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BUT OF COURSE YOU DOUBT YOURSELF BECAUSE SO
OFTEN, YOU HAVE THIS TENDENCY TO OVERREACT TO…
WAIT, WAIT…
JUST ONE MINUTE HERE. MAYBE..
JUST MAYBE…
So, you think you know a
narcissist.
AFTER ALL…
Maybe you’re not crazy
Does someone in your life:
Over-criticize you on a regular basis?
Make you feel “less than” or “not good enough”
often?
Always put his or her feelings before your own?
Often make choices without regard to your needs or
comfort?
Make you question your sanity by talking in circles
all the time or twisting your words?
Make you feel like you aren’t really as “real” as other
people, and like your opinion isn’t valued?
DEALING WITH A NARCISSIST…
You might be surprised to learn
that you might just be
That’s right. A Narcissist.
You can’t always see the scars of a victim of
narcissism.
Just like the psychological and emotional injuries
that are a result of being in a toxic relationship with a
narcissist,
you can’t tell that a person is stuck in a narcissistic
relationship
unless you happen to be a personal witness to the
behavior of the narcissist.
Narcissism and narcissistic personality disorder
can wreak havoc on the lives of anyone involved with
the people affected by these psychological
conditions.
Turns friends and family members into sources of
“narcissistic supply”
Will cause an affected person to have an “emotional
vampire” effect on those closest to him
Will most negatively affect the children and spouses
of those who are affected by it – or anyone who lives
in the same space
Can also directly affect co-workers and classmates
Narcissists are abusers
They are bullies.
They don’t beat their victims physically, generally.
But the scars you can’t see are indelibly etched on
the souls of their victims.
People who identify as sources of “narcissistic
supply” often describe life with a narcissist as
“SOUL CRUSHING”
A kind of overwhelming, all-consuming emotional
abuse inflicted on the victims of narcissists is a form
of aggression that should also be recognized.
Devastating emotional scars
The painful scars inside
That never go away…
You can’t see them.
But you can start to heal
them.
THE “SOURCES” OF NARCISSISTIC SUPPLY
SUFFER IN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS
AND YET WHEN THESE VICTIMS SPEAK
UP, PEOPLE OFTEN MISTAKE THEM FOR
WHINERS AND DISMISS THEIR PAIN.
Most people have no idea how
much
And then the crazy-making…
This, of course, leaves them confused and blaming
themselves for everything that is wrong in their lives.
Good news – you’re not crazy.
This is a technique employed by most narcissists and
it’s called Gaslighting.
Often used subconsciously by the narcissist, it’s a
manipulation technique that is designed to make you
feel crazy.
It is known to cause regret for the simple utterance
of the wrong word in the victims of narcissists.
It’s like your love is a drug to a narcissist
So you have to learn how to
SHUT DOWN narcissistic behaviors
DETOXIFY your relationships
Figure out what you really believe (and what you
believe because you were told to believe it)
Redefine yourself and your relationships
Start living the life you really deserve today.
But where to begin?
YOU CAN FIND TONS OF FREE TOOLS AT
QUEENBEEING.COM, AND THOSE WHO SIGN UP FOR
THE FREE MAILING LIST ARE TREATED TO THE VIP
EXPERIENCE, WITH FULL ACCESS TO THE SITE’S FREE
FEATURES.
Start at QueenBeeing.com
The QueenBeeing Way
A Queen Bee is Fearless
 Above all, a Queen Bee isn’t afraid to be herself, authentically and truly. She says what she means and she
means what she says. She’s socially savvy and intuitively connected to the world around her and she actively
defies convention by creating new and better ways to love her life, as well as to pay it forward to those around
her.
A Queen Bee is Passionate
 As Queen Bees, we know our passions and we actively engage in them. We aren’t bound by societal
expectations and we don’t do what others expect of us unless we choose to do so. If we don’t know our
passions, then we actively engage ourselves in living our lives to the fullest and with the intention of
discovering them.
A Queen Bee is Driven
 Queen Bees know what they want and they aren’t afraid to go out and get it. This starts with a certain mindset
that is both positive and open to change. We actively seek opportunities to improve ourselves and our lives,
and we actively take inspired action to make our dreams come true.
A Queen Bee Loves Hard
 Queen Bees love like no one else—they love their spouses and/or significant others, they love their children
(human and otherwise), they love their families and their friends—and they love themselves. They also practice
paying it forward on a regular basis, further spreading love into the world and improving their own lives in the
process. But if you mess with someone she loves, you might get stung.
A Queen Bee is HOT!
 Whether she’s a hot wife, a sexy single or a delicious divorcee, a Queen Bee always looks her best. Sometimes
she’s a tomboy, rocking that tomboy style. She might be a girly-girl or a slave to fashion or a farm girl who loves
her overalls—there are all kinds of hot. When it comes to being a Queen Bee, there is no one look that does the
trick. It's not about eye color, hair color, skin color, religion, race, the size of your nose, your ass or anything
else--it's only about being the best possible version of YOURSELF.
VISIT QUEENBEEING.COM AND SIGN UP FOR THE FREE
NEWSLETTER AND SITE MEMBERSHIP.
YOU’LL FIND LOTS OF FREE GOODIES AVAILABLE FOR
DOWNLOAD, ALONG WITH TONS OF STUFF YOU’LL WISH
YOU’D KNOWN ALL ALONG. 
So, if that sounds like
something you can dig…

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So, you think you know a narcissist

  • 1. BUT OF COURSE YOU DOUBT YOURSELF BECAUSE SO OFTEN, YOU HAVE THIS TENDENCY TO OVERREACT TO… WAIT, WAIT… JUST ONE MINUTE HERE. MAYBE.. JUST MAYBE… So, you think you know a narcissist.
  • 3. Does someone in your life: Over-criticize you on a regular basis? Make you feel “less than” or “not good enough” often? Always put his or her feelings before your own? Often make choices without regard to your needs or comfort? Make you question your sanity by talking in circles all the time or twisting your words? Make you feel like you aren’t really as “real” as other people, and like your opinion isn’t valued?
  • 4. DEALING WITH A NARCISSIST… You might be surprised to learn that you might just be
  • 5. That’s right. A Narcissist. You can’t always see the scars of a victim of narcissism. Just like the psychological and emotional injuries that are a result of being in a toxic relationship with a narcissist, you can’t tell that a person is stuck in a narcissistic relationship unless you happen to be a personal witness to the behavior of the narcissist.
  • 6. Narcissism and narcissistic personality disorder can wreak havoc on the lives of anyone involved with the people affected by these psychological conditions. Turns friends and family members into sources of “narcissistic supply” Will cause an affected person to have an “emotional vampire” effect on those closest to him Will most negatively affect the children and spouses of those who are affected by it – or anyone who lives in the same space Can also directly affect co-workers and classmates
  • 7. Narcissists are abusers They are bullies. They don’t beat their victims physically, generally. But the scars you can’t see are indelibly etched on the souls of their victims. People who identify as sources of “narcissistic supply” often describe life with a narcissist as “SOUL CRUSHING” A kind of overwhelming, all-consuming emotional abuse inflicted on the victims of narcissists is a form of aggression that should also be recognized.
  • 8. Devastating emotional scars The painful scars inside That never go away… You can’t see them. But you can start to heal them.
  • 9. THE “SOURCES” OF NARCISSISTIC SUPPLY SUFFER IN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS AND YET WHEN THESE VICTIMS SPEAK UP, PEOPLE OFTEN MISTAKE THEM FOR WHINERS AND DISMISS THEIR PAIN. Most people have no idea how much
  • 10. And then the crazy-making… This, of course, leaves them confused and blaming themselves for everything that is wrong in their lives. Good news – you’re not crazy. This is a technique employed by most narcissists and it’s called Gaslighting. Often used subconsciously by the narcissist, it’s a manipulation technique that is designed to make you feel crazy. It is known to cause regret for the simple utterance of the wrong word in the victims of narcissists.
  • 11. It’s like your love is a drug to a narcissist So you have to learn how to SHUT DOWN narcissistic behaviors DETOXIFY your relationships Figure out what you really believe (and what you believe because you were told to believe it) Redefine yourself and your relationships Start living the life you really deserve today. But where to begin?
  • 12. YOU CAN FIND TONS OF FREE TOOLS AT QUEENBEEING.COM, AND THOSE WHO SIGN UP FOR THE FREE MAILING LIST ARE TREATED TO THE VIP EXPERIENCE, WITH FULL ACCESS TO THE SITE’S FREE FEATURES. Start at QueenBeeing.com
  • 13. The QueenBeeing Way A Queen Bee is Fearless  Above all, a Queen Bee isn’t afraid to be herself, authentically and truly. She says what she means and she means what she says. She’s socially savvy and intuitively connected to the world around her and she actively defies convention by creating new and better ways to love her life, as well as to pay it forward to those around her. A Queen Bee is Passionate  As Queen Bees, we know our passions and we actively engage in them. We aren’t bound by societal expectations and we don’t do what others expect of us unless we choose to do so. If we don’t know our passions, then we actively engage ourselves in living our lives to the fullest and with the intention of discovering them. A Queen Bee is Driven  Queen Bees know what they want and they aren’t afraid to go out and get it. This starts with a certain mindset that is both positive and open to change. We actively seek opportunities to improve ourselves and our lives, and we actively take inspired action to make our dreams come true. A Queen Bee Loves Hard  Queen Bees love like no one else—they love their spouses and/or significant others, they love their children (human and otherwise), they love their families and their friends—and they love themselves. They also practice paying it forward on a regular basis, further spreading love into the world and improving their own lives in the process. But if you mess with someone she loves, you might get stung. A Queen Bee is HOT!  Whether she’s a hot wife, a sexy single or a delicious divorcee, a Queen Bee always looks her best. Sometimes she’s a tomboy, rocking that tomboy style. She might be a girly-girl or a slave to fashion or a farm girl who loves her overalls—there are all kinds of hot. When it comes to being a Queen Bee, there is no one look that does the trick. It's not about eye color, hair color, skin color, religion, race, the size of your nose, your ass or anything else--it's only about being the best possible version of YOURSELF.
  • 14. VISIT QUEENBEEING.COM AND SIGN UP FOR THE FREE NEWSLETTER AND SITE MEMBERSHIP. YOU’LL FIND LOTS OF FREE GOODIES AVAILABLE FOR DOWNLOAD, ALONG WITH TONS OF STUFF YOU’LL WISH YOU’D KNOWN ALL ALONG.  So, if that sounds like something you can dig…