This document summarizes a divorce navigator workshop that discusses options for managing the costs of divorce. It outlines representation options like do-it-yourself divorce, online divorce forms, traditional attorneys, and limited scope or flat fee attorneys. It also discusses factors that influence divorce costs like property, children, debts and how to control costs through organization, discipline in communications, and knowing your objectives. Average divorce costs nationally are estimated at $20,000 but costs can be as low as $500 for simple DIY divorces.
Modern Law Divorce Workshop #2: The Cost of Divorce and How To Save Money
1. THE DIVORCE NAVIGATOR WORKSHOP
T H E M O D E R N L A W O N L I N E W O R K S H O P F O R M A N A G I N G A N D S U R V I V I N G Y O U R D I V O R C E
2. NEXTSESSION
SESSION 2: Divorce Fees
How Much Does It Cost To Get Divorced
• How To Save Money
• Do It Yourself Divorce
• Online Divorce
• Flat Fee Divorce
• Limited Scope Divorce
WHAT WE’LL COVER
3. UPCOMINGSESSIONS
3. So What Is Disclosure and Discovery?
4. Phase 2 Prehearing Conference
5. Surviving Divorce Negotiations
6. Trial Preparation and Presentation
7. Divorce in Arizona
8. Child Custody
9. Child Support
10. Spousal Maintenance (Alimony)
11. Property Concerns
UPCOMING SESSIONS
4. AVERAGECOSTS
HOW MUCH DOES IT COST TO DIVORCE?
DIVORCE COSTS
$20,000
average
per person
As low as
$500 for
Simple DIY
5. AVERAGECOSTS
HOW MUCH DOES IT COST TO DIVORCE?
KEEPING COSTS DOWN
LOWEST
COST
MEDIUM
COST
DIY Simple
divorce
with no
children
and no
property
Use a
paralegal
or
document
preparer
8. CANYOUWORKTHESEOUT?
COMMON ISSUES
PROPERTY
• Family
businesses
• Inheritances
• Retirement
accounts
• Student
loans
• Mortgages
ISSUES
• Domestic
violence
• Addiction
• Mental
health
• Religious
differences
• School
differences
• Medical
differences
• Income
PREFERENCES
• Work
schedules
• Parenting
time
• Locations
• Children’s
school
• Legal
decision-
making
10. Determining the cost and how to pay for it
can broken down into two categories:
1. What are your representation options?
2. What are your funding options?
ASSESSINGYOUROPTIONS
OTHER FACTORS THAT MAY BE IMPORTANT!
12. SHOULDYOUDIY?
DO IT YOURSELF DIVORCE
Do It Yourself Is POSSIBLE
80 to 90% of divorcing people do it themselves.
Sometimes this works fine.
Other times…it can be DISASTROUS
13. CANYOUDIY?
CAN YOU HANDLE IT?
CAN YOU DIY?
Yes, IF…
• I’m always on time, and I can
meet deadlines
• I have time to make this
happen
• I do my own income taxes, so
forms don’t scare me
• I can keep my cool under
pressure
Rules are
for Other
People
I Fly Off
The
Handle
I Can’t Talk
To My Ex
I Don’t
Like Public
Speaking
15. THETRADITIOALOPTION
TRADITIONAL
If your divorce is complicated, involves property, a business, or
difficult circumstances with custody issues, you may get the
best outcome with an experienced attorney.
18. FLATFEEATTORNEYS
FLAT FEE ATTORNEYS
Flat Fee Divorce
• Pay one bill and
you’re done
• Attorney is obliged
to get the job done
efficiently
• Never worry about
surprise legal costs
21. GET A COPY OF DECODE YOUR DIVORCE
T H E M O D E R N L A W O N L I N E W O R K S H O P F O R M A N A G I N G Y O U R D I V O R C E
WE WELCOME YOUR QUESTIONS!
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Editor's Notes
From the Prepare For Your Divorce graphic on page 14 of Decode Your Divorce
Regardless of which representation option you choose, there are always things you can do
to save money in your divorce. Proper planning and preparation will help you avoid
spending too much during the process.
First, think about the issues that must be resolved in your case:
custody issues,
property issues
Debts
Alimony
Consider the range of outcomes you can live with for each issue below and think about
your best case, worst case, and the happy medium you can live with.
Property and debt division
• Family businesses
• Student loans
• Mortgages
• Credit card debt
• Separate or premarital assets or debts
• Inheritances
• Insurance settlements
• Property
• Legal decision making
• Domestic violence
• Addiction issues
• Mental health issues
• Differences in religion
• Differences in schooling preferences
• Differences in medical treatment opinions
• Parenting time
• Consider work schedules
• Consider how far apart you live
• Consider where the children go to school
• How old are the children?
As a client, I appreciate being told what is being done on my case and how much I should
expect my overall bill should cost. I want to know how my attorney is spending my hardearned
money and what they are doing on my project/case. You have a right to expect the
same courtesy from your attorney.
Limited Scope gives you the ability to rely on attorney for things “above your pay grade” while allowing you to save money by doing some of your own administrative and court paperwork.
Borrowing can include family, friends, or a third party divorce funding companies like bblchurchill.com or balancepointfunding.com or Nationwide Divorce Funding.
Get organized. Deliver to your attorney a complete set of the documents they have
requested in an organized and easy-to-understand format. If you need assistance with
this, hire someone to help you do your homework! It will be much less expensive than
paying an attorney to organize your documents.
Be disciplined in your communications. Resist the urge to email or call your attorney
every time your ex does something that you don’t like. Instead, keep a journal of
your thoughts and questions and put together a thorough email once a week of
everything that you consider important. Alternatively, schedule a meeting to go over your
questions with your attorney.
Remember your objectives. Resist the urge to get caught up in the details and drama
of your case. Continue to refer to your goals and objectives and remember what you
determined you “could live with.” People rarely get everything they are asking for in a
divorce and it makes sense to continually do a cost-benefit analysis of each and every
step your attorney proposed.
By staying purposeful, you can help control your divorce costs and outcome. If you don’t
feel you can trust your attorney, or if you are uncomfortable in your current situation,
consider making a change.
Tell people how they can get a copy of the book which goes into more detail