Fear of letting yourself be totally vulnerable is a form of cheating...

1. Fear is Love
August 7, 2020
Fear of letting yourself be totally vulnerable is a form of cheating
yourself from life’s greatest experience, and being in a deep
everlasting love. Why not have the courage, guts, or intestinal
fortitude where there is really no risk but not letting go all the
way. Protecting yourself from love, be it your love or someone
else’s is chiseling yourself out of the most beautiful experience
possible. The less you love, the more you demand that others should love you, and then your
fear increases because their is the possibility of rejection or withdrawal.
Never fight. Nothing is worth fighting for. Wisdom never fights, it waits patiently, speaks
positively, let’s go easily, sees benefit or opportunity in everything and evidence of future
abundance…knowing that all needs will be met at the right moment in the right
way. If you think life is a struggle, you will always be struggling. If you see life as a
breeze, your attitudes and actions will convey lightness and easiness. That’s what
attracts every thing you need. Make life a breeze not a battle.
Restricting love and it’s fear of intimacy is leaving you alone in the world. Once
experiencing a deep love with no expected conditions, you will feel a sense of freedom like
never before and realize nature itself is a reciprocating lover, and the need of love never
comes from fear of not having it.
Many are brought up to question love because of fear of being left alone. Fear is a feeling of
no contact with anyone who doesn’t care, and especially when you haven’t had the
deep experience of love. Being left alone in the house and being a child in a crib with a
parent who isn’t readily available, is scary and dying in fear results. This is a strange
world especially for little ones who learn love and fear at the same time with the hope
that love is easily dominate.
Love is like a death. Not the death of a body, but the death of all conceptions that you have
about yourself. No longer can you keep the ego, and must be let go of for the ego puts up blocks to love
and can be antagonistic. What most call love is just ‘fools gold’, an invention. Without love life becomes
meaningless, and a mechanical thing that has only the 3 dimensions with no reality experience of more
than the three. It wasn’t until my mother passed several decades ago that I became conscious of
another dimension when many occurrences happened which could only be explained by her guiding
them from another dimension beyond the normal experiences in our life.
Keep the door of your heart open with all rejection of fears but the practical ones, like walking across the
street without vigilance. Love is in you and is you. Breath deep and the sense of it will arise. The ‘happy
place’ is the home within - it’s love. Love is like the wind…you may not see it, but you can feel it!
Arhata~