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Relationship building 101

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Helping LGBT/progressive interns in Washington, D.C., make the most of their semester.

Helping LGBT/progressive interns in Washington, D.C., make the most of their semester.

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  • 1. NETWORKING 101
  • 2. NETWORKING 101
  • 3. The Rules:1.be prepared2.be genuinely curious3.put yourself out there
  • 4. 1: be prepared
  • 5. know your roots what interests you, drives you, gives you purpose/energy
  • 6. practice talking about yourselfSeattle native, San Antonio-schooled (talk aboutyour culture shock!). Equal love for Shakespeareand country music. Best shows of all time:M*A*S*H and The West Wing. Both w/ AlanAlda. Coincidence?
  • 7. my twitter bio@samirluther Missouri-born, LGBT & environmental/public transit advocate, techie desi (South Asian... but via Kenya) with an HR / CSR bent tag lines: “professional homosexual” “career queer”
  • 8. what’s in your wallet? Samir Luther samirluther@gmail.com +1-202-495-0950www.linkedin.com/in/samirluther
  • 9. where we • schoolbuild • jobs/internshipsrelationships • workshops/seminars/ conferences • volunteering • bars, happy hours • sports • trains, airports, planes • online
  • 10. where webuildrelationshipsin DC http://dc.linktank.com http://clotureclub.com http://dcist.com/ http://americanprogress.org/events http://www.dcconvention.com/events.aspx
  • 11. tips for when you get there• find the bathroom first – hair, nose, teeth, clothes• check your outdoor jacket, bag, umbrella (or leave in a corner you can keep an eye on)
  • 12. who are you? HE L LO my name is Samir Luther@samirluther
  • 13. 
  • 14. 2: be genuinely curious people love feeling useful/needed
  • 15. what do you have in common with the people in this room? find common ground
  • 16. working the roomhttp://lifehacker.com/5332556/learn-how-to-work-a-crowd
  • 17. be relaxed & authentic minimize negativity make mistakesavoid one-word answers
  • 18. answers: more than one word! extend your answers – make them opportunities for hooks hooks = memorable
  • 19. exit strategy! • come back to the goals of what you need to accomplish “is there something in specific that you’d like to follow-up?” • excuse yourself – Restroom – “I can’t stay for too much longer and was hoping to meet some of the staff. Why don’t you follow-up with me by e- mail?” • don’t give out your cell phone (try Google Voice)
  • 20. 3: put yourself out there and ignore the assholes!!
  • 21. tale of a Hill Stafferwho happens to be a very good friend of mine
  • 22. takeaway: don’t be afraid to ask for something• business card• get coffee or a drink sometime to hear more about you and how you got to where you are?• find out more about that report you’re working on• connect me to your colleague/friend?• would you mind if I added you on Facebook?
  • 23. less-awkward second encounters“Hi Alison, I’m Samir – we spoke after your Welcoming Schools presentation at Creating Change last year. Thanks again for your tips on…
  • 24. the next-day follow-up emailSubject: Follow-Up to GLIFAA Happy HourDear Jon:Thank you again for taking the time to speak with me about opportunities in foreign affairs at theGLIFAA Happy Hour last week. You mentioned connecting me to a colleague of yours who mightbe able to help me find positions to apply to – would you mind providing me with an emailintroduction?Thanks again, and have a good week.With gratitude,SamirSamir Luthersamirluther@gmail.com202-495-0950www.facebook.com/samirlutherwww.linkedin.com/in/samirluther
  • 25. should you add/accept? ask your manager for recommendation
  • 26. privacy settings are key.
  • 27. who’s in your network? super network everyone you know inner circle family, close friends
  • 28. thanks!samirluther@gmail.com @samirluther
  • 29. Read These• Improve your confidence: http://bit.ly/nw-confidence• Handling second encounters: http://tcrn.ch/nw-greetings• Business card etiquette: http://bit.ly/nw-bizcard