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Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 2
SPHERES OF INFLUENCE AND PERSUASION
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
THE POWER OF INFLUENCE
AND PERSUASION
 From the moment a person
is born, they are constantly
trying to draw attention to
themselves.
 Not only do we try to get attention by nature,
but we also try to persuade or influence people
to act or take action in a desired direction.
 Most of us have been using the power of
persuasion from birth, but very few people
actually study techniques on influencing others.
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Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
CONTINUED…
 The power of
influence and
persuasion is an art
 It can be mastered
with careful practice.
 Keep in mind that
people are driven by
instinct, emotions,
needs, wants,
desires, and beliefs.
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Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
DEFERENCE BETWEEN POWER AND
INFLUENCE
 Power evokes fear,
 But influence evokes respect.
 In both the cases, the
objective is achieved and the
work is done in the manner
you want but as soon as fear
factor is gone, quality of work
suffers.
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On the other hand, influence has got such a magic
that those under the influence keep working in the
desired manner even in the absence of the influential
person.
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
CONTINUED…
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 Influence is a desirable trait in any leader.
 Power is imposed from the top as when your
boss asks you to do a job.
 You do it in time and in the manner that your
boss has asked you to do, but you do it more
out of fear than any love or respect for him.
 You do the job because it is your duty and
you are fearful that you might get reported if
you do not complete the job.
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
 Some people are powerful because of their influence.
 Most derive their power from the post they have got.
 Adolf Hitler was powerful because of his position as
the leader of Nazi Germany.
 Mahatma Gandhi was the most influential personality
ever to have breathed in India.
 All the power he had was derived from his influence.
 He had no post, nor any power from the top – yet he
had millions of followers who were ready to die for his
cause or obeyed him blindly.
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CONTINUED…
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 8
Your spheres of influence
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
HOW TO PERSUADE AND INFLUENCE
PEOPLE TO ACHIEVE PERSONAL POWER
 Your ability to
persuade and
influence people to
help you get the
things you want in life
is one of the most
important skills you
can develop.
 By learning how to
persuade and
influence people, you
can achieve greater
personal power and
get more of the things
you want faster than
anything else you do.
 It can mean the
difference between
success and failure.
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Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
 It can guarantee your
progress and enable
you to use all of your
other skills and
abilities at the very
highest level.
 Learning how to
persuade people will
earn you the support
and respect of your
customers, bosses, co-
workers, colleagues
and friends.
 The ability to influence
others to do what you
want them to do can
make you one of the
most important people
in your community.
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CONTINUED…
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
 Your job is to become absolutely
excellent at influencing and
motivating others to support and
assist you in the achievement of
your goals and the solving of
your problems.
 All truly effective people have
mastered the art of getting lots
of other people to work with and
for them in the accomplishment
of their objectives.
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CONTINUED…
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
 The key to persuasion is motivation.
 Every human action is motivated by something.
 You must find out what motivates other people and
then to provide that motivation.
 People have two major motivations: the desire for
gain, and the fear of loss.
 The desire for gain motivates people to want more
of things they value in life.
 They want more money, more success, more
health, more influence, more respect, more love
and more happiness.
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PERSUASION AND MOTIVATION
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
 Human wants are limited only
by individual imagination.
 No matter how much a person has, he or she
still wants more and more.
 When you can show a person how he or she
can get more of the things he or she wants
by helping you achieve your goals,
 you can motivate them to act in your behalf
and achieve greater personal power.
13
CONTINUED…
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 14
•Legitimate
•Reward
•Coercive
Position
Power
•Expert
•Referent
Personal
Power
TWO TYPES OF INFLUENCING POWER
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
 Power that comes from a person’s
formal title, role, or position.
 For example, “the boss” in the
workplace has more power than the
workers through his/her formal
position of being a manager or administrator or
business owner.
 In the classroom, a teacher has more positional
power than students.
 In a military unit, greater positional power is
attributed to those with a higher military rank.
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POSITION POWER
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 16
LEGITIMATE POWER
 Authority granted from a formal
positions in an organization.
 Rights, responsibilities and
prerogatives accrue to anyone
holding a formal leadership
position
 Set goals, make decisions and
direct activities
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 17
REWARD POWER
 Authority to bestow rewards
on other people
 Appointed leaders may have
access to rewards such as
pay increases, promotions,
physical resources,
 Influences subordinate’s
behavior
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 18
COERCIVE POWER
 Authority to punish or
recommend punishment
 Opposite of reward power
 Right to fire, demote,
criticize, reprimand or
withdraw pay raises
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
PERSONAL POWER/
REFERENT POWER
 Dependent on personal
characteristics rather than title
 Personal power is attributed to someone who
has character traits admired by people in a
group.
 For example, a group might admire honesty,
charisma, eloquence, and trustworthiness;
 Person with most or all of those traits would
have the greatest personal power.
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Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
 Results from special knowledge or skill
 Followers go along with recommendations because
of his/her superior knowledge usually gained from
experience
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EXPERT POWER
If the group of people who admired those traits were
voters, and the person who had those traits was
running for election, this personal power might lead
to the voters electing that person.
The voters would be choosing the person
with the most personal power
CONTINUED…
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
A SPHERE OF INFLUENCE
(WHAT DO YOU NEED TO DO)
21
Gathering Information
Find a Sponsor who had a
good friendship with Professor
An appointment with him
Introduced
Game is over
Opportunity: To get approval for the proposal of the M Phil
 Strategy: Meet the professor personally
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
HOW TO INFLUENCE UP AND DOWN
When Managers
Influenced Superiors
When Managers
Influenced Subordinates
Reason Reason
Friendliness Friendliness
Coalition Coalition
Assertiveness Assertiveness
Higher Authority Higher Authority/
Sanction
Bargaining Bargaining
22
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
CONTINUEDD…
Reason
A. If logic is irrefutable then your case will also be
irrefutable.
D. If info or logic is suspect strategy is weakened.
Friendliness
A. Others enjoy supporting you
D. Overuse may lead people to suspect your motives
and competence.
Coalition
A. May seem overwhelming to others.
D. May be interpreted as conspiracy.
A=Advantage D=Disadvantage 23
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
CONTINUED…
Assertiveness
A. Very effective when immediate action is essential.
D. May create resentment with overuse.
Higher Authority
A. Effective when dealing with those who are reluctant to change.
D. May undermine relationships or be interpreted as a
threat. The Higher Authority may view it as weakness.
Bargaining
A. May provide a quick result when you have something
valuable/desirable to negotiate.
D. Creates obligations for the influencer.
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Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 25
 CLASS – R
C - Consistency
and Commitment
L - Liking Principal
A - Authority and power
S - Scarcity
S - Social Proofing
R - Reciprocation
CIALDINI'S SIX PRINCIPLES OF INFLUENCE
Robert Cialdini
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
CIALDINI INFLUENCE
Reciproci
ty
Commit
&
Consiste
nt
Liking Authorit
y
Scarcity
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Social Proof
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 27
 Consistency Style: Create brand image.
 Nothing Change
 Hair cut
 Neat cloth
 Walking
 Set of value:
 Lord Buddha- Five precept
 Jesus- Ten Commands
 Consistency behavior
 Behavior is very important to leader
Consistency
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 28
Jawaharlal Nehru
Cap
Example For Brand Image
Mahinda Rajapaksha
Dress and beard
Mahatma Gandhi
Dress
Nothing Change
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
BRAND IMAGE WITH HAIR CUT AND MUSTACHE
29
David Beckham
professional
footballer
Adolf Hitler
with Toothbrush moustache
Lasith Malinga
Charlie Chaplin
with Toothbrush moustache
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 30
Build your
Brand
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
31
 Psychological Commitment
 Flatter and praise, Make guilty tactically
 Emotional Commitment
 This is very difficult to build.
 Adolf Hitler, Mahatma Gandhi, Nauru
 Formal Commitment
 Signing of married certificate
 Asian marriage festival is more complex than
European.
 Therefore European can easily get divorce.
Three types of Commitment
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
32
 People like people who are similar to
them (Shared interests)
Eg. Famous sport, meals, Drink
Liking Principal
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
 Human nature loves to comply,
listen, and follow authority.
 If there is a Doctor, Lawyer, MBA,
or PhD next to someone’s name, people
immediately believe whatever they might say.
 “Just believe me, I am an expert in this field”
 Go to the restaurant; order the drink, waiter
delayed.
 If you shouted him; it is power.
 If you complain the manager; it is authority.
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AUTHORITY
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
SCARCITY
34
 People assign more value to less
availability
 How have you created more value
and less availability to your product
or service?
 It states that people will assign more value to
opportunities when they are less available.
 People cannot stand missing out on a good thing, or
that a deal might be lost forever.
 When scarcity of products or services are created,
their value and demand will increase immediately.
 This is a well known Economic Theory.
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
 Scarcity moves product from a logical, to an
emotional buying decision, giving the market
the control.
 Think of diamonds: diamonds are not scarce.
 The diamond industry creates a scarce
environment by vaulting the majority of
diamonds.
 They hold back supply so that people think
they are scarce
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CONTINUED…
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
 The reality is, there are millions upon millions of
diamonds sitting in bank vaults.
 Their cartel depends upon it.
 Identify the customers true need try to make it
scarce!!
 People are motivated more by what they will lose
as opposed to what they will gain of equal value.
 Eg. You can buy this shirt only for today and only
this place. Tomorrow is holiday.
36
CONTINUED…
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
•People generally look to other people similar to
themselves in making decisions.
•People will act and do as others are doing.
•When people see that others are buying one product
or service, their uncertainty washes away.
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SOCIAL PROOFING
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
38
 Dress, perfume, watch, pen, phone,
shoes, belt, Vehicle
Symbols of power
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
STORY TELLING
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Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
CONTINUED…
 Story is very important to the
leader.
 Before he comes to the new
office everybody entered to the board.
 Ready to say “yes”
 Stories have a way of connecting with people’s
emotions and keeping them engaged.
 When people listen to stories, they
actually simulate the story within their own
minds, which allows them to connect on an
intimate level to what is being said.
40
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
CONTINUED…
 This connection can influence their behavior in
numerous ways.
 The real power and influence comes when someone
can tell stories in such a way that they create events
in reader’s minds that influence them to make
directed decisions.
 Storytelling is one of the most powerful tools for
presenting your product, brand, benefits and
services.
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Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
 Instead of telling people how your company provides
a service, tell them a story about a customer who had
a life-altering experience because of their recent
purchase of your service.
 We are drowning in dull information, good stories can
cut through the noise.
 Personal stories feel ‘real’ vs abstract concepts,
statistics, or logical arguments.
 Stories capture people on an emotional level, creating
a deeper, intimate bond.
 Stories are memorable. People forget facts but
remember stories. 42
CONTINUED…
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
 Never underestimate the Power of reciprocation.
 It works wonders, and should be used by all leaders at
all levels.
 It is the practice of giving things away.
 This rule requires that one person try to repay, in kind,
what another person has provided.
 Give your clients and prospects something for free and
they will feel indebted to you.
 When your audience accepts something for free, they
are now more vulnerable to your influence.
 They feel a strong desire to be loyal to you and your
goal.
43
THE POWER OF RECIPROCATION
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
THE RHETORIC OF ARISTOTLE AND INFLUENCE
Three types of rhetoric for influence
44
Rhetoric is Persuasion,
Convincing audiences that the
speaker is probably right one-to-
many communication
Rhetoric is the art of written or
spoken communication
Logical (logos): line of argument
Ethical (ethos) : revealing of speaker’s character
Emotional (pathos): the feeling drawn from the
listeners
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
CONTINUED…
 Logical (logos)proof: line of argument
 Examples are used by the speaker to draw a final
conclusion from specific cases
 Ethical (ethos) proof: Revealing of speaker’s character
 Speaker must seem plausible as well as the argument
being plausible.
 He has to prove his credibility,
 Virtuous character (good and honest)
 Goodwill (good intentions for the audience)
 Emotional (pathos)proof: Feeling drawn from the listeners
 Anger, Love/friendship, Fear, Shame, Indignation,
Admiration
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
INFLUENCE IN ADVERTISING
 A female consumer
is thinking of buying
a new car
 She has a negative
attitude toward high
Fuel prices
 The Toyota is
advertised as a high
mileage vehicle
 She forms a
favorable impression
of the Toyota Aqua female
consumer
hybrid car
high fuel
prices
+ -
-
46
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
CONTINUED…
 Image-based
advertising
 Feelings and images
associated with a
brand are powerful
purchase influencers
 Brands are associated
with favorable images
and idealized
lifestyles
47
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
CONTINUED…
 Public information/awareness campaigns
 Drug Abuse Resistance Education (DARE)
 Seat belts save lives
 Don’t drink and drive
 Social movements
 PETA "People for the Ethical Treatment of
Animals"
 Operation Rescue (pro-life)
48
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
 Consumer guilt and environmentally,
socially conscious products
 Green stock funds
 Fair trade coffee
 Sweatshop free goods
 Cause marketing
 Partnering with a high profile
cause or a non-profit
organization with whom
the public sympathizes
 Healthy labels
 organic
 anti-oxidants
 hypo-allergenic
49
CONTINUED…
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade
WHAT IS BRANDING?
•A brand is the symbolic embodiment of all information
encoded with a product or service.
•Branding is the process by which a company, product
or image becomes synonymous with a set of values,
aspirations or states.
30
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 51
If you want to build a boat, do not instruct the
men to saw wood, stitch the sail, prepare the
tools and organized the work , but make them
long for setting sail and travel to distant lands.
Antoine de saint-exupéry
Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 52

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01. spheres of influence eng

  • 1. 1
  • 2. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 2 SPHERES OF INFLUENCE AND PERSUASION
  • 3. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade THE POWER OF INFLUENCE AND PERSUASION  From the moment a person is born, they are constantly trying to draw attention to themselves.  Not only do we try to get attention by nature, but we also try to persuade or influence people to act or take action in a desired direction.  Most of us have been using the power of persuasion from birth, but very few people actually study techniques on influencing others. 3
  • 4. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade CONTINUED…  The power of influence and persuasion is an art  It can be mastered with careful practice.  Keep in mind that people are driven by instinct, emotions, needs, wants, desires, and beliefs. 4
  • 5. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade DEFERENCE BETWEEN POWER AND INFLUENCE  Power evokes fear,  But influence evokes respect.  In both the cases, the objective is achieved and the work is done in the manner you want but as soon as fear factor is gone, quality of work suffers. 5 On the other hand, influence has got such a magic that those under the influence keep working in the desired manner even in the absence of the influential person.
  • 6. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade CONTINUED… 6  Influence is a desirable trait in any leader.  Power is imposed from the top as when your boss asks you to do a job.  You do it in time and in the manner that your boss has asked you to do, but you do it more out of fear than any love or respect for him.  You do the job because it is your duty and you are fearful that you might get reported if you do not complete the job.
  • 7. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade  Some people are powerful because of their influence.  Most derive their power from the post they have got.  Adolf Hitler was powerful because of his position as the leader of Nazi Germany.  Mahatma Gandhi was the most influential personality ever to have breathed in India.  All the power he had was derived from his influence.  He had no post, nor any power from the top – yet he had millions of followers who were ready to die for his cause or obeyed him blindly. 7 CONTINUED…
  • 8. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 8 Your spheres of influence
  • 9. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade HOW TO PERSUADE AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE TO ACHIEVE PERSONAL POWER  Your ability to persuade and influence people to help you get the things you want in life is one of the most important skills you can develop.  By learning how to persuade and influence people, you can achieve greater personal power and get more of the things you want faster than anything else you do.  It can mean the difference between success and failure. 9
  • 10. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade  It can guarantee your progress and enable you to use all of your other skills and abilities at the very highest level.  Learning how to persuade people will earn you the support and respect of your customers, bosses, co- workers, colleagues and friends.  The ability to influence others to do what you want them to do can make you one of the most important people in your community. 10 CONTINUED…
  • 11. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade  Your job is to become absolutely excellent at influencing and motivating others to support and assist you in the achievement of your goals and the solving of your problems.  All truly effective people have mastered the art of getting lots of other people to work with and for them in the accomplishment of their objectives. 11 CONTINUED…
  • 12. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade  The key to persuasion is motivation.  Every human action is motivated by something.  You must find out what motivates other people and then to provide that motivation.  People have two major motivations: the desire for gain, and the fear of loss.  The desire for gain motivates people to want more of things they value in life.  They want more money, more success, more health, more influence, more respect, more love and more happiness. 12 PERSUASION AND MOTIVATION
  • 13. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade  Human wants are limited only by individual imagination.  No matter how much a person has, he or she still wants more and more.  When you can show a person how he or she can get more of the things he or she wants by helping you achieve your goals,  you can motivate them to act in your behalf and achieve greater personal power. 13 CONTINUED…
  • 14. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 14 •Legitimate •Reward •Coercive Position Power •Expert •Referent Personal Power TWO TYPES OF INFLUENCING POWER
  • 15. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade  Power that comes from a person’s formal title, role, or position.  For example, “the boss” in the workplace has more power than the workers through his/her formal position of being a manager or administrator or business owner.  In the classroom, a teacher has more positional power than students.  In a military unit, greater positional power is attributed to those with a higher military rank. 15 POSITION POWER
  • 16. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 16 LEGITIMATE POWER  Authority granted from a formal positions in an organization.  Rights, responsibilities and prerogatives accrue to anyone holding a formal leadership position  Set goals, make decisions and direct activities
  • 17. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 17 REWARD POWER  Authority to bestow rewards on other people  Appointed leaders may have access to rewards such as pay increases, promotions, physical resources,  Influences subordinate’s behavior
  • 18. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 18 COERCIVE POWER  Authority to punish or recommend punishment  Opposite of reward power  Right to fire, demote, criticize, reprimand or withdraw pay raises
  • 19. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade PERSONAL POWER/ REFERENT POWER  Dependent on personal characteristics rather than title  Personal power is attributed to someone who has character traits admired by people in a group.  For example, a group might admire honesty, charisma, eloquence, and trustworthiness;  Person with most or all of those traits would have the greatest personal power. 19
  • 20. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade  Results from special knowledge or skill  Followers go along with recommendations because of his/her superior knowledge usually gained from experience 20 EXPERT POWER If the group of people who admired those traits were voters, and the person who had those traits was running for election, this personal power might lead to the voters electing that person. The voters would be choosing the person with the most personal power CONTINUED…
  • 21. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade A SPHERE OF INFLUENCE (WHAT DO YOU NEED TO DO) 21 Gathering Information Find a Sponsor who had a good friendship with Professor An appointment with him Introduced Game is over Opportunity: To get approval for the proposal of the M Phil  Strategy: Meet the professor personally
  • 22. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade HOW TO INFLUENCE UP AND DOWN When Managers Influenced Superiors When Managers Influenced Subordinates Reason Reason Friendliness Friendliness Coalition Coalition Assertiveness Assertiveness Higher Authority Higher Authority/ Sanction Bargaining Bargaining 22
  • 23. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade CONTINUEDD… Reason A. If logic is irrefutable then your case will also be irrefutable. D. If info or logic is suspect strategy is weakened. Friendliness A. Others enjoy supporting you D. Overuse may lead people to suspect your motives and competence. Coalition A. May seem overwhelming to others. D. May be interpreted as conspiracy. A=Advantage D=Disadvantage 23
  • 24. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade CONTINUED… Assertiveness A. Very effective when immediate action is essential. D. May create resentment with overuse. Higher Authority A. Effective when dealing with those who are reluctant to change. D. May undermine relationships or be interpreted as a threat. The Higher Authority may view it as weakness. Bargaining A. May provide a quick result when you have something valuable/desirable to negotiate. D. Creates obligations for the influencer. 24
  • 25. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 25  CLASS – R C - Consistency and Commitment L - Liking Principal A - Authority and power S - Scarcity S - Social Proofing R - Reciprocation CIALDINI'S SIX PRINCIPLES OF INFLUENCE Robert Cialdini
  • 26. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade CIALDINI INFLUENCE Reciproci ty Commit & Consiste nt Liking Authorit y Scarcity 26 Social Proof
  • 27. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 27  Consistency Style: Create brand image.  Nothing Change  Hair cut  Neat cloth  Walking  Set of value:  Lord Buddha- Five precept  Jesus- Ten Commands  Consistency behavior  Behavior is very important to leader Consistency
  • 28. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 28 Jawaharlal Nehru Cap Example For Brand Image Mahinda Rajapaksha Dress and beard Mahatma Gandhi Dress Nothing Change
  • 29. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade BRAND IMAGE WITH HAIR CUT AND MUSTACHE 29 David Beckham professional footballer Adolf Hitler with Toothbrush moustache Lasith Malinga Charlie Chaplin with Toothbrush moustache
  • 30. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 30 Build your Brand
  • 31. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 31  Psychological Commitment  Flatter and praise, Make guilty tactically  Emotional Commitment  This is very difficult to build.  Adolf Hitler, Mahatma Gandhi, Nauru  Formal Commitment  Signing of married certificate  Asian marriage festival is more complex than European.  Therefore European can easily get divorce. Three types of Commitment
  • 32. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 32  People like people who are similar to them (Shared interests) Eg. Famous sport, meals, Drink Liking Principal
  • 33. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade  Human nature loves to comply, listen, and follow authority.  If there is a Doctor, Lawyer, MBA, or PhD next to someone’s name, people immediately believe whatever they might say.  “Just believe me, I am an expert in this field”  Go to the restaurant; order the drink, waiter delayed.  If you shouted him; it is power.  If you complain the manager; it is authority. 33 AUTHORITY
  • 34. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade SCARCITY 34  People assign more value to less availability  How have you created more value and less availability to your product or service?  It states that people will assign more value to opportunities when they are less available.  People cannot stand missing out on a good thing, or that a deal might be lost forever.  When scarcity of products or services are created, their value and demand will increase immediately.  This is a well known Economic Theory.
  • 35. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade  Scarcity moves product from a logical, to an emotional buying decision, giving the market the control.  Think of diamonds: diamonds are not scarce.  The diamond industry creates a scarce environment by vaulting the majority of diamonds.  They hold back supply so that people think they are scarce 35 CONTINUED…
  • 36. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade  The reality is, there are millions upon millions of diamonds sitting in bank vaults.  Their cartel depends upon it.  Identify the customers true need try to make it scarce!!  People are motivated more by what they will lose as opposed to what they will gain of equal value.  Eg. You can buy this shirt only for today and only this place. Tomorrow is holiday. 36 CONTINUED…
  • 37. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade •People generally look to other people similar to themselves in making decisions. •People will act and do as others are doing. •When people see that others are buying one product or service, their uncertainty washes away. 37 SOCIAL PROOFING
  • 38. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 38  Dress, perfume, watch, pen, phone, shoes, belt, Vehicle Symbols of power
  • 39. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade STORY TELLING 39
  • 40. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade CONTINUED…  Story is very important to the leader.  Before he comes to the new office everybody entered to the board.  Ready to say “yes”  Stories have a way of connecting with people’s emotions and keeping them engaged.  When people listen to stories, they actually simulate the story within their own minds, which allows them to connect on an intimate level to what is being said. 40
  • 41. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade CONTINUED…  This connection can influence their behavior in numerous ways.  The real power and influence comes when someone can tell stories in such a way that they create events in reader’s minds that influence them to make directed decisions.  Storytelling is one of the most powerful tools for presenting your product, brand, benefits and services. 41
  • 42. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade  Instead of telling people how your company provides a service, tell them a story about a customer who had a life-altering experience because of their recent purchase of your service.  We are drowning in dull information, good stories can cut through the noise.  Personal stories feel ‘real’ vs abstract concepts, statistics, or logical arguments.  Stories capture people on an emotional level, creating a deeper, intimate bond.  Stories are memorable. People forget facts but remember stories. 42 CONTINUED…
  • 43. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade  Never underestimate the Power of reciprocation.  It works wonders, and should be used by all leaders at all levels.  It is the practice of giving things away.  This rule requires that one person try to repay, in kind, what another person has provided.  Give your clients and prospects something for free and they will feel indebted to you.  When your audience accepts something for free, they are now more vulnerable to your influence.  They feel a strong desire to be loyal to you and your goal. 43 THE POWER OF RECIPROCATION
  • 44. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade THE RHETORIC OF ARISTOTLE AND INFLUENCE Three types of rhetoric for influence 44 Rhetoric is Persuasion, Convincing audiences that the speaker is probably right one-to- many communication Rhetoric is the art of written or spoken communication Logical (logos): line of argument Ethical (ethos) : revealing of speaker’s character Emotional (pathos): the feeling drawn from the listeners
  • 45. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade CONTINUED…  Logical (logos)proof: line of argument  Examples are used by the speaker to draw a final conclusion from specific cases  Ethical (ethos) proof: Revealing of speaker’s character  Speaker must seem plausible as well as the argument being plausible.  He has to prove his credibility,  Virtuous character (good and honest)  Goodwill (good intentions for the audience)  Emotional (pathos)proof: Feeling drawn from the listeners  Anger, Love/friendship, Fear, Shame, Indignation, Admiration
  • 46. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade INFLUENCE IN ADVERTISING  A female consumer is thinking of buying a new car  She has a negative attitude toward high Fuel prices  The Toyota is advertised as a high mileage vehicle  She forms a favorable impression of the Toyota Aqua female consumer hybrid car high fuel prices + - - 46
  • 47. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade CONTINUED…  Image-based advertising  Feelings and images associated with a brand are powerful purchase influencers  Brands are associated with favorable images and idealized lifestyles 47
  • 48. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade CONTINUED…  Public information/awareness campaigns  Drug Abuse Resistance Education (DARE)  Seat belts save lives  Don’t drink and drive  Social movements  PETA "People for the Ethical Treatment of Animals"  Operation Rescue (pro-life) 48
  • 49. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade  Consumer guilt and environmentally, socially conscious products  Green stock funds  Fair trade coffee  Sweatshop free goods  Cause marketing  Partnering with a high profile cause or a non-profit organization with whom the public sympathizes  Healthy labels  organic  anti-oxidants  hypo-allergenic 49 CONTINUED…
  • 50. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade WHAT IS BRANDING? •A brand is the symbolic embodiment of all information encoded with a product or service. •Branding is the process by which a company, product or image becomes synonymous with a set of values, aspirations or states. 30
  • 51. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 51 If you want to build a boat, do not instruct the men to saw wood, stitch the sail, prepare the tools and organized the work , but make them long for setting sail and travel to distant lands. Antoine de saint-exupéry
  • 52. Asoka Siriwardana SLAS Special Grade 52