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The Nature of Change ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
The Anatomy of Change ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Healthy and Unhealthy Pathways ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Two Types of Change ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],“ The belief that we can rely on shortcuts to gratification and bypass the exercise of personal strengths and virtues is folly.  It leads... to legions of humanity who are depressed in the middle of great wealth and are starving to death spiritually.”  Martin Seligman
But do I really want to change? (Langer & Thompson 1989) Rigidity Gullibility Grimness Perfectionism Worry/anxiety Guilt Simplify Fault-finding Happiness Consistency Trustworthiness Seriousness Drive/ambition Responsibility Empathy/sensitivity Lose edge Realism No pain no gain ,[object Object]
Learning (and applying) Your ABC’s ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Happiness = Genetic set range + External circumstances + Intentional activities (ABC)
A ffect: Our Emotions
Gradual Change: Mindfulness Meditation “ Cultivating mindfulness can lead to the discovery of deep realms of relaxation, calmness, and insight within yourself... The path to it in any moment lies no farther than your own body and mind and your own breathing.”  Jon Kabatt-Zin “ All of us have the capacity to be mindful.  All it involves is cultivating our ability to pay attention in the present moment.”  Jon Kabatt-Zin “ Mindfulness means seeing things as they are, without trying to change them.  The point is to dissolve our reactions to disturbing emotions, being careful not to reject the emotion itself.”  Tara Bennett-Goleman
Acute Change ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Acute Change Through Peak Experience
Acute Change Through Peak Experience “ The term peak experiences is a generalization for the best moments of the human being, for the happiest moments of life, for experiences of ecstasy, rapture, bliss, of the greatest joy.  I found that such experiences came from profound aesthetic experiences such as creative ecstasies, moments of mature love, perfect sexual experiences, parental love, experiences of natural childbirth, and many others.”  Abraham Maslow ,[object Object]
Post Peak Experience Order (PPEO) “ Peak experiences often have consequences...  They can do the same there as psychotherapy, if one keeps his goals right, and if one knows just what he is about, and if one is conscious of what he is going toward.  We can certainly talk, on the one hand, of the breaking up of symptoms, like the breaking up of cliches, of anxieties, or the like; or on the other hand, we can talk about the development of spontaneity, and of courage, and of Olympian or Godlike humor and suchness, sensory awareness, body awareness, and the like.”    Abraham Maslow ,[object Object]
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Making the Most of Peak Experiences
B ehavior: Taking Action
Permanent Change Attitude Behavior
Behavior Changing Attitudes ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],“ Whistling to keep up courage is no mere figure of speech. On the other hand, sit all day in a moping posture, sigh, and reply to everything with a dismal voice, and your melancholy lingers...  Smooth the brow, brighten the eye, contract the dorsal rather than the ventral aspect of the frame, and speak in a major key, pass the genial compliment, and your heart must be frigid indeed if it does not gradually thaw.” William James
Behavior Changing Attitudes ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
 
“ Those whose deeds exceed their wisdom, their wisdom shall endure; but those whose wisdom exceeds their deeds, their wisdom shall not endure.” Chapters of the Fathers
Dan Millman’s Advice on Change "To change the course of your life, choose one of two basic methods: 1. You can direct your energy and attention toward trying to fix your mind, find your focus, affirm your power, free your emotions and visualize positive outcomes so that you can finally develop the confidence to display the courage to discover the determination to make the commitment to feel sufficiently motivated to do what it is you need to do. 2. Or you can just do it."
[object Object],Coping (Bednar and Peterson, 1995)
 
 
 
 
[object Object],[object Object],Coping (Bednar and Peterson, 1995) Comfort Zone Stretch Zone (optimal discomfort) Panic Zone (anxiety) Tension
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Bias For Action
From Self Discipline to Rituals
“ Building rituals requires defining very precise behaviors and performing them at very specific times—motivated by deeply held values.” Loher & Schwartz
From Self Discipline to Rituals ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],“ Incremental change is better than ambitious failure.... Success feeds on itself.” Loehr and Schwartz “ There isn’t anything that isn’t made easier through constant familiarity and training.  Through training we can change; we can transform ourselves.”  Dalai Lama
C ognition: Thoughts Create Worlds
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Cognitive Reconstruction Revisited
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Examples of Cognitive Reconstruction
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Acute Change: The Eureka Experience
I can do a year’s work in nine months, but not in twelve.   JP Morgan
“ You must have a room, or a certain hour or so a day, when you don’t know what was in the newspapers that morning, you don’t know who your friends are, you don’t know what you owe anybody, you don’t know what anybody owes to you.  This is a place where you can simply experience and bring forth what you are and what you might be.  This is the place of creative incubation.  At first, you may find that nothing happens there.  But if you have [such] a sacred place and use it, something eventually will happen.”   Joseph Campbell
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Acute Change: The Eureka Experience
[object Object],Combining ABC’s: Journaling
“ Write continuously about the most upsetting or traumatic experience of your entire life.  Don’t worry about grammar, spelling, or sentence structure.  In your writing, I want you to discuss your deepest thoughts and feelings about the experience.  You can write about anything you want.  But whatever you choose, it should be something that has affected you very deeply.  Ideally, it should be about something you have not talked about with others in detail.  It is critical, however, that you let yourself go and touch those deepest emotions and thoughts that you have.  In other words, write about what happened and how you felt about it, and how you feel about it now.  Finally, you can write on different traumas during each session or the same one over the entire study.  Your choice of trauma for each session is entirely up to you.”
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Combining ABC’s: Journaling
[object Object],Combining ABC’s: Journaling
“ Think of the most wonderful experience or experiences in your life, happiest moments, ecstatic moments, moments of rapture, perhaps from being in love, or from listening to music, or suddenly ‘being hit’ by a book or painting or from some great creative moment. Choose one such experience or moment. Try to imagine yourself at that moment, including all the feelings and emotions associated with the experience. Now write about the experience in as much detail as possible trying to include the feelings, thoughts, and emotions that were present at the time. Please try your best to re-experience the emotions involved.”
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Combining ABC’s: Journaling
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Combining ABC’s: Journaling “ An artifact of our ambiguous and unpredictable world is the anxiety of not attaining completion and not understanding a simple cause-and-effect explanation for traumatic disturbances.  Alas, we naturally search for meaning and the completion of events; it gives us a sense of control and predictability over our lives.” Jamie Pennebaker
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Sense of Coherence (Antonovsky) “ A global orientation that expresses the extent to which one has a pervasive, enduring though dynamic feeling of confidence that (1) the stimuli deriving from one’s internal and external environments in the course of living are structured, predictable and explicable; (2) the resources are available to one to meet the demands posed by these stimuli; and (3) these demands are challenges, worthy of investment and engagement.”
Combining the ABC’s A ffect B ehavior C ognition
“ I know of no more encouraging fact than the unquestionable ability of man to elevate his life by a conscious endeavor.  It is something to be able to paint a particular picture, or to carve a statue, and so to make a few objects beautiful; but it is far more glorious to carve and paint the very atmosphere and medium through which we look, which morally we can do.  To affect the quality of the day, that is the highest of arts.”   Henry David Thoreau

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1504 05-change

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  • 8. Happiness = Genetic set range + External circumstances + Intentional activities (ABC)
  • 9. A ffect: Our Emotions
  • 10. Gradual Change: Mindfulness Meditation “ Cultivating mindfulness can lead to the discovery of deep realms of relaxation, calmness, and insight within yourself... The path to it in any moment lies no farther than your own body and mind and your own breathing.” Jon Kabatt-Zin “ All of us have the capacity to be mindful. All it involves is cultivating our ability to pay attention in the present moment.” Jon Kabatt-Zin “ Mindfulness means seeing things as they are, without trying to change them. The point is to dissolve our reactions to disturbing emotions, being careful not to reject the emotion itself.” Tara Bennett-Goleman
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  • 12. Acute Change Through Peak Experience
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  • 21. “ Those whose deeds exceed their wisdom, their wisdom shall endure; but those whose wisdom exceeds their deeds, their wisdom shall not endure.” Chapters of the Fathers
  • 22. Dan Millman’s Advice on Change "To change the course of your life, choose one of two basic methods: 1. You can direct your energy and attention toward trying to fix your mind, find your focus, affirm your power, free your emotions and visualize positive outcomes so that you can finally develop the confidence to display the courage to discover the determination to make the commitment to feel sufficiently motivated to do what it is you need to do. 2. Or you can just do it."
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  • 30. From Self Discipline to Rituals
  • 31. “ Building rituals requires defining very precise behaviors and performing them at very specific times—motivated by deeply held values.” Loher & Schwartz
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  • 33. C ognition: Thoughts Create Worlds
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  • 37. I can do a year’s work in nine months, but not in twelve. JP Morgan
  • 38. “ You must have a room, or a certain hour or so a day, when you don’t know what was in the newspapers that morning, you don’t know who your friends are, you don’t know what you owe anybody, you don’t know what anybody owes to you. This is a place where you can simply experience and bring forth what you are and what you might be. This is the place of creative incubation. At first, you may find that nothing happens there. But if you have [such] a sacred place and use it, something eventually will happen.” Joseph Campbell
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  • 41. “ Write continuously about the most upsetting or traumatic experience of your entire life. Don’t worry about grammar, spelling, or sentence structure. In your writing, I want you to discuss your deepest thoughts and feelings about the experience. You can write about anything you want. But whatever you choose, it should be something that has affected you very deeply. Ideally, it should be about something you have not talked about with others in detail. It is critical, however, that you let yourself go and touch those deepest emotions and thoughts that you have. In other words, write about what happened and how you felt about it, and how you feel about it now. Finally, you can write on different traumas during each session or the same one over the entire study. Your choice of trauma for each session is entirely up to you.”
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  • 44. “ Think of the most wonderful experience or experiences in your life, happiest moments, ecstatic moments, moments of rapture, perhaps from being in love, or from listening to music, or suddenly ‘being hit’ by a book or painting or from some great creative moment. Choose one such experience or moment. Try to imagine yourself at that moment, including all the feelings and emotions associated with the experience. Now write about the experience in as much detail as possible trying to include the feelings, thoughts, and emotions that were present at the time. Please try your best to re-experience the emotions involved.”
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  • 48. Combining the ABC’s A ffect B ehavior C ognition
  • 49. “ I know of no more encouraging fact than the unquestionable ability of man to elevate his life by a conscious endeavor. It is something to be able to paint a particular picture, or to carve a statue, and so to make a few objects beautiful; but it is far more glorious to carve and paint the very atmosphere and medium through which we look, which morally we can do. To affect the quality of the day, that is the highest of arts.” Henry David Thoreau