If a father wants to be loved by his kids, he needs to love them first.As a father helps the kids in their studies, take part in parent teacher communications, all that will show the kid the father's love for the child and the genuine interest in the child's studies Father has to share responsibility
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How a child gets love and education from the father
1. How a child gets love and education from the father?
My father struggled with us.
Let me introduce myself first and talk about how I got both from my father,as this an example. I grew
up with my single dad, as I lost my mother forty-eight days after I was born. I grew up with my father,
so my mom's eldest sister took the responsibility of looking after me at that time. My dad was a very
honorable man who devoted the rest of his life to bring us up. My mother’s sister, my aunt was
looking after me till I was five years old. Then my father seemed to have decided that he should get
me back from my aunt to keep me with him. After that my grandmother, that was my dad’s mom
came to live with us to help my father with his children.
Parental Mistake in Kids Education.
My father was very keen on educating his daughters than anything else, and he sent us to the best
schools in our area. But unfortunately, his expectations were too high when compared to the facilities
that his children had. Therefore,that was not advisable to expect like that; because he didn't have
anybody to advise him. As a result, it affected us because we couldn’t fulfill his expectations. He
always thought that I was the cleverest in the family and decided to send me to the city to study. That
decision changed my sisters very sorry especially my eldest sister. As a result that created a big
division between them and myself and I was left alone. A father wants the best education for his
children. Then it depends on the extent of the help that he can give the kids as a single parent.
Both parents struggle together
The mother and the father of a child have to take extra interest to educate the children. Sometimes the
mother leaves that responsibility to the dad as she is busy with looking after the home and other
duties. The good father makes sure that his kids get the best education starts with selecting the best
schools for his kids. And then getting involved in the daily progress of the child at school. Every one
of us loves the education, that becomes more important in some families if the father is highly
educated. An educated father goes out of the way to make sure that his kids go up to a higher level.
He feels that his kids success like his success and also have high expectations all the time. When the
children grow as educated and successfulindividuals, they look back at their dad as their god.
Howa father motivates his child’s love for studies?
The father comes home from work and joins the kids during their homework to assist them to do it
properly. That helps the father to become aware of the things happening in school about their studies.
It is essential for parents to become fully informed about the feelings of the child about the
educational issues at school. That will help any parent to take that up with the teacher when they
attend the parents and teacher’s meetings. Thereby the father will learn the weaknesses of the child
and then helps to overcome those issues. Offering the help to the children on a consistent basis will
make children feel about the father’s love for them. That raises confidence in the children to do better
at school as the children don’t want to disappoint their father. It increases the bond between the two.
Howcan a single father help the kids?
My dad was a school teacher who devoted all his life to bring us up. I was the youngest, and my
sisters were toddlers when my mother died. It is a common knowledge a single parent has too many
responsibilities. My father was a teacher,so he helped us as he knew the curriculum and the methods
of teaching A single parent could motivate the child by having talks with the child about the value of
education. An affordable single father arranges private tuitions for the child to give the proper help in
the weaker subjects. A single father can help during weekends that make the child understand the
father’s keenness in the child’s education. It is unfortunate that you are a single father the help can
come in many forms. Your children will understand your genuine keenness in their studies.