3. I modify my personality, opinions or appearance in order to be accepted by others. _______
I avoid having arguments with others because I don't want them to dislike me. _______
I believe that people will only respect me if I am good looking and/or successful. _______
How I feel about myself is less important than other's opinions of me. _______
If I don't do as well as others , it means that I am an inferior person. _______
I am afraid of being rejected by others. _______
I am not confident I have done a good job unless someone else points out. _______
When someone mistreats me I think that I must have done something to deserve it. _______
I prefer keeping silence in a group discussion . _______
I go to parties/shopping without my wish to fit into a ‘cool group’. _______
4. What
is
PEER PRESSURE?
Peer pressure is an influence when a peer group or
individual encourages another person to change their values
or behaviour to suite other people’s convenience.
5. Who is your peer?
Peer word came from a Latin word ‘par’
meaning EQUAL. In other words
The one that is of equal standing with
another.
The one that is at your own level or
age.
Eg.- If you are an Ipccian, other
students doing Ipcc are
your peers.
7. YES… WE ARE HIGHLY EFFECTED BY OUR PEERS.
Now Let us check how many of you are effected by your surroundings?
RESULT
Now the question is- What kind of effect do they have?
7-10 PAY ATTENTION TO THE FURTHER SLIDES..
0-3 YOU GOT GOOD MATES
4-6 YOU NEED TO CHANGE YOUR CIRCLE
8. Positive
Effect
Sometimes, Peers help us inculcates new hobbies, sporting spirit, health conscience or a
tireless determination to succeed in life . It can be a force for good and beneficial
change in our life.
SOMEGOODTHINGS PEERSCAN FORCE US INTO…
Be Honest
Avoid Alcohol and drugs
Quit Smoking
Respect others.
Self Introspection
9.
10. I conquered my fear ,gave my best
shot and In the end it feel so good. I
learnt that-
“If you have peers who are pushing you
to go further in life and believe in your
dreams. Man, you got it made!”
I was pressurized by my friend to
participate in a Debate Competition..
But I was not ready , I suffered
horrendous stage fear...
14. WHEN YOU DO NOT LIKE A PARTICULAR IDEA OR WHEN YOU HAVE NO INCLINATION TOWARDS A
PARTICULAR FIELD, IT IS OBVIOUS THAT YOU WON'T LIKE TO GO BY IT. BUT IT IS YOUR PEER GROUP,
WHICH MAY COMPEL YOU ON DOING SOMETHING YOU HATE. LOOK AT SOME REAL INCIDENCES.
Mike ( aged 16) says
“I smoked my first cigarette
when I was 11. I didn’t want
to but all my friends were
smoking and I didn’t want to
be out of the group. Once I
started I couldn’t stop. I was
addicted… I wish I hadn’t
started. I knew it was wrong
and I didn’t want to”
Ryan (aged 15) says
“I like cars a lot. Me and my friends
started stealing cars over a year ago. I
didn’t want to do it but we all felt we
could have some fun and get away
with it… I’ve been caught twice by the
cops and they say if I do this again I
will go to jail. I wouldn’t do this on my
own but whenever I’m with guys they
makes me do it. “
Source- www.yourlifecounts.org
15. What should I
do to save my
children?
I do not
want to
suffer from
this.
Is there any
solution?
OHYES!!
16. HERE IS THE SOLUTION…
Take a breath first
Think it through
React
Before you do anything...
And always keep in mind…
17. The Right to RESIST
“When u say ‘Yes’ to someone , make sure you don't say ‘No’ to yourself"
18. "Stand up for what you believe in, even if it means standing alone."
“Why fit in when you were born to stand out.”
19. . Although peer pressure has it’s good and bad , we have to accept the good and face the bad. If not, we will be
influenced to do something which is very dangerous.
20. KNOW WHO IS GOODFOR YOU AND WHO IS NOT.
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