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MTL: The Professional Development Programme
Dispositions of Counselling
DISPOSITIONS OF
COUNSELLING
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Dispositions of
Counselling
Introduction: If you manage others, you’ll almost certainly need to act at some stage
in a counselling role. This could be in a professional capacity, such as in giving help on
career moves or in a more direct way, such as on personal matters. The qualities you
will need (dispositions) will ensure that any counselling intervention you make will
result in professional and effective outcomes.
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1. WARMTH
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Convey positive warmth to others
Warmth is the ability to positively relate to
others. Any counselling relationship that hopes to
help others won’t get off the ground unless there
is warmth present from the start. A cold hostile
attitude on your part will simply close people
down. Instead, drop your critical judgments and
believe that what you are engaged in is of value
to you, the other person, and the organization
you both work for.
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Dispositions of Counselling
2. EMPATHY
Carl Rogers described empathy as “entering the
private perceptual world of another person and
being completely at home in it.” In empathy, you
need to get on other people’s wavelength. You
need to let the other person know that you
understand what they’re going through. You need
to put into words what you believe their mental
and emotional state to be. Once you can do that,
you open the door to solutions and can both walk
through.
Empathy allows you to open doors to solutions
https://pixabay.com/en/output-input-light-beam-sunlight-419280/
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Dispositions of Counselling
3. SPECIFICITY
https://www.flickr.com/photos/sk8geek/4432789946/
First, get the facts
A counselling relationship is not about discussing
why things happened which is always speculative
and personal, but what and how things
happened, which are clues to answers. One word
that describes this approach is specificity, in other
words, the need to stick to specifics. Avoid
“Why?” questions such as “Why did it happen?”
and concentrate on “What?” questions such as
“What do you want to do?”
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Dispositions of Counselling
4.
GENUINENESS
https://www.flickr.com/photos/gdsteam/28626865500/
Be yourself in a counselling relationship
When you take on the responsibility of helping
other people, you owe it to them to be genuine.
Entering a counselling relationship and feigning
interest is not just misleading, it is dishonest.
When you are genuine, you are honest, open,
truthful, trusting, and understanding. You are
fully yourself with your own limits and faults. In
being genuine, you are able to model behaviours
that encourage others to be genuine too.
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Dispositions of Counselling
Keeping your lips sealed
5.
CONFIDENTIALITY
https://www.flickr.com/photos/manymeez/4717801627/
You should not undertake counselling if you have
an urge to share private information with others.
Of course, there may be information that arises
during a counselling session that needs to be
passed on. To make sure you don’t find yourself in
a difficult position, you should agree the limits of
confidentiality at the start of a counselling
relationship and re-visit the agreement at any
point during the discussions.
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Dispositions of Counselling
6. DISTANCE
There is a certain point in the helping process
when you have enough emotional involvement to
understand others. Any more and you are too
involved, any less and you are not involved
enough. This point can only be experienced
through remaining sensitive to the client's
situation. It is the point of professional distance.
This point allows you to understand others but
also to remain distant enough to offer objective
insight, suggestions and support.
Find the right professional distance to others
https://www.flickr.com/photos/poptech/4911472068/
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Dispositions of Counselling
Find your inner calm
7. SELF-
RENEWAL
https://pixabay.com/en/meditate-theravada-buddhism-monk-2105143/
Being involved with other people’s problems can
be draining. It can lead to burn-out which,
although temporary, will make you unable to help
people further. Some kind of self-renewal is
therefore essential for people who regularly help
others. Self-renewal, such as a break, can be any
activity that brings you back from a feeling of
tiredness and inadequacy to a feeling of being
able to care and help again.
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Dispositions of Counselling
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AFinal
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When people at work have problems, so does the organization. Helping them through these
problems to resourceful solutions is more and more the role of managers and team leaders.
Develop these 7 dispositions and you’ll be able to practise this role with confidence and success.

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The Dispositions of Counselling

  • 1. 1 | MTL: The Professional Development Programme Dispositions of Counselling DISPOSITIONS OF COUNSELLING Show you care MTL: The Professional Development Programme
  • 2. 2 | MTL: The Professional Development Programme Dispositions of Counselling Attribution: All images are from sources where a Creative Commons license exists for commercial use. All icons are on subscription from thenounproject. All clipart is from free sources. The MTL Professional Development Programme is copyright of Manage Train Learn. Dispositions of Counselling Introduction: If you manage others, you’ll almost certainly need to act at some stage in a counselling role. This could be in a professional capacity, such as in giving help on career moves or in a more direct way, such as on personal matters. The qualities you will need (dispositions) will ensure that any counselling intervention you make will result in professional and effective outcomes.
  • 3. 3 | MTL: The Professional Development Programme Dispositions of Counselling 1. WARMTH https://pixabay.com/en/sun-summer-sunlight-vacation-147426/ Convey positive warmth to others Warmth is the ability to positively relate to others. Any counselling relationship that hopes to help others won’t get off the ground unless there is warmth present from the start. A cold hostile attitude on your part will simply close people down. Instead, drop your critical judgments and believe that what you are engaged in is of value to you, the other person, and the organization you both work for.
  • 4. 4 | MTL: The Professional Development Programme Dispositions of Counselling 2. EMPATHY Carl Rogers described empathy as “entering the private perceptual world of another person and being completely at home in it.” In empathy, you need to get on other people’s wavelength. You need to let the other person know that you understand what they’re going through. You need to put into words what you believe their mental and emotional state to be. Once you can do that, you open the door to solutions and can both walk through. Empathy allows you to open doors to solutions https://pixabay.com/en/output-input-light-beam-sunlight-419280/
  • 5. 5 | MTL: The Professional Development Programme Dispositions of Counselling 3. SPECIFICITY https://www.flickr.com/photos/sk8geek/4432789946/ First, get the facts A counselling relationship is not about discussing why things happened which is always speculative and personal, but what and how things happened, which are clues to answers. One word that describes this approach is specificity, in other words, the need to stick to specifics. Avoid “Why?” questions such as “Why did it happen?” and concentrate on “What?” questions such as “What do you want to do?”
  • 6. 6 | MTL: The Professional Development Programme Dispositions of Counselling 4. GENUINENESS https://www.flickr.com/photos/gdsteam/28626865500/ Be yourself in a counselling relationship When you take on the responsibility of helping other people, you owe it to them to be genuine. Entering a counselling relationship and feigning interest is not just misleading, it is dishonest. When you are genuine, you are honest, open, truthful, trusting, and understanding. You are fully yourself with your own limits and faults. In being genuine, you are able to model behaviours that encourage others to be genuine too.
  • 7. 7 | MTL: The Professional Development Programme Dispositions of Counselling Keeping your lips sealed 5. CONFIDENTIALITY https://www.flickr.com/photos/manymeez/4717801627/ You should not undertake counselling if you have an urge to share private information with others. Of course, there may be information that arises during a counselling session that needs to be passed on. To make sure you don’t find yourself in a difficult position, you should agree the limits of confidentiality at the start of a counselling relationship and re-visit the agreement at any point during the discussions.
  • 8. 8 | MTL: The Professional Development Programme Dispositions of Counselling 6. DISTANCE There is a certain point in the helping process when you have enough emotional involvement to understand others. Any more and you are too involved, any less and you are not involved enough. This point can only be experienced through remaining sensitive to the client's situation. It is the point of professional distance. This point allows you to understand others but also to remain distant enough to offer objective insight, suggestions and support. Find the right professional distance to others https://www.flickr.com/photos/poptech/4911472068/
  • 9. 9 | MTL: The Professional Development Programme Dispositions of Counselling Find your inner calm 7. SELF- RENEWAL https://pixabay.com/en/meditate-theravada-buddhism-monk-2105143/ Being involved with other people’s problems can be draining. It can lead to burn-out which, although temporary, will make you unable to help people further. Some kind of self-renewal is therefore essential for people who regularly help others. Self-renewal, such as a break, can be any activity that brings you back from a feeling of tiredness and inadequacy to a feeling of being able to care and help again.
  • 10. 10 | MTL: The Professional Development Programme Dispositions of Counselling This has been a Slide Topic from Manage Train Learn AFinal Word When people at work have problems, so does the organization. Helping them through these problems to resourceful solutions is more and more the role of managers and team leaders. Develop these 7 dispositions and you’ll be able to practise this role with confidence and success.