Separation doesn't automatically mean the end of your marriage. If you are smart about it, you can use it to save your marriage. Want to know how?

1. How to Use MarriageHow to Use Marriage
Separation to Save YourSeparation to Save Your
MarriageMarriage
By Lisa PennBy Lisa Penn
http://how-to-save-http://how-to-save-marriage.orgmarriage.org

2.  That’s itThat’s it.. It’s reallyIt’s really
overover.. That’s what youThat’s what you
thought when yourthought when your
spouse decided tospouse decided to
splitsplit ((or already didor already did).).
Marriage separationMarriage separation
is just a pit stop in theis just a pit stop in the
way to divorceway to divorce..
Everyone knows that,Everyone knows that,
right?right?

3. WRONG.WRONG.

4.  I know that what I’mI know that what I’m
about to claim goesabout to claim goes
against everythingagainst everything
you believe in, butyou believe in, but
marriage separationmarriage separation
is youris your goldengolden
opportunityopportunity to notto not
only save youronly save your
marriage, butmarriage, but makemake
it better than itit better than it
ever wasever was..

5. Can Separation Save aCan Separation Save a
Marriage?Marriage?
 Your spouse hasYour spouse has
given upgiven up.. He or sheHe or she
are tired of theare tired of the
bickering, the tension,bickering, the tension,
the lack ofthe lack of
communication, thecommunication, the
fact that you never dofact that you never do
anything fun togetheranything fun together
anymoreanymore..

6.  Even worse, he orEven worse, he or
she are may alreadyshe are may already
be in love withbe in love with
someone else, andsomeone else, and
left you to be withleft you to be with
himhim//herher..

7. ““I’m not in love with you anymore”,I’m not in love with you anymore”,
he or she saidhe or she said,, and your wholeand your whole
world, your whole life as you knowworld, your whole life as you know
it, collapses around you, making ait, collapses around you, making a
huge noisehuge noise..

8.  It seems there is noIt seems there is no
hopehope.. Your marriageYour marriage
is terminally broken,is terminally broken,
and there is nothingand there is nothing
you can do to changeyou can do to change
itit..

9.  But you couldn’t be more wrongBut you couldn’t be more wrong..
Separation can save your marriage, if youSeparation can save your marriage, if you
know exactly how to use it to yourknow exactly how to use it to your
advantageadvantage..

10. 3 Critical Mistakes You’ve3 Critical Mistakes You’ve
Probably Already MadeProbably Already Made
Here’s what most of us will do when weHere’s what most of us will do when we
desperately try to stop separation and divorcedesperately try to stop separation and divorce::
 1. We try to give them reassurance1. We try to give them reassurance – “I– “I
can change. I will stop nagging. I will stop beingcan change. I will stop nagging. I will stop being
controlling. I won’t lie to you ever again”.controlling. I won’t lie to you ever again”.
This almost never works. They will not believe you.This almost never works. They will not believe you.
 2. We Argue2. We Argue – “I don’t believe that you don’t– “I don’t believe that you don’t
love me. You owe me love because we arelove me. You owe me love because we are
married. I can change the way you feel rightmarried. I can change the way you feel right
now”.now”.

11. This never worksThis never works.. This is exactly what they expectThis is exactly what they expect
to hearto hear.. More arguing and inacceptance of theirMore arguing and inacceptance of their
feelingsfeelings.. This is why they want to pull away inThis is why they want to pull away in
the first placethe first place..
 3. We tell them how much we love them3. We tell them how much we love them ––
“I love you. You are the only one I’ll ever love.“I love you. You are the only one I’ll ever love.
You’re the only one I can be happy with”.You’re the only one I can be happy with”.
You’re basically telling them “I have no selfYou’re basically telling them “I have no self
esteem. I have nothing with you. Do you wantesteem. I have nothing with you. Do you want
me?”me?”

12.  But don’t lose hop just yetBut don’t lose hop just yet.. Even ifEven if
you made all of these mistakesyou made all of these mistakes ((inin
less then 30 minutes…less then 30 minutes…)), there are, there are
ways to repair the damageways to repair the damage ((if you useif you use
the right marriage separation advicethe right marriage separation advice
from now onfrom now on).).

13.  Go HEREGo HERE to see 3 Little Known Ways toto see 3 Little Known Ways to
Use Marriage Separation to Save YourUse Marriage Separation to Save Your
Marriage!Marriage!
 Hurry, before it’s too late!Hurry, before it’s too late!
Rooting for ya,Rooting for ya,
LisaLisa