Belief Confidence Courage Calmness Determination Enthusiasm Focus Integrity Optimism PatienceScott W. Ventrella, The Power of Positive Thinking in Business Mrs. Najam-un-Nisa 19
Look at pbms as challenges. Success often presents itself as an alluring challenge. Most problems are produced, or left unsolved, by half- used minds. Face pbms with keenness & from a new direction, each time. Don’t jump to the obvious solution. (‘This is the tallest peak!’ syndrome) Challenge what is accepted. You will find a whole new world of possibilities uncovered.
Know the stage at which it is . Compartmentalize. Prioritise. Recognize the minor hassles from the major ones. Know what to worry about & what to take coolly. Take one step at a time. Deal with them in small bits. No knee-jerk reactions. No short-term patches. The real obstacles are not the pbms themselves, but the wrong approaches to finding the solutions.
See a solution, where others see a pbm. There is a solution to every problem. Try to solve, not prolong. Ascertain the facts. Have an uncluttered mind. Cut out the extraneous. Identify the core. Face the issue head on. Take it on without breaking step. While with major pbm, stay detached. Intractable? Sleep over it . Let it work its way out.
Free your mind from prejudices. Have an open mind. “Emptied, you hold.” Be receptive to ideas. Be quick to listen. Be slow to respond. Perceptions differ. What is right in your view may not be that. Don’t jump to conclusions. See the other person’s point of view.
Accept your limitations. But be aware of your qualities & strengths. Change your beliefs, and you change your behavior. Change your behavior, and you change your results, and your life itself. Self-limiting beliefs are learned behaviors. Anything that is learned can be unlearned as well. List all negative beliefs. Replace them with the positive. Begin. Take the first step which is the most
Life is not about how much you make but how you live it. How you make a difference is what will matter. Each one of us is a debtor. We have taken so much from the system. It is but fair that we pay back the debt, with interest and do it fast. Perhaps it is already late. Better hurry up.