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有这样一个故事:
一个在日本打工的中国留学生,同其他留学生一样,
在课余为日本餐馆洗盘子以赚取学费。日 本的餐饮
业有一个不成文的行规,即餐馆的盘子必须用水洗上
七遍。由于洗盘子的工作是按件计酬的,这位留学生
一天累下来,也得不了多少工钱。于是他计上心头,
以后洗盘子时便少洗一两遍。果然,劳动效率便大大
提高,他也因此受到老板的器重,工钱自然也迅速增
加。一起洗盘子赚学费的日本学生便向他请教技巧。
他 毫不避讳,说:“你看,洗了七遍的盘子和洗了五
遍的有什么区别吗?少洗两次嘛。”日本学生诺诺,
却与他渐渐疏远了。
日本人看人,有两个预先推定:一个,你是无罪
的;另一个,你是诚实的。所以,餐馆老板只
是偶尔抽查一下盘子清洗的情况。一次抽查中,
老板用专用的试纸测出盘子清洗程度不够并责
问我们这位留学生时,他振振有词:“洗五遍和
洗七遍不是一样保持了 盘子的清洁吗?”老板
只是淡淡地说:“你是一个不诚实的人,请你离
开。”这位留学生走到大街上,愤愤不平,举
起拳头对着日本餐馆高呼:“打倒日本帝国主义
!”
猜想一下,这位留学生以后的求职路会怎样?
口号归口号。为了生计,他又到该社区的另一家餐馆应
聘洗盘子。这位老板打量了他半天,才说:“你就是那位只
洗五遍盘子的中国留学生吧。对不起,我们不需要!”第二
家、第三家……他屡屡碰壁。不仅如此,他的房东不久也
要求他退房,原因是他的“名声”对其他住户(多是留学生
)的工作产生了不良影响。他就读的学校也专门找他谈话,
希望他能转到其他学校去,因为他影响了学校的生源……
万般无奈,他只好收拾行李搬到了另一座城市,一切重新
开始。他痛心疾首地告诫准备到日本留学的中国学生:“在
日本洗盘子,一定要洗七遍呀!”
从这位留学生的身上你有什么启示?
规 则
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建立规则的意义和价值是什么?
1.规则意识首先是指关于规则的知识,小到
班里挂着的行为规范管理规定,大到我们的
法律法规,我国“全面推进依法治国“的基
本方略,只有实现规则意识、法治精神“新
常态”,才会真正推动社会走向高度文明。
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2.规则意识是遵守规则的愿望,并使之成为人
的内在需要。“你一旦养成守规则的习惯,就
会成为你存放在个人道德神经中的一种资本,
他会不断在升值,你一生都会享受它的利息”。
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现实生活中有哪些违反规则的事情?
1.“任性”,这一网络热词,在多数情况下正
是人们对规则的漠视和不尊重的体现。
2. 缺乏法律尊严意识,“老虎”“苍蝇”纷纷
落马。
3.缺乏公共意识,食品、药品安全问题屡见报
端。
4.缺乏社会文明意识,“醉驾”“闯红灯”屡禁
不止。
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“武艺高强”
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“轻功盖世”
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“百万雄师过大江”
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“百步穿杨”
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违规购买不安全的校外食品
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怪异发型
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违规使用手机
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规矩是我们生存于世间的一种标准、法则。谁
破坏了它,谁将受到惩罚。走路,你不守规矩,
你的生命将受到威胁;比赛,你不守规矩,你的
修养将受到质疑;做生意,你不守规矩,你的诚
信将受到打击;做人你不守规矩,你的人格将受
到轻贱。同样,你漠视了大自然的法则,沙尘暴
会肆虐你的家园;你藐视了法律的尊严,铁窗囹
圄会伴你终生。
很多时候,不守规矩比暴力更可怕。暴力只
是破坏表面的东西,不守规矩却是破坏一种秩序,
把根基都动摇了。
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一个人如何学会建立规则?
懂纪律、守规则是人在生活、学习、工作中应
具有的最基本的素质。那么,规则意识从何而来?
规则意识是在生活、学习、成长中养成的。
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1.家庭教育:
俗话说,“国有国法,家有家规”, “不以规矩,不
成方圆”。家规是指一个家庭所规定的行为规范,一般是
由一个家族所遗传下来的教育规范后代子孙的准则。家庭
教育就是一种家风熏陶,只有家庭具有良好的家风,才能
给下一代提供良好的成长环境,促使子女成为合格的社会
公民只有家庭中的每个成员的道德素养提高了,整个社会
的道德素养才会得到提高,社会才能和谐。
现代家庭教育的现状告诉我们,很多家庭就是因为无家
规而致使家庭教育的失败。
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请问,你家有家规吗?是什么?
在家庭生活中,我们学会尊老爱幼、有老有少、有大有小,懂得好坏对错,懂得遵守家庭的伦理道德。
第18页/共26页
美国总统奥巴马给自己两个不到10岁的女儿设
立了8条家规:
1.不能有无理的抱怨、争吵或者惹人讨厌的取笑;
2.一定要铺床,不能只是看上去整洁而已;
3.自己的事情自己做,比如自己冲麦片或倒牛奶,
自己叠被子,自己设置闹钟,自己起床并穿衣服;
4.保持玩具房的干净;
5.帮父母分担家务,每周1美元;
6.每逢生日或是圣诞节,没有豪华的礼物和华丽的
聚会;
7.每晚8点30分准时熄灯;
8.不准追星。
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他希望通过这些家规,把女儿培养成能自立、
有教养、负责任、讲道理、爱劳动、不慕虚荣、
起居有节的人。而这样的人在哪里都是受欢迎
的人,也是离成功最近的人,做员工会是一个
敢负责、能吃苦、值得信任的优秀员工,做老
板则是一个遵纪守法、精明强干又通情达理的
出色老板。
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家风、家训、家规对一代又一代人的影响是非
常深远而久远的。据说,美国康乃狄克州有个
叫嘉纳塞·爱得华的人,由于他所建立的讲究
道德注重修养的家风,使得他的家族在长达两
百年的时间里,八代人中没有一个被关、被捕、
被判刑的。而同一时期,在纽约州的马克
思·朱安家族,由于家风败坏,一百年时间里
的八代人中,竟有300多人成了乞丐,400多人
酗酒灭亡,63人被判徒刑,7人被判死刑。可见
家风和家规具有一定的承传性,它有时甚至要
影响几代人。所以,要想进行家庭教育,不可
不建立起一个良好的家风、家训、家规。
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2.规则从学习中来
我们要了解相关的制度规定、法律法规,懂
得遵规守纪是一个人良好修养和品质的体现,学
会自我约束、自觉遵守,做到知行结合。
知是行之始。我们讲规矩,首先要“知”规矩。
“知”不能停留在“知道”这个层次上,而是要
把法律法规、规章制度和公序良俗等规矩当作一
种自觉、一份责任、一个重任。只有这样,才能
对各种规矩心存敬畏,切实把规矩内化于心,使
自己成为真正“知规矩”的人。
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行是知之成。“纸上得来终觉浅,绝知此事
要躬行”,身为济外的一员,我们要使学校规定
“外化于行,内化于心”,在社会生活中,要坚
守道德“底线”,守卫道德标准。莫触行为“红
线”,远离危险区域,在道德与规则的分水岭上
做出正确的选择。
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3.规则在与人交往中建立
在日常的交往中你逐渐感悟到尊重、理解、宽
容、善良是为人处事的原则,遵守它你就会赢
得尊重和支持,你就会拥有一个好人缘。
好人缘是你人生中最重要的资本,好人缘会
让你有良好的人脉关系,让你拥有更多的成功
机会。
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只有每个人承担起自己的责任,树立起自己的
规则意识,我们才能构建一个更有秩序的济外,
一个更和谐美好的国家。谨记,你站立的地方,
就是你的中国;你光明,中国就不黑暗!
同学们,让我们共同努力,做一名有法治意
识、公共意识、集体意识的高中生,做一个合格
的济外人。让规则陪伴我们走过绚丽灿烂的青春,
让规则的阳光永远照耀我们的人生道路!
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谢谢您的观看!
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