Secrets to a Happy, Successful Life: Enjoy the Journey, Not Just the Destination

Self Help - Secrets To Having A
Happy, Successful Life
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com

Self help is a billion
dollar industry with
readers from both
sex, different ages
and various
countries. Many of
the readers have a
library of self help
information at home.
Alan Cheng, CEO

It’s human nature
that people want
success and
improvement. They
want to stand out
from their peers and
get recognition.
Alan Cheng, CEO

Nearly everything one does
is related to winning and
becoming a better person.
Think back to when you
were kids. You would try to
do things better and quicker
than the other kid to get
praise from your parents or
teachers.
Alan Cheng, CEO

With everything we
do, deep down in our
hearts, we want to
do it better than
other people. Even
with things we buy
and own.
Alan Cheng, CEO

Have you ever wanted to buy a new cell
phone, a better car or want a better job
because someone you know has one? We
all want to be better than the rest. The only
exception is probably our kids. Who we all
want our children to be better than
ourselves.
Alan Cheng, CEO

This is what feeds the self help industry. It
is why there are so many topics on personal
development from making money to having
lots of friends.
Alan Cheng, CEO

What we truly want is to have a happy and
successful life.
Alan Cheng, CEO

Let’s talk about how we can achieve
this goal. Imagine that you’re on your
death bed and are looking back on
your life. What will make you think
that you have no regrets with your
life?
Alan Cheng, CEO

Will it be because you
have lots of money in
the bank?
Having a highly-paid
job in a respectable
company?
Alan Cheng, CEO

Had great times with
your friends drinking
and sharing stories?
Being envied by your
relatives and friends
for living in a
luxurious house with
a cool car?
Alan Cheng, CEO

Take some time and
really think about this.
Write down what you
think is most important
to you so that before
you shut your eyes
forever, you’ll be glad
what you have done
and achieved in life.
Alan Cheng, CEO

This exercise will be an
eye-opener. You may
find that money is not
the answer to your
happiness. All the big
houses, fancy sports
car, latest gadgets and
social status may not
matter at all.
Alan Cheng, CEO

What matters is that you were happy for
most of your life and you have made the
people that are close to you happy as well.
You have shared your joys and sorrows with
them and have protected them when
needed.
Alan Cheng, CEO

Once you’ve written
down what matters to
you the most, your
focus in life should be
to realize it
immediately, taking any
actions that will give
you that satisfaction.
Alan Cheng, CEO

Life is about achieving
your goals that you’ve
set and enjoy the
process as well. Your
aim is to be happy and
make those close to
you happy as well.
Alan Cheng, CEO

If your goal is to live in
a 2 million dollar
mansion, drive a
Mercedes, provide the
best education for your
kids and becoming the
director of the
company you’re
working for, by all
means go for it.
Alan Cheng, CEO

Read as many self help books as you can.
Take time out to study and work twice as
hard to achieve what you want. Persist and
laugh at any thoughts of giving up.
Alan Cheng, CEO

However, the key to having a happy and
successful life does not depend on
achieving these goals, but to enjoy the
process and your life.
While you want to work towards being
promoted by your company and get a
salary increase, you should not neglect
your family, relatives or friends.
Alan Cheng, CEO

If you have kids, make
sure you spend time with
them. Coming home
from work, spend time
with your spouse and
have a laugh together
sharing stories. Give
them a surprise now and
then and go out together
more.
Alan Cheng, CEO

Before going to bed,
you need to say to
yourself that you
enjoyed the day and
are happy with what
you have done within
the last 16 hours.
Alan Cheng, CEO

Now imagine that you’re on your death bed
again and are looking back on your life. If
you’ve achieved the goals which you have set,
then hurray. Get the champagne out before
you rest for good.
Alan Cheng, CEO

But if you haven’t managed to achieve your
goals, you should still be happy and consider
yourself a success. This is because you have
not neglected what matters to you most while
you were working on your life’s ambition.
Alan Cheng, CEO

You still enjoyed your life every day and
have made those you care about, happy as
well. You can safely say that you have lived
your life and your success is by no means
inferior to the person who has achieved
more than you. At the end of the day, being
happy is what matters most.
Alan Cheng, CEO

Rich and famous people are not necessarily
happy. Some are sad and have even ended
their own lives. You can decide on what type
of life you want to live. You can either
decide to be happy every day for the rest of
your life or think that happiness will come
only when you have reached your goals.
Alan Cheng, CEO

Reading self help books
will work wonders on
improving your life. One
of the common themes
of all self improvement
advice is that you need
to think positive and be
happy.
Alan Cheng, CEO

This is the essence of
‘The Law of Attraction’
and this is so true. The
only thing that is
stopping you is to
acknowledge this and
start taking action.
Alan Cheng, CEO

Law of Attraction Works For
Relationships As Well As
Material Things
Alan Cheng, CEO

Tip Download the book "How To
Implement The Law Of Attraction” at
http://www.eliteselfhelp.com/loa
For more self help information download
a free report on how to get wealth and
success within 14 days at
http://www.selfhelpkingdom.com
Alan Cheng, CEO

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