Powerful questions are provocative queries that put a halt to evasion and confusion. By asking the powerful question, the coach invites the emerging leader to clarity, action, and discovery at a whole new level. Kimsey-House et al.
2. TELP Rep as Coach
“We are dedicating ourselves to the
success of every Emerging Leader”
3. TELP Rep as Coach
In partnership walk alongside the
emerging leader to put a halt to
default patterns and mind-set so
that the actions that follow bring
about the intended outcome.
4. Establish Relationship
In Teen Challenge coaching only
works for student that have come to a
place of sound biblical and moral
reasoning.
Kyle Brown (Prayer Mountain Boy’s)
5. Establish Relationship
As a coach we may guide the direction
of thought but we don't influence the
answers. This is a good way to see
where our students are in their minds
and hearts as well.
– Kyle Brown (Prayer Mountain Boy’s)
6. The ultimate goal for coaching is to have the
Emerging Leader to a place where they can:
1) Assess the situation and challenges they face.
2) Draw on their strengths and wisdom (which
at this point we hope they know comes from
God)
3) Set goals and Action Steps.
4) Keep themselves accountable and motivated.
Kyle Brown
8. Powerful questions are provocative
queries that put a halt to evasion and
confusion. By asking the powerful
question, the coach invites the
emerging leader to clarity, action, and
discovery at a whole new level.
9. History Learning
• What caused it? • If the same thing came up again, what
• What led up to it? would you do?
• What have you tried so far? • If you had it to do over again, what would
you do?
Implementation Options
• What is the action plan? • What are the possibilities?
• What will you have to do to get the job • If you had your choice, what would you do?
done? • What are possible solutions?
• What support do you need to accomplish • What’s another choice you could make
it? besides the two in front of you?
• What will you do? • What will happen if you do, and what will
• When will you do it? happen if you don’t?
Integration Substance
• What will you take away from this? • What seems to be the trouble?
• What was the lesson? • What seems to be the main obstacle?
• How can you make sure you remember • What is stopping you?
what you have learned? • What concerns you the most?
• How would you pull all this together? • What do you want?
10. Powerful Questions
Activity
An Emerging Leader is having
a problem with a student who
has just completed their work
duty however, the Emerging
Leader doesn’t believe it was
done to the best of the
student’s ability. The Emerging
Leader asks the student to re-
do the work detail, however
the student insists that he is
finished with work duty and is
ready to go and shower.
11. Powerful Question
In this exercise, the goal is to have a 6-min
conversation with another person in which
you are allowed to ask only powerful
questions: no making statements, no
summarizing, no offering advice or telling
stories of your own, no drawing conclusions.
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16. “In a sense we train them to become
their own coach which will be of
great benefit when they become
staff.”
- Kyle Brown (Prayer Mountain Boy’s)
17. References
Brown, K. Feb 8, 2013. Prayer Mountain Boy’s. email.
Flaherty, J. 1999. Coaching: Evoking Excellence in
Others. Butterworth-Heinemann. Woburn, MA.
Kimsey-House et al. 2011. Co-active Coaching (3rd Ed).
Nicholas Brealey Publishing. Boston, MA.
Editor's Notes
Our Core Value “Servanthood” can only be done in relationship. As coach you build a relationship with the Emerging Leader; to show them God’s love, to understand their default patterns and mind-set and their structures of interpretation.
Share example of a graduate/staff who lied to cover up when he made mistakes on the job. Something he did while he was a child and in foster homes so he could get food to eat and somewhere to sleep.
“Coaching is only beneficial if the emerging leader has come to a place of basing their standard for living on a standard that pleases God.” Kyle Brown.
Look at the SituationIdentify GapsView the FutureExecute PlansSow Seeds
These generally are open-ended questions (How? What? When?) that create greater possibility for expanded learning and fresh perspective. Kimsey-House et al. Co-active Coaching (3rd Ed).
In coaching, the ideal is to ask truly curious questions with a curious frame of mind. The curious coach doesn’t have all the answers. When you are curious, you are no longer in the role of expert, instead you are joining the emerging leader in a quest to find out what’s there. Curiosity invites the emerging leader to look for solutions. Kimsey-House et al. Co-active Coaching (3rded).
Take 15 mins for the group to practice Powerful Questioning from the case study. Go in pairs. Each pair take 3 mins to write questions, then 6 minutes each to ask questions of each other based on the case study.
The Emerging Leader Rep will ask of the ESL questions such as:What is the opportunity here?What is the challenge?What do you make of it?What do you think is best?What does your intuition tell you?How does it look to you?How do you feel about it?What are your options?
Pull out of the Emerging Leader the potential that is inside of them. As a coach, you help the Emerging Leader get clear on their strengths and lead from their strengths:What strengths/talents/gifts do you have that you can use in this situation?What is the outcome you want to see?What resources human or others can help you with this situation?In the bigger scheme of things, how important is this?Incorporate Discover Your God-given Gifts in this process. When we allow the student to "come up" with the idea, they will own it more and invest more of themselves in it.
Get them to think about what the goals are and what the obstacles are. Help them to realize vision, accountability, setting goals, growing through failures – taking responsibility for their leadership.Ask the Emerging Leader:How are you planning to resolve this?What personal investment will you make in this situation?What resources will you need to solve the problem?What action will you take? and after that?What will you do? When? How do you know when you have reached the desired outcome?
What is here that you want to explore?How does this fit with your plans, way of life, values?What is exciting to you about this?What support do you need to accomplish this?How can I help you with this?Where do we go from here? When will you do that?What are your next steps? By what date or time will you complete these steps?