7. LOSS OF AN EXTERNAL OBJECT
LOSS OF FAMILIAR ENVIRONMENT
LOSS OF ASPECT OF SELF
LOSS OF SIGNIFICANT OTHERS
LOSS AS CRISIS
8. Death is present if an individual has sustained (1)
irreversible cessation of circulatory & respiratory
functions (2) irreversible cessation of all functions of
entire brain including the brain stem.
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10. Physical manifestations when approaching
death
Sensory system
Hearing
Touch
vision
Smell
Cardiovascular system
Respiratory system
usually the last sense to disappear
Decreased sensation.
Decreased perception of pain & touch.
blurring of vision
Sinking & glazing of eyes
Blink reflex absent
decreased
increased HR, pulse, compromises peripheral circulation, cyanosis
Irregular rhythm
Decreased BP. Decreased cardiac output
increased RR, cheyne – stroke respiration
Inability to cough or clear secretions resulting in grunting, gurgling or
noisy congested breathing.
Irregular breathing gradually going down to terminal gasps.
11. CNS
Urinary system
GI system
Musculoskeletal system
Integumentary system
With hypoxia, brain is less sensitive to accumulating levels of
CO2 thus client may experience periods of apnea. Pain
perception is decreased. Sensory function impaired.
gradual decrease in urine output
Incontinence of urine.
slowing or cessation of GI function
Accumulation of gas.
Distention & nausea
Loss of sphincter control
Bowel movement before imminent death or at time of death.
gradual loss of a ability to move
Difficulty in speaking & swallowing
Loss of gag reflex. loss of sphincture control
Mottling hands, feet arms & legs cold & Clammy skin.
Loss of skin turgor
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17. “I just want to see my grandchild’s birth, then I will be ready….”
18. “I just don’t know how my kids are going to get along after I’m gone.”
28. Symptoms of complicated grief include:
Intense longing and yearning for the deceased
Intrusive thoughts or images of your loved one
Denial of the death or sense of disbelief
Imagining that your loved one is alive
Searching for you deceased loved one in familiar places
Avoiding things that remind you of your loved one
Extreme anger or bitterness over the loss
Feeling that life is empty or meaningless
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30. HUMAN DEVELOPMENT
PSYCHOLOGICAL PERSPECTIVE OF LOSS AND GRIEF
SOCIO- ECONOMIC STATUS
PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP
NATURE OF LOSS
CULTURE AND ETHININCITY
SPIRITUAL BELIEFS
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32. Coping is the cognitive and behavioural
efforts to manage specific external and or
internal demands that are appraised as
taxing or exceeding the resources of the
person.
-Folk man and Lazarus
39. SPIRITUAL BELIEF
SUPPORT FROM OTHERS
MATERIAL ASSET
KNOWLEDGE AND INTELLIGENCE
40. Often, a counsellor's job in grief therapy is just to
stop the client getting stuck.
41. Help your clients escape the prison of self-
limiting beliefs and negative self-attributions
with Conversational Reframing
42. Accepting the loss and talking about it.
Identifying and expressing feelings related to the
loss (anger, guilty, anxiety, helpless& sadness)
Living without the deceased and making decisions
alone.
Separating emotionally and forming new
relationships.
The provision of support.
43. 3 TECHNIQUES FOR GOOD GRIEF COUNSELLING
1. Let them talk about the deceased
2. Distinguish grief from depression
3. Deal with guilt and help them organize
the grief