To represent you accurately, your lawyer will need to know a lot about you and your family background. As such, you should write a martial history for your lawyer, for both your sakes. You should write about the chronology of your relationship, the role of family and friends, and your education histories. You should also write about your children, your parenting responsibilities and conflicts, and your employment histories, among other topics.
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Y OU A E
NS
AMA I L I OR
RT HS Y
A
T
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ay
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AT
I B T
E
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b
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EA I HP
ON
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5. R E F MI A DF I D
OL OF A L N RE S
Y
N
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eci o ra l sn ov n a d o r p u es
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6. E U A I HSORE
D CT
ON I
T I
S
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e
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f o a e o n , o ee r r h y en e ad
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n l e n sei c nr ui s mo e o s p ot o
u
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,
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7. Y RC I R N
OU HL E
D
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eci h igo t n e eo me tter e l
b
h
ter d c t n l e d ; n y u a dy u s o s’
h ie u ai a n e s a d o r n o r p u es
o
e p c t n o te
x e t i s fh m.
ao
8. P R N I G R S ON IIT S
AE T
N EP S L I
B IE
D sr eterlt n hpe c o y u c i rnh s
eci h eai s i a h f o r hl e a
b
o
d
w t b t y ua dy u s o s a dw a y ua dy u
i oh o n o r p u e n h t o n o r
h
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p u es oe h v e n o ad h hl e . o
d
atn e ter v ns s p ri dter o w r, n
t d d h ie e t u ev e h ih me ok a d
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to te t d c r a p it ns C v r l te
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os
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p tra a dmaen l x n e fmie’n ov me t
aen l n
tra e t d d a l s iv l
e
i
e n
a dif e c .
n nl n e
u
9. P R N I G C FIT
AE T
N
ON L S
C
L t ra o c nlt b u tec i rn s c a rl in
i ae s f o fc a o th hl e , u h s ei o ,
s
i
d
g
sh o p r r n e a db h v rlsu s Ep c l
c o l ef ma c , n e a i a i e. s e i l
o
o
s
ay
a des o d c in w r ma e h w y uag e a d
d rs h w e io s ee d , o o ru d n
s
ds ge d h w y urs l dc nlt a diy udd ’
i re , o o eov o fc , n f o int
a
e
is
rs l te w a h p e e n x
eov h m, h t a p n d e t
e
.
10. E L ME T I ORE
MPOY N HS I
T
S
Saey u
tt o r
ic me a dd sr e
n o s n eci
b
h w te w r se t
o h y ee p n
a do svd Ic d a y
n /r a e .n l e n
u
c nr uin ta ete o
o tb t s h t i r f
i o
h
y uh v ma et teoh r
o a e d o h te’
s
e ly n o po t n a d
mpo me t r rmoi s n
o
a ta w r a y u so s’e ly n.
c l ok t o r p ues mpo me t
u
11. F A C SA DF A CA
I N E N I N IL
N
N
C FIT
ON L S
C
Epanh w te
x li o h
f a c s ee
i ne w r
n
h n ld Ic d
a de .n l e
u
ae s f o fc
ra o c nlt
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rg rigmo e.
e adn
ny
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s e i l d rs
ay
h w d c in
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s
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a
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c nlt a di
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is
y udd ’rs l
o inteov
e
te w a
h m, h t
.
hpee nx
a p n d et
12. G FSA DI H RT N E
I
T N N EI C S
A
F OM F MIE
R
A LS
I
L t is r
i gf o
s t
ih ra c s rm
n ei n e f
t
o
ete o y u
i r fo r
h
fmie,ow o
a l st h m
i
te w r ma e a d
h y ee d , n
h w te w r u e .
o h y ee sd
Ep c l a des
s e i l d rs
ay
s
h w d c in
o e io s
w r ma e h w
ee d , o
y uag e a d
o ru d n
ds ge d h w y u
i re , o o
a
rs l dc nlt
eov o fc ,
e
is
a diy udd ’
n f o int
rs l te w a
eov h m, h t
e
.
hpee nx
a p n d et
13. A S T A DD B S
S ES N
ET
Epani w oe
xli n h s
n mee c asts
a
ah se i
tl a dw os n d
id n h ie
t
e
g
teid be n s, n
h n e td esa d
g n rl w a p r
e eal h t at
y
e c o y upae
ah f o lyd
i teaq it n
n h cusi
i
o
o toeasta d
fh s ses n
d bsEp c l
e t sei l
.
ay
a des o d c in
d rs h w eio s
s
w r ma e h w
ee d , o
y uag e a d
o ru d n
dsge d h w y u
i re , o o
a
rsl dcnlt a d
eov o f s n
e
i,
c
f o inteov
e
iy udd ’rsl
te w a h p e e
h m, h t a p n d
nx
et
.
14. C N EI G A DT E A Y
OU S L
N N H RP
D sr ew a c u sl g p yh lgc l r sc itc
eci h t o n ei , sc oo i o p yhar
b
n
a
i
t ame t i e y uo y u s o s h s e ev dete
r t n et r o r o r p u e a rc i
e
h
e i r
h
idv u l o tg te.
n i d al ro eh r
i
y
15. T E RA D
H B E K OWN OF OU
Y R
MA RA E
R IG
Epanteee ta dcnltta l t tebe k o n
xli h vns n o f sh te o h ra d w
i
c
d
o y u mar g . tt a y ar r y up r i t
f o r ra e Sae n b res o ec v o
i
i
ee
a cberslt n B a fit y usla dy u
mi l eoui . e saro o r f n o r
a
o
e
so s a y ucn
p ue s o a .
16. MAORL E V N S
J I EE T
F
D tia y jr u cse o t gc vns h t curd
eal n mao scess rr iee t ta o c r
a
e
d r gy u mar g .
ui o r ra e
n
i
17. H A T HSORE
E LH I
T I
S
Po iead ti dh at hs r fr o refy u
rv
d
eal e l ioy o y usl o r
e
h t
,
s o s, n y u c i rn Ic d dsa e o in se
p u e a d o r hl e .n l e i ss rl ess
d
u
e
l
ta rni y u fmi. tn a y jr p rt n o
h tu n o ra l Oul e n mao o eai s r
y
i
o
h at po lms Idc t ten me a da dess f
e l rbe .n i e h a s n d rse o
h
a
p yia s o a y urn po lms
h s in fr n c r t rbe .
c
e
18. K E IC F E T L
EP T ON I N I
D
A
At e rtnhs r ipeea l b c u ey u lw e
y w ie ioy s rfrbe e a s o ra y r
p
t
t
w lpo a l rfroiotn— b t s i otn i
i rb by ee t t f
l
e
u mo tmp r ts
a
ta irmanc nie t lD n t i u s o r ra
h tte i o f ni . o o ds s y u mai l
d a
c
t
hs r d c me t i a y n oh rh ny u lw e
ioy o u n w t n o e te ta o ra y r
t
h
o alw it b o ac mp trh t a b a c se b
r l to e n o ue ta c n e cesd y
o
y u s o s.f o d c et h n w i i sc r ii a
o r p u e Iy u e i o a d re t e ue tn
d
t ,
pa eta iia c sil t y u s o s.
lc h tsn ces e o o r p u e
b