Unity in the
Community
By Ruba Qewar
Diseases of
the Hearts
Why can’t we feel the ache ?
1. Jealousy
Qur’an 4:32 (32) ‫النساء‬
‫ا‬َ
‫ل‬ َ‫و‬
‫ا‬ ْ‫و‬َّ‫ن‬َ‫م‬َ‫ت‬َ‫ت‬
‫ا‬َ‫م‬
‫ا‬َ‫ل‬َّ‫ض‬َ‫ف‬
‫ا‬
‫ه‬ َّ
‫اّلل‬
‫ا‬
ِ‫ه‬ِ‫ب‬
‫ا‬
َ‫ب‬
‫ا‬
ْ‫م‬‫ه‬‫ك‬َ‫ض‬ْ‫ع‬
‫ا‬
‫ى‬َ‫ل‬َ‫ع‬
‫ا‬
‫ض‬ْ‫ع‬َ‫ب‬
‫ا‬
ۚ
‫ل‬ِ‫ل‬
‫ا‬ِ‫ل‬‫ا‬َ‫ج‬ ِ
‫ر‬
‫ا‬
‫يب‬ ِ
‫َص‬‫ن‬
‫ا‬َّ‫م‬ِ‫م‬
‫وا‬‫ه‬‫ب‬َ‫س‬َ‫ت‬ْ‫ك‬‫ا‬
‫ا‬
ۚ
‫ا‬ِ‫اء‬َ‫س‬ِ‫لن‬ِ‫ل‬ َ‫و‬
‫ا‬
‫يب‬ ِ
‫َص‬‫ن‬
‫ا‬َّ‫م‬ِ‫م‬
‫ْنَا‬‫ب‬َ‫س‬َ‫ت‬ْ‫ك‬‫ا‬
‫ا‬
ۚ
‫ا‬
‫ه‬‫ل‬َ‫أ‬ْ‫س‬‫ا‬ َ‫و‬
‫وا‬
‫ا‬
َ َّ
‫اّلل‬
‫ن‬ِ‫م‬
‫ا‬
ِ‫ه‬ِ‫ل‬ْ‫ض‬َ‫ف‬
‫ا‬
ۚ
‫ا‬َّ‫ن‬ِ‫إ‬
‫ا‬
َ َّ
‫اّلل‬
‫انَا‬َ‫ك‬
‫ا‬ِ‫ل‬‫ه‬‫ك‬ِ‫ب‬
‫ا‬
‫ء‬ْ‫ي‬َ‫ش‬
‫ا‬ً‫م‬‫ي‬ِ‫ل‬َ‫ع‬
And do not wish for that by which Allah has
made some of you exceed others. For men is a
share of what they have earned, and for women
is a share of what they have earned. And ask
Allah of his bounty. Indeed Allah is ever, of all
things, Knowing.
The Opposite of Jealousy?
‫قال‬
‫رسول‬
‫صلى‬
‫هللا‬
‫عليه‬
‫وسلم‬
‫ألبي‬
‫ذر‬
:
‫أي‬
‫عرى‬
‫اإليمان‬
‫أوثق؟‬
‫قال‬
:
‫هللا‬
‫ورسوله‬
‫أعلم‬
،
‫قال‬
:
‫المواالة‬
‫في‬
‫هللا‬
،
‫والمعاداة‬
‫في‬
‫هللا‬
،
‫والحب‬
‫في‬
‫هللا‬
،
‫والبغض‬
‫في‬
‫هللا‬
.
the Prophet (blessings and
peace of Allah be upon him)
said: “Indeed the strongest
bond of faith is to love for
the sake of Allah and hate
for the sake of Allah.
2. Backbiting, Gossiping & Slandering
3. Being Overly Sensitive
4. Do you have to have the Last Word ??
No one is perfect
Respect the leaders
Qur’an 3 ‫آل‬
‫عمران‬
﴿
103
﴾
‫وا‬ُ‫م‬ ِ
‫ص‬َ‫ت‬ْ‫ع‬‫ا‬َ‫و‬
ِ
ِ‫ل‬ْ‫ب‬َ‫ح‬ِ‫ب‬
ِ
ِ َ
‫اّلل‬
‫ا‬ً‫ع‬‫ي‬ِ‫م‬َ‫ج‬
َِ
‫ال‬َ‫و‬
‫وا‬ُ‫ق‬َ‫ر‬َ‫ف‬َ‫ت‬
ِ
ۚ
‫وا‬ُ‫ُر‬‫ك‬ْ‫اذ‬َ‫و‬
َِ‫ت‬َ‫م‬ْ‫ع‬ِ‫ن‬
ِ
ِ َ
‫اّلل‬
ِ
ْ‫م‬ُ‫ك‬ْ‫ي‬َ‫ل‬َ‫ع‬
ِ
ِ‫إ‬
ِ
ْ‫ذ‬
ِ
ْ‫م‬ُ‫ت‬‫ُن‬‫ك‬
ِ
ً‫ء‬‫َا‬‫د‬ْ‫ع‬َ‫أ‬
َِ‫ف‬َ‫ل‬َ‫أ‬َ‫ف‬
َِ‫ْن‬‫ي‬َ‫ب‬
ِ
ْ‫م‬ُ‫ك‬ِ‫ب‬‫و‬ُ‫ل‬ُ‫ق‬
‫م‬ُ‫ت‬ْ‫َح‬‫ب‬ْ‫ص‬َ‫أ‬َ‫ف‬
ِ
ِ‫ت‬َ‫م‬ْ‫ع‬ِ‫ن‬ِ‫ب‬
ِ
ِ‫ه‬
‫ا‬ً‫ن‬‫ا‬َ‫و‬ْ‫خ‬ِ‫إ‬
ِ
ْ‫م‬ُ‫ت‬‫ُن‬‫ك‬َ‫و‬
ِ
‫ى‬َ‫ل‬َ‫ع‬
‫ا‬َ‫ف‬َ‫ش‬
ِ
‫ة‬َ‫ر‬ْ‫ف‬ُ‫ح‬
َِ‫ن‬ِ‫م‬
ِِ
‫ار‬َ‫ن‬‫ال‬
‫ُم‬‫ك‬َ‫ذ‬َ‫ق‬‫ن‬َ‫أ‬َ‫ف‬
‫ا‬َ‫ه‬ْ‫ن‬ِ‫م‬
ِ
ۚ
َِ‫ك‬ِ‫ل‬َ‫ذ‬َ‫ك‬
ُِ‫ن‬ِ‫ي‬َ‫ب‬ُ‫ي‬
ِ
ُ َ
‫اّلل‬
ِ
ْ‫م‬ُ‫ك‬َ‫ل‬
ِ
ِ‫ه‬ِ‫ت‬‫ا‬َ‫ي‬‫آ‬
ِ
َ‫ل‬َ‫ع‬َ‫ل‬
ِ
ْ‫م‬ُ‫ك‬
َِ‫ُون‬‫د‬َ‫ت‬ْ‫ه‬َ‫ت‬
And hold firmly to the rope of Allah all together and do not
become divided. And remember the favor of Allah upon you -
when you were enemies and He brought your hearts together
and you became, by His favor, brothers. And you were on the
edge of a pit of the Fire, and He saved you from it. Thus does
Allah make clear to you His verses that you may be guided.
Unity in the community
Unity in the community

Unity in the community

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  • 2.
    Diseases of the Hearts Whycan’t we feel the ache ?
  • 3.
  • 4.
    Qur’an 4:32 (32)‫النساء‬ ‫ا‬َ ‫ل‬ َ‫و‬ ‫ا‬ ْ‫و‬َّ‫ن‬َ‫م‬َ‫ت‬َ‫ت‬ ‫ا‬َ‫م‬ ‫ا‬َ‫ل‬َّ‫ض‬َ‫ف‬ ‫ا‬ ‫ه‬ َّ ‫اّلل‬ ‫ا‬ ِ‫ه‬ِ‫ب‬ ‫ا‬ َ‫ب‬ ‫ا‬ ْ‫م‬‫ه‬‫ك‬َ‫ض‬ْ‫ع‬ ‫ا‬ ‫ى‬َ‫ل‬َ‫ع‬ ‫ا‬ ‫ض‬ْ‫ع‬َ‫ب‬ ‫ا‬ ۚ ‫ل‬ِ‫ل‬ ‫ا‬ِ‫ل‬‫ا‬َ‫ج‬ ِ ‫ر‬ ‫ا‬ ‫يب‬ ِ ‫َص‬‫ن‬ ‫ا‬َّ‫م‬ِ‫م‬ ‫وا‬‫ه‬‫ب‬َ‫س‬َ‫ت‬ْ‫ك‬‫ا‬ ‫ا‬ ۚ ‫ا‬ِ‫اء‬َ‫س‬ِ‫لن‬ِ‫ل‬ َ‫و‬ ‫ا‬ ‫يب‬ ِ ‫َص‬‫ن‬ ‫ا‬َّ‫م‬ِ‫م‬ ‫ْنَا‬‫ب‬َ‫س‬َ‫ت‬ْ‫ك‬‫ا‬ ‫ا‬ ۚ ‫ا‬ ‫ه‬‫ل‬َ‫أ‬ْ‫س‬‫ا‬ َ‫و‬ ‫وا‬ ‫ا‬ َ َّ ‫اّلل‬ ‫ن‬ِ‫م‬ ‫ا‬ ِ‫ه‬ِ‫ل‬ْ‫ض‬َ‫ف‬ ‫ا‬ ۚ ‫ا‬َّ‫ن‬ِ‫إ‬ ‫ا‬ َ َّ ‫اّلل‬ ‫انَا‬َ‫ك‬ ‫ا‬ِ‫ل‬‫ه‬‫ك‬ِ‫ب‬ ‫ا‬ ‫ء‬ْ‫ي‬َ‫ش‬ ‫ا‬ً‫م‬‫ي‬ِ‫ل‬َ‫ع‬ And do not wish for that by which Allah has made some of you exceed others. For men is a share of what they have earned, and for women is a share of what they have earned. And ask Allah of his bounty. Indeed Allah is ever, of all things, Knowing.
  • 5.
    The Opposite ofJealousy? ‫قال‬ ‫رسول‬ ‫صلى‬ ‫هللا‬ ‫عليه‬ ‫وسلم‬ ‫ألبي‬ ‫ذر‬ : ‫أي‬ ‫عرى‬ ‫اإليمان‬ ‫أوثق؟‬ ‫قال‬ : ‫هللا‬ ‫ورسوله‬ ‫أعلم‬ ، ‫قال‬ : ‫المواالة‬ ‫في‬ ‫هللا‬ ، ‫والمعاداة‬ ‫في‬ ‫هللا‬ ، ‫والحب‬ ‫في‬ ‫هللا‬ ، ‫والبغض‬ ‫في‬ ‫هللا‬ . the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Indeed the strongest bond of faith is to love for the sake of Allah and hate for the sake of Allah.
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  • 11.
    3. Being OverlySensitive
  • 15.
    4. Do youhave to have the Last Word ??
  • 18.
    No one isperfect Respect the leaders
  • 20.
    Qur’an 3 ‫آل‬ ‫عمران‬ ﴿ 103 ﴾ ‫وا‬ُ‫م‬ِ ‫ص‬َ‫ت‬ْ‫ع‬‫ا‬َ‫و‬ ِ ِ‫ل‬ْ‫ب‬َ‫ح‬ِ‫ب‬ ِ ِ َ ‫اّلل‬ ‫ا‬ً‫ع‬‫ي‬ِ‫م‬َ‫ج‬ َِ ‫ال‬َ‫و‬ ‫وا‬ُ‫ق‬َ‫ر‬َ‫ف‬َ‫ت‬ ِ ۚ ‫وا‬ُ‫ُر‬‫ك‬ْ‫اذ‬َ‫و‬ َِ‫ت‬َ‫م‬ْ‫ع‬ِ‫ن‬ ِ ِ َ ‫اّلل‬ ِ ْ‫م‬ُ‫ك‬ْ‫ي‬َ‫ل‬َ‫ع‬ ِ ِ‫إ‬ ِ ْ‫ذ‬ ِ ْ‫م‬ُ‫ت‬‫ُن‬‫ك‬ ِ ً‫ء‬‫َا‬‫د‬ْ‫ع‬َ‫أ‬ َِ‫ف‬َ‫ل‬َ‫أ‬َ‫ف‬ َِ‫ْن‬‫ي‬َ‫ب‬ ِ ْ‫م‬ُ‫ك‬ِ‫ب‬‫و‬ُ‫ل‬ُ‫ق‬ ‫م‬ُ‫ت‬ْ‫َح‬‫ب‬ْ‫ص‬َ‫أ‬َ‫ف‬ ِ ِ‫ت‬َ‫م‬ْ‫ع‬ِ‫ن‬ِ‫ب‬ ِ ِ‫ه‬ ‫ا‬ً‫ن‬‫ا‬َ‫و‬ْ‫خ‬ِ‫إ‬ ِ ْ‫م‬ُ‫ت‬‫ُن‬‫ك‬َ‫و‬ ِ ‫ى‬َ‫ل‬َ‫ع‬ ‫ا‬َ‫ف‬َ‫ش‬ ِ ‫ة‬َ‫ر‬ْ‫ف‬ُ‫ح‬ َِ‫ن‬ِ‫م‬ ِِ ‫ار‬َ‫ن‬‫ال‬ ‫ُم‬‫ك‬َ‫ذ‬َ‫ق‬‫ن‬َ‫أ‬َ‫ف‬ ‫ا‬َ‫ه‬ْ‫ن‬ِ‫م‬ ِ ۚ َِ‫ك‬ِ‫ل‬َ‫ذ‬َ‫ك‬ ُِ‫ن‬ِ‫ي‬َ‫ب‬ُ‫ي‬ ِ ُ َ ‫اّلل‬ ِ ْ‫م‬ُ‫ك‬َ‫ل‬ ِ ِ‫ه‬ِ‫ت‬‫ا‬َ‫ي‬‫آ‬ ِ َ‫ل‬َ‫ع‬َ‫ل‬ ِ ْ‫م‬ُ‫ك‬ َِ‫ُون‬‫د‬َ‫ت‬ْ‫ه‬َ‫ت‬ And hold firmly to the rope of Allah all together and do not become divided. And remember the favor of Allah upon you - when you were enemies and He brought your hearts together and you became, by His favor, brothers. And you were on the edge of a pit of the Fire, and He saved you from it. Thus does Allah make clear to you His verses that you may be guided.