UNDERSTANDING MYSELF AS AN AQUARIAN
Note: Underlined word/sentence describes me much or somewhat near to my own self undestanding
Sentence beyond open and close parenthesis are my personal comments
Aquarius woman profile - personality traits & characteristics
The Aquarius woman tends to be unpredictable, broadminded, exciting, independent and often
a little ‘different’ or even eccentric. Aquarians are the mad scientists of the zodiac, and can have some
very unusual and radical ideas and approaches to life, while often coming across as highly mysterious.
Often they have unique views which can make them fascinating.
At times she may come across as detached and distant. If this is the case, it's not because she's
indifferent to others, but because she's usually more concerned with humanity as a whole, rather than
any one individual.
She probably isn't interested in winning approval or compliments, making her often bold, non-
conforming, and sometimes shocking. Since she's probably not concerned as to what other people think
of her, she often doesn't bother forming opinions about other people's behavior; a 'live and let live'
attitude. Along these lines she's very unlikely to be into gossip, or to ever be petty.(I may not caught
them in the act but I'm pretty much sure who they are.)
She will probably be a rebel at heart, and may even be known to do things just to shock people.
Intellectual, radical and exciting she may view others as slightly predictable and stuffy, appreciating
those who are slightly unique themselves.
(my comment: Almost accurate)
Aquarius woman sexuality
Aquarians tend to be very uninhibited lovers, rarely having much concern for the normal or
expected. Passionate and understanding they have a love for exploring and experimenting with the
Aquarius woman as a lover
She will appreciate an intellectual and independent partner with an unconventional mind, who
isn’t too emotionally needy. More than anything she wants an intellectual companion with whom she
can communicate, and similarly the Aquarius woman often won’t consider a lover who isn’t her best
She can be hesitant about making a total commitment such as marriage, or any other form of
partnership, because of her strong desire for independence. However, when an Aquarian marries, the
marriage is usually stable. They are loyal and faithful(super!) to their marriage partner, although not
prone to displays of public affection.
Aquarius women gift Ideas
Aquarians can be hard to buy for, as generally they appreciate somewhat unusual gifts.
Ornaments and decorations may be a good choice, if you know the general themes your Aquarian
woman enjoys. Don't be tempted to buy something just because it's a little zany, unless it relates to an
area you know she's interested in!
Here are some things about Aquarius woman - you might choose to add them to your page:
1. How do you know an Aquarius woman is interested in you?
Well, we don't 'waste' time seeing men we are not interested in.(Super correct!) If someone gets
a date from me that means I am already interested. If I go on a third or forth date you KNOW for sure
you've captured my mind. At that point I'm still not interested in sex aspects. Yes, I do have a high sex
drive but I won't get involved until I can feel an intellectual spark.(I leave the intellectual not
underlined because I'm not just after the intellectual bond, I also consider the beat of my heart...Ayiii
cheezy!). If you push for the physical too early, before I figure my own feelings - that would be the
end of my interest in you.
2. How to keep an Aquarius woman?
I hate plans, I see them as a form of control. I take life as it is, love surprises, unpredictable
excites me. With a great career I don't need anything to make me happy.(So true!) I would however
welcome the plan of living together at one point, but please don't confuse that with 'marriage'. That
turns me off. Maybe after a year or two of living together, not before.
3. What not to say to an Aquarius women you're dating.
Avoid cheesy lines, we see through them.(Haha!Yeah!) Don't tell us we are clicking (let me say
that first, if that's how I really feel about us...Hakhak!)- every guy I went out with told me that. We are
peaceful respectful people and we get along very well with 99% of population. Don't ask for
homemade meals - we are great cooks twice a week max, when it rains...(Goodness!So true!Let me do
all household chores but not that one!Haha!)We would rather go out on a bike, to the gym or to
photograph flowering trees than cook.
Thanks Meg! Great input!
Source from: www.Compatible-Astrology.com
Aquarius female is a stubborn creature. She is quite the independent one and to try to pin her
down to one place will be futile. She has a temper and will show it quickly. She also will not be pushed
nor will she be told what to do(super true!). She is very much her own person.
Source from: Ask Oracle.com
Aquarius female will be quite a dicey affair - good one moment and bad the other.
Source from: Indiaserver.com---Astrology
=AQUARIAN LOVE TIPS=
"Loving the One that Can't Be Got"
By Molly Hall, About.com Guide
"The more you try to hold on to Aquarius lovers, the more you will feel them slipping like water through
your fingers." From Gary Goldschneider's Everyday Astrology.
Not Looking for Intimacy
It's a truism that Aquarians like to be friends first(very well said!). They want to keep things
light and stimulating. You could say they move from the outside in, and flee from any sign of being
held in love's embrace. The more sensitive signs should know going in, that Aquarians are fascinating
and cool, but not known for that heart-felt kind of depth(not really). It's good to have clear
expectations of what you're looking for, since the Waterbearer's ways can be shockingly loose. They
are free spirits. And as soon as you've established a rapport, they do or say something totally
unexpected, to break free from the love hold.
First dates with Aquarians should be fun and not too romantically claustrophobic. They'd rather
roam together, or in a group of friends, than go through the usual "getting to know you" questions.
Right from the start, you may notice they have short attention spans, following the shiniest thing in the
room. They may flirt openly with others, and not think it's a big deal(It's because we don't see it as
flirting. We're just very friendly by nature and welcomes openly those who are 'not afraid' to get to
know us better.). If the electricity is there between you, though, that's a good start.
Another quirk of Aquarius is their ability to vanish into thin air. They defy the usual beginning
of the relationship courtesies, and call when and if they want to. They don't stand on convention, and if
you call them on it, they'll likely be offended. They follow their own sense of timing(true!), which may
mean long periods where they are MIA, followed by rapid-fire texting and emails. They may want to
urgently get together, but then seem indifferent.
Part of loving Aquarius is accepting their unusual relationship to time. They may be late for a
date, because they lost track of time.(I really am always late in any appointment haha!) Or they may
make a surprise visit to your work place that breaks all taboos.
They demand privacy, and have a reputation for being the sign most likely to sleep around. (So
true!Even in public places!In the library,on the vehicles and sometimes if there's a long vacant seat!
Haha!) You might find out later that your Aquarius "friend" has been sleeping with you and two other
people. What counters this behavior is the fact that they're usually respectful of your privacy as well.
But remember that just because Aquarius doesn't tell you they're seeing other people, doesn't mean it's
Some Do's for Dating Aquarius:
•Share your breakthroughs.
•Revel in your friendships.
•Reveal your own fringey, nutty side.
•Be a little kinky and experimental.
•Show compassion for everyone equally.
•Be passionate about your causes.
•Laugh at their humor.
•Stay flexible about the schedule.
•Be clear about your own emotional needs.
•Be honest about your values (especially about monogamy)
•Be shocking in bed.
•Be full of surprises.
(For me, you just have to be yourself. I am really shy at first so make some move for me to be ease with you.
Communication is very important to me. Be sensible enough. Be true. Like Meg said above, if someone gets a
date from me that means I am already interested which never happened yet! Yeah. I've never been in a
date. I'm always dating with my friends haha! Curious? Read more below...)
Dont's For Dating Aquarius
•Don't judge their strangeness.
•Don't get too sentimental with words of endearment.
•Don't make assumptions about where you stand in the relationship.
•Don't assume they are monogamous.
•Don't judge them by how they look.
•Don't try to win their sympathy.
•Don't try to provoke them into an argument.
•Don't show arrogance toward wait staff or any others in a service position.
•Don't make labeling comments (racist, homophobic, etc)
Source from: Astrovalley.com
She craves change and although she can make your life more beautiful, she will not stick
around long. If she decides that you are the lover that she desires, and you show her respect and give
her the freedom she wants she may.
Source from: Ask Oracle.com
And does the avant-garde AQUARIUS still find time for matters that pertain to the heart? You
are interesting person in your own right, and no need to go all out to charm people into falling for you,
so have no fear.
The one on whom you shower your affections can count himself truly lucky, but your
unpredictable nature can be something of a trial and a challenge to others. You are an intriguing
personality, with naugnty sidelights. You like to tease people into thingking you're something you're
not. You can be a tease at loves.
Source from: Book entitled Your Horoscope, Astrology (Analysis and Interpretation of your natal chart) by
Estrella Del Mundo
=Aquarius Qualities and Characteristics=
Your zodiac sign is symbolized by the bearer of the jug of water, you provide the spiritual and
intellectual health drink to the society and people around you. And the water has a tendency to flow
ahead, so that you are forward looking, and optimistic, and think only in terms of growing inward and
You dispense knowledge, advice and even material possessions to those around you, who
solicit your help and emotional support. You are the sign of brilliance and creativity, but these are not
without the sufferings and sacrifices(so true). You have distinctive, in fact a peculiar character - you
are knowledgeable and intelligent yet hesitant to take important decisions or to give your opinion
where it counts most (haha! so true! I don't know why either!). You are quite philanthropist, at least in
thought (haha!funny truth!), and have a great sense of humor.
You are tolerant and don’t mind others poking fun at you (If it's for the sake of fun, yeah but if
it sounds insulting, mocking and does in a mean way---better run away!Neither I didn't like myself
when I'm mad! I usually fought verbally with rudeness in words I utter which makes my opponent
nothing to say at all...Haha! I remember confrontation with one of my co-worker...To cut it short.
Before saying words against me make sure you are more ideal than me or else I'll just return it back to
you more hurtful than usual!).
You are valuable to the world as you are a giver rather than a taker, you give hope and
inspiration (for those who need it badly). Aquarians are amiable, charming and intuitive, but can get
eccentric and unruly at times (haha! I don't know if I'm really charming but the rest are true enough).
They are also slow and shaky starters, taking their own time, but half way through, they might change
their mind, irritating those with them(haha!true!). In your love life, you will have really good
experiences, but some setback will keep piercing your heart at all times(huhu!so true...Can't blame
them either---with this unusual and unpredictable behavior as I am.).
Qualities that make you lucky are honesty, truthfulness, innovative, and insightful. Qualities
that hinder your success are inconsistency, unusual, rebellious, and cautious.
(My Comment: This reading is almost accurate!)
Source from: Ask Oracle.com
=Aquarius Horoscope Compatibility, Love Matchmaking=
Sign of nature: Masculine
Ruling planet: Satin
Symbol: Water Bearer, typifying the outpouring of love.
Element: Air, signifying your mental flexibility.
Colour: Electric blue also plaids, checks and stripes.
Metal: Platinum, Uranium(a mixture of gold and silver).
Your day: Wednesday, named Woden, the Teutonic god.
You have strong intuitive and psychic powers. You possess a strong will-power, and are hard-
working. You are fond of solitude, and are patient and persevering in your efforts. Religious and
philosophical, yet you are not bigoted. You see religion and philosophy as a manifestation of beauty
and harmony, and a means of universal love and service to mankind.
• Collecting gadgets
• Computer games
• Emotion and intimacy, people who show off constantly and try to be the centre of attention, being
taken for granted.
Very often, you tend to be rebels when it comes to love and romance. And the opposition that
was put up to your relationship becomes a matter of pride in later years. Values mean a lot to you and
you're generally steadfast and true to each other. However, once a chink appears in your relationship,
you're likely to go through with more than once fanciful relationship. The physical side of love means
as much and often more than bonds of affection and your partners are seldom dissatisfied. Given
certain situations, it’s generally you who tends to look for deviations.
• Aquarius (M) Libra (F)
• Aquarius (F) Capricorn (M)
• Aquarius Cancer relationship can be harmful
You are broad shouldered and large-boned, you have a considerable amount of grace and your
physical appearance is usually quite striking.(?) Many of you possess high cheek bones and a winning
Aquarian ailment is said to represent a feeling of being overworked and overburdened
gregarious. Generally aquarians are effected by the ailments i.e. calf and ankle injuries, varicose veins
(these three attacks me often), poor calculation, blood diseases, heart palpitations(rare).
Profession and business
You are not so keen on building your bank balance, yet, you do save money, which you are
inclined to use for the benefit of the public at large.
You should apply their ideals and utilize their unusual talents. (I'm on it.)
You have a logical mind, and would do well to be guided by your own intuition and reasoning,
rather than that of others in arriving at decisions.
Lucky For You
• Day : Sunday, Saturday
• Colours : Purple, Grey, black, blue, bluish green
• Stones : Sapphire, aquamarine
• Numbers : 4, 13, 22, 31, 40, 49 and so
Source from: Astrovalley.com
Sun in Aquarius
One of the standout characteristics of those born under the Sun Sign of Aquarius is their
unwillingness to follow the beaten track. With advancement and progress on their minds, there can be
an irreverence to old and outdated ways of thinking and doing things. Many Aquarians aim to free
themselves of personal and social conditioning. Although open to change in theory, Aquarians can be
surprisingly stubborn. Their idealism runs strong, but they can be very fixed in their opinions.
Often a bit aloof and even standoffish, Aquarians nonetheless are usually well-liked. They are
curious and observant, and tolerant in a broad sense. Prejudice and bias is offensive to the typical
Aquarius. Aquarians are generally very clever, witty, and intellectual. They value progress and
frankness. It's difficult to throw Aquarians for a loop--they're generally on top of things. There is a bit
of reformer in Aquarius. They'll try to get you to see through superficiality, and encourage you to be
open and forthright. "Be true to yourself" and "Don't follow the crowd" are mottos we easily associate
with this sign. Aquarians need space and value personal freedom. Any attempt to box them in will
likely fail. They'll happily return the favor; and they will treat people from all walks of life as equals.
Equality and fairness are hallmarks of the sign. If you're quirky and "different", all the better.
Short description: She is independent, autonomous, and has progressive ideas.
Weaknesses: an unusual, rebellious and revolutionary spirit.
Source from: CafeAstrology.com
MORE ABOUT AQUARIUS
Your talents are of the intellectual order. You are patient and long suffering and have the
tendency of melancholy(often). Your love nature is strong but not particularly demonstrative. You
have a great love of personal freedom and can not be forced to do anything. You are idealistic and
philosophical and inclined to be unconventional. You are unassuming but friendly and have the gift of
reading peoples' character.
Typical Uranian is often very tall and has a quiet unassuming manner which brings friends
easily. They are noted for their loyalty to friendship and often have the same friends all through
life(proven). They are imposed upon rather easily because of their love and sympathy for humanity in
general. The characteristic Aquarian is considered the highest grade of humanity. They are very
prominent in literature, science and philosophy. The effects of Uranus, the ruler, are often very sudden
and sometimes disastrous.
If you are a positive Aquarian, you indeed pour out for humanity all the benefits you can give.
You are inclined to take up lost causes, and you have a pretty complex personality: while you feel a
need for personal freedom and identity, there is within you an equal need to be part of a group. You
respect discipline but you are also emotional, impetuous and may occasionally rebel against the
institution of marriage, although your remarkable capacity to loyalty helps your marriage to endure.
You may not always be happy but you'll always manage, somehow.
You read character instinctively and for this reason you "see through" people too easily to be
really happy. You are generally lonely in life for you are over-sensitive(so much!), easily wounded in
your feelings.(super!) While you are not demonstrative, you feel things strongly. Your nerves are
generally over-wrought and you are a high-strung.
You are very good at reasoning things out, are very successful in debate and argument, taking
advantage of every ruse that presents itself. You have the tendency to plan things way out in
advance(very me) and will scheme for every little thing that you want.(true!) You are therefore good in
business and finance.
With your tremendous will power, your quick mind, there is no position in life you cannot
attain once you overcome your tendency to envy and your over-sensitiveness.(I dwell more on being
Generous, toward-looking Aquarius, they say you never balk at a challenge, and your one fault
is too much generousity.(I couldn't say whether I'm generous enough but one thing is for sure, I'm not
yet capable of giving too much, simply because I'm not yet financially stable.)
You have an inclination to be eccentric(Nothings new. Eccentricity in Aquarians are well
known.) and often disagree just to be different(Haha! Funny truth!). You are often vague and
unbusinesslike(true!) and drift from one person to another(proven). You are too sensitive which brings
the spells of melancholy. You are so independent that it often makes you brusque in manner.
(Independent in the sense of having a hard time asking for favor/help from others even if I need it
badly, that's why some of my friends and family are voluntarily helping me even I didn't ask. Nice to
know having a friend and family that are sensitive enough to my needs.)
AQUARIAN'S REACTION TO A FINANCIAL FAILURE
Considering material things to be of minor importance,(yeah) they will never be worried at the
sudden lack of money.(Of course we do!) His family may put up a protest against their preoccupation
in helping others and wish that he would take the time to take care of themselves this time. There is
nothing to worry about, really. When the situation is almost unbearable, the Aquarian will just
suddenly spring into action and work hard toward recovery. After all, they are provident person and
they must take care of their family. Their inventiveness will help them a lot in their struggle to regain
what they have lost.
Source from: Book entitled Your Horoscope, Astrology (Analysis and Interpretation of your natal chart) by
Estrella Del Mundo
SUMMARY OF MY NATAL CHART
Note: Natal chart reading is based on your birthday so it's more personalized than simple reading about
your zodiac sign BUT I'm not sure if infos are same with the other natal reading.
You can be quite expressive and animated in your speech. You have an outstanding memory
and tend to pick up a lot of information from your environment. You love to chat and to exchange
ideas. Even if you are shy, once you're friends, you love to talk about pretty much anything under the
sun, and you enjoy sharing stories from your past!(haha!proven!) For the most part, you are focused on
day-to-day activities in your communications rather than on grander philosophies. You are naturally
curious and interested, and others find you very easy to talk to. You are accommodating and curious,
but you are not as well equipped to handle heavy emotional demands. You thrive on change and
variety. You might be a little addicted to gossip! More probably, however, you are simply very curious
about others. There is a twinkle in your eyes, and you are never short on humor. You are playful and
versatile--you make a fun companion and an interesting friend. You listen! Yes, you do talk and
occasionally interrupt in your excitement, but you are a curious person who does want to hear what
others have to say, and that is a real pleasure. In fact, you are more able than most people to get others
talking, simply because you are very receptive and sympathetic. You pick up others' feelings and body
Because you value harmony, you may find yourself giving in to others too easily, especially in
the first half of life. Resentment is possible, as you can feel that you are the one who seems to do all
the acquiescing. There can be a distinct tendency to become friends (and lovers) with people too
readily, simply because there is a strong need for approval and a hunger for receiving affection. As
such, you may get involved with people who seem to really like you, and you fail to consider whether
you actually like them back!(haha! many times!) It's somewhat of a weakness, as you are very charmed
by the idea that someone seems to really like and appreciate you. Generally, one of your life's lessons
is to learn to discriminate more and to get in touch with what you truly want and need.
You may find yourself compromising your own emotional needs in order to find and keep love.
Peace and harmony are important to you--perhaps too much so, as you can easily be taken advantage
of. Insecurity is something that you need to deal with at some point in your life. Very sensual, you
sometimes replace love with food or shopping! You can also be quite sexually active and sometimes
quite lustful. You possess a distinct lazy streak. You are capable of working hard, but you truly
appreciate luxuriating and enjoying as many pleasures as possible, and self-discipline simply isn't
always at your disposal!
She lacks firmness, and can be a sucker for a sob story!(super!) She likes to live in a dream, in
the world of imagination, and can hope so much that reality checks can be brutal.
She wavers between a rich and successful domestic life and social success. She has difficulty in
succeeding in both. Very perceptive and given to psychoanalyzing people.(though it's not obvious,
yeah.) A strategist. Powerful emotions and intense feelings.
She sponges up the feelings and moods of people and the environment around her. Moody
communication--sometimes very talkative, other times withdrawn.(so true!) Tactful, doesn't want to
offend anyone. Fertile imagination. Flexible mind, sometimes gullible, but usually simply open to
possibilities. Indirect. It can be very hard to pin her down to any one belief or decision.
She looks on the bright side of life: she is gay, agreeable, optimistic, sociable. She likes to
speak and write,(so true!) and does both with charm and artistry. Her intellectual pleasures are
influenced by her feelings. She is amorous and sensual. She likes beauty, the Arts but also travelling.
She can put down in writing everything that her imagination and intuition dictates.
She has a great sense of observation and quickly grasps the situation. She is crafty, subtle and
Independent in love. Her love life is rich, but possibly with passing love affairs.(To clear this
out. I've never been in a love relationship but there were plenty of times that I'd fall for someone I
thought had also interest on me but just afraid to speak out and those whose brave enough to speak out
were the ones didn't catch my interest neither my type and almost of them are really disgusting!)
She tires quickly and is scared of losing her liberty. Traditional marriage may not be for her.
She has that little something that attracts the opposite sex:(hmmm...maybe but I usually ignore
this...that's the reason why I'm NBSB. I want real love not just boyfriend. If you're planning to woe me
just to have that called girlfriend to boast about, better back off! Don't dare push me to give my contact
number! When I say no, respect that. And damn! Don't ever give me money in order to text you! That's
really insulting! That's the most humiliating experienced I ever had! Don't fool me with the promises
like you'll treat me as a queen especially when you're not capable at all!. Don't ever ever treat me like
I'm a pick up girl that's easy to get! Avoid pick up/cheesy lines. I preferred someone whom bond with
me first rather than a guy who goes directly for intimate relationship without knowing me well because
I know I'm the kind of person that hard to understand and very unpredictable. I see-through people. I
read character instinctively that's why I only welcome people I knew possesses the quality of being
understanding, respective of individualism, open for acceptance, enough tolerance and those who are
sincere enough with the intention.^.^)
She likes amorous adventures, she is romantic(If you've already read some of my romance
novel, you would think I really am. I let some of my closest friends read some of my written novel.
Hopefully, someday I could share those to everyone.). She is the eternal lover and perhaps is unfaithful
if she has a serious relationship. She likes art, anything new.
The ability to get along with--and accept--people from all walks of life as friends is strong with
this position. She can readily see through insincerity in others.(though I just keep it on myself) In
relationships, tolerance is the most important "ingredient" to her. Her sexual preferences are somewhat
unconventional, and she won't be happy with a partner who tries to limit her sexual expression. She is
usually quite capable of maintaining relationships that require a great deal of freedom and tolerance,
such as long-distance romances or set-ups in which partners are unable to see each other consistently.
(Right!) Her style in love is somewhat free and breezy, and noncommittal. She quite naturally accepts
the idea that her partner might need some personal space and freedom.
Her professional life is unstable. She has a taste for the Arts, is a dreamer, is easily influenced
and romantic. She is emotional and very sensitive.
Romantic, creative, gentle, and adaptable, you naturally express the finer qualities of
mysterious and dreamy Neptune in your love relationships. Your imagination is rich and your fantasy
world well-developed. You are turned off by rudeness and crudeness, and are drawn to beauty in its
many forms. You are very giving and generous, but may be a little on the submissive side, or
sometimes downright lazy, failing to take the initiative when situations call for it.
She is energetic and determined. She has strength and resistance, ability and patience: she is
tough, and sometimes insensitive, and puts all her energy and talents into overcoming all the obstacles
to her success. She is obstinate, calculating, does not take on anything without having thought of all the
possible consequences, she can take all the time in the world and never loses patience to achieve her
objectives. She is not particularly popular in her circle, but is feared and respected.(I guessed so)
She possesses exceptional energy. She is impulsive but bold. She takes on risky enterprises for
the good of the community, with all the energy she possesses. She has a great need of her
independence, likes her freedom of action.
She attracts the most good fortune(not really to me) when she is charitable, tender, devoted,
compassionate, looks out for the underdog, and is giving. Values compassion and charity, and is
motivated by a universal vision. Peaceful personal philosophy. Faith in the goodness of life brings
She is too independent and her liberty is all-important. She lacks diplomacy, and her
extravagance is shocking. She likes verbal battles and espouses extremist ideas in order to shock her
companions. She has a number of internal tensions.
She has her own way of thinking about a subject, she has her own ideas about things. She
respects society and its rules guide her conduct.
Weaknesses: hard, unforgiving, rigorous, insensitive(sometimes) and sometimes inhuman. A
limited and narrow mind.
She knows how to be on top of the situation. She perseveres, is determined but ingenious and
original. She is very practical(sometimes). She proceeds slowly, but is always bound to achieve her
objectives in the end.
She is shy, delicate but proud, bold and lively.
She is discerning, wise and sensible.
Great sexual activity.
Source from: CafeAstrology.com