This document discusses the need to shift conversations from "should" discussions that focus on what is right or wrong to "how" discussions that focus on collaborative problem solving. It argues that outrage and hierarchy prevent learning, while collaboration and inclusion can help find better answers. It suggests asking better questions, celebrating positive comments, providing tools for constructive discussions, and creating new platforms designed to facilitate solution-focused conversations. The goal is to have productive discussions about difficult topics like race by first agreeing on how to have such conversations.
9. “Over a period of years I kept meeting people of great
decency who had different world views. But there wasn’t a
place where they could meet to bring out the best in each
other and find answers that each hadn’t considered.”
- Robert Fersh, President, Convergence
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15. The internet is where you go to find
people who are doing it wrong and
tell them they’re doing it wrong.
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17. what if the conversation was the service?
Ronnie Polaneczky
72. “Marvelous technology is at our disposal and instead of reaching
up for new heights, we try to see how far down we can go.”
- Eric Bogosian, Talk Radio
73. next time you feel outrage, ask
yourself if there’s a How
Conversation to be had