Soft skill: Talking with romance in mind. "HONESTY is the best thing you can give someone. Truth, friendship and love depend on it." ---Elvis Presley---

1. TALKING WITH ROMANCE IN
MIND
__“Romance” Group__
Ho Le Quy
Do Thi Them Ngoc
Nguyen Huyen Trang

2. INTRODUCTIO
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“Remember my
unalterable maxim,
where we love, we have
always something to say”
– Lady Mary Wortley Montagu –

3. CONTENT
 Do’s
 Don’ts
 Special situations
 Tactics in conversations
 Talk of love in real life

4. DO’S
• Begin slowly
• Teeter-totter process
• Self-revelation
• Not to reveal all
• Names!
• Chance to court
• Appreciation
• Generic subjects vs.
politics or spiritual beliefs
• Degree of interest in You

5. DON’T
S
• Mention about dating history
• Avoid too-broad and largely
unproductive
• Use mobile phone
• Be others, not yourself !
• Use direct questions
• A bit of secrets
• Save words on saying “I love U”

6. • Using letter, email, phone, sms, chat…
• Dating with the colleague  check the
rules pls!
• Facing with the unwelcome conservation
(sexual messages, regions,…)
• ….
SPECIAL SITUATIONS

7. CONSI-DER
TOPIC OF
CONVERSATIO
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 Anecdotes, opinions, observation
 Animals/pet
 Books/music/movies
 Sports
 Arts
 Work life
 Bragging, one-upping,
putting down others
 Money
 Religion
Divorce
 Retelling movies and TV
shows you’ve seen
 The other’s dating story
 Criticisms and
complaints
AVOI
D

8. Striking up an
acquaintance 2nd & 3rd dates
CONVERSATIO
N STARTERS
Later on… Closing
lines
Other…

9. SILENT THINGS CAN
BE
WORTH 1000
WORDS...

10. TALK OF
IN REAL LIFE…

11. IMPORTANT PRINCIPLES IN PRACTICE
1. Understand your partner
2. Be Smart & Humorous
3. Praise
4. Romantic messages
5. Honesty

12. Important principles
1. Understand your
partner
2. Be Smart & Humorous
3. Praise
4. Avoid sensitive
questions
5. Honest
• Psychology
• Hobby
• What he/she wants
• Updated news
• ........
The more you know the more
opportunistic you are

13. Important principles
1. Understand your partner
2. Be Smart & Humorous
3. Praise
4. Avoid sensitive questions
5. Honest
• Why you call me ???
1. Because, i call you each day at
this time
2. If i don’t call you, you will be angry.
3. My card still have enough money
4. I want to check my phone

14. What you will say if…
• Em là mối tình thứ mấy của anh?
Không phải là đầu tiên, chưa chắc là cuối cùng, và dĩ nhiên không
phải là “duy nhất”. Nhưng là mãi mãi.
• Tại sao anh yêu em?
Nếu biết tại sao thì anh đã biết cách ngừng yêu em rồi
• Em sẽ nhận lời yêu anh nếu anh dám nhảy xuống hồ này vì em
Không. Anh đâu có muốn em yêu một thằng ngu
• Không biết sau này anh hay em chết trước nhỉ?
Hy vọng là em. Anh không muốn em phải chịu đựng cảm giác đau khổ
khi phải sống một mình trên đời này.
• Trước đây anh có từng nghĩ sẽ yêu một người như em không?
Không. Anh thậm chí không dám nghĩ đến điều cao xa như thế
• Anh ghét đi shopping với em lắm đúng không?
Ừ, rất ghét. Cùng một quãng thời gian đó, nếu ta vào quán café, anh
sẽ nói được một ngàn lần câu “anh yêu em”.
• Khi nói “anh yêu em”, anh có lừa dối em không
Có. Thật ra là “anh yêu em rất nhiều”

15. Important principles
1.Understand your
partner
2.Be Smart &
Humorous
3.Praise
4.Romantic messages
5.Honesty
• Creative way
• Specific and clear
• Find something to
praise

16. 1. Understand
your partner
2. Be Smart &
Humorous
3. Praise
4. Romantic
messages
5. Honest
•Words alone will never be able to express the
depth of my love for you.
•In case you didn't know, I'll be loving you always
and forever!!!
•Just when I thought it couldn't get better, you
prove me wrong! I love you!
•Falling in love with you was the easiest thing I've
done in my life.
•Hand in hand and heart to heart my love for you
shall never part.
•Even though we are apart, my love you will never
part.
I'll love the sun for days, the moon for nights, and
YOU for forever.
Loving you makes my heart explode with
happiness.

17. HONESTY is the best thing
you can give someone.
Truth, friendship and
love depend on it.
---Elvis Pressley---

18. How to become better…
• Practice day by day
• Read and read
• Watch romantic movies
• Study from experience people
And
Remember that...

19. C
O
N
C
L
U
S
I
O
N
HONESTY is the best thing
you can give someone.
Truth, friendship and
love depend on it.
---Elvis Presley---

20. Thank You For
Joining Us !!!