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HOW STRESS EFFECTS
AND STROKES
GROUP-4
2123011106-MD. Fahim Khan
2123011110-Taiseer Ahmed
2123011112-Faiza Afrin Haque
2123011114-Farzin Ahmed
2123011116-Shahnima Shafiq Simin
2123011118-Paarsa Islam
2123011120-Tanzima Tahrim
2123011122-Mohammad Salman Hossain
2123011124-Chawdhury Ahmed Juhayer
2123011132-Umme Farzana Rupa
2123011134-Golam Morshed Swachchha
STRESS
HOW
STRESS
EFFECTS
EFFECTS OF STRESS
DIMINISHED SELF-ESTEEM
DECREASE EFFORT
AND ACADEMIC
EFFICIENCY
MENTAL DISORDER
PHYSICAL AND
MENTAL WELL-BEING
SELF DOUBT
HAMPERING DAILY LIFE
ACTIVITIES
SELF-BLAME
IMPAIRED RELATIONSHIPS
PHYSICAL WELL-BEING
โ€ข Low Energy
โ€ข Insomnia
โ€ข Headaches
โ€ข Frequent colds
โ€ข Nervousness
โ€ข Fatigue
โ€ข Chest pain and rapid heartbeat
MENTAL
WELLBEING
MENTAL WELL-BEING
Mental Wellbeing is a state of wellbeing, in
which the individual
๏‚ท realizes their abilities,
๏‚ท recognize their potentials,
๏‚ท can cope with the normal stresses of life,
๏‚ท can work productively and fruitfully
๏‚ท can contribute to their community
itโ€™s important to understand what mental
wellbeing is not. It is NOT-
๏‚ท The absence of mental illness
๏‚ท The lack of problems, challenges, and
adversity
CHARACTERISTICS OF MENTAL HEALTH
๏‚ท They feel good about themselves.
๏‚ท They do not become overwhelmed by
emotions, such as fear, anger, love,
jealousy, guilt, or anxiety.
๏‚ท They have lasting and satisfying personal
relationships.
๏‚ท They feel comfortable with other people.
๏‚ท They can laugh at themselves and with
others
๏‚ท They have respect for themselves and for
others, even if there are differences.
๏‚ท They are able to accept lifeโ€™s
disappointments.
๏‚ท They can meet lifeโ€™s demands and handle
their problems when they arise.
๏‚ท They make their own decisions.
๏‚ท They shape their environment whenever
possible and adjust to it when necessary.
EXAMPLE-01
EXAMPLE-02
EXAMPLE-03
The University of California
answering a question
regarding stress affecting
daily life activites.
HAMPERING DAILY LIFE ACTIVITIES
MORE OUTWARD ANGER
ABUSE OF
TOBACCO,DRUGS OR
ALCOHOL
OVEREATING OR
UNDEREATING, MORE
ARGUMENTS
TIREDNESS,INSOMNIA
& HEADACHES
CHEST PAIN &
LOWER LIBIDO
APPETITE CHANGES
FEWER SOCIAL
INTERACTIONS AND
LESS EXERCISE
MUSCLE ACHES
BODILY STRESS SYMPTOMS BEHAVIOUR STRESS SYMPTOMS
DIMINISHED
SELF-ESTEEM
DIMINISHED SELF-ESTEEM
โ€ขSelf-esteem helps people manage
stressful events
โ€ขStressful events affect self-esteem
and the way people cope with stress.
โ€ขStress can cause a decline in self-
esteem in older adulthood.
โ€ขEarly life stress in children reduces
the childโ€™s self-esteem
โ€ขAll these result in people having low
self esteem and depression
DECREASE IN
PERFORMANCE
DECREASE IN EFFORT
Loss of productivity
Burnout More conflict
DECREASE IN ACADEMIC EFFICIENCY
โ€ข Poor management skills
โ€ข Concentration difficulties
โ€ข Memory problems
โ€ข Constant worry
โ€ข Self-defeating thoughts
โ€ข Irritability and short temper
โ€ข Social Withdrawal
MENTAL DISORDER
IMPAIRED
RELATIONSHIP
IMPAIRED RELATIONSHIPS
โ€ข Bottling up of emotions
โ€ข Failure to understand others
โ€ข Being irascible
SELF-BLAME
1. Self-blame is a common reaction to
stressful events.
2. Self-blame is a component of self-directed
emotions like guilt and self-disgust.
3. The ultimate emotional abuse.
One starts thinking he/ she is ominous and
problematic
WHY PEOPLE SELF BLAME?
1. Manipulation or Gas lighting from
Partners.
2. Victim Blaming.
3. Toxic Self-Criticism.
4. Poor Self-Care.
Chronic Feelings of Anxiety, Guilt, and
Shame
SELF-DOUBT
SYMPTOMS
๏‚ท Lack of confidence
๏‚ท Apologizing all the time
๏‚ท Negative social comparison
๏‚ท Inability to stick to a choice
๏‚ท Negative self-talk
๏‚ท Fear of failure
๏‚ท Self-handicapping
EFFECT
๏‚ท Anxiety
๏‚ท Depression
๏‚ท Procrastination or lack of motivation
๏‚ท Emotional instability
๏‚ท Low self-esteem
๏‚ท Difficulty making decisions
STROKES
TYPES OF STROKE
NON-VERBAL
The recognition/ Strokes
that someone gives by their
body language
VERBAL
The recognition/
Strokes that someone
gives verbally
INTERNAL
The recognition/ strokes that
someone gives to themselves
self-praise & other ways of self-
stimulation
EXTERNAL
The recognition/ strokes that we
receive from others
Positive Strokes
A stroke that makes you feel good is a positive stroke.
Positive strokes are also called warm fuzzies.
For strokes to be registered as fuzzies , they must be
sincere.
A Hug
1.Helps to lower blood pressure
2.Reduces the risk of heart
disease
3.Boosts self esteem
4.Creates connection
5.Feels good
A Compliment
1.Helps to communicate
2.Makes you feel wanted
3.Helps to reduce
insecurities
4.Makes less uncomfortable
Giving Flowers
1.Feels wanted
2.Boosts Morale
3.Increases happiness
4.Excites people
A Pat
1.Feels Comfortable
2.Safe
3.Reduces tension
Negative Strokes
A stroke that makes you feel bad is a negative stroke.
Negative strokes are also called Cold Pricklies.
A negative stroke is one experienced as painful.
A Frown
1.Displeasure
2.Sadness
3.Worry
Left Ignored
1.Get stressed
2.Socially painful
3.Unwanted feeling
A Slap/A Punch
1.Physically and
mentally hurt
2.Devastated
3. Shameful
4.Anger
Conditional Strokes
A conditional stroke is received for
something you did. Rather than for who
you are.
There are two types of conditional
strokes.
Unconditional Strokes
An unconditional stroke is received without particularly doing
anything.
Unconditional stroke is more about who you are.
There are two types of unconditional strokes.
Positive Conditional
Strokes
โ€ข You look pretty in this saree
โ€ข Youโ€™ve done a great job โ€œWell done on taking
the exam!โ€
โ€ข I like you because you do my homework
Negative Conditional
Strokes
โ€ข I don't like your cooking
โ€ข Your attention seeking attitude is so
annoying
โ€ข I donโ€™t like how you did this report
โ€ข You made a mess of that report, you
are incompetent!
Positive Unconditional
Stroke
โ€ข I love you
โ€ข You are so lovely to be around
โ€ข You are so great
โ€ข You matter
Negative Unconditional
Strokes
โ€ข I hate you
โ€ข You are an idiot
โ€ข Your aura makes me feel
angry
โ€ข I wish I had never had you!
Get lost!
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The effects of Stress

  • 1. HOW STRESS EFFECTS AND STROKES GROUP-4 2123011106-MD. Fahim Khan 2123011110-Taiseer Ahmed 2123011112-Faiza Afrin Haque 2123011114-Farzin Ahmed 2123011116-Shahnima Shafiq Simin 2123011118-Paarsa Islam 2123011120-Tanzima Tahrim 2123011122-Mohammad Salman Hossain 2123011124-Chawdhury Ahmed Juhayer 2123011132-Umme Farzana Rupa 2123011134-Golam Morshed Swachchha
  • 4. EFFECTS OF STRESS DIMINISHED SELF-ESTEEM DECREASE EFFORT AND ACADEMIC EFFICIENCY MENTAL DISORDER PHYSICAL AND MENTAL WELL-BEING SELF DOUBT HAMPERING DAILY LIFE ACTIVITIES SELF-BLAME IMPAIRED RELATIONSHIPS
  • 5. PHYSICAL WELL-BEING โ€ข Low Energy โ€ข Insomnia โ€ข Headaches โ€ข Frequent colds โ€ข Nervousness โ€ข Fatigue โ€ข Chest pain and rapid heartbeat
  • 7. MENTAL WELL-BEING Mental Wellbeing is a state of wellbeing, in which the individual ๏‚ท realizes their abilities, ๏‚ท recognize their potentials, ๏‚ท can cope with the normal stresses of life, ๏‚ท can work productively and fruitfully ๏‚ท can contribute to their community
  • 8. itโ€™s important to understand what mental wellbeing is not. It is NOT- ๏‚ท The absence of mental illness ๏‚ท The lack of problems, challenges, and adversity
  • 9. CHARACTERISTICS OF MENTAL HEALTH ๏‚ท They feel good about themselves. ๏‚ท They do not become overwhelmed by emotions, such as fear, anger, love, jealousy, guilt, or anxiety. ๏‚ท They have lasting and satisfying personal relationships. ๏‚ท They feel comfortable with other people. ๏‚ท They can laugh at themselves and with others ๏‚ท They have respect for themselves and for others, even if there are differences. ๏‚ท They are able to accept lifeโ€™s disappointments. ๏‚ท They can meet lifeโ€™s demands and handle their problems when they arise. ๏‚ท They make their own decisions. ๏‚ท They shape their environment whenever possible and adjust to it when necessary.
  • 13.
  • 14. The University of California answering a question regarding stress affecting daily life activites.
  • 15. HAMPERING DAILY LIFE ACTIVITIES MORE OUTWARD ANGER ABUSE OF TOBACCO,DRUGS OR ALCOHOL OVEREATING OR UNDEREATING, MORE ARGUMENTS TIREDNESS,INSOMNIA & HEADACHES CHEST PAIN & LOWER LIBIDO APPETITE CHANGES FEWER SOCIAL INTERACTIONS AND LESS EXERCISE MUSCLE ACHES BODILY STRESS SYMPTOMS BEHAVIOUR STRESS SYMPTOMS
  • 17. DIMINISHED SELF-ESTEEM โ€ขSelf-esteem helps people manage stressful events โ€ขStressful events affect self-esteem and the way people cope with stress. โ€ขStress can cause a decline in self- esteem in older adulthood. โ€ขEarly life stress in children reduces the childโ€™s self-esteem โ€ขAll these result in people having low self esteem and depression
  • 19. DECREASE IN EFFORT Loss of productivity Burnout More conflict
  • 20. DECREASE IN ACADEMIC EFFICIENCY โ€ข Poor management skills โ€ข Concentration difficulties โ€ข Memory problems โ€ข Constant worry โ€ข Self-defeating thoughts โ€ข Irritability and short temper โ€ข Social Withdrawal
  • 22.
  • 23.
  • 25. IMPAIRED RELATIONSHIPS โ€ข Bottling up of emotions โ€ข Failure to understand others โ€ข Being irascible
  • 26. SELF-BLAME 1. Self-blame is a common reaction to stressful events. 2. Self-blame is a component of self-directed emotions like guilt and self-disgust. 3. The ultimate emotional abuse. One starts thinking he/ she is ominous and problematic
  • 27. WHY PEOPLE SELF BLAME? 1. Manipulation or Gas lighting from Partners. 2. Victim Blaming. 3. Toxic Self-Criticism. 4. Poor Self-Care. Chronic Feelings of Anxiety, Guilt, and Shame
  • 29. SYMPTOMS ๏‚ท Lack of confidence ๏‚ท Apologizing all the time ๏‚ท Negative social comparison ๏‚ท Inability to stick to a choice ๏‚ท Negative self-talk ๏‚ท Fear of failure ๏‚ท Self-handicapping
  • 30. EFFECT ๏‚ท Anxiety ๏‚ท Depression ๏‚ท Procrastination or lack of motivation ๏‚ท Emotional instability ๏‚ท Low self-esteem ๏‚ท Difficulty making decisions
  • 33. NON-VERBAL The recognition/ Strokes that someone gives by their body language VERBAL The recognition/ Strokes that someone gives verbally
  • 34. INTERNAL The recognition/ strokes that someone gives to themselves self-praise & other ways of self- stimulation EXTERNAL The recognition/ strokes that we receive from others
  • 35. Positive Strokes A stroke that makes you feel good is a positive stroke. Positive strokes are also called warm fuzzies. For strokes to be registered as fuzzies , they must be sincere.
  • 36. A Hug 1.Helps to lower blood pressure 2.Reduces the risk of heart disease 3.Boosts self esteem 4.Creates connection 5.Feels good
  • 37. A Compliment 1.Helps to communicate 2.Makes you feel wanted 3.Helps to reduce insecurities 4.Makes less uncomfortable
  • 38. Giving Flowers 1.Feels wanted 2.Boosts Morale 3.Increases happiness 4.Excites people
  • 40. Negative Strokes A stroke that makes you feel bad is a negative stroke. Negative strokes are also called Cold Pricklies. A negative stroke is one experienced as painful.
  • 42. Left Ignored 1.Get stressed 2.Socially painful 3.Unwanted feeling
  • 43. A Slap/A Punch 1.Physically and mentally hurt 2.Devastated 3. Shameful 4.Anger
  • 44. Conditional Strokes A conditional stroke is received for something you did. Rather than for who you are. There are two types of conditional strokes.
  • 45. Unconditional Strokes An unconditional stroke is received without particularly doing anything. Unconditional stroke is more about who you are. There are two types of unconditional strokes.
  • 46. Positive Conditional Strokes โ€ข You look pretty in this saree โ€ข Youโ€™ve done a great job โ€œWell done on taking the exam!โ€ โ€ข I like you because you do my homework
  • 47. Negative Conditional Strokes โ€ข I don't like your cooking โ€ข Your attention seeking attitude is so annoying โ€ข I donโ€™t like how you did this report โ€ข You made a mess of that report, you are incompetent!
  • 48. Positive Unconditional Stroke โ€ข I love you โ€ข You are so lovely to be around โ€ข You are so great โ€ข You matter
  • 49. Negative Unconditional Strokes โ€ข I hate you โ€ข You are an idiot โ€ข Your aura makes me feel angry โ€ข I wish I had never had you! Get lost!