1. This article is dedicated to all Working
women, Girls, & especially to boys & Men
who think that a Girl child is curse & useless
to society…!!
We all are living in a modernizing &
developingINDIA,buthowtrue itis…?
Yes the question is that how modern is our
country..? The development Is not only
needed in technological field, development is
necessaryineachand everysectorof our life.
When a child takes birth, it comes out crying.
That child does not know what is male &
female, how? and why? It is being
differentiated. Society differentiates them &
makes feel that, they are male & female.
Yes! It’s pretty importantto differentiate.
Now just think that, when the Infants have a
first look at this world, it seems something
new & surprisingtothem.
But as soonas theygrow,theystart to learn
thingsintheirownstyle.Asthere isa saying
that, “Parentsare the first
teachersof the children.” Parents
playa vital role inchildren’slife.
My question is that why do they educate
them about sacrifice, suppression & marriage
at that tender age. And why do they let a boy
to think freely & motivate him by saying good
words etc. This is the step where actually the
society & parents fail, by educating wrong
thingsto a girl childat wrongtime.
Now it’s our turn guys. We are
the students, who are born to
change the future of world.
I too accept that, the blind beliefs, ancestral
views etc. Cannot be changed immediately,
but we have to change our selves by changing
our mindsets, that “he” is superior to “she”,
well it’s just a matter of word ‘S’. If you
remove‘s’“she”isnothingbuta “he”.
Now I come to the main part.
Were u can understandthatwhy
it’snecessaryto say No to certain
things.
When girl reaches the teenage, she sow the
seed of all that words said by her parents &
society. Then she starts to nourish those
thoughts, along the age & the thoughts of
roots start to make a strong foundation in
her. Then she gets married and enters the
same life cycle which was followed by her
parents. This process continues to the rest of
herlife.
But in-between somewhere she will be having
her own world of imagination’s & dreams,
which she had suppressed & scarified it for
her family. And this she won’t let to know
anybody.
If something goes tragedy in her life, the
society discourages & de-motivates her, by
their nasty words and blames the whole cause
on hersoul.
Instead of losing the hope, she faces the
situation boldly & tries to full fill daily needs
of her family. Hence the “WOMAN” is called
as a “Role model of Sacrifice”.
As the bird builds nest & bring food to full fill
its family needs, the girl is same as that of
bird. She stands by her family in tough
situations & tries to sort-out problems. She
protects her family & helps in each and every
minute thing, & finally She Works to feed
them& livesforthem.
My dearreaders, it’s the perfect Time
to say NO to the things (1) which restricts the
woman’s pride & woman’s thinking ability. It’s
Time to say No for the (2) male dominated
society which says the girl child is a dead
weight on them. (3) And the people who just
want to get rid of girl child. It’s time to say NO
to (4) Dowry. And lastly my dear ladies It’s
Time to say No to the marriage Which is
againstyour will &wish.
Written by:-
Nandeesh (NJSM)