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1. The Sugar Charisma Model

2. There's a metaphor about heaven and
hell that I like.

3. As it goes, in both heaven and hell
there's both plenty of people, and
plenty of food.

4. And in both heaven and hell, the food
comes in these bowls.

5. In both places, the people have to eat
with these really, really long spoons.

6. The ONLY difference is what goes on in
the minds of the inhabitants.

7. Everything else is EXACTLY the same.

8. In hell, nobody trusts anybody, so
everybody tries to get by solely on
their own.

9. But since the spoons are too long to
use, everybody's always starving,
lonely, and miserable.

10. But in heaven, people work together.
They trust each other.

11. They are willing to take risks.

12. They know that you can get whatever
you want, so long as you help others
get what THEY want FIRST.

13. So they first take their long spoon,
scoop out some food in some other
person's bowl, and feed them.

14. They don't know if they'll reciprocate.

15. They don't worry that the person
might take advantage of them.

16. They don't worry that everybody
might think their an idiot for being so
gullible.

17. And guess what?

18. This selfless behavior INSPIRES others.

19. That other person that got fed by a
stranger CAN'T wait to return the
favor. They look around for somebody
in need, so they can help.

20. Pretty soon, everybody is eagerly
helping others, sharing, creating
relationships, making friends.

21. Everybody's happy. Everybody's full.
Nobody's left behind.

22. Meanwhile, back in hell, everybody's
still starving, angry, alone, and worried
that somebody is going to come and
steal their food (that they can't eat
anyway).

23. This is the secret of charisma and
personal magnetism.

24. Forget about talking about yourself
and your own desires.

25. Forget about your own shortcomings
(real or imagined). Forget about all the
constant approval seeking.

26. Go first. See somebody who could use
a friend.

27. Go and talk to them. Ask them about
what they want. Find out what's
special and unique about them.

28. Spend your time focusing on and
helping others.

29. Be an inspiration.

30. Do this, and others will be EAGER to
help you get what you want, whatever
it is.

31. What's more, since all of us humans
are MUCH MORE similar than we are
different, there's a really good chance
what YOU want shares a lot with what
THEY want.

32. And that overlap is the source of all
partnerships, friendships, and
romances.

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