The document discusses the Islamic concept of marriage. It begins by defining marriage and outlining its purposes in Islam, which include companionship, procreation, and protecting morality. The document then examines the nature of marriage as a contractual relationship in Islamic law and outlines the various elements required for a valid marriage contract according to different Islamic legal schools, including offer and acceptance between the partners. The document also discusses the legal status and purposes of marriage in Islam and modern legislation. It concludes by noting recent discussions around stipulations that can be included in marriage contracts to empower women.
The Islamic Concept of Marriage: Its Nature, Purposes and Elements
1. The Islamic concept
of marriage
Mr. IQBAL SAUJAN
Temp. Assist. Lecturer in Islamic Law &
Legislation
Department of IslamicStudies
E-Mail: savjaniqbal@seu.ac.lk
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Content
1. Introduction
2. Nature of Marriage
3. Marriage in Modern Legislations
4. Purposes of Marriage
5. Legal Status of Marriage
6. Elements of marriage
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Introduction
Marriage is a social institution as old as the human race itself.
It may be defined as a relation between a man and a woman which is
recognized by custom or law and involves certain rights and duties, both
in the case of the parties entering the Union, and in case of the children
born of it.
Marriage has thus two main functions to perform: it is the means adopted
by human society for regulating relations between the sexes; and it
furnishes the mechanism by means of which the relations of a child to the
community is determined.
Family is the primary and essential unit of social organization and
society. Islam does not approve of celibacy as a means of getting closer to
Allah as is the case in catholic Christianity.
It also forbids sexual relationship outside marriage bond and considers it
a grave offence against the society.
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Nature of Marriage
Nikah ()نكاح is an Arabic word which means joining. zawāj (اجَ
وَ
)ز is
Synonym of Nikah.
In Islamic Law, it means the contract held between spouses to make
sexual intercourse lawful (Ayoup, n.d). Allah Almighty says:
“َّ
نِ
هِلْ
هَا ِ
نْذِِ
ِب َّ
نُ
هْ
وُ
حِ
كْناَف”
“So Marry them with the permission of their masters” (An-Nisa: 25)
The prophet (PBUH) says
“Marry one another, that you may increase”
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Muslim jurists have formulated various definitions highlighting distinct
features of marriage.
Thus, in the light of their definitions a marriage contract can be described
in the following way:
1. Marriage is a contract to render sexual relations between a man
and women licit or lawful
2. It is a contract for the gratification of sexual needs and procreation
of children.
3. Marriage is a legal relationship established by an agreement
between man and women entitling them to sexual enjoyment.
Some moderns jurists have expressed their dissatisfaction over this
description of marriage on the ground that it does not reflect the true
nature of marriage and objectives.
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The sexual intercourse is important for procreating descendant but it
is not sole objective of marriage.
Legal Scholars argue that the Qur’an speaks of marriage in terms of
life long companionship, mutual love, sympathy, tranquility and
peace of mind.
In summary, marriage is a contract which draws a line of
demarcation between licit and illicit sexual relationship. Thus, it was
necessary that this concept should have been embodied in any legal
and technical definition.
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Marriage in Modern Legislation
Syrian Family Law: Marriage is a contract between a man and
woman on account of which the woman becomes legalized for man. It
serves the purposes of creating among them a life long relationship.
Jordanian law: Marriage is a contract between man and woman
who is lawfully eligible to be his wife the joint life and procreation.
Kuwaiti Law: Marriage is a contract between man and woman who
can lawfully be wed to him to the end of tranquility, chastity and the
strength of nation.
Common Law of Sri Lanka: Marriage is union of a man and a
woman contracted for the purpose of procreating and rearing children
and of sharing all good and bad fortune with each other until death
(Rajapakshe, 2020).
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Purposes of Marriage
Marriage and family institution occupy vital importance in the legal
system of Islam.
Muslim jurists regard preservation of protection of family unit among
the five fundamental objectives of shri’ah.
The Quran describes marriage as mithaqan ghaliza (firm covenant)
(4:21) as follows:
ْذَخَاَّو ٍضَْعب ىٰلِا ْمُكُضَْعب ى ٰضْفَا ْدََقو ٗ
هَنْوُذُخْاَت َفْيَك َو
ْمُكْنِم َن
اًظْيِّلَغ اًاقَثْيِّم
The phrase “mithaqan ghaliza” implies that marriage is a sacred and
sanctified contract, which is higher in status than ordinary civil
contracts.
Marriage in Islam is essentially a righteous act and act of devotion
(Ibadah)
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The Holy Prophet (PBUH) has emphasized
مين فليس سنيت عن رغب فمن ، سنيت النكاح
“Marriage is my sunnah, whoever turns away from my sunnah, does not
belong to me”
In another hadith the Prophet (PBUM) advised young men to enter
the fold of marriage as a means to protect their morals and live a
clean and virtuous life.
مالك بن أنس عن ،احلديث هذا نص مسلم صحيح يف ثبت
-
عنه هللا رضي
-
قال أنه
( :
َأ نِ
م اً
رَ
فَن َّ
أن
ِ
ابَ
حْ
ص
ْ
مُ
هُ
ضْعَب َ
قالَف ،؟ِّ
ِ
رِّ
ِ
الس يف ِ
هِلَ
مَ
ع عن هَ
اجَ
وْ
زَأ واُلَأَ
س ِِّ
النب
:
َّ
وَ
زََتأ ال
ْ
مُ
هُ
ضْعَب َ
قالَ
و ،َاءَ
سِِّالن ُ
ج
:
َ
قالَ
و ،َ
مْ
حَّلال ُ
لُ
كآ ال
ْ
مُ
هُ
ضْعَب
:
َ
قالَف ،عليه َ
َنْثَأَ
و ََّ
اَّلل َ
دِ
مَ
حَف ، ٍ
اشَ
رِف ىَلع ُ
مَ
ََنأ ال
:
ُ
لَ
ِب ما
،ُ
مَ
ََنأَ
و يِِّلَ
ُصأ ِِّ
ينِ
كَل ا؟َ
ذَ
كَ
و اَ
ذَ
كقالوا ٍ
امَ
وَْقأ
ِِّ
ينِ
م َ
فليس َّيتنُ
س عن َ
بِ
غَ
ر نَ
فم ،َاءَ
سِِّالن ُ
جَّ
وَ
زََتأَ
و ،ُ
رِ
طْفُأَ
و ُ
ومُ
َصأَ
و
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Legal Status of Marriage
Marriage to the majority of Muslim Jurists is sunnah (recommended).
The literalists (Zahiris) consider it obligatory because they interpret
the imperative of the Qur’an to mean a command.
Other jurists argue that the legal position of each case should be
decided according to the merit of the case, individually.
Depending on the conditions of an individual, it may be obligatory for
some and optional for others.
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Elements of marriage
The marriage as civil contract has the following elements and essential
requisites:
According to the Shafi’i Jurists:
i. Offer and acceptance
ii. Contracting parties (Husband & Wife)
iii. Tow witnesses
iv. Guardian
According to Maliki:
i. Guardian
ii. Dower
iii. Contracting Parties (Husband & Wife)
iv. Offer and acceptance
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The Hanafi jurists acknowledge only one element:
i. Offer and acceptance
Thus, if a man said to a woman “I marry you, and she accepted”, or her
guardian said: “I marry away my daughter to you” and the prospective
husband accepted, the contract is concluded, in the opinion of Hanafi
Jurists.
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Offer and acceptance
The most essential element of the marital contract is offer or
propositions from one side and acceptance from the other side.
Normally the guardian of the bird makes offer by starting that he
marries away the women on whose behalf he is acting, to the
prospective husband.
The bridegroom then declares his acceptance and that he has married
the woman according to the terms specifies.
The proposition and acceptance are both required to be completed in
the same session.
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Hanafi law does not require particular words for offer and acceptance. Any
expression, which conveys the intention of the parties in clear terms is
sufficient.
Thus, it is permissible to use the words ziwaj, nikah and etc. for conveying
offer.
This shows that words denoting taking possession instantly without
consideration such as gift and charity can also be used for the purpose of
offer.
Acceptance can also be communicated through different words such as
qabiltu (I accepted), raditu (I agreed), tazawwajtu (I marry) etc.
Sahfi’i and Hanbli jurists, do not permit to convey offer by the words
other than ziwaj and nikah because these words convey the intention of
parties in clear.
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The consent of the parties may be express or implied.
There is an express consent when the party expressly states in
unequivocal words or act that he or she is agreeing to the marriage
contract by the utterance of the words or by nodding of head or in the case
of a deaf or dumb, by a gesture clearly manifesting conformity to the
marriage contract, or writing, if able to do so.
The bride’s consent is implied when upon being asked of her consent, she
merely maintains her silence, simply smiles, or weeps silently.
Implied consent is applicable only in the case of a virgin, a woman who has
had no marriage experience but not in the case of a divorcee or a widow.
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Conditions of offer and acceptance:
i. The offer and acceptance should take place in a single session with no
interruption. It is not allowed to give offer in one session and acceptance
in another session.
ii. The acceptance should conform to the offer in all aspects. Thus, if a man
gave offer a dower of 4 pawn gold, and the woman accepted it for 3.5
pawn gold, the contract is not concluded on account of disagreement
between offer and acceptance.
iii. The contract should be immediately effective and enforceable. It is not
allowed to make it effective from some specifies date in future.
iv. The offer and acceptance should convey the sense of permanence. It is not
allowed to fix some period for the existence of contract.
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Stipulations in marriage contract
The contractual stipulations occupies a significant place in current debate and discourse
on the rights of a modern Muslim world.
The ideas of stipulations such on monogamy, delegated right to divorce, wife’s right to
work outside the home etc. are gained considerable attention amongst Muslim feminists
and activists in the last few years. As well as they regard these demands are tool for
women’s empowerment.
They insist on a Muslim women to phrase and design her marriage contract in such a way
that in includes all necessary details about spousal rights and obligations.
Many Muslim organizations are working on designing model marriage contracts
grounded in Islamic classical principles to be used by the Muslim men and women
intending to enter marriage contract.
Egypt – New Marriage Contract (NMC), in Iran- during the divorce half of the
wealth should be delegated to the wife, In America Karamah- monogamy, equal right
to divorce, right of wife to pursue her education, waged employment.
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Stipulations in classical Islamic Law
The Hanafi Opinion: Hanafi Jurists divide conditions into the valid conditions and
Irregular Conditions.
1. Valid Conditions:
which are in conformity with the requisite of the contract, and strengthen its
purpose, such a stipulations that husband will provide as independent
accommodation to her or will pay dower immediately or the father of husband will be
guarantor for payment of dower. They are not repugnant to the injunctions of
shari’ah.
Valid conditions also include those conditions which are not collateral to marriage
contract. Such conditions are permissible and must be complied.
2. Irregular Conditions:
those conditions are neither collateral to the contract nor does shari’ah allow them
such as a condition that each party will have the right to revoke contract within a
specified period or the stipulation that the husband may not take a second wife. Such
conditions are viewed by the Hanafi jurists as null and void.
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The Maliki Opinion: Maliki Jurists divide conditions into the valid conditions and
Invalid conditions.
1. Valid Conditions:
❖ Valid conditions are further divided into Proper and improper. Proper conditions are
those, which conform to purpose of contract. Improper conditions are not repugnant to the
purpose but create hardships for the husband and restrict his liberty such as stipulation
that he will not take out of her hometown, or he will not marry another women etc. such
conditions are not binding on the husband.
2. Invalid Conditions:
Invalid conditions are those, which are repugnant to the requisite of contract or which are
not allowed by the Shari’ah, such as condition by the husband that maintenance will be
the responsibility of wife not the husband’s. such conditions are to be revoked if the
marriage is not consummated. But id it has been consummated, then the contract will
remain operative, the conditions alone will be abrogated. The wife in such case will get
proper dower (mahr mithl) instead of specified mahar.
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The Shafi’i Opinion: the shafi’i Jurists, like their maliki counterparts, also divide
conditions into the valid conditions and void conditions.
In their opinion valid conditions are permissible and are binding upon the parties
whereas invalid conditions render the contract of marriage invalid.
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The Hambali Opinion:
i. Valid Conditions: the conditions which are collateral to the contract, or they entail
some lawful advantage to one of the two contracting parties. For example: A
condition that the husband will not marry another woman of he will not take away
from her hometown etc. such conditions are binding on the parties.
ii. Invalid Conditions: Invalid conditions are those, which are repugnant to the
requisite of contract or they are explicitly prohibited by Shari’ah. These conditions
are further divided into two kinds.
a. The conditions which do not affect the contract: the contract remains
valid, only the conditions is considered void and of no effect. For example: the
conditions that the husband will not have sexual relations with her, or the
conditions from the husband that the women will bear all the household
expenses or he will divorce his first wife.
b. The conditions which affect the vanity of the contract: that render it
invalid such as to make marriage contract effective for a specified period, or to
retain option to revoke contract within a specified period.
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Stipulations in Modern Legislations
The modern codes of Muslim personal law are greatly inclined towards Hanbali school of
law.
i. The Tunisian Code
ii. The Iraqi Code
iii. The Syrian code
iv. Kuwaiti code
v. The Iranian law
vi. The Moroccan code