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Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   1
What you get:

   INCREASE COMMUNICATION
   EFFECTIVENESS UP TO 5X

Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   2
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YcTgjR5iV1Y

   WOULD IT BE OK TO SEE A DEMO?


Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   3
Bernie Maloney, CSP
PE, CSM, CSPO
Strategic Product Management


matrix management
= Influence without Authority




Neuro Linguistic Programming Practitioner
 Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   4
I’VE GOT GOOD NEWS & BAD NEWS


Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   5
Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   6
Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   7
Outcome: Recognize and Practice
   Verbal Technology to Build Rapport                                Fast

    •    Why: Significance and Basis
    •    How: Applications in Technology Teams
    •    What’s Behind This: Get the Abstraction
    •    Summary & Resources




   OUTLINE


Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney          8
WHY = FIRST IMPRESSIONS MATTER
                   Before Confirmation Bias




Creating Influence, On Demand 1203       Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   9
Does the 1st 60 seconds really matter?




Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   10
Ever had a telemarketer call?




Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   11
& you asked to hear more?




Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   12
Even socially




Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   13
Confirmation Bias




Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   14
HOW: APPLICATIONS IN TECHNOLOGY TEAMS




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7%



                       Physiology
                       Tonality           38%
                       Words                                              55%




                   Communication Goes (way, way, way) Beyond Words
                   e.g. Ray Birdwhistle, University of Pennsylvania
                   Verbal vectors:   Tone, Pitch
                                     Tempo: Speed & Cadence
                                     Timbre
                                     Volume
Creating Influence, On Demand 1203        Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney         16
Translating into (Agile) Practice




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7%




Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   18
35+%




Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   19
55%




Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   20
What if teams increase communication effectiveness by even half this?

   5X?                                                               OR 10X?


Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney             21
Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   22
THE TIP? LOWER UNCONSCIOUS BARRIERS




Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   23
The Principle




Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   24
Build Rapport: Offer similar patterns
                   Tonality (35+%!)
                  --------------------- how people represent information – another talk
                   Words (7%): keys to
                  ---------------------
                   Physiological (55%!)


Creating Influence, On Demand 1203        Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney                   25
Pair off: Verbal Mirroring & Matching
                   Keep statements short (get multiple practice exchanges)               Tone, Pitch
                   Person A: Start with a Question                                       Tempo: Speed & Cadence
                   Person B: Short response, using similar verbal behaviors > Question   Timbre
                   Switch roles at signal                                                Volume
Creating Influence, On Demand 1203       Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney                                  26
Insights: Verbal Mirroring & Matching




Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   27
Get the Abstraction

   WHAT’S BEHIND THIS?


Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   28
It began in the Santa Cruz Mountains…




Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   29
Virginia Satir’s Change Model




Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   30
Principle: Success Leaves Footprints




Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   31
2B bps info




   NLP MODEL OF COMMUNICATION


Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   32
2MB (~16Mb)
                                      (HD 1920x1080)




Creating Influence, On Demand 1203    Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   33
Conscious Mind processes
                                                               ~134 bps
                                                               in groups of
     2B bps info                                               7 +/- 2 “chunks”




   NLP MODEL OF COMMUNICATION


Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney                        34
132 b
                                     (12 px by 11 px)




Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   35
Conscious Mind processes
                                                               ~134 bps
                                                               in groups of
     2B bps info                                               7 +/- 2 “chunks”




                                                                                          Delete
                                                                                          Distort
                                                                                          Generalize



   Unconscious Programming = Barrier: Friend or Foe? Fight or Flight?

   NLP MODEL OF COMMUNICATION


Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney                              36
Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   37
SUMMARY


Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   38
TWO TYPES OF STUDENTS


Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   39
Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   40
Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   41
DECIDE: WHICH TYPE ARE YOU?


Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   42
7%



                       Physiology
                       Tonality           38%
                       Words                                              55%




                   Communication Goes (way, way, way) Beyond Words

                   Tonality (35+%!)
                   Words (7%): keys to how people represent information
                   Physiological (55%!)


Creating Influence, On Demand 1203       Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney          43
Building Rapport Lowers Unconscious Barriers




Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   44
35+%: Observe & Signal Rapport by Verbal Matching
                   Tone, Pitch
                   Tempo: Speed & Cadence
                   Timbre
                   Volume
Creating Influence, On Demand 1203     Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   45
Seminal Work:
   Richard Bandler & John Grinder,
   Frogs into Princes




   For a far easier Introduction:
   Michael Brooks,
   Instant Rapport
   (available in libraries)

   RESOURCES


Creating Influence, On Demand 1203   Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney   46
Bernie Maloney, CSP
PE, CSM, CSPO
Turning Strategies into Results
From Startup to Beyond $100M




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Ut Prosim. Namaste.

   FIN


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2012svpcamp

  • 1. AT Creating Influence On Demand RAPID RAPPORT Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 1
  • 2. What you get: INCREASE COMMUNICATION EFFECTIVENESS UP TO 5X Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 2
  • 3. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YcTgjR5iV1Y WOULD IT BE OK TO SEE A DEMO? Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 3
  • 4. Bernie Maloney, CSP PE, CSM, CSPO Strategic Product Management matrix management = Influence without Authority Neuro Linguistic Programming Practitioner Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 4
  • 5. I’VE GOT GOOD NEWS & BAD NEWS Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 5
  • 6. Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 6
  • 7. Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 7
  • 8. Outcome: Recognize and Practice Verbal Technology to Build Rapport Fast • Why: Significance and Basis • How: Applications in Technology Teams • What’s Behind This: Get the Abstraction • Summary & Resources OUTLINE Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 8
  • 9. WHY = FIRST IMPRESSIONS MATTER Before Confirmation Bias Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 9
  • 10. Does the 1st 60 seconds really matter? Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 10
  • 11. Ever had a telemarketer call? Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 11
  • 12. & you asked to hear more? Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 12
  • 13. Even socially Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 13
  • 14. Confirmation Bias Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 14
  • 15. HOW: APPLICATIONS IN TECHNOLOGY TEAMS Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 15
  • 16. 7% Physiology Tonality 38% Words 55% Communication Goes (way, way, way) Beyond Words e.g. Ray Birdwhistle, University of Pennsylvania Verbal vectors: Tone, Pitch Tempo: Speed & Cadence Timbre Volume Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 16
  • 17. Translating into (Agile) Practice Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 17
  • 18. 7% Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 18
  • 19. 35+% Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 19
  • 20. 55% Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 20
  • 21. What if teams increase communication effectiveness by even half this? 5X? OR 10X? Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 21
  • 22. Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 22
  • 23. THE TIP? LOWER UNCONSCIOUS BARRIERS Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 23
  • 24. The Principle Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 24
  • 25. Build Rapport: Offer similar patterns Tonality (35+%!) --------------------- how people represent information – another talk Words (7%): keys to --------------------- Physiological (55%!) Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 25
  • 26. Pair off: Verbal Mirroring & Matching Keep statements short (get multiple practice exchanges) Tone, Pitch Person A: Start with a Question Tempo: Speed & Cadence Person B: Short response, using similar verbal behaviors > Question Timbre Switch roles at signal Volume Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 26
  • 27. Insights: Verbal Mirroring & Matching Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 27
  • 28. Get the Abstraction WHAT’S BEHIND THIS? Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 28
  • 29. It began in the Santa Cruz Mountains… Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 29
  • 30. Virginia Satir’s Change Model Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 30
  • 31. Principle: Success Leaves Footprints Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 31
  • 32. 2B bps info NLP MODEL OF COMMUNICATION Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 32
  • 33. 2MB (~16Mb) (HD 1920x1080) Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 33
  • 34. Conscious Mind processes ~134 bps in groups of 2B bps info 7 +/- 2 “chunks” NLP MODEL OF COMMUNICATION Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 34
  • 35. 132 b (12 px by 11 px) Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 35
  • 36. Conscious Mind processes ~134 bps in groups of 2B bps info 7 +/- 2 “chunks” Delete Distort Generalize Unconscious Programming = Barrier: Friend or Foe? Fight or Flight? NLP MODEL OF COMMUNICATION Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 36
  • 37. Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 37
  • 38. SUMMARY Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 38
  • 39. TWO TYPES OF STUDENTS Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 39
  • 40. Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 40
  • 41. Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 41
  • 42. DECIDE: WHICH TYPE ARE YOU? Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 42
  • 43. 7% Physiology Tonality 38% Words 55% Communication Goes (way, way, way) Beyond Words Tonality (35+%!) Words (7%): keys to how people represent information Physiological (55%!) Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 43
  • 44. Building Rapport Lowers Unconscious Barriers Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 44
  • 45. 35+%: Observe & Signal Rapport by Verbal Matching Tone, Pitch Tempo: Speed & Cadence Timbre Volume Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 45
  • 46. Seminal Work: Richard Bandler & John Grinder, Frogs into Princes For a far easier Introduction: Michael Brooks, Instant Rapport (available in libraries) RESOURCES Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 46
  • 47. Bernie Maloney, CSP PE, CSM, CSPO Turning Strategies into Results From Startup to Beyond $100M about.me/ berniemaloney linkedin.com/in/ berniemaloney slideshare.net / berniemaloney gplus.to/ berniemaloney twitter.com/#!/ berniemaloney Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 47
  • 48. Ut Prosim. Namaste. FIN Creating Influence, On Demand 1203 Slide Deck: © 2012 B. Maloney 48
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