Winning back your ex-boyfriend requires understanding things from a guy's perspective after a breakup. Initially, guys want to avoid their ex due to awkwardness. Making yourself scarce can pique his interest in wondering what you're doing. Seeing your ex happy with others is a blow to a guy's ego and makes him question why he broke up with you. Calling an ex verifies you still desire him and satisfies his ego, while not calling unsettles him. Ultimately, any guy wants to keep the door to getting back together open slightly by not fully closing it off. Taking control by moving on can upset his comfortable position and make him want you back by threatening the loss of you even in a small capacity.

1. Winning Back Your
Boyfriend - From a Guy's
Perspective
When a guy breaks up with you, it's not always the end. More often than not, we're
tired of the stress and fighting - we just want a break from constantly having to deal
with those things. Sometimes we do actually break up with a girlfriend in order to date
someone else, and although this hurts more than normal at least it's better than being
cheated on.
Regardless of how your relationship ended, if you want to get back an ex boyfriend
you'll have to learn what to do... and what NOT to do. Below are some deep insights
into the male mind; essentially what we're thinking just after the relationship ends.
First off, we want to avoid you. Right after a breakup, things are weird for us. Seeing
you can be extremely awkward, which is why your ex suddenly seems 'cold'
immediately after he ends your relationship. He's not being mean - he's doing this for
his own reasons, not yours. A guys doesn't want the conflict or scrutiny that comes
from seeing you post-relationship, so avoidance is easier.
Making yourself scarce around this time will go a long way toward getting a man back.
If you can somehow drop out of sight, we suddenly wonder where you went. Crazy,
right? But it's true. As much as we feel awkward around you, we still want to know
where you are... what you're doing... who you're with. Even though we initiated the
break up, any residual feelings can still cause jealousy. One of the most comforting
things for a guy is to see his ex girlfriend upset, home, and alone. It makes him us feel
as if we've made the right decision.

2. But on the contrary, seeing you out with friends and having fun is like poison to us.
No guy wants to think a girl's having more fun without him than she was with him.
Even if he's convinced himself he has no feelings or needs a break, seeing his ex
smiling and laughing right after a break up is a huge blow to his ego. This leads him
to wonder: if this girl was is so much fun, why the hell did I dump her in the first
place? Winning back your boyfriend is all about putting him into this state of mind.
Another big issue after the breakup: contact. While still in the awkward beginning
stages, we don't yet want to talk to you. However, that's not to say we don't want you
to call. Again, a guy always wants to know that he's still desired. Seeing your number
on his caller ID is food for his ego. This verifies that you're lonely, and he's satisfied
that you're going nowhere while you're still calling his phone.
On the flip side, looking at his phone and finding no missed calls is very
disconcerting to a guy who just broke up with his girlfriend. He expects to see you
call. He expects an email, or a text message, or a friend of yours to come speak to him
on your behalf. But NOT doing these things, you've once again piqued his interest.
You've rattled his expectations, and done the exact opposite of what he thought you
would. Just by doing nothing, you've got him wondering.
You see, no matter who he is or how long you've been dating, any guy who breaks up
with you wants one single thing: to keep the door to your relationship open. Even if
it's open just a tiny crack, the fact that the door's not totally closed is comforting to
him. Weeks, months, even years later, a guy likes to think he can revisit that
relationship IF he wants to. Knowing that neither of you closed the door keeps him
comfortable - he's not going to think too much about getting back into a serious long-
term relationship unless he's worried.

3. This is where you can take some control. There are ways you can pull that door closed,
or at least almost so. By seizing that control, you're suddenly upsetting his comfortable
position of being able to revisit your relationship and date you again if it suits him. By
moving on with your life, and allowing him to see it, you're ever-so-slightly pulling that
door tighter in your direction. This is what will make your ex want you back: the
thought of you not being there anymore, even in the smallest capacity.
There are 8 individual steps necessary to winning back an ex. To read the complete,
detailed guide to reversing a breakup, be sure to check out how to Get Back An Ex
Boyfriend!
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How You Can Get Your Lover
Back Spiritually
There's nothing impossible on this earth, except what we acknowledge as impossibility.
We were not created to suffer or to have limitations, the only limitations we have are the
one's we set for ourselves.
Are you suffering from broken relationship: were you jilted by the one you love? If you
answered yes, be rest assured that you can get your lover back spiritually.
In the world of spirituality, they are no impossibilities provided your problem is
channeled through the proper spiritual circle.

4. Whatever your love problems are, it can be solved and rightly too. Is it divorce
you are suffering from, unstable marital life, broken home or marriage, run away
lover, jilted lover, nagging wife, battering husband, how to find true love, how to
keep true love, how to restore broken marriage among others are problems that
you can spiritually solve and live a prosperous and fulfilling life with the one you
love, yes all things are achievable, if followed through the right source of power,we
are in a universal and spiritual world and our inner self is spirit, you need to
discover your inner self by tuning in and tapping into your spiritual
consciousness.
The whole universe is governed by universal spiritual laws; all you need to do is
key in to this universal spiritual laws.
What we are suffering from is a case of my people die for lack of vision and
knowledge. Get out, from your shell, try to understand the world you are living in,
from a spiritual perspective and you will come to acknowledge that there are no
impossibilities in the spiritual sphere, whatsoever the mind determines to do it can
achieve, if it is properly tuned to the right spiritual level.
What you need is a spiritual enlightenment and education to open your inner eyes
to see the world of possibilities you have been missing. You need to read spiritual
books to broaden your knowledge.

5. Wake up and live your life, remove the scales from your eyes, so that you will be in a
position to reclaim your life,a life full of love and bliss, a fulfill life with the man or
woman of your dream and to live a completely protected and secure love life, in all
spiritual solutions, all impossibilities are made possible.
Cheers! As you rediscover your life.
May the Cosmic Bless You
Dr. Chukwu Innocent O.
Whatever your love problems are, it can be solved and rightly too. Is it divorce you
are suffering from, unstable marital life, broken home or marriage, run away lover,
jilted lover, nagging wife, battering husband, how to find true love, how to keep true
love, how to restore broken marriage among others, are problems that you can
spiritually solve and live a prosperous and fulfilling life with the one you love, yes all
things are achievable, if followed through the right source of power,we live in a
universal and spiritual world and our inner self is spirit, you need to discover your
inner self by tuning in and tapping into your spiritual consciousness.
The whole universe is governed by universal spiritual laws; all you need to do is key
in to this universal spiritual laws. allspiritualsolutions.com
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