3. Aim to Presentation
Bid to capture more conference business in a 72 bungalow
island resort
Train staffs in effective communication negotiation and
selling skills
4. Aim to Training
Allow the resort to send any one of them on selling
missions, whenever needed
5. Training Plan
Importance and use of communication and listening
techniques
Use of effective selling techniques
Ways how to negotiate effectively
Detailed analysis of persuasive communication
Pros and cons of any audiovisual equipment
Specific physical requirements of a presenter
How to asses and read audience reaction and reception
6. Aim to Communication
Get information
Motivate
Cheat
Praise
Make arrangements
Give advice
Sell
Greet
Abuse
Etc
8. Give good information
Use precise, memorable and powerful words
Support your words with visual aids
Give demonstration
Communication
Provide examples/metaphors/analogies
Use the other person “language”
9. Use Positive Cooperative Communication
Soften the ‘you'd or change the into “I” to
avoid sounding pushy
Instead of : ‘You’ll have to….’, say ‘Could you….’ Or
‘Would you be able to….’
Focus on the solution , not the problem
Instead of ‘We’re out of mild….’, say ‘I will pop down
the shop for some milk’
10. Use Positive Cooperative Communication
(CON.)
Turn cant's into cans
Instead of ‘We can’t do that until next week’, say ‘We’ll
be able to do that next week’
Take responsibility – don’t lay blame
Instead if ‘It’s not my fault’, say ‘Here’s what I can do
to fox that’
11. Use Positive Cooperative Communication
(CON.)
Say what do you want , not what you don’t want
Instead of ‘Don’t; drive too fast’, say ‘Drive carefully’
Focus on the future , not the past
Instead of “I’ve told you before not to……, say ‘From now
on…….”
Share information rather than argue or accuse
Instead of ‘No, you’re wrong’, say ‘I see it like this….’
12. Verbally
Assertive People
Make statements that are honest, clear, brief, and to the
point
Use “I” statement : I’d like, I appreciate, I think
Distinguish between fact and opinion
Ask, don’t tell
Offer improvement suggestions, not advice and commands
13. Verbally
Assertive People (CON.)
Offer constructive criticism, free of blame, assumptions,
and ‘shoulds’
Ask questions to find out the thoughts and feelings of others
Respect the rights of others as well as their own rights
Communicate mutual respect where the needs of two
people conflict, and look for mutually acceptable solutions
14. Non Verbally
Assertive People
Make appropriate eye contact
Sit or stand firmly and comfortably erect
Gesture openly to support their comments
Speak in a clear, steady, firm tone of voice
15. Non Verbally
Assertive People (CON.)
Maintain open, steady, relaxed facial expressions, smiling
when pleased, frowning when angry
Speak a steady, even pace, emphasizing key words, with
few awkward hesitations
16. Manage Body Language
Sit or stand at right angles and on the same level, and
respect people’s personal space zones
Use open gestures and body language
Center your attention exclusively on the other person
Lean slightly forward to show interest; a bit further forward
to apply pressure, slightly back to reduce pressure
17. Manage Body Language (CON.)
Maintain appropriate eye contact while listening to
encourage the speaker; increase eye contact to apply
pressure; reduce it to lower pressure
Respond appropriately by basing your responses on what
the other person has just said
Be relaxed and balanced to make relaxed and open
communication easier
18. Active Listening Skills
Paraphrasing meanings: Translate into your own words
what the speaker has said
Reflecting feelings: when someone is expressing emotion
or feelings or looks emotional (upset, angry, excited),
convey your empathy and encourage the speaker to
continue
Reflecting facts : briefly summarize the content, or factual
aspects, of what the speaker has said.
19. Active Listening Skills (CON.)
Synthesizing: blend several ideas of the speaker into one
theme or idea
Imagining out loud: imagine what it must be like to be in
the speaker’s place
20. To Listen More Effectively
Attend mentally
- The right body language helps us to focus on the speaker and
encourages the speaker to give us more information
- Follow the speaker’s flow of thought, listen to understand,
not evaluate; listen first, then assess
- Paraphrase, clarify, probe further, summarize your
understanding
Attend physically
Check it verbally
21. Let your body language show you are receptive
Receiving Listening Feedback
Listen, don’t resist
Ask questions to make sure you’ve understood
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2
3
4
Keep calm and keep breathing
22.
23. Selling Techniques
Tell customers about a
variety of products and
services
Link the customer to any
support people in your
organization who can help,
advise or add value to the
customer's use of products
and services
24. Selling Techniques (CON.)
Respond promptly to customer
inquiries and stay in touch with
a number of people in the
customer’s organization, not
just the top decision makers.
Initiate discussions about
innovative ways customers can
solve problems or improve
operations, and work with them
to act on these potential
improvements.
25. Selling Techniques (CON.)
Show interest in customers’
future goals and operations in
addition to helping them solve
existing problems and meet
current needs
Refer to your experience with
other organizations to show
customers that you understand
their business and industry and
are qualified to meet their needs
26. Selling Techniques (CON.)
The Physical Product
Itself
Competitive features and
benefits
The Deal
Terms, credit, availability,
delivery, installation,
ongoing support and
application ideas
28. Negotiation skills
Contents
Reduce resistance & minimise conflict
2
Work to achieve a WIN-WIN situation
4
Know how & when to accept the opinions, values & will of other
3
3
Act assertively to achieve objectives
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29. Effective Negotiation
Is an important communication
skill
Reaches the agreement that best
meets both sides requirements
Should be conducted in a
professional manner
Be a solid foundation on which
to build future relationships
30. Negotiation skill
Preparing yourself
Identify your objectives
Identify targets
Know your resistance
point
Adopt the most suitable
style
Time the interaction
correctly
Achieve a deal
31. Formal Negotiation
Favours the party with the strongest power base
Limits the likelihood of informal talks
Emphasises the letter of agreement
33. Modern Negotiation
Enables strategic alliances to be built
Emphasises partnerships
Builds relationships
Is effective long term
34. Outcomes From Negotiation
Need to achieve the
objective set
Be of benefit to all parties
Ensuring a WIN/WIN
situation
35. Stages to Successful Negotiation
Exchange information
Assess Wants, Needs,
Information
Find the middle ground
which is fair & reasonable
to both
Firm up a mutually
agreeable solution
36. Negotiation skill
Approaches to Resolve Conflict
Skilful listening to improve understanding
Make careful note of actions decided
Emphasise issues, break up large issues
Assertion skills
Influence by using interpersonal skills
Approaches to Resolve Conflict
Negotiation
37. How would you describe this?
What is considered assertive language?
Use assertive language
Effective body language
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2
Negotiation skill
Recognising Assertiveness
39. Negotiation Strategy
Opening Exploration Create movement
Create Closure Finish
The Process
Agree
Boundaries
Deny
Need
Stress the
Difference
Agree Boundaries – On which the negotiation will focus.
Deny the need – A deliberate strategy in which both parties play down their
need for a particular outcome.
From the outset skilled negotiators will play up the fact that they do not believe
the outcome will be successful.
40. Barriers to Listening
Dialogue of the deal - Both
sides within a discussion, intent
on making their own point, may
fail to listen to each other.
Experience - The parties may
have had bad experiences of
negotiations in the past.
Familiarity - Can be a crucial
disabler when negotiating.
Skim Listening - Picking up on
key words and missing vital
parts of the conversation.
Attention span – Are you
focused or distracted?
Negotiation skill
41. The Levers Of Influence
Pull Skills
Creating rapport
Authentic listening
Skilful questioning
These Pull techniques also involve
the effective use of non-verbal
communication.
Consider carefully how
you want to build the
relationship
with someone who you
will be negotiating with.
Creating rapport :
Posture
Voice – Tone & Volume
Gesture
Eye Contact
Facial expressions
How we occupy our space
Negotiation skill
42. Negotiation skill
The aim is to use effective questioning skills to
Help build rapport
Obtain accurate information
Obtain other people’s opinion
Questioning :
Have a questioning strategy –
USE:
Hypothetical questions
Defining questions
Probing questions
Pull Levers
43. Negotiation skill
Assertiveness is
Saying what you mean
Meaning what you say
Asking for what you want clearly
Listening to what the other person is saying
Being honest about what is relevant
Being prepared to look for a workable compromise
Being Assertive during a negotiation is the best way
to achieve a win/win outcome. Conduct your
conversation
with clarity, confidence and an open mind.
44. Negotiation skill
Build Rapport
Network effectively
Work in a team
Build consensus
Be persuasive
Deal with conflict
A successful Negotiator can