The average length of unemployment in the US at the end of April 2014 was 35 weeks - and that's just the average! We all know people who have been in transition for far longer than that. But what about that other end of the spectrum? What about those who lose their job and seem to have a new one the same day - what are they doing differently? What can we do to shorten our own transitions?
The Secret is a New York Times bestselling book that came out in 2006. It has been featured on Oprah more than once and sold millions of copies in 50 languages. It explores the law of attraction, which essentially states that 'like attracts like'. The secret is that if you want positive things in your life then you need to think positively. If you think negatively, you will receive negative things back from the universe.
Check out this presentation to learn the limitations of this idea, how to develop a bias for action, and the real secret to a successful job transition.
1. THE SECRET
IS NOT THE SECRET
TO YOUR JOB SEARCH
Jon Hicks
For PMI-LA Transitions
June 19, 2014
2. Unemployment Sucks
Average length of unemployment = 35 weeks
The longer we’re in transition, the harder it is to get hired at
our next job.
This can undermine our sense of self-worth.
3. This Happens to Everyone
It’s not a matter of if, but when.
Some people always seem to land on their feet.
What are they doing differently? What can we do to shorten
our own transitions?
5. Why Do We Do That?
That’s the way it’s always been done.
We don’t know of any other strategies.
Because it’s worked in the past.
What are the typical results?
6. What Are We Really Doing?
We’re commoditizing ourselves.
We’re waiting to be chosen.
We’re delegating our job search.
7. What Is The Secret?
Rhonda Byrne released the film in 2006, followed by the
book the same year.
Featured on Oprah twice, New York Times bestseller, has
gone on to make hundreds of millions of dollars.
8. What Is The Secret?
The universe is governed by the Law of Attraction: you get
back what you send out.
There are three steps:
Ask
Believe
Receive
9. Why Does The Secret Work?
Ask = visualizing specific goals
Believe = abundance mentality
Our sub-conscious doesn’t know the difference between
imagination and reality.
A positive outlook makes us more positive and more
likeable.
10. So What’s My Problem?
Cognitive dissonance can backfire.
Promotes magical thinking.
Can lead to entitlement.
Ultimately, The Secret is fundamentally passive.
11. What’s the Real Secret?
Add more value than you try to extract.
Give more than you take, and give before you try to take.
Add value to the world, to your personal network, to
potential employers.
12. There Are Three Parts to This
Add: actually doing something (this requires a bias for
action)
Value: get specific about what kinds of value you can and
want to add (and remember that value is subjective)
The System: the person, group, organization that will
benefit from the value you add
13. How Do We Develop a Bias for Action?
Focus on small changes and keystone habits.
Put success in your way.
Remove friction from your path.
Eat the frog first.
Just get started.
14. What Do We Do with This Bias for Action?
Learn something new
Improve your skills, knowledge, and abilities
Create something
Teach someone something
Someday Maybe projects (around the house, exercise)
Find a way to finish something
Find a way to contribute to something
15. What’s the Keystone Habit for Our Job Search?
Building relationships - Networking!
How do some people get their next job as soon as they
need it? They tap their (already-established) networks.
They’ve added so much value over the years that people
are eager to help them out.
16. What’s the Goal?
Find someone with a problem to solve.
Point them in the right direction (connect them to the
solution).
Solve the problem yourself.
17. Don’t Wait to Get Paid
Volunteer and pro bono work is just as valid as being paid.
Continue to expand your network.
Retain and build momentum by doing something additive
with your time.
High competence trigger and a warm fuzzy in your
inevitable interviews.
18. Here’s the Bottom Line
Get specific about how you're going to add more value to
others than you take and then actually do it.
19. THE SECRET
IS NOT THE SECRET
TO YOUR JOB SEARCH
Jon Hicks
jon@scalingvalue.com
818-305-5502