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How to Cure Premature Ejaculation Cures for premature Ejaculation How to Avoid Premature Ejaculation

  1. 1. ==== ====For Great Tips on Premature Ejaculation Check This Out! ====First of all, if you just experienced an episode of premature ejaculation for the first time in your life,you might want to just skip this article. The causes of premature ejaculation are many and varied,and sometimes in his life, a man will fall prey to one or another of them. In other words, prematureejaculation, even in a healthy male, is not that unusual or uncommon.However, if you are regularly experiencing this affliction, and some have been experiencing it foryears, knowing the causes of premature ejaculation may possibly be the first step to affecting acure for premature ejaculation.It may help to know that you are not alone! It has been estimated that 20% of males between theages of 18 and 59 are regularly afflicted with the problem.So, what causes premature ejaculation in otherwise apparently healthy males in the prime of theirsexual lives? Do they have some strange virus or incurable disease, or are they just nuts?Well, research does show that the root causes of premature ejaculation are usually psychological,but that does not mean you are nuts, nor that only a shrink can cure you. In fact, so much ISknown about the subject that there are many techniques and plenty of advice available for a littlepractical self-help.Apparently, premature ejaculation is primarily the result of a fear of sexual failure. This is veryoften linked to erectile dysfunction, which is also often treatable either through medications suchas Viagra or Cialis, or through improvements in physical or emotional condition.Slightly complicating any discussion of the causes of premature ejaculation is the fact that"premature" is a hazy concept, and any orgasm or ejaculation can be termed "premature" if itoccurs before the two parties (usually two, but one never knows these days) want it to. There is noconcrete medical standard for a time limit that distinguishes a "premature" ejaculation from...well,a mature one, I guess!However, premature usually means that both parties are disappointed with the result. Of course,this can be complicated by the fact that women take longer to achieve full sexual arousal and thefemale orgasm can often occur long after even a non-premature ejaculating male has given upand fired his only shot. It is easy in this situation for a man to take what may be a relatively smallproblem and make it bigger (poor choice of words). This is an example of one way in which acertain amount of easily treatable difficulty can begin to loom large in the mind of the man, therebyencouraging the condition to get worse.So, while the sexual partner may not be the cause of premature ejaculation, the sexual partner
  2. 2. can be a definite help in constructing a "cure" for premature ejaculation. Understanding andencouragement on their part, coupled with a willingness to be an active participant in the therapy,which can be fun for both, can help make or break the effort for improvement, just as a real orimagined negative reaction to a real instance of premature ejaculation can increase the problem.However, since the problem could conceivably occur during a solo masturbation session, we stillneed to find the causes of premature ejaculation and some cures for premature ejaculation.One piece of evidence that doctors use to determine the possible causes of premature ejaculationis whether it is what is termed "primary" or "secondary". Primary means that the problem hasexisted during the sexually active life of the man, and secondary means that it has begun to occurafter a period of relatively normal sexual activity.As stated earlier, causes of premature ejaculation are often psychological in nature:1. Early childhood experiences which provoked fear of discovery during masturbation, for examplemight still be causing trouble.2. Encountering a particularly negative family attitude towards sex during your childhood maycause you to "rush" to complete sexual activity because you feel it is "dirty" or not permitted.3. Impotence, while itself often a treatable physical condition, may create a feeling of need to "getit done" before you lose your erection.4. Problems and worries about health, money, relationships, or any sort of stress in your life, maytrigger an event or series of events.5. As hinted at above, negative reactions from a sexual partner can also precipitate the problem inwhat would otherwise be a normally happy, sexually fulfilled male.As can be imagined, once the event has occurred, it is not unrealistic to imagine it becoming sofocused upon by the man that it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, no matter what its cause or itsintensity or frequency.The other main causes of premature ejaculation are certain medications, but these are rare.Bad news: Its in your head!Good news: Its treatable!Okay, after reviewing the list of possible causes above, it becomes obvious that you can possiblydeal with the problem yourself. After all, its not like you need surgery or are going to die from it. Infact the major medical problems associated with premature ejaculation are that it may be relatedto a more serious condition or it may have an impact on fertility. Other than that, the damage ismainly done to your ego, and your relationship with your sexual partner.If some negative experience has had an impact on your sexual performance, finding that andfacing it may be all that is needed. If you are experiencing impotence, getting that treated may
  3. 3. help the problem. If you have a high level of stress, dealing with those problems or taking up somesort of relaxation process such as meditation might do the trick. There are many referencesavailable online or even in your public library which can help you make a well informed decision asto your personal causes of premature ejaculation and the possible means of changing thesituation.On the other hand, it may be too complicated for you to handle yourself, or may involve medicalconditions which need to be dealt with at a professional level.Whether your choice for professional help is your family doctor, a psychologist, or a psychiatrist,read the list again and realize that you may be asked to divulge some very sensitive informationabout all your sexual experiences, your home life as a child and as an adult, your relationshipswith your parents and other family members, your health...the list goes on. The professionals willneed you to honestly and completely divulge all such information, so be prepared before you go into see them.In fact, dont just be mentally and emotionally prepared to "get it done". Instead, delve deeply intoyour history, thoughts, and feelings before the visit for forgotten events, experiences, and feelingswhich may be relevant. We have all been asked by a doctor in less trying situations if there wasanything wrong and replied that all was fine or gave a small list of problems, only to think ofseveral more once we had left the office. For a doctor or other professional to assist you, you willhave to have as much information available as possible for them to assess and work with.As pointed out previously, the willing and understanding assistance of your sexual partner can beinvaluable in anything that is done in hope of creating a cure for premature ejaculation.The causes of premature ejaculation can be varied and intertwined. If you cannot figure it out orsolve it by yourself and/or with the help of your sexual partner, there are certain techniques andmedications which can help. some of these techniques can be learned from the many availablereference materials or through a little judicious research on the Internet. Medical intervention will,of course, require a doctors assistance.Donovan Baldwin is a freelance writer residing in Stone Mountain, Georgia, and a University ofWest Florida alumnus. He is a member of Mensa and is retired from the U. S. Army after 21 yearsof service. In his career, he has held many managerial and supervisory positions. However, hismain pleasures have long been writing, nature, health, and fitness. In the last few years, he hasbeen able to combine these pleasures by writing poetry and articles on subjects such as health,fitness, weight lifting, yoga, weight loss, the environment, global warming, happiness, selfimprovement, and life. He has an online health products store, including a group of mens healthproducts, which may be found at Source:
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