CAUTION EMPOWERMENT ZONE AHEAD There you are thinking you have your sh*t together, then something happens and bang, back to square one again. Oprah made it look so easy. You have a vision board, affirmations are stuck on the bathroom mirror, you have named your children, hope and destiny – but still no lotto win or invitation to the Ellen show. Well then you must be doing something wrong! I mean if it is working for everyone else you must be stupid or something – right? Surely enlightenment is just one ‘Om’ away? Here’s a newsflash – not everyone’s brains are wired the same. A lot of people have OCD tendencies or depression or are dragging so much family of origin garbage behind them, that they struggle to lift themselves up under the weight of it all. The last thing you or I need is to fail at some 30-day miracle cure, which was never going to work for us to begin with. We don’t need, as women, another reason to beat ourselves up. God damn it, I don’t want to feel guilty for eating the last piece of chocolate cake or wishing a plague of locusts on my boss or for not being able to manifest the perfect life. I simply want to be able to look in the mirror and go, “yes you are that awesome”. https://youtu.be/K0-PJk_JSvU