In the recent years, we've gone through a steep learning curve on how technology and digital has changed the way people behave, and in turn, we've gone through a steep learning curve on how to innovate to implement digital into the type of work we've always done.
But what's the one, single way that we should really view digital? I explored how love has changed in the digital age by examining the culture of Tinder, the rising popularity of the couple app Between in South Korea, and Spike Jonze's 2013 film 'Her' to find out.
5. +47%
In global mobile
advertising from 2012
to 2013 ($12.76 B).
+16%
In global Internet ad-
vertising from 2012 to
2013 ($116 B).
5Source: Internet Trends 2014, Mary Meeker
Photo credit: Gabe Ramos
+58%
In mobile app + ad
spending from 2012 to
2013 ($38 B)
From Spending
6. 5.2B
Mobile phone users
worldwide.
1.6B
Smartphone users
worldwide.
429MM
Tablet users
worldwide.
+47%
In global mobile
advertising from 2012
to 2013 ($12.76 B).
+16%
In global Internet ad-
vertising from 2012 to
2013 ($116 B).
6Source: Internet Trends 2014, Mary Meeker
Photo credit: Gabe Ramos
+58%
In mobile app + ad
spending from 2012 to
2013 ($38 B)
To ConsumptionFrom Spending
7. 25%
Mobile usage as per-
centage of total web
usage.
50B
WhatsApp messages
sent per day.
5.2B
Mobile phone users
worldwide.
1.6B
Smartphone users
worldwide.
6MM
Guest stays through
Airbnb, and 550K list-
ings (+83% Y/Y)
429MM
Tablet users
worldwide.
+47%
In global mobile
advertising from 2012
to 2013 ($12.76 B).
+16%
In global Internet ad-
vertising from 2012 to
2013 ($116 B).
7Source: Internet Trends 2014, Mary Meeker
Photo credit: Gabe Ramos
+58%
In mobile app + ad
spending from 2012 to
2013 ($38 B)
To Consumption To UtilityFrom Spending
14. A flatter, but not-so-dif-
ferent dating world
Tinder has now become one of the most
popular ways to meet new people. Its ma-
jor difference to dating in the past is the
effortless volume of options and interac-
tions, but its true resonance is how
similar it mirrors our behaviour in the
physical world: we unconsciously deter-
mine attraction instantly on appearances.
14
Tinder is a dating app
that allows users to ei-
ther swipe profiles of
nearby singles left (not
interested) or right (inter-
ested). If both users swipe
each other’s profile right,
they’re then connected and
are able to message each
other.
800 MM
Swipes per
day (Internet
Trends 2014)
An evening in
NYC on Tinder...
620,000 Swipes
19,000 Matches
60,000 Messages Sent
(New York Times)
11 MM
Matches per
day (Internet
Trends 2014)
15. The New ‘Non-Date’
It’s hard to determine what’s a
‘date’ anymore and if you’ve actu-
ally just been on one.
Asynchronous communication
over phone texts, Instagram posts,
and other ‘non-dates’ have cumu-
latively replaced how we devel-
oped relationships in many ways
through dating a decade ago.
15
16. Dating culture has
evolved to a cycle of text
messages, each one re-
quiring the code-break-
ing skills of a cold war
spy to interpret. “The End of
Courtship?”
The New York
Times, January
11, 2013
16
Embrace all of the men in
your orbit, whether they
text or G-chat, whether
they’re hunky or grun-
gy... and in the midst of
this confusing, messy
muddle, the young wom-
en argued, romance can
(sometimes) bloom.
“Seeking Love?
Find Strength in
Numbers”
The New York
Times, October
24, 2012
“Tinder’s Sean
Rad Hints At A
Future Beyond
Dating,”
TechCrunch, Oc-
tober 29, 2013
..the basic mechanism,
where two people are only
connected when they both
express interest in each
other, is “a universal thing
across friendships, across
business, across any-
thing.”
18. A Laboratory for
Digital Love
Known for its technological
advancements over the rest of
the world and its unique couple
culture, South Korea serves as
the perfect microscopic lens to
analyze where love in the digi-
tal age is headed.
18Photo credit: Jared Lim
19. 19
Photo credit: CNN
Technology in
South Korea
at a Glance
4G LTE Subway
Network
Along with subway
trains arriving every 90
seconds, transit riders
usually watch live televi-
sion (through DMB) on
their phones or message
using KakaoTalk.
(New Yorker)
Virtual
Supermarkets
At certain subway sta-
tions and bus stops,
virtual grocery stores are
setup where commuters
can scan grocery items
and have them delivered
to their home.
5.2 Billion Kakao-
Talk Messages Sent
Per Day
And 93% of smartphone
users in South Korea use
KakaoTalk, the popular
messaging app
(TechTimes).
73% of the Population
Are Smartphone Users
The second highest smart-
phone penetration in the
world, only falling behind to
United Arab Emirate with
73.8%. (The Independent)
98% of Households
Have Broadband
Compared to U.S.’s 68%.
(New Yorker)
Photo credit: kimhwan
20. South Korea’s
Couple Culture
at a Glance
20Photo credit: www.couplemotion.com
Diary Day (Jan.), Valen-
tine’s Day (Feb.), White
Day (Mar.), Black Day
(Apr), Rose Day (May),
Kiss Day (June), Silver Day
(July), Green Day (Aug.),
Photo and Music Day
(Sept.), Apple Day (Oct.),
Movie and Orange Day
(Nov.), Hug Day (Dec.)
The 14th of
Each Month...
The 14th of every
month represents
a couple’s holiday.
The Couple Ring
After 100 days of dat-
ing, couples typically buy
“couple rings” to publicly
display their relationship.
However, married couples
typically do not wear their
rings after marriage.
Couple’s Outfits
While PDA isn’t very
popular amongst couples,
letting everyone know
that you’re a couple is.
Matching outfits from
head to toe can often be
found in public.
Celebrating Every
100 Days
Where as North Americans
typically celebrate one-year
(and two-year, three year,
etc.) anniversaries, couples in
South Korea celebrate every
100 days. In fact, keeping
track of the number of days
since the first date is a com-
mon practice (“D-Day”).
21. Between: The New
Couple Ring
Between, which is now used by more than
half of twentysomethings in South Korea,
aims to provide the fundamentals of a ful-
filled relationship by tackling memory and
communication, and the combination of
technology and couple culture of South Ko-
rea has allowed Between to reach its poten-
tial by becoming an integral and intimate
element of relationships.
21
Between is an app that
provides couples “a
beautiful space where
you can share all your
moments only with the
one that matters.”
7.45 MM
Downloads at
the end of May
2014 (Venture-
Beat)
510 Mins.
Spent on the
app per month
on average.
(TechCrunch)
1 in 5
Couples in
South Korea
uses Between.
(TechCrunch)
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Do you want to Between?
The use of Between in South Korea has shown
that the app has embedded ideals such as trans-
parency, trust, and monogamy through its plat-
form.
In many cases, the common expression of “do
you want to be my girlfriend?” is now replaced
with, “Do you want to be my Between?”
“In April, while the K-pop super-
group Girls’ Generation was con-
ducting a backstage interview for a
television show, the phone of one
of the group’s members, Hyoyeon,
emitted a telltale bloop - the sound
that notifies a Between user that she
has received a message from her
beloved. Gossip sites lit up with the
news: ‘Hyoyeon confirms that she has
a boyfriend on TV broadcast!’” (“The
Love App”, The New Yorker, 2013)
23. There’s a paradox implicit
in products like Between
– technologies intended to
help people regain what
they’re losing because of
technology.
“The Love App,”
The New Yorker,
November 25,
2013
74%“Couples, the
Internet, and
Social Media,”
Pew Research,
February 11,
2014
of adult internet users
say the internet has had
a positive impact on
their relationship.
23
Date nights are great, but
relationship experts say it’s
the little acts of kindness
that matter more... An app
could make gestures like
those a little bit easier.
“Why Don’t We
Have a Monogamy
App?”
The Cut, February
14, 2014
25. What did a technology
film about love tell us?
What we learned more than anything
from ‘Her’ was about ourselves as
humans and how our personal re-
lationships grow, all through a por-
trayed relationship between Theodore
Twombly, the main character, and
Samantha, the operating system.
25
“A lonely writer develops
an unlikely relationship
with his newly purchased
operating system that’s
designed to meet his ev-
ery need.” (IMDB)
26. Satisfaction Through
Technology
As the relationship between Theo-
dore Twombly and Samantha pro-
gressed, we clearly saw the emo-
tions that Theodore developed were
real, which raises the question: How
significant can interactions through
technology replace certain constitu-
ents for love?
26Photo credit: Her (2013)
27. Are We Already There?
Although we won’t be finding A.I. op-
erating systems on store shelves any-
time soon, what ‘Her’ showed us is
that a large portion of our needs in
love can be satisfied with interactions
through technology, and to some ex-
tent, we’ve began to already see
this through the increasingly popular
demand of couple apps and the ways
it has significantly helped with long
distance relationships or couples with
busy professional lives in a way that
has never existed in the past.
27
You & Me
AvocadoCouple
Between
28. [Technology] may mod-
ify the way we go about
meeting our basic hu-
man needs, but they don’t
change our fundamental
human needs.
“Love in the
Modern Age,”
The Creator’s
Project, January
17, 2014
28
I think that [Aaron Schildkrout,
co-founder of ‘You & Me’] is
right. I’ve had some of my most
emotionally intimate and hon-
est conversations with friends
and romantic partners on mo-
bile devices. And while virtual
chats and hugs will never be the
same as their real-world coun-
terparts, they can come awfully
close in a pinch.
“I Had a Nice Time
With You Tonight.
On the App,”
The New York
Times, April 5, 2014
Any sort of love
is what connects
people to feel like
they exist.
Charlyne Yi,
Musician/Writ-
er/Comedian
33. 3333
Instead, we should think about
how we can create for people
who live in a world where both
physical and digital exist on
the same plane to satisfy our
human needs.
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By Trung Ho
@trungho on Twitter
or trungho32@gmail.com
Inspired by
Spike Jonze’s ‘Her’ and
Lauren Collins’s ‘The Love App’
Resources
The Creator’s Project
The Cut
eatyourkimchi.com
‘Her’ (2013)
Internet Trends 2014 (Mary Meeker)
TechCrunch
The New Yorker
The New York Times