5. Definitions & Motto
EBM
Inter-sentimental relationship
DBM
Inter-status Relationship
Love is blind, marriage is the
eye-opener
If your father is poor, that’s
your destiny; but if your
father-in-law is poor, that’s
your stupidity
SBM
Inter-disciplinary relationship
CBM
Inter-state relationship
Work hard to make the
marriage a success; relax in
the office
Love thy neighbor, especially if
he or she differs in cadre &
sex
6. Propositions & Dispositions
• EBM
– He proposes, she disposes
• DBM
– his father-in-law proposes, her father-in-law
disposes
• CBM
– LBSNAA proposes, DoPT disposes
7. History
First Emotion Based Marriage
• Love evolved during
trek
• 80% of the girls tried
to catch him
• But he opted only for
8 of them
• Ended up with
1,80,000 wives, and
an equal number of
mothers-in-law
Radha Krishna
8. • He ran a divine PDS for the
world without government
subsidy
• The huge overhead cost of
this project made him
bankrupt
• He then married a rich girl,
whose father was a
merchant navy man
History
First Dowry Based Marriage
Laxmi Narayan
9. • He married when he was still
unemployed and trying to get
a job
• At first attempt he failed to get
administrtion and He then
joined the Forest Service
• Took his wife to his place of
posting
• As soon as he got an
administrative position, he
abandoned her
History
First Service Based Marriage
Sita Ram
10. History
First Cadre Based Marriage
• He married Parvati and
got into Himalayan
cadre, (Uttarakhand or
Himachal Pradesh)
• Her father was an ex
ruler of this region
• His first wife committed
suicide at her father’s
home under suspicious
circumstances
Shiva Parvati
11. CBMCBM
Intake of civil servants
year
s
Numberofcan
1970
1980
1990
2000
2010
Note:-Though the gender ratio among AIS is increasing
rapidly, CBMs are going down. On such rate we apprehend that
the CBM will be extinct by 2020
Need of Research
Decreasing proportion of CBMs
12. Life of a Probationer at LBSNAA
Many probationers disappear in the above triangle.
Unless a probationer escapes out of this, he cant have CBM
18. Pie chart of factors involved in CBM
Service
&
Cadre Worries
India
Tour
Syndicate
Group
India day
Cultural
Events
Village
Visit
Trek
Fete
19. Role of different players
• Stakeholders
– OT himself/herself
• Facilitators
– Faculty
• Negotiators
– Colleagues
• Counselors
– Senior CBM experts
• Observers
– Family members
20. Cross sectional analysis
• Tried, failed and disappointed
• Tried, got and disappointed
• Tried even before FC
• Tried too late
• Tried in a focused direction
• Tried in Multi directions
21. SWOT Analysis of CBM
Strength Weakness
Value addition in service Value reduction in dowry
Opportunity Threat
Net cash flow is positive You may not get a good
cadre (or get only a
good cadre)
30. Opinions
Marriage is a 3-RING circus
Engagement Ring,
Wedding Ring
&
Suffering
Its like vicious cycle… - LBSNAA Staff who see these
CBMs every year
31. Risk Enumerations
• Opportunity Cost is too high
• Private Sector is emerging as a better
alternative
• Optional System introduced in AIS
• Chances of undesired cadre are lesser
• Redundancy factor
• By the time you adjust to family life, you
are disappointed with that cadre
• Contingency factor
• Murphy's Law- if a thing can go wrong, it
will certainly go wrong.
32. Risk Analysis
• Sensitivity Analysis
– Works only with single partner; no variables allowed
• Be it Cadre or partner
– Does not co-relate variables
• In one way table analysis, it can run well, but cant
start
• In two way table analysis, it can start well, but cant
run
• Scenario Analysis
• Base Case Scenario- good
• Best Case Scenario- better
• Worst Case Scenario- best
• Simulation Analysis
– NPV becomes more than zero after 1000000 simulations
– Monte Carlo method is not as attractive as its branded
garments
Best
Normal
Worst
33. Overall Analysis
• Standard Deviation is average
• variance is normal
• Range width is less than other
alternatives
• Best on Mean, Median, Mode
methods
• Probability of negative NPV is zero
34. Common end of Love Marriages
what happens in Love marriages,
which are mostly based on face Value ?
Comparative Analysis
35. Comparative Analysis
and what happens in Conventional marriages,
which are mostly based on Pocket Value ?
Common beginning of Traditional Marriages
36. Conclusions
• All charges against CBM are
unsubstantiated
• Criticisms are based on insufficient data
• Most of alleged evils are evils of marriage
itself, not that of CBM alone
• Even this researcher is also not exempted
from it, as he is still feel deprived
Marriages are made in heaven, but performed on earth
Just like thunder and lightning
42. Recommendations
Academy should publish a ‘who’s who’ at the beginning of
the training course, and a ‘who’s after who’ after some time
w
ho’s
w
ho
who’s after who
46. Recommendations
• For sign languages —
• Amitabh Bachchan (Black)
• For communication and
understanding gap —
• Aamir Khan (Taare Zameen Par)
• For ambience discomforts —
• Shahrukh Khan (Mohabbatein)
Faculty should be Outsourced . . .
49. In Conclusion…
Before Marriage After Marriage
Man:- Collector sir, aap bahar jitne sher dikhte hain,
kya ghar me bhi vaise bane rahte hain?
Collector:- Rahta to ghar me bhi sher hi hu,
bas us par Durga sawar ho jati hain !
50. A
K. K. Pathak Committee
Presentation
Special Thanks
To
R.S.Gopalan
A presentation of Temporary Affairs Society
