2. What is Body Language ?
Body language is various forms of non-
verbal communication wherein a person
may reveal clues as to some unspoken
intention or feeling through their physical
behaviour
3. Source: A study by Dr. Albert Mehabrian, quoted by forbes
How Important Body Language is in Communication ?
4. - Each gesture is like a single word and one word may have several different
meanings
- What people say is often very different from what
they think or feel
5.
6. by observing ones body language or gestures, we could get a
clue of what they thought
9. Intimate Zone
Only those who are emotionally close to that person are permitted to
enter it.
This includes lovers, parents, spouse, children, close friends and
relatives
Personal Zone
we stand from others at cocktail parties, office parties, social functions
and friendly gatherings.
Social Zone
We stand at this distance from strangers, the local shopkeeper, the new
employee at work and people whom we do not know very well.
Public Zone
Whenever we address a large group of people, this is the comfortable
distance at which we choose to stand.
Territories and Zone
11. People lean against other people or
objects to show a territorial claim to
that object or person.
Leaning can also be used as a
method, of dominance or
intimidation when the object being
leaned on belongs to someone else
Territorial Gesture
12. A sign of openness and honesty
Question:
can you tell a lie
better if your palm is
visible then if it’s
hidden?
Palm Gesture
15. Don’t want to listen anymore Signal of doubt and uncertainty
Hand to Face Gesture
16. Arm Barriers
A defensive or negative gesture
It is commonly seen when a person is among strangers in
public meetings, queues, cafeterias, elevators or anywhere
that people feel uncertain or insecure
Arm Barriers
17. • By set aside at least 15 minute a day to study
and read the gestures of others, as well as
your own gesture (try it at the market, airport,
business meeting etc)
• Turn down the TV sound and try to
understand the situation and turn it on every
five minutes to check how accurate your body
language reading ability
How to Learn Body Language
Editor's Notes
Jika ada yang memasuki intimate zone kita bisa disebabkan oleh 2 hal, yaitu karena didekati oelh org2 terdekat atau ingin mendekati lawan jenis, dan karena ingin menyerang kita (menurut persepsi kita) oleh karena itu, kita akan merasa cemas, adrenalin kita meningkat dan tubuh kita siap untuk berkelahi. Karena itu kalau ada keramaian biasanya lebih gampang rusuh karena kita merasa zona intimate kita dimasuki oleh orang asing
Untuk dapat melihat seseorang jujur dan terbuka atau tidak dapat dilihat dari gestur tangan.
Ketika digunakan dengan benar, telapak tangan dapat menunjukan tingkat otoritas seseorang
Contoh: minta tolong
Pegang hidung: tanda bohong, tadinya mau megang mulut, tp jadinya megang idung.
Ngucek mata: tanda bohong, supaya ga usah ngeliat ke muka org yang bohong
Arm barriers adalah bentuk yang lebih sophisticated dari berlindung dibelakang solid objek pada saat kita masih kecil untuk melindungi kita