1. Gunashrayamz
Parenting – Does
it require to
learn or?
A Deposit…
Newsletter Volume: 2 - Issue: January - February 2013
FOR INTERNAL CIRCULATION ONLY A shelter under the virtues with zeal.
Dear Reader
Namaskar – Greetings!!!
…when this newsletter was begun almost six months before, the idea was to reach more people,
connect more people. It was for my love to be a part of a bigger human family…to take the few
minutes for developing and nurturing the roots…many congratulations to you for making it so till
date and growing it every day and with every month…
…few people have added new contacts for sending it to them, their known and few have forwarded
it by theirselves to their colleagues and friends; few have suggested to send it through e-groups…
and everything worked…today this newsletter is reaching more than five thousand people…
Congratulations to you for making it so…
…every single reply in the form of acknowledgment, congratulation, wishes, gratitude, appreciation,
feedback and suggestion, an offer to participate in future, two un-subscriptions with reasons and
“One individual may die for an
sponsorship…all have grown my confidence in me and my purpose…Thank you very much…
idea; but that idea will, after
his death, incarnate itself in a
…the pronunciation of the name of the newsletter and meaning is still asked in every newsletter…
thousand lives. That is how the
few have suggested me to change even…its pronunciation is GU-NA-SHRA-YA-MZ, meaning a shelter
wheel of evolution moves on
under the virtues with zeal…
and the ideas and dreams of one
next’”
nation are bequeathed to the
…I am open to have a name carrying the same meaning and philosophy…seeking your opinion and
suggestion for the same here now…every single counts and matters…thank you…
Netaji Subash Chandra Bose
…the purpose of this newsletter is carrying and nurtures the roots…as an organization The
Mindfood Chef has five product categories…Parenting, Student Arena, Organizational Aid, Personal
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…family, the parenting is the first contact where land of philosophy and emotions being prepared
and seeded…
…educational institutes are the places for acquiring planned, purposeful and formal knowledge,
information and much more including a personal society and family…
…organization provides an opportunity to implement the gained knowledge, earning livelihood and
dreams; creating a working family…
…the onus to evolve and grow is the primarily of the person (self) only, it’s purely individual’s
responsibility …with every new opportunity new skills; new knowledge and expanded paradigms
are required…the self image and self talk are different…time ask more…
…Chef’s Special is an honest effort to gather my experience gained during this life, consolidate and
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The life of an uneducated man
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2. Gunashrayamz
Parenting – Does it require to learn or?
FOR INTERNAL CIRCULATION ONLY
Parenting is an art of living your own We spend good time of our 17-20 years of We are living
childhood again...testing your learning and our primary life in educational institutes in the age of
evolving with your own child. and then we join our respective working information;
fields and there also we learn first than do… the global
In parenting we focus and take the help of in every step we acquire some knowledge information.
four pillars in everything…they are by doing and some by learning…and the And we
people who do this religiously, they grow… learn what is
1. Be the Role Model important for
2 Respect their Individuality Then why not in ‘Parenting’ also? us…
3. Take them by their Age
4. Be with Them Always Our primary source of parenting is our Just ask
parents, their siblings, relatives and friends; yourself::
In the studies and discussions with different parents of our friends; our friends, sibling
parents and families we find that knowledge and relatives…and in cases we have the 1. Is it all similar in your own case? If not,
of parenting is at a very good level in most of results more than preparations… what have you prepared or changed?
the cases, but lacking is at ignoring the little What are your sources? Are they formal or
things that matters and they are observed The preparations, beliefs, education and time informal?
by the child. They do accept them also… of our parents, the support system to them, 2. Do you dare to experiment with the life of
the fight of pride through children;their any of your children?
The challenge is the paradigm of being purpose & expectations from us, are
parent…being authoritative…coming out all acquaintances to us if not strangers… The replies will take you ahead to take a
of the position of being a creator, a first we know very less about it…the number of pride decision. The decision of winning,
well wisher, a person of knowledge and children per couple is less now…the less time winning together...
experience…the paradigm of knowing to experiment and learn from mistakes…the
A Deposit…
everything…not willing to learn… effect of changing time factor. The Mindfood Chef
On the wedding day Monica’s mother gave .... and so on... and spend it first. You shouldn’t keep any
her a newly opened bank saving passbook However, after years, they occupied in record of such a poor marriage.’
with Rs.1000 deposit amount. routines of life and were looking to add few
hours in their day. They started fighting Monica thought it was true. So she went to
Mother: ‘Monica, take this passbook. Keep and arguing for the petty things. They have the bank, waiting at the queue and planning
it as a record of your marriage life. When lesser time for each other, even they didn’t to cancel the account.
there’s something happy and memorable talk much. They regretted that they had
happened in your new life, put some money married the nastiest people in the world…co While she was waiting, she took a look
in. Write down what it’s about next to the at the passbook record. She looked, and
line. The more memorable the event is, the looked, and looked. Then the memory of all
more money you can put in. I’ve done the the previous joy and happiness just came
first one for you today. Do the others with up her mind. Her eyes were then filled with
Manav. When you look back after years, you tears. She left and went home.
can know how much happiness you’ve had.’
When she was home, she handed the
Monica shared this with Manav when passbook to Manav, asked him to spend the
getting home. They both thought it was a money before getting divorce.
great idea and were anxious to know when
the second deposit can be made. The next day, Manav gave the passbook
space for love, liking was in total scarcity... back to Monica. She found a new deposit of
This was what they did after certain time: Rs.5000. And a line next to the record: ‘this
- Rs.100, Manav and Monica gone for their One day Monica talked to her Mother: is the day I notice how much you mean to
first trip ‘Mom, we can’t stand it anymore. We agree me and we have loved each other all these
- Rs.100, Manav celebrated Monica’s first to divorce. I can’t imagine how I decided to years. How much happiness you have
birthday at in-laws marry this guy!!!’ brought me.’
- Rs.300, salary raise for Manav
- Rs.2000, they got the first baby Mother: ‘Sure, girl, that’s no big deal. Just They hugged and cried, putting the passbook
- Rs.1000, Manav got promoted do whatever you want if you really can’t back to the safe.
- Rs.2500, Monica started office stand it. But before that, do one thing first.
- Rs.5000, they finalized their dream Remember the saving passbook I gave you Check your own deposits today…if don’t
home on your wedding day? Take out all money have an account open today…

3. Gunashrayamz
A Dream…Let’s Celebrate…
FOR INTERNAL CIRCULATION ONLY
Manav do you know we are attending the parade of Republic Day Duty of value addition to the inherited and to walk with the world
this year. And that too at New Delhi, our national capital. simultaneously is of a common man also. Values and ethic s are not
dependent on position or post; increasing crimes are just examples
I am very excited as Republic Day is a symbol of our sovereignty, of declining social and family values.
a matter of pride and self respect. It symbolizes freedom and
liberty, a manifestation of our own governance. This day armed And I must tell you that every man is a common man till that man
forces demonstrate their strength of protection through their arms, is not occupying any chair. The chair of responsibility and rights.
technology and team work; balancing it with the music of humanity, Many examples can be observed from the life of retired executive to
passion and enthusiasm. the legislation class in our routine life.
The thrilling moments of armed personnel are always well One more thing was told to me by my grandfather that the butter or
supported with the cultural programs and reflections of unity in the cream of the milk is a product of milk only. It qualifies the quality
diversity through presentations of different states, departments of milk. Firstly this is the duty of a common man to play as a role
and schools. model and elect the right person then the duty of the elected one to
observe the same. When you elect for your personal or communal
Your excitement is very vocal. I am amazed! needs, elected satisfies his/ her need first.
In the present days of non-responsive government and political Then why are you celebrating this day? What makes you so
leadership, agitations, desperation, insecurity, violent mob, excited?
victimized and bold women and helpless common man, ‘how
anybody could be so excited about ?’. Really Surprising! Only one thing – A dream. The dream that was been seen by many
eyes and had given their lives for the same; the dream that allowed
Surprise is genuine dear. You are correct. It is not about the somebody to find the best of polices from all civilized and developed
politician or government only but also about the people, so called societies and attempted to create a synergy with our own heritage.
common man. Our constitution has given every person a capacity We can take it a success today or a failure. But dreams never die or
to be treated special and treating every special person as a common fail. They are perpetual and take their place from one generation to
individual. But the challenge is to whom we call a special and to next generation.
whom a common man. Who is in minority and who is the majority
here? But cab you deny that this is nation is not ours? I celebrate as I am carrying that dream of the same liberal nation
that was seen by Ganghi ji, Tagore ji and Sardar Patel, the equality
I can’t, it’s ours only. of religion and human voiced by Swami Vivekanand, the strength of
Azad Hind Fauz (Army) of Netaji and many more….
But who says? How it could be our?
I am celebrating as the life of all above stated negatives is super
When you say our nation it means, ‘a right balance of rights perishable; it seems to like a drop in compare to the ocean of our
and responsibilities. Is it there? We are either invaders today civilization. They are still noble and humble in comparison to the
with absolute execution of rights or slaves with the unending brutality our mother land had seen in past.
responsibilities to survive only. This is not the birth that defines
who you are but your deeds.’ Don’t forget that the present is not only a harvest of yesterday but a
seed of tomorrow also. Let’s we all carry the seed of that dream and
do an act daily to shorten the distance between our present and of
that future.
Let’s Celebrate…
Jai Hind
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