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DIVORCE CAN SUCK. BUT DON’T LET IT SUCK THE LIFE OUT OF YOU!
CUSTODYMATE.COM
VISION
• Provide parents with a cloud-based custody tracking, issues management, & journaling
platform to document, track, and report on all issues and interactions related to child
custody.
• Minimize conflict, improve issue resolution, and put the best interests of the children first.
Best Interests of
The Children
Personal Interests
Country Crude marriage rate Crude divorce rate
% Divorce:marriage
ratio
Belgium 4.2 3 71
Portugal 3.7 2.5 68
Hungary 3.6 2.4 67
Czech Republic 4.4 2.9 66
Spain 3.6 2.2 61
Luxembourg 3.5 2.1 60
Estonia 3.8 2.2 58
Cuba 5.2 2.9 56
France 3.8 2.1 55
Lithuania 5.7 3 53
United States 6.8 3.6 53
Latvia 4.2 2.2 52
Russia 9.2 4.8 51
Switzerland 5.5 2.8 51
Germany 4.7 2.3 49
Canada 4.4 2.1 48
Gibraltar 6.7 3.2 48
Liechtenstein 5 2.4 48
Austria 4.5 2.1 47
Bulgaria 3.2 1.5 47
TOP 20 GLOBAL DIVORCE RATES –
IMPORTANT MARKET EVOLUTIONS AND WHY WE’RE NOW AT AN INFLECTION POINT
COURT ORDER
VIOLATIONS How many of you have had to deal with COURT ORDER VIOLATIONS – resulting in undue stress and further lawyer and court costs?
FORCED TO LEAVE YOUR
HOUSE
How many of you have been FORCED TO LEAVE YOUR HOUSE under threat of police or children’s aid being called – resulting in loss of
personal items and decreased access to children?
MISTREATED BY SYSTEM
How many of you have been MISTREATED during the divorce process by your ex-spouse, by children's aid, by the police, or by the court
system – resulting in depression, loss of financial stability, loss of children?
COURTS REJECT YOUR
CLAIM
How many of you have had the COURTS REJECT YOUR CLAIM regarding the amount of time you have spent with the children –
resulting in lost or limited access to the children and unfair support payments?
AGGRESSIVE EX-SPOUSES
& FALSE ALLEGATIONS
How many of you have had to deal with AGGRESSIVE EX-SPOUSES & FALSE ALLEGATIONS being raised against you in court with
no evidence – putting you on the defensive?
POLICE & CHILDREN’S AID
SOCIETY (CAS)
How many of you have had the POLICE & CHILDREN’S AID SOCIETY (CAS) called on you based on false allegations – resulting in lost
access to your children and false CAS and Police reports being used against you in court?
UNABLE TO SEE YOUR
CHILDREN
How many of you have been prevented by your ex-spouse from seeing your children. How many of you have had false allegations raised
with CAS, Police, & Courts to PREVENT OR SEVERELY RESTRICT ACCESS?
PHYSICALLY AND
EMOTIONALLY ABUSED
How many of you have had to deal with the children being PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY ABUSED by ex-spouse during the
separation and divorce process – resulting in significant psychological impact?
PAY UNFAIR AMOUNT OF
SUPPORT
How many of you have been forced to PAY UNFAIR AMOUNT of Child Support, Section 7, and Alimony due to misleading financial
information that was provided to the courts by your ex-spouse?
CHILDREN BEING TOLD
NEGATIVE THINGS
How many of you have had to deal with the CHILDREN BEING TOLD NEGATIVE THINGS about you and your family – resulting in
parental influence and alienation?
WHAT ARE THE TOP TEN ISSUES WITH
SEPARATION & DIVORCE?
Findings represent a Top 10 Themes related to the Separation/Divorce Process
1. My Ex-Spouse accessed a joint account post separation and withdrew money.
2. My Ex-Spouse accessed the mailbox, stole a cheque and cashed it.
3. My Ex-Spouse cheated on me, is she entitled to alimony?
4. My Ex-Spouse continues to bad mouth me to the children.
5. My Ex-Spouse continues to call the Children’s Aid Society based on false allegations.
6. My Ex-Spouse continues to call the police based on false allegations.
7. My Ex-Spouse does not show up or is late for Custody/Access times.
8. My Ex-Spouse filed for and received divorce without notification to me.
9. My Ex-Spouse had an affair on me, does that affect the divorce, custody, alimony, or child support payments?
10. My Ex-Spouse has changed the locks to the house.
11. My Ex-Spouse has cut access to the bank accounts and credit cards.
12. My Ex-Spouse has forced me out of the house, saying its his/her house.
13. My Ex-Spouse has gone off the grid and I am unable to locate him/her to serve papers.
14. My Ex-Spouse hired a powerful attorney to take the kids away from me, I don’t have money to hire an attorney, what can i do?
15. My Ex-Spouse is abusive and refusing to leave the house.
WHAT ARE SOME ADDITIONAL ISSUES WITH SEPARATION
& DIVORCE
Findings represent Top Issues being discussed on Separation/Divorce Forums
16. My Ex-Spouse is abusive during custody/access drop-offs and pick-ups.
17. My Ex-Spouse is breaking into my car to install a car tracker.
18. My Ex-Spouse is bringing his/her bf/gf home to meet the children.
19. My Ex-Spouse is hacking into my accounts to view what I am doing.
20. My Ex-Spouse is hiding his/her salary behind a company. Reporting lower income so he/she won’t have to pay me
right amount of Child Support or Alimony.
21. My Ex-Spouse is leaving the children home alone to go out.
22. My Ex-Spouse is sending the children to sleepover at other peoples homes so he/she can party or bring someone
home.
23. My Ex-Spouse is speaking negatively about me or discussing court matters with the kids.
24. My Ex-Spouse is trying to alienate the children from me, what should i do?
25. My Ex-Spouse is trying to change the children’s last names.
26. My Ex-Spouse is trying to change the children’s religion.
27. My Ex-Spouse is trying to change the children’s school.
28. My Ex-Spouse is trying to change the custody/access arrangement despite a status quo being established. We don’t
have an official court order yet.
WHAT ARE SOME ADDITIONAL ISSUES WITH SEPARATION
& DIVORCE
Findings represent Top Issues being discussed on Separation/Divorce Forums
29. My Ex-Spouse is trying to move the children away.
30. My Ex-Spouse knows people in Children’s Aid, Police, and Courts and is using them.
31. My Ex-Spouse left, wanted nothing to do with me or the kids, and now wants to come back into our lives.
32. My Ex-Spouse refuses to abide by the court orders.
33. My Ex-Spouse refuses to accept papers I am sending regarding our separation/divorce.
34. My Ex-Spouse refuses to allow access to the children despite a court order.
35. My Ex-Spouse refuses to allow access to the children during the separation process.
36. My Ex-Spouse refuses to allow me to take my things from the house.
37. My Ex-Spouse refuses to pay any child support or for the upkeep of the house while we go through the courts.
38. My Ex-Spouse refuses to pay for any of the extraordinary expenses (Medical, Sporting Activities, etc.)
39. My Ex-Spouse refuses to see the children on the court ordered custody dates.
40. My Ex-Spouse wants Sole, Shared, Joint Custody, what is the difference and how does it affect me?
41. My Ex-Spouse wants to claim all of the government child tax credit
42. My Ex-Spouse won’t change the child support even though the child(ren) have spent more then the allotted time over a long period of
time, what can I do?
43. My Ex-Spouse won’t file taxes or won’t share the tax information with me.
44. My Ex-Spouse does not give attention to our kids as much as her/his step kids.
45. My Ex-Spouse was awarded the house, what are my options?
WHAT ARE SOME ADDITIONAL ISSUES WITH SEPARATION
& DIVORCE
Findings represent Top Issues being discussed on Separation/Divorce Forums
PLANNING
Unable to PLAN holidays, custody dates, work/live locations, child support & alimony payments in advance in a structured way. This can result in conflict
and disagreements, leading to a negative impact on the children.
TRACK PLAN TO ACTUALS
Unable to TRACK PLAN TO ACTUALS to demonstrate adherence to your plans. This can lead to accusations of late pickups/drop-offs, missed custody
dates, late child support/alimony payments, etc. Leading to false accusations in court.
TRACKING CUSTODY
Unable to accurately TRACK CUSTODY with evidence. Without pickup/drop-off dates and times, details of the custody time, and evidence of custody time,
it can be difficult to demonstrate to the courts and fight false allegations.
ISSUES MANAGEMENT FORM
Unable to DOCUMENT & MANAGE with evidence, all interactions related to child custody in an organized manner from any device and any location.
Without this information, you can have issues fighting false allegations raised to the Police, Courts, and Children’s Aid.
CAPTURE EVIDENCE
Unable to CAPTURE EVIDENCE, such as pictures, text messages, and any other files and attach to journal entries to provide as evidence when needed.
Without this information, it will be difficult to fight against false allegations or to prove your points.
DETAILED REPORTING
Unable to obtain DETAILED REPORTING regarding custody and custody related matters in an organized manner. Without detailed reports, it will be difficult
to organize and present your case to the Courts, Police, and Children’s Aid.
JOURNAL THERAPY FORM
Unable to WRITE DOWN, DIALOG WITH, and ANALYZE your issues and concerns using a structured approach using any device, from any location, at
any time. Without the ability to diagnose and navigate your thoughts, you can succumb to emotions.
SECURE CALENDARING
Unable to view all of your Planned Holidays, Work/Live Locations, Custody Times, Child/Alimony Payment Schedules, Doctor’s & School appointments, and
any other Custody related events on an online SECURE CALENDAR. This can lead to disorganization, missed events, and conflict, resulting in false
allegations that you are not an organized parent.
PROFILE FORMS
Unable to capture and centrally store key PROFILE information about children such as Birthdays, School Information, Medical Information, Friends Contact
Information, Preferences, Hobbies, Likes, Dislikes, etc. Being unware of this information can lead to false accusations that you are not an uninformed parent
and therefore not a good parent.
COURT DOCUMENTS
Unable to access important COURT DOCUMENTS from a secure site for easy access anytime/anywhere. Not having the most current information at your
fingertips can lead to decision-making errors.
CUSTODY FEEDBACK
Unable to document with details any and all issues related to custody that need to go before the Courts, Police, or CAS, outside of the standard Issues
management form. Without this detailed CUSTODY FEEDBACK, it is difficult to raise or counter allegations.
WHY DO WE HAVE ISSUES WITH
SEPARATION & DIVORCE?
Findings indicate the impact of a lack of Data Collection, Data Management, and Organization.
WHAT IS THE PRIMARY IMPACT OF SEPARATION &
DIVORCE – CHILDREN?
Children
Large amounts of anger, directed both toward
others and themselves
Frequent breaking of rules, juvenile delinquency
Defying parents or teachers
Increasing isolation or withdrawal from
friends and family
Drug and/or alcohol abuse
Higher rates of school dropout
Sleep problems
Early sexual activity, teen pregnancy
Thoughts of suicide or violence. Greater risk
for emotional & physical problems
Persistent feelings of loneliness
Emotional security becomes more
fragile
Child's dependence on parents is intensified, while
adolescent's independence Is accelerated. Elicits a more
regressive response in the child and a more aggressive
response in the adolescent
Frequent Guilt
WHAT ARE SOME ADDITIONAL IMPACTS FROM
SEPARATION & DIVORCE – WIDER IMPACT?
To The Child:
• Large amounts of anger, directed both toward others and themselves
• Frequent breaking of rules, juvenile delinquency
• Sleep problems
• Defying parents or teachers
• Higher rates of school dropout
• Frequent guilt
• Increasing isolation or withdrawal from friends and family
• Drug and/or alcohol abuse
• Early sexual activity, teen pregnancy
• Thoughts of suicide or violence. Greater risk for emotional & physical problems
• Persistent feelings of loneliness
• Emotional security becomes more fragile
• Child's dependence on parents is intensified, while adolescent's independence Is accelerated.
Elicits a more regressive response in the child and a more aggressive response in the
adolescent
To The Parent:
• Lost/limited access to the children
• Children being emotionally, physically, and mentally harmed
• Loss of having a say in the upbringing of your children
• Being alienated from your children
• Loss of your home and other assets
• Loss of your pension
• Severe financial losses via Child Support, Alimony, Section 7 Expenses, and high expenditure
on Legal and Court Fees
• Increase in court cases resulting in higher family court costs
To The Medical Community:
• Increased usage of medication (depression, anxiety)
• Increased drug usage (drugs and alcohol)
• Increased usage of counselling and therapy sessions
• Loss of productivity
• Loss of time due to stress leave
• Impact to Revenues, Profits, and Customer Satisfaction
To The Employers:
• Prolonged cases due to emotional influences
• Potential for Clients to make false allegations
• Potential for Clients to be unreasonable to advice
To The Lawyers:
• Attendance issues
• Performance issues
• Social interaction issues
To The Education System:
• More people requiring therapy
• More people requiring medication
• More people ending up on welfare/social assistance
• More people losing employment due to the stress of divorce
• More people losing their homes
• More troubled children
• More crime
• Increased dependency on government services
To The Government:
Parents and Children who are undergoing Separation or
Divorce or who have had the Divorce finalized can use
the application as a platform to track custody time,
manage issues, and journal therapy platform. Something
to help them navigate the complex emotions and
situations related to Divorce and Separation.
Increase Resolution Rates, Improve Client
Management, and implement Robust Analytics
WHAT IS THE IMPACT TO THE MARKET?
Purchase license and provide application as a
service to clients. Improve resolution rates and
times via evidenced based structured data.
Occupational Therapists, Psychologists, Physiatrists, and
Psychotherapists can offer the cloud-based journal
therapy platform to their patients. More meaningful
sessions using evidenced based data.
Government can purchase licenses and offer it as a free service
to people in the family court system. Platform can improve
resolution rates and minimize court times, court avoidance, court
events, and costs.
Canadian
Medical
Institutions
Canadian Family
Law Firms
Corporate
Employee &
Family
Assistance
Programs
Self-Help
Portal
Canadian
Government:
Family Court &
Social Services
Provide Self-Help Portal
Improve Employee Health & Minimize Impact To
Revenue, Profits, & Customer Satisfaction
Minimize Mental, Emotional, and Physical
Impact
Reduce Court Costs & Court Events
Multiple
Revenue
Channels
Partner with larger corporations and provide this
application as part of the Employee & Family
Assistance Program.
Government can purchase licenses and offer it as
a free service to people in the social services
system. Social workers can have more meaningful
discussions during visits.
Improve Effectiveness of Social Workers
2784 Canada X @5 clients = 13,920 clients
Marital status, separated (not common law)-823,273 clients
Marital status, divorced (not common law)-1,874,429 clients
Legal marital status, separated (including living common law)-962,106 clients
Legal marital status, divorced (including living common law)-2,592,337 clients
Occupational Therapists - @13680 X @5 clients = 68,400 clients
Psychologists - @17280 X @5 clients = 86,400 clients
Psychiatrists = 4770 X @5 clients = 23,850 clients
Psychotherapists = 3403 X @5 clients = 17,015 clients
@34868 Social Workers X @5 cases per worker = 174,340 clients
318K Family Law Cases in 2012/13 - @318,000 clients
TBD
HOW DO WE SOLVE THESE ISSUES WITH
SEPARATION & DIVORCE?
TOP 10 + ALL ISSUES
CUSTODY MATE
FUNCTIONS
PLANNING
TRACK PLAN TO ACTUALS
CUSTODY TRACKING
ISSUES MANAGEMENT
FORM
CAPTURE EVIDENCE
DETAILED REPORTING
JOURNAL THERAPY FORM
SECURE CALENDARING
PROFILE FORMS
COURT DOCUMENTS
CUSTODY FEEDBACK
CERTIFICATION OF DATA
COURT ORDER
VIOLATIONS
FORCED TO LEAVE YOUR
HOUSE
MISTREATED BY SYSTEM
COURTS REJECT YOUR
CLAIM OF CUSTODY
AGGRESSIVE EX-SPOUSES
& FALSE ALLEGATIONS
POLICE & CHILDREN’S AID
SOCIETY (CAS)
UNABLE TO SEE YOUR
CHILDREN
PHYSICALLY AND
EMOTIONALLY ABUSED
PAY UNFAIR AMOUNT OF
SUPPORT
CHILDREN BEING TOLD
NEGATIVE THINGS
THANK-YOU!

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  • 1. DIVORCE CAN SUCK. BUT DON’T LET IT SUCK THE LIFE OUT OF YOU! CUSTODYMATE.COM
  • 2. VISION • Provide parents with a cloud-based custody tracking, issues management, & journaling platform to document, track, and report on all issues and interactions related to child custody. • Minimize conflict, improve issue resolution, and put the best interests of the children first. Best Interests of The Children Personal Interests
  • 3. Country Crude marriage rate Crude divorce rate % Divorce:marriage ratio Belgium 4.2 3 71 Portugal 3.7 2.5 68 Hungary 3.6 2.4 67 Czech Republic 4.4 2.9 66 Spain 3.6 2.2 61 Luxembourg 3.5 2.1 60 Estonia 3.8 2.2 58 Cuba 5.2 2.9 56 France 3.8 2.1 55 Lithuania 5.7 3 53 United States 6.8 3.6 53 Latvia 4.2 2.2 52 Russia 9.2 4.8 51 Switzerland 5.5 2.8 51 Germany 4.7 2.3 49 Canada 4.4 2.1 48 Gibraltar 6.7 3.2 48 Liechtenstein 5 2.4 48 Austria 4.5 2.1 47 Bulgaria 3.2 1.5 47 TOP 20 GLOBAL DIVORCE RATES – IMPORTANT MARKET EVOLUTIONS AND WHY WE’RE NOW AT AN INFLECTION POINT
  • 4. COURT ORDER VIOLATIONS How many of you have had to deal with COURT ORDER VIOLATIONS – resulting in undue stress and further lawyer and court costs? FORCED TO LEAVE YOUR HOUSE How many of you have been FORCED TO LEAVE YOUR HOUSE under threat of police or children’s aid being called – resulting in loss of personal items and decreased access to children? MISTREATED BY SYSTEM How many of you have been MISTREATED during the divorce process by your ex-spouse, by children's aid, by the police, or by the court system – resulting in depression, loss of financial stability, loss of children? COURTS REJECT YOUR CLAIM How many of you have had the COURTS REJECT YOUR CLAIM regarding the amount of time you have spent with the children – resulting in lost or limited access to the children and unfair support payments? AGGRESSIVE EX-SPOUSES & FALSE ALLEGATIONS How many of you have had to deal with AGGRESSIVE EX-SPOUSES & FALSE ALLEGATIONS being raised against you in court with no evidence – putting you on the defensive? POLICE & CHILDREN’S AID SOCIETY (CAS) How many of you have had the POLICE & CHILDREN’S AID SOCIETY (CAS) called on you based on false allegations – resulting in lost access to your children and false CAS and Police reports being used against you in court? UNABLE TO SEE YOUR CHILDREN How many of you have been prevented by your ex-spouse from seeing your children. How many of you have had false allegations raised with CAS, Police, & Courts to PREVENT OR SEVERELY RESTRICT ACCESS? PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY ABUSED How many of you have had to deal with the children being PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY ABUSED by ex-spouse during the separation and divorce process – resulting in significant psychological impact? PAY UNFAIR AMOUNT OF SUPPORT How many of you have been forced to PAY UNFAIR AMOUNT of Child Support, Section 7, and Alimony due to misleading financial information that was provided to the courts by your ex-spouse? CHILDREN BEING TOLD NEGATIVE THINGS How many of you have had to deal with the CHILDREN BEING TOLD NEGATIVE THINGS about you and your family – resulting in parental influence and alienation? WHAT ARE THE TOP TEN ISSUES WITH SEPARATION & DIVORCE? Findings represent a Top 10 Themes related to the Separation/Divorce Process
  • 5. 1. My Ex-Spouse accessed a joint account post separation and withdrew money. 2. My Ex-Spouse accessed the mailbox, stole a cheque and cashed it. 3. My Ex-Spouse cheated on me, is she entitled to alimony? 4. My Ex-Spouse continues to bad mouth me to the children. 5. My Ex-Spouse continues to call the Children’s Aid Society based on false allegations. 6. My Ex-Spouse continues to call the police based on false allegations. 7. My Ex-Spouse does not show up or is late for Custody/Access times. 8. My Ex-Spouse filed for and received divorce without notification to me. 9. My Ex-Spouse had an affair on me, does that affect the divorce, custody, alimony, or child support payments? 10. My Ex-Spouse has changed the locks to the house. 11. My Ex-Spouse has cut access to the bank accounts and credit cards. 12. My Ex-Spouse has forced me out of the house, saying its his/her house. 13. My Ex-Spouse has gone off the grid and I am unable to locate him/her to serve papers. 14. My Ex-Spouse hired a powerful attorney to take the kids away from me, I don’t have money to hire an attorney, what can i do? 15. My Ex-Spouse is abusive and refusing to leave the house. WHAT ARE SOME ADDITIONAL ISSUES WITH SEPARATION & DIVORCE Findings represent Top Issues being discussed on Separation/Divorce Forums
  • 6. 16. My Ex-Spouse is abusive during custody/access drop-offs and pick-ups. 17. My Ex-Spouse is breaking into my car to install a car tracker. 18. My Ex-Spouse is bringing his/her bf/gf home to meet the children. 19. My Ex-Spouse is hacking into my accounts to view what I am doing. 20. My Ex-Spouse is hiding his/her salary behind a company. Reporting lower income so he/she won’t have to pay me right amount of Child Support or Alimony. 21. My Ex-Spouse is leaving the children home alone to go out. 22. My Ex-Spouse is sending the children to sleepover at other peoples homes so he/she can party or bring someone home. 23. My Ex-Spouse is speaking negatively about me or discussing court matters with the kids. 24. My Ex-Spouse is trying to alienate the children from me, what should i do? 25. My Ex-Spouse is trying to change the children’s last names. 26. My Ex-Spouse is trying to change the children’s religion. 27. My Ex-Spouse is trying to change the children’s school. 28. My Ex-Spouse is trying to change the custody/access arrangement despite a status quo being established. We don’t have an official court order yet. WHAT ARE SOME ADDITIONAL ISSUES WITH SEPARATION & DIVORCE Findings represent Top Issues being discussed on Separation/Divorce Forums
  • 7. 29. My Ex-Spouse is trying to move the children away. 30. My Ex-Spouse knows people in Children’s Aid, Police, and Courts and is using them. 31. My Ex-Spouse left, wanted nothing to do with me or the kids, and now wants to come back into our lives. 32. My Ex-Spouse refuses to abide by the court orders. 33. My Ex-Spouse refuses to accept papers I am sending regarding our separation/divorce. 34. My Ex-Spouse refuses to allow access to the children despite a court order. 35. My Ex-Spouse refuses to allow access to the children during the separation process. 36. My Ex-Spouse refuses to allow me to take my things from the house. 37. My Ex-Spouse refuses to pay any child support or for the upkeep of the house while we go through the courts. 38. My Ex-Spouse refuses to pay for any of the extraordinary expenses (Medical, Sporting Activities, etc.) 39. My Ex-Spouse refuses to see the children on the court ordered custody dates. 40. My Ex-Spouse wants Sole, Shared, Joint Custody, what is the difference and how does it affect me? 41. My Ex-Spouse wants to claim all of the government child tax credit 42. My Ex-Spouse won’t change the child support even though the child(ren) have spent more then the allotted time over a long period of time, what can I do? 43. My Ex-Spouse won’t file taxes or won’t share the tax information with me. 44. My Ex-Spouse does not give attention to our kids as much as her/his step kids. 45. My Ex-Spouse was awarded the house, what are my options? WHAT ARE SOME ADDITIONAL ISSUES WITH SEPARATION & DIVORCE Findings represent Top Issues being discussed on Separation/Divorce Forums
  • 8. PLANNING Unable to PLAN holidays, custody dates, work/live locations, child support & alimony payments in advance in a structured way. This can result in conflict and disagreements, leading to a negative impact on the children. TRACK PLAN TO ACTUALS Unable to TRACK PLAN TO ACTUALS to demonstrate adherence to your plans. This can lead to accusations of late pickups/drop-offs, missed custody dates, late child support/alimony payments, etc. Leading to false accusations in court. TRACKING CUSTODY Unable to accurately TRACK CUSTODY with evidence. Without pickup/drop-off dates and times, details of the custody time, and evidence of custody time, it can be difficult to demonstrate to the courts and fight false allegations. ISSUES MANAGEMENT FORM Unable to DOCUMENT & MANAGE with evidence, all interactions related to child custody in an organized manner from any device and any location. Without this information, you can have issues fighting false allegations raised to the Police, Courts, and Children’s Aid. CAPTURE EVIDENCE Unable to CAPTURE EVIDENCE, such as pictures, text messages, and any other files and attach to journal entries to provide as evidence when needed. Without this information, it will be difficult to fight against false allegations or to prove your points. DETAILED REPORTING Unable to obtain DETAILED REPORTING regarding custody and custody related matters in an organized manner. Without detailed reports, it will be difficult to organize and present your case to the Courts, Police, and Children’s Aid. JOURNAL THERAPY FORM Unable to WRITE DOWN, DIALOG WITH, and ANALYZE your issues and concerns using a structured approach using any device, from any location, at any time. Without the ability to diagnose and navigate your thoughts, you can succumb to emotions. SECURE CALENDARING Unable to view all of your Planned Holidays, Work/Live Locations, Custody Times, Child/Alimony Payment Schedules, Doctor’s & School appointments, and any other Custody related events on an online SECURE CALENDAR. This can lead to disorganization, missed events, and conflict, resulting in false allegations that you are not an organized parent. PROFILE FORMS Unable to capture and centrally store key PROFILE information about children such as Birthdays, School Information, Medical Information, Friends Contact Information, Preferences, Hobbies, Likes, Dislikes, etc. Being unware of this information can lead to false accusations that you are not an uninformed parent and therefore not a good parent. COURT DOCUMENTS Unable to access important COURT DOCUMENTS from a secure site for easy access anytime/anywhere. Not having the most current information at your fingertips can lead to decision-making errors. CUSTODY FEEDBACK Unable to document with details any and all issues related to custody that need to go before the Courts, Police, or CAS, outside of the standard Issues management form. Without this detailed CUSTODY FEEDBACK, it is difficult to raise or counter allegations. WHY DO WE HAVE ISSUES WITH SEPARATION & DIVORCE? Findings indicate the impact of a lack of Data Collection, Data Management, and Organization.
  • 9. WHAT IS THE PRIMARY IMPACT OF SEPARATION & DIVORCE – CHILDREN? Children Large amounts of anger, directed both toward others and themselves Frequent breaking of rules, juvenile delinquency Defying parents or teachers Increasing isolation or withdrawal from friends and family Drug and/or alcohol abuse Higher rates of school dropout Sleep problems Early sexual activity, teen pregnancy Thoughts of suicide or violence. Greater risk for emotional & physical problems Persistent feelings of loneliness Emotional security becomes more fragile Child's dependence on parents is intensified, while adolescent's independence Is accelerated. Elicits a more regressive response in the child and a more aggressive response in the adolescent Frequent Guilt
  • 10. WHAT ARE SOME ADDITIONAL IMPACTS FROM SEPARATION & DIVORCE – WIDER IMPACT? To The Child: • Large amounts of anger, directed both toward others and themselves • Frequent breaking of rules, juvenile delinquency • Sleep problems • Defying parents or teachers • Higher rates of school dropout • Frequent guilt • Increasing isolation or withdrawal from friends and family • Drug and/or alcohol abuse • Early sexual activity, teen pregnancy • Thoughts of suicide or violence. Greater risk for emotional & physical problems • Persistent feelings of loneliness • Emotional security becomes more fragile • Child's dependence on parents is intensified, while adolescent's independence Is accelerated. Elicits a more regressive response in the child and a more aggressive response in the adolescent To The Parent: • Lost/limited access to the children • Children being emotionally, physically, and mentally harmed • Loss of having a say in the upbringing of your children • Being alienated from your children • Loss of your home and other assets • Loss of your pension • Severe financial losses via Child Support, Alimony, Section 7 Expenses, and high expenditure on Legal and Court Fees • Increase in court cases resulting in higher family court costs To The Medical Community: • Increased usage of medication (depression, anxiety) • Increased drug usage (drugs and alcohol) • Increased usage of counselling and therapy sessions • Loss of productivity • Loss of time due to stress leave • Impact to Revenues, Profits, and Customer Satisfaction To The Employers: • Prolonged cases due to emotional influences • Potential for Clients to make false allegations • Potential for Clients to be unreasonable to advice To The Lawyers: • Attendance issues • Performance issues • Social interaction issues To The Education System: • More people requiring therapy • More people requiring medication • More people ending up on welfare/social assistance • More people losing employment due to the stress of divorce • More people losing their homes • More troubled children • More crime • Increased dependency on government services To The Government:
  • 11. Parents and Children who are undergoing Separation or Divorce or who have had the Divorce finalized can use the application as a platform to track custody time, manage issues, and journal therapy platform. Something to help them navigate the complex emotions and situations related to Divorce and Separation. Increase Resolution Rates, Improve Client Management, and implement Robust Analytics WHAT IS THE IMPACT TO THE MARKET? Purchase license and provide application as a service to clients. Improve resolution rates and times via evidenced based structured data. Occupational Therapists, Psychologists, Physiatrists, and Psychotherapists can offer the cloud-based journal therapy platform to their patients. More meaningful sessions using evidenced based data. Government can purchase licenses and offer it as a free service to people in the family court system. Platform can improve resolution rates and minimize court times, court avoidance, court events, and costs. Canadian Medical Institutions Canadian Family Law Firms Corporate Employee & Family Assistance Programs Self-Help Portal Canadian Government: Family Court & Social Services Provide Self-Help Portal Improve Employee Health & Minimize Impact To Revenue, Profits, & Customer Satisfaction Minimize Mental, Emotional, and Physical Impact Reduce Court Costs & Court Events Multiple Revenue Channels Partner with larger corporations and provide this application as part of the Employee & Family Assistance Program. Government can purchase licenses and offer it as a free service to people in the social services system. Social workers can have more meaningful discussions during visits. Improve Effectiveness of Social Workers 2784 Canada X @5 clients = 13,920 clients Marital status, separated (not common law)-823,273 clients Marital status, divorced (not common law)-1,874,429 clients Legal marital status, separated (including living common law)-962,106 clients Legal marital status, divorced (including living common law)-2,592,337 clients Occupational Therapists - @13680 X @5 clients = 68,400 clients Psychologists - @17280 X @5 clients = 86,400 clients Psychiatrists = 4770 X @5 clients = 23,850 clients Psychotherapists = 3403 X @5 clients = 17,015 clients @34868 Social Workers X @5 cases per worker = 174,340 clients 318K Family Law Cases in 2012/13 - @318,000 clients TBD
  • 12. HOW DO WE SOLVE THESE ISSUES WITH SEPARATION & DIVORCE? TOP 10 + ALL ISSUES CUSTODY MATE FUNCTIONS PLANNING TRACK PLAN TO ACTUALS CUSTODY TRACKING ISSUES MANAGEMENT FORM CAPTURE EVIDENCE DETAILED REPORTING JOURNAL THERAPY FORM SECURE CALENDARING PROFILE FORMS COURT DOCUMENTS CUSTODY FEEDBACK CERTIFICATION OF DATA COURT ORDER VIOLATIONS FORCED TO LEAVE YOUR HOUSE MISTREATED BY SYSTEM COURTS REJECT YOUR CLAIM OF CUSTODY AGGRESSIVE EX-SPOUSES & FALSE ALLEGATIONS POLICE & CHILDREN’S AID SOCIETY (CAS) UNABLE TO SEE YOUR CHILDREN PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY ABUSED PAY UNFAIR AMOUNT OF SUPPORT CHILDREN BEING TOLD NEGATIVE THINGS

Editor's Notes

  1. Crude divorce rate[edit] One measure of divorces is the crude divorce rate, which is the number of divorces per 1,000 population.[1] It can give a general overview of marriage in an area, but it does not take people who cannot marry into account. For example, it would include young children who are clearly not of marriageable age in its sample. A related measure is the refined divorce rate which measures the number of divorces per 1,000 women married to men, so that non-married persons, e.g. young children are left out of the rate.[1] Divorce to marriage ratio[edit] Another measure of divorces is the divorce to marriage ratio, which is the number of divorces to the number of marriages in a given year (the ratio of the crude divorce rate to the crude marriage rate).[1] For example, if there are 550 divorces and 1,000 marriages in a given year in a given area, the ratio would be one divorce for every two marriages, e.g. a ratio of 0.55 (55%). However, this measurement compares two unlike populations, those who can marry and those who can divorce. Say there exists a community with 100,000 married couples, and very few people capable of marriage, for reasons such as age. If 1,000 people obtain divorces and 1,000 people get married in the same year, the ratio is one divorce for every marriage, which may lead people to think that the community's relationships are extremely unstable, despite the number of married people not changing. This is also true in reverse: a community with very many people of marriageable age may have 10,000 marriages and 1,000 divorces, leading people to believe that it has very stable relationships. Furthermore, these two rates are not directly comparable since the marriage rate only examines the current year, while the divorce rate examines the outcomes of marriages for many previous years. This does not equate to the proportion of marriages in a given single-year cohort that will ultimately end in divorce.
  2. There were almost 318,000 family law cases active in the eight provinces and territories reporting to the Civil Court Survey in 2012/2013. Family law cases accounted for 34% of all civil court cases. Family law cases, on average, involve more court events (such as documents filed, hearings and judgments) than other civil court cases. They accounted for nearly half of court events in 2012/2013, including 56% of judgments, although they only represented 34% of all civil court cases. In particular, family law cases involving custody, access, child support and child protection involved higher than average court activity. Court activity for family law cases drops off considerably after the first three months. Overall, 43% of family law cases initiated in 2008/2009 reported no activity (court events) after the first three months. Nearly three-quarters (74%) reported no activity after the first year. Nearly one-quarter of family law cases (22%) were active during a second year. In the fourth year after initiation, 5% of family law cases initiated in 2008/2009 reported activity; 41% of these were returns to court, having reported no activity during the previous year. Cases involving custody, access or child support showed a drop in court activity after the first three months, but tended to remain active longer than other types of family law cases. Of cases initiated in 2008/2009, 61% of custody/access and 70% of cases involving only child support reported no activity after the first year.