1. HUMAN BEHAVIOR AND SOCIAL ENVIRONMENTAL

2. MOTHERING
 Mothering
parenting
 Keibuan

3. Konsep Ibu
1. Wanita mengandung dan melahirkan anak
(terkait dengan keberadaan bapak)
2. Status wanita di masyarakat (secara
sosiologis)
3. Wanita berinteraksi dengan anak (dari sudut
anak)
1 + 3 = keibuan = interaksi psikologis
dalam bentuk : memelihara
mendidik anak

4. Hubungan Ibu- anak
menarik ?
 Menjelaskan pengembangan
kepribadian Ilmuan
 Anak tidak : sakit
menyimpang Praktisi
 Siapa diri & cara mendidik Orangtua
Aneka pandangan
Anak Komponen : - Badaniah
- Kepribadian

5. Identitas Diri Ibu
 Persepsi dan konsep diri yang terbentuk
berdasarkan pengalaman bersama
 Harapan lingkungan sosial

6. Lanjutan ....
 Tugas keibuan = Paduan
Faktor individu Sosial
Perwujudan keibuan
 Bervariasi individual
 Pola kompleks (2 individu)
- Guru - Pembujuk
- Pembimbing - Pelindung

7. Pendekatan Keibuan
 Pemelihara fisik : asi/ makan
tak berhubungan kelekatan
 Keibuan = seperangkat
sikap - menerima/ menolak
- molding + ciri anak
 Stimulasi : sensitif
signal anak Waktu!
berespons tepat
 Dialog : Komunikasi : - verbal
- non verbal

8. The High Risk
Mother
Deprived Mentally Rigidly
ill Authoritarian
Child
Rejecting babies
(can’t be comforted by any one)

9. Lanjutan......
 C0uple
Difficulties lies between partners :
 Parental immature & patho. Character of the child
 Sickly infant & anxious mother
Ambitious parent & retarded child
 Fearful & sensitive son & emotionally tough & unfeel
father
Perlu terapi

10. Teknik Interaktif Ibu
Continuum : Passivity Activity
1.Phasing Tech :
Infant leaading &
Mother following when
how
1.Adaptive Tech :
How are mother’s interact terhadap
orang dewasa : gerakan, facial exppress, speech

11. Lanjutan....
3. Facilitative Tech :
instruction to incourage the child’s
activity
“designer and consultant :
Suggesting “ to do”
Helping “difficulty”
Suppllying materials
Participat in activity

12. Lanjutan .....
4. Elaborative Tech :
Lets her child in first place elaborate
5. Initiating Tech :
Inisiatif ibu, two – way flow
6. Control Tech :
Mother more assertive
child to do something
to stop

13. Essensi Mothering
 Essensi mothering = love
Research ?
Love = emotional involvement with another
person
- Feelings centered on its object
Tenderness Possessiveness
Sacrifice hostility/ aggression

14. Lanjutan ...
Hightening all
emotions +
-
- Preoccupation with its object a wish to
possess jealously
- Hightened sensivity to its object casiar to
sense its moods, feeling, need, wishes.

15. Lanjutan ....
Maternal sensitivity
Sensitivity – insensitivity
Percceived the child’s signal / not
Misinterpret / distorting

16. Conditions Affecting Mothering
1. Personality factors : Mental
Illness Schiz
Ego centric deppr.
2. Environtmental cond. : Proverty,
unemphyment, poor housing
3. Hormonal influences : Parturition
hormonal changes Mother must be with
her off spring mothering at rophies

17. Lanjutan ....
4. Childhood Deprivation : Experienced not
being loved
5. Knowledge & ignorance : don’t understand
how to play, talk, communications with their
children.