1. The Wife Led Relationship Is It For You
There are different degrees to a wife led relationship. Many men are content and even thrilled to let
the wife take complete control of the relationship. This goes beyond letting her make the decisions,
into dominant and submissive behavior. Some men simply allow the wife to make the major decisions
and set the tone, without being truly submissive.
To what degree your marriage becomes a wife led relationship is based mostly on both your
preferences. Maybe you feel better when she makes the decisions and handles the checkbook.
Remember that though youre allowing her to have that control, it can be a burden too. Especially if
shes not comfortable with those tasks.
Rather than feeling like shes lucky to have control, she might feel that youre pushing off unpleasant
decisions and jobs onto her. Be sure to balance it by taking over things that she doesnt like to do.
This type of marriage is wife led in the sense that she has the major amount of control.
But a popular fantasy for many men is to have a truly wife led relationship. They become quite
submissive to the wife in everything. They do the chores and anything she tells them. And serving
their wives in this way pleases them a great deal.
The submissiveness even carries over their sex lives. In fact, thats the big appeal for many men in
having this type of relationship. They secretly want to be dominated sexually, and the rest just adds to
that appeal.
In a true wife led relationship, the man knows that she has authority over him. He does the chores
and tries to anticipate her every need. She doesnt thank him, but may tell him hes doing a good job.
When it comes to sex, the man is only allowed as much pleasure as the woman feels like letting him
have. And not allowing him to have an orgasm, or delaying it, is something these men find enjoyable.
A relationship of this type isnt for everyone, but many men feel happiest when their wives have
control. And while it might sound like the woman has it made in a wife led relationship, its not always
easy for her either.
If a woman has been raised believing in the typical roles of husband and wife, suddenly being asked
to take charge of everything can be daunting. Granted, the housework and other chores will probably
be done by the man. But the handling of the big decisions, finances and other things might be a new
experience.
Some women may not enjoy it, at least not all the time. But if the man really wants that, a
compromise could work where certain days or periods of time are spent with the wife taking charge.
If you would like this kind of relationship but dont know how to ask your wife, you may want to write

2. your feelings down. Or you could start behaving as if youre in a wife-led relationship and then bring it
up by asking her if she likes your behavior.
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