14. Intervention Acknowledge Providing Comfort for the Victim Reporting Looking for Signs and Symptoms H ear: Listen to your friend. Tell your friend: "I believe you." E ncourage; empathize Tell your friend: "I'm sorry this happened to you. " A ffirm; acknowledge Tell your friend: "It's not your fault." "I'm glad you told me. R eport; refer; reassure Tell your friend: "Together we're going to get some help.