WAKE UP: You only live once
Push your COW
Remember:
if your happy, sad, old, young,
beautiful, ugly, healthy or sick
everyone grows old and dies
That’s life
"A teacher of mine used to say: 'the
expectation that the world will treat you
fairly because you're a good person is like
expecting a bull not to attack you because
you are a vegetarian.’
“It can always be worse”
Positive Psychology
The primary focus of psychology was treating
Abnormal behavior and mental illness, this
traditional approach changed during the 1950s
when humanist thinkers like Maslow developed
an interest in two new areas by developing
theories that focused on happiness and the
positive aspects of human nature.
Positive psychology examines positive feelings
Projected into the future, which include
optimism, hope, belief and security
Denial
The thought getting caught crossed my mind,
but you prefer you ignore, because you
prefer not to confront it
Denial is one of the most dangerous
phenomenon's today
Because we are humans
What's pissing you
off?
Because they worry
3 Stage model to

reduce worry
people who think positive thoughts are less sick
When you learn how to die you learn how to
live?
"Why do the righteous suffer?”
While he [was] yet speaking, there
came also another
THE LORD IS MY SHEPHERD
The Lord is my shepherd,
I shall not want;
He makes me lie down in green pastures.
He leads me beside still waters;
He restores my soul.
He leads me in paths of righteousness
for His name's sake.
Even though I walk through the valley
of the shadow of death,
I fear no evil;
for You are with me;
Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me
all the days of my life;
and I shall dwell in the house of the
Lord forever.
Psalm 23
God gives us the courage to
deal with problems and pain that
are going to be there one way
or the other.
Instead of saying

“G-D why did you
do this to me?
G-D look what's happening to me
Unetanneh Tokef
…who will die at his predestined time and who
before his time; who by water and who by fire,
who by sword, who by beast….”
Praying and living a life of a zadik and
integrity does not promise that bad

things will not happen
So why do the righteous suffer?
• What is the only thing worse then seeing
people suffer?
Who said life is easy?
“My God, I cry out by day, but
you do not answer…” (psalms
22)
But life is still beautiful
God gives people power to deal with problems
and pain that are inevitable
u should say
od look what's happening to me
So why do go people suffer?
“life becomes less
complicated when you
don’t expect to win”
“arrival fallacy”
Only rarely does reaching a goal
give a person the level of happiness they had
anticipated.
Who decides if you are
happy?
Thank you for
your kind
attention
Based on the book
Good Health

"Wake Up: you only live once"