet emotional needs, abuse, lack of communication, incompatibility, and addictions.
3) Effects on children include parental loss, more life stress due to changes, and feelings of guilt, insecurity, and depression.
There are some marital problems that are obvious to detect such as money and intimacy. But how do you resolve the marital problems that no one is talking about?
This document discusses how divorce affects children and provides information on divorce rates and common reasons for divorce. It notes that divorce can cause children to feel abandoned and experience grief, and may lead to feelings of rebelliousness. Additionally, the document lists the top 11 reasons for divorce, including getting married for the wrong reasons, losing intimacy in the relationship, financial problems, trust issues, and infidelity. It also presents some myths about divorce factors.
This document discusses the emotional challenges of divorce and alternatives to the traditional adversarial approach. It notes that divorce can cause high stress, anxiety, depression, and vulnerability in the first two years. While the legal process requires preparation for trial, focusing on the future rather than past hurts can help divorcing parties. An attorney's approach can set an emotional tone that remains throughout the process. Finding alternatives that promote cooperation over "winning" may lead to better long-term outcomes.
The causes-and-effects-of-broken-families-toJoel Celosia
The document discusses the causes and effects of broken families on children. It lists several effects of divorce such as making children insecure from losing their complete family, causing lack of confidence and disinterest in school. Death and misconceptions between family members are also cited as causes of broken families. The document then provides tips for avoiding family conflict such as resolving differences, defeating selfishness, pursuing peace through confrontation and forgiveness. Finally, it outlines 13 tips for strengthening family relationships such as spending quality time together, sharing responsibilities, and having shared values.
This document discusses the causes and effects of broken homes. It defines a broken home as a family where the parents are divorced or separated. Common causes of broken homes include lack of communication, unfaithfulness, interference from family or friends, and addictions. Major effects are on children, including disturbed relationships with parents, lower academic achievement, and feelings of anxiety and guilt. The document stresses that divorces do not have to happen if couples address reasons for divorce by improving communication and avoiding addictions.
The document discusses several perspectives on divorce. Some argue divorce should be more difficult to obtain due to its negative effects on children and families. However, others counter that no-fault divorce is a constitutional right and makes the process less hostile. Additionally, as women have gained more financial independence, remaining in an unhappy marriage solely for economic reasons is no longer necessary. Overall, the text presents various sides of the complex debate around divorce laws and their social impacts.
This document discusses factors that contribute to divorce. It identifies bad communication, infidelity, money management issues, addictions, mid-life crises, sexual discrepancies, lack of commitment, and couple incompatibility as common reasons why marriages end in divorce. It also notes that divorce is a process that involves emotional, legal, economic, and community aspects as couples and their social networks adjust to the dissolution of marriage.
1) Divorce terminates a marital union by cancelling legal marriage duties and dissolving matrimonial bonds between parties.
2) Common factors contributing to relationship breakdowns include significant differences in values/beliefs, traumatic life events, unmet emotional needs, abuse, lack of communication, incompatibility, and addictions.
3) Effects on children include parental loss, more life stress due to changes, and feelings of guilt, insecurity, and depression.
There are some marital problems that are obvious to detect such as money and intimacy. But how do you resolve the marital problems that no one is talking about?
This document discusses how divorce affects children and provides information on divorce rates and common reasons for divorce. It notes that divorce can cause children to feel abandoned and experience grief, and may lead to feelings of rebelliousness. Additionally, the document lists the top 11 reasons for divorce, including getting married for the wrong reasons, losing intimacy in the relationship, financial problems, trust issues, and infidelity. It also presents some myths about divorce factors.
This document discusses the emotional challenges of divorce and alternatives to the traditional adversarial approach. It notes that divorce can cause high stress, anxiety, depression, and vulnerability in the first two years. While the legal process requires preparation for trial, focusing on the future rather than past hurts can help divorcing parties. An attorney's approach can set an emotional tone that remains throughout the process. Finding alternatives that promote cooperation over "winning" may lead to better long-term outcomes.
The causes-and-effects-of-broken-families-toJoel Celosia
The document discusses the causes and effects of broken families on children. It lists several effects of divorce such as making children insecure from losing their complete family, causing lack of confidence and disinterest in school. Death and misconceptions between family members are also cited as causes of broken families. The document then provides tips for avoiding family conflict such as resolving differences, defeating selfishness, pursuing peace through confrontation and forgiveness. Finally, it outlines 13 tips for strengthening family relationships such as spending quality time together, sharing responsibilities, and having shared values.
This document discusses the causes and effects of broken homes. It defines a broken home as a family where the parents are divorced or separated. Common causes of broken homes include lack of communication, unfaithfulness, interference from family or friends, and addictions. Major effects are on children, including disturbed relationships with parents, lower academic achievement, and feelings of anxiety and guilt. The document stresses that divorces do not have to happen if couples address reasons for divorce by improving communication and avoiding addictions.
The document discusses several perspectives on divorce. Some argue divorce should be more difficult to obtain due to its negative effects on children and families. However, others counter that no-fault divorce is a constitutional right and makes the process less hostile. Additionally, as women have gained more financial independence, remaining in an unhappy marriage solely for economic reasons is no longer necessary. Overall, the text presents various sides of the complex debate around divorce laws and their social impacts.
This document discusses factors that contribute to divorce. It identifies bad communication, infidelity, money management issues, addictions, mid-life crises, sexual discrepancies, lack of commitment, and couple incompatibility as common reasons why marriages end in divorce. It also notes that divorce is a process that involves emotional, legal, economic, and community aspects as couples and their social networks adjust to the dissolution of marriage.
Period3-Demetria Thomas-Divorce has Effects on Childrenmrsalcido
Divorce can negatively impact children in several ways. It can cause children to feel alone, uncertain, and lose trust in others. Their behavior may change as they become more aggressive, careless, or depressed. Their school performance often declines as well. Children may blame themselves for the divorce or feel pressure to choose one parent over the other. The relationship with the parent they do not live with often changes. Divorce affects children of all ages, though younger children may fantasize about reconciliation while teens experience loneliness and guilt. Children need open communication from parents about the divorce and changes, but sometimes do not receive it. Parents should reassure their children the divorce is not their fault and help them cope.
Divorce Myths: 10 Common Fictions DebunkedGoldberg Jones
Having an accurate understanding of divorce is an important part of the process.With that in mind, here are ten common divorce myths you should be aware of.
Marriage and divorce are common experiences. Healthy marriages are beneficial for couples' health and children's well-being and development, but about 40-50% of marriages end in divorce. Trust is the most important element for a happy marriage. Factors like getting married young, having affairs, unequal division of housework, and stress from the divorce process can increase the likelihood of divorce.
The document discusses some of the common reasons for divorce, including adultery, desertion, lack of communication, personal differences, influence of family and friends, work conflicts, and financial issues. It provides brief explanations and examples for each reason, noting that divorce can stem from complex underlying factors. Trust issues from adultery, irreconcilable differences from lack of compromise on personalities or lifestyles, and stress from money problems are given as examples of how these reasons can ultimately lead to the breakdown of a marriage.
The document discusses the causes and effects of broken homes. Broken homes refer to families where the parents are divorced or separated. Common causes of broken homes include lack of communication between spouses, interference from friends or family, addictions like alcohol or gambling, and unfaithfulness. Major effects of broken homes are on children, including disturbed relationships with parents, lower academic achievement, and feelings of anxiety and guilt.
Divorce is a legal process that dissolves a marriage and restores individuals to single status. No-fault divorce does not require proof of wrongdoing. Around 50% of first marriages, 67% of second, and 74% of third marriages end in divorce. Children of divorced parents are more likely to have problems in school, abuse substances, and divorce as adults. After divorce, 90% of mothers have custody while divorced men struggle with relationships and debt. Divorce rates vary globally with the US having the highest rate at 4.95 per 1000 people. Around 25% of mainline Protestants and Catholics have been divorced. Some argue polygamy provides stability and childcare support while others say it goes against
The document outlines the top reasons for divorce which include financial problems due to money constraints splitting families apart, infidelity where taking affairs lightly leads to the ultimate breakup, lack of communication causing couples to drift as they do not share feelings, abuse from physical or mental harm preventing long partnerships, prioritizing careers over marriage making it difficult for spouses to stay together, and providing contact information for affordable divorce lawyers.
Divorce is the legal dissolution of a marriage. Around 40-50% of marriages in the US end in divorce, with common factors including poor communication, infidelity, abuse, and financial problems. Children are often confused and angry by divorce, and may act out or have behavioral issues. It is important to be honest with children about the divorce, avoid blame, listen to their feelings, reassure them of your love, and maintain a united front with the other parent.
This document discusses divorce and its effects. It notes that while 50% of marriages ending in divorce is a commonly cited statistic, it is based on assumptions rather than facts. Divorce can negatively impact children in ways such as feeling responsible, depressed, or disconnected from the world. Financial problems and lack of commitment are cited as the top reasons for divorce. Statistics show that divorce rates decrease with subsequent marriages.
Divorce can be devastating for children and cause feelings of inadequacy, confusion, anger and feeling alone. The effects depend on age, with younger children having sleep issues and clinging to parents, while older children experience more intense grief, depression, acting out and judging parents. Long-term studies show divorce can negatively impact children's social skills and cause anxiety about future relationships.
Analyzing the most common causes of divorceAhmedTalaat127
The number of divorce cases has been on the increase for a variety of different reasons. According to many reports, even in the UAE, some of the most common causes of divorce include:
Literature Review of Family Breakdown-David MetaloroDavid Metaloro
The document discusses factors related to family breakdown and its effects on children. It provides definitions of key concepts like family, family breakdown, and children. It also discusses different types of families and stages of marital conflict. Several ideas on family breakdown are presented, including that it often leads to social, economic, and moral decline as children lack stable home environments and learn unhealthy relationship patterns. Breakdown of the traditional nuclear family is seen as underlying many social problems today such as crime, drug use, and out-of-wedlock births which impose high public costs. Intact families with married parents are viewed as best for children's development.
The document discusses the causes and effects of divorce. It notes that the most common cause is selfishness, and other factors include changing values, abuse, or substance abuse. Divorce hurts those getting divorced and those around them, like children. Children may feel rejected and alone after divorce. While some divorces relieve family stress, others devastate the family. The document provides tips for helping children adjust, such as decreasing conflict, maintaining relationships with parents, and consistent visitation with non-custodial parents.
This presentation tells you about the various effects of Divorce on children and how you can overcome them with the help of professional counsellors. For more information have a look at PBCLEGAL official website at http://www.pbclegal.com/ .
Divorce has become more common in modern society due to rapid social changes and pressure on young people to marry before they are ready. This can lead to unrealistic expectations and lack of preparation. Divorce has negative effects on children, women, and men. Children of divorced parents often face social and emotional problems. Divorced women struggle financially and with childcare. Men also encounter financial difficulties and problems maintaining relationships with their children after a divorce.
This document discusses two main topics related to divorce: divorce adultery and divorce custody. It defines divorce adultery as sexual relations between two parties where one is married, and outlines direct and indirect ways to prove adultery occurred. It also explains that most courts prioritize the best interests of the child when determining divorce custody, including both child custody where one parent has primary custody and joint custody where parents share custody.
The family is the most vital unit in society but lately more families are becoming dysfunctional or collapsing. Dysfunctional families can lead to abuse and harm children, spouses, and the elderly. Family break-up includes divorce and family members leaving. Poverty, stress, social problems like addiction and gambling can cause family collapse as parents may act violently. Lack of religious education can also weaken family structure by removing restraints on behavior. Steps to overcome break-up include providing low-cost housing, increasing parental involvement in social activities, and raising awareness through media about the importance of strong family bonds.
The effects-of-parental-divorce-on-young-adultsmariahjhoy
The document discusses the effects of parental divorce on young adults' intimate relationships based on past research. It finds that while parental divorce can create difficulties, having a secure attachment to at least one parental figure and the ability to integrate the divorce experience are correlated with better outcomes in future relationships for children. The document also discusses implications for counseling couples dealing with relationship and marital issues.
1) The divorce rate in the United States is the highest in the world, nearly twice as high as Canada and four times higher than Japan. 2) Factors that contribute to the high divorce rate include an emphasis on individualism over family, declining romantic love after the honeymoon phase ends, greater financial independence for women, stress from dual-career families, and easier legal access to divorce. 3) Those at greatest risk of divorce include young couples, couples with brief courtships, couples lacking financial stability, and couples where one or both partners have substance abuse problems.
Divorce is often a long, complicated process. With so much to juggle, it’s easy to get tripped up. Keeping that in mind, here are eight common mistakes men make in divorce.
Period3-Demetria Thomas-Divorce has Effects on Childrenmrsalcido
Divorce can negatively impact children in several ways. It can cause children to feel alone, uncertain, and lose trust in others. Their behavior may change as they become more aggressive, careless, or depressed. Their school performance often declines as well. Children may blame themselves for the divorce or feel pressure to choose one parent over the other. The relationship with the parent they do not live with often changes. Divorce affects children of all ages, though younger children may fantasize about reconciliation while teens experience loneliness and guilt. Children need open communication from parents about the divorce and changes, but sometimes do not receive it. Parents should reassure their children the divorce is not their fault and help them cope.
Divorce Myths: 10 Common Fictions DebunkedGoldberg Jones
Having an accurate understanding of divorce is an important part of the process.With that in mind, here are ten common divorce myths you should be aware of.
Marriage and divorce are common experiences. Healthy marriages are beneficial for couples' health and children's well-being and development, but about 40-50% of marriages end in divorce. Trust is the most important element for a happy marriage. Factors like getting married young, having affairs, unequal division of housework, and stress from the divorce process can increase the likelihood of divorce.
The document discusses some of the common reasons for divorce, including adultery, desertion, lack of communication, personal differences, influence of family and friends, work conflicts, and financial issues. It provides brief explanations and examples for each reason, noting that divorce can stem from complex underlying factors. Trust issues from adultery, irreconcilable differences from lack of compromise on personalities or lifestyles, and stress from money problems are given as examples of how these reasons can ultimately lead to the breakdown of a marriage.
The document discusses the causes and effects of broken homes. Broken homes refer to families where the parents are divorced or separated. Common causes of broken homes include lack of communication between spouses, interference from friends or family, addictions like alcohol or gambling, and unfaithfulness. Major effects of broken homes are on children, including disturbed relationships with parents, lower academic achievement, and feelings of anxiety and guilt.
Divorce is a legal process that dissolves a marriage and restores individuals to single status. No-fault divorce does not require proof of wrongdoing. Around 50% of first marriages, 67% of second, and 74% of third marriages end in divorce. Children of divorced parents are more likely to have problems in school, abuse substances, and divorce as adults. After divorce, 90% of mothers have custody while divorced men struggle with relationships and debt. Divorce rates vary globally with the US having the highest rate at 4.95 per 1000 people. Around 25% of mainline Protestants and Catholics have been divorced. Some argue polygamy provides stability and childcare support while others say it goes against
The document outlines the top reasons for divorce which include financial problems due to money constraints splitting families apart, infidelity where taking affairs lightly leads to the ultimate breakup, lack of communication causing couples to drift as they do not share feelings, abuse from physical or mental harm preventing long partnerships, prioritizing careers over marriage making it difficult for spouses to stay together, and providing contact information for affordable divorce lawyers.
Divorce is the legal dissolution of a marriage. Around 40-50% of marriages in the US end in divorce, with common factors including poor communication, infidelity, abuse, and financial problems. Children are often confused and angry by divorce, and may act out or have behavioral issues. It is important to be honest with children about the divorce, avoid blame, listen to their feelings, reassure them of your love, and maintain a united front with the other parent.
This document discusses divorce and its effects. It notes that while 50% of marriages ending in divorce is a commonly cited statistic, it is based on assumptions rather than facts. Divorce can negatively impact children in ways such as feeling responsible, depressed, or disconnected from the world. Financial problems and lack of commitment are cited as the top reasons for divorce. Statistics show that divorce rates decrease with subsequent marriages.
Divorce can be devastating for children and cause feelings of inadequacy, confusion, anger and feeling alone. The effects depend on age, with younger children having sleep issues and clinging to parents, while older children experience more intense grief, depression, acting out and judging parents. Long-term studies show divorce can negatively impact children's social skills and cause anxiety about future relationships.
Analyzing the most common causes of divorceAhmedTalaat127
The number of divorce cases has been on the increase for a variety of different reasons. According to many reports, even in the UAE, some of the most common causes of divorce include:
Literature Review of Family Breakdown-David MetaloroDavid Metaloro
The document discusses factors related to family breakdown and its effects on children. It provides definitions of key concepts like family, family breakdown, and children. It also discusses different types of families and stages of marital conflict. Several ideas on family breakdown are presented, including that it often leads to social, economic, and moral decline as children lack stable home environments and learn unhealthy relationship patterns. Breakdown of the traditional nuclear family is seen as underlying many social problems today such as crime, drug use, and out-of-wedlock births which impose high public costs. Intact families with married parents are viewed as best for children's development.
The document discusses the causes and effects of divorce. It notes that the most common cause is selfishness, and other factors include changing values, abuse, or substance abuse. Divorce hurts those getting divorced and those around them, like children. Children may feel rejected and alone after divorce. While some divorces relieve family stress, others devastate the family. The document provides tips for helping children adjust, such as decreasing conflict, maintaining relationships with parents, and consistent visitation with non-custodial parents.
This presentation tells you about the various effects of Divorce on children and how you can overcome them with the help of professional counsellors. For more information have a look at PBCLEGAL official website at http://www.pbclegal.com/ .
Divorce has become more common in modern society due to rapid social changes and pressure on young people to marry before they are ready. This can lead to unrealistic expectations and lack of preparation. Divorce has negative effects on children, women, and men. Children of divorced parents often face social and emotional problems. Divorced women struggle financially and with childcare. Men also encounter financial difficulties and problems maintaining relationships with their children after a divorce.
This document discusses two main topics related to divorce: divorce adultery and divorce custody. It defines divorce adultery as sexual relations between two parties where one is married, and outlines direct and indirect ways to prove adultery occurred. It also explains that most courts prioritize the best interests of the child when determining divorce custody, including both child custody where one parent has primary custody and joint custody where parents share custody.
The family is the most vital unit in society but lately more families are becoming dysfunctional or collapsing. Dysfunctional families can lead to abuse and harm children, spouses, and the elderly. Family break-up includes divorce and family members leaving. Poverty, stress, social problems like addiction and gambling can cause family collapse as parents may act violently. Lack of religious education can also weaken family structure by removing restraints on behavior. Steps to overcome break-up include providing low-cost housing, increasing parental involvement in social activities, and raising awareness through media about the importance of strong family bonds.
The effects-of-parental-divorce-on-young-adultsmariahjhoy
The document discusses the effects of parental divorce on young adults' intimate relationships based on past research. It finds that while parental divorce can create difficulties, having a secure attachment to at least one parental figure and the ability to integrate the divorce experience are correlated with better outcomes in future relationships for children. The document also discusses implications for counseling couples dealing with relationship and marital issues.
1) The divorce rate in the United States is the highest in the world, nearly twice as high as Canada and four times higher than Japan. 2) Factors that contribute to the high divorce rate include an emphasis on individualism over family, declining romantic love after the honeymoon phase ends, greater financial independence for women, stress from dual-career families, and easier legal access to divorce. 3) Those at greatest risk of divorce include young couples, couples with brief courtships, couples lacking financial stability, and couples where one or both partners have substance abuse problems.
Divorce is often a long, complicated process. With so much to juggle, it’s easy to get tripped up. Keeping that in mind, here are eight common mistakes men make in divorce.
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This document discusses factors that contribute to divorce and ways to have a successful divorce. It identifies several common causes of divorce like poor communication, infidelity, money problems, addictions, mid-life crises, sexual issues, and lack of commitment between partners. It also outlines the stages of divorce from the initial emotional separation to accepting the new normal post-divorce. Finally, it provides tips for divorcing successfully such as mediating instead of litigating, co-parenting with the ex-spouse, and taking time to heal from the divorce.
This document discusses the struggles that women face when going through divorce. It states that divorce is difficult for both men and women, but focuses specifically on women. It describes three main reasons why divorce is so challenging - people plan for marriage, not divorce; the learning curve is steep; and divorcing individuals do not perform at their best. It then goes on to discuss some of the specific issues women face, such as dealing with emotions like guilt and shock, reconciling expectations with reality, and struggling to meet societal expectations while also parenting and managing finances on their own.
The document discusses the causes of divorce and its effects on child development. It states that independence of women and economic factors are the most common causes of divorce. Lack of education can also contribute to divorce. Divorce can negatively impact children by causing emotional trauma, feelings of rejection, anxiety about the future, and behavioral and academic problems. However, some argue divorce may be beneficial when parents are unhappy together, though children can still experience ongoing issues. Overall, the document examines different perspectives on the causes and effects of divorce on children.
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The document discusses ways to minimize conflict during custody exchanges following divorce. It describes a "Safe Exchange Zone" established by the Osage Beach Police Department, where parents can meet for exchanges under video surveillance. Other suggestions include meeting in public places like parks or malls, having a mutual friend present, using daycare or school drop-off/pick-up to avoid contact, and communicating via technology if in-person meetings are difficult. The overall message is that advance planning and clear communication can help make custody exchanges less stressful.
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Thousands of marriages end in divorce every day in the United States, with around 50% of all marriages ending this way. An analysis of divorce statistics in Washington state in 2014 finds some interesting trends. King County had the most divorces that year at 5,558, which is expected as it is the most populous county. Lincoln County, with a population of just over 10,000, had the second highest number of divorces at 3,389 due to a rule allowing mail-in divorces. Douglas County, with a population of around 38,000, had the lowest divorce rate by population with only 30 divorces in 2014.
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2. Divorce is not easy for anyone. It may be the right choice, it may be what needs to happen,
but that doesn’t make it simple or comfortable. Men and women face a number of different
issues during the dissolution of a marriage, from the tangible, concrete, down and dirty
details—things that can be measured and accounted for, like money and property—to those
that are much less quantifiable, like the emotional stress and pain of separation.
3. For men, the prospect of divorce brings with it a unique set of
complications, problems, and issues. Though ending a marriage and
moving forward with your life can be a liberation, the process may also
come with consequences, both expected and otherwise.
4. Statistically speaking, women file for the vast majority of divorces. According to one recent
study, wives initiate nearly 70%. One way to look at what this means is that many women
appear to be coming to terms with the death of a marriage before it is officially over, whereas
men may be left to do so during and after the fact.
5. Practically speaking, if your wife files for divorce, and it comes as a surprise,
it can indicate that she is already on her way to coping with the emotional
impact. You, on the other hand, may have to manage an emotional
rollercoaster while also dealing with the day-to-day realities of going
through this separation.
6. Further complicating matters are the social constructs that say men are supposed to bottle up
emotions so as not to appear weak or somehow less manly. Men are stereotypically strong
and silent and don’t outwardly express their feelings. When dealing with what can be an
incredibly upsetting, even excruciating situation, attempting to keep a stiff upper lip and
pretend everything is fine when it isn’t can be difficult and unhealthy. Still, many men opt to
suffer in solitude instead of seeking out the consolation of friends, loved ones, or even
professionals to help process this grief.
7. Divorce can deliver a chaotic mix of feelings, including guilt, anxiety, and
even fear. Self-esteem and self-worth can take a significant hit. Though
these responses are not exclusive to men, this can be a heavy weight to
bear, one that is hard to measure, and one that too many men attempt to
carry alone.
8. If there are minor children involved in the dissolution of a marriage, the situation becomes
even more complex. When the kids come into play, it can intensify a strained, nerve-wracking
situation, and further complicate what may already be a tricky, delicate process.
9. In the case of many divorces, mothers wind up with
majority custody. For a father to become the primary
guardian, he often faces a long, uphill battle. Being separated
from your kids can be tough and painful, which may continue
to feed into sensitive emotional issues.
10. Going from seeing sons and daughters regularly to every other weekend or only on
prearranged days, is a huge change, one that can be heartbreaking. Especially if this physical
distance leads to an emotional gap. It can be much more demanding to maintain a close
relationship and bond with your children if you’re not often able to see them and spend time
with them.
11. In many cases, this loss can be just as traumatizing, if not more so, than the
actual divorce. However, it is also imperative to keep their well-being and
best interests in mind. No matter how contentious or bitter your split, it’s
important not to use them as pawns, bargaining chips, or for petty acts of
revenge. No matter the state of the relationship between you and your ex,
kids need a sense of stability and security, and to know that their father
loves them.
12. The financial burden of divorce can be substantial. Just the process of dissolving a marriage
may very well be costly. There are legal charges to take into account, and attorney’s fees can
add up quickly.
13. Beyond these expenses, your final settlement may order you to pay off all
or part of a debt that was acquired during your marriage. At the end of the
day, joint savings, property, and assets will likely be divided between you
and your former spouse, leaving you fewer resources and much less capital
than before.
14. In custody cases, shared homes often go to the custodial parent. If that is the wife and
mother, you may wind up being saddled with the cost of moving, replacing items like
furniture and appliances, and more incidental expenditures.
15. When there are kids involved, child support may prove to be a huge
expense. The same goes for situations where spousal support is awarded
to you ex. Additional child care costs, health insurance premiums, and even
changes in your tax status may further bite into your budget. Moving
forward, balancing your finances and accounting for all of these new
expenses may become more important than ever.
16. In the midst of drastic change and having your life uprooted in dramatic fashion, one of the
issues men face is increased health concerns after divorce. We talked some about the
emotional impact, but following a split, men have been shown to be at an elevated risk for
hypertension, heart disease, and even cancer, among other concerns.
17. Getting back out there after divorce is no easy task, and moving forward is
a challenge. The loss of a wife, of a partner, and possibly children, can be
monumental, even crushing. Facing a new, uncertain future, it’s easy for
men to sink into depression and to turn to alcohol, drugs, and other high-
risk behaviors to fill a void. Suicide rates tend to increase in men in the
wake of divorce.
18. While that may be the more extreme end of the spectrum, it’s easy to lose motivation to
exercise, eat right, and generally take care of yourself. Making sure to maintain your physical
and mental welfare in these tough times may be a priority worth setting.
19. These are just some of the issues men face after divorce. Things are
changing out there in the world, though it is a gradual process. Social roles
are evolving. Men are no longer always expected to be the sole bread-
winner, or to be stoic and stone-faced when confronted with deeply
painful, emotional realities. Stay-at-home dads are increasingly common,
and child-rearing is no longer the exclusive domain of mothers.
20. This shift is an ongoing progression, but it is being reflected in practical ways. Court decisions
increasingly recognize the importance of having both parents in a child’s life, and men and
women are on more even footing when it comes to custody than ever before. There is also an
ever-increasing pool of services and resources for men going through and dealing with the
aftermath of divorce. This ranges from support groups to lifestyle blogs to professional
therapy.
21. Divorce can be a trying, difficult time, and there are a number of issues
men face. These can be tricky times, but one way to make your case flow as
smooth as possible, and to minimize some of these concerns, may be to
enlist the help of an attorney. An experienced lawyer can help steer you
through the legal process, and may have suggestions to help look after
other areas of your life. They’ve been there and seen this, and their advice
may prove to be incredibly valuable.