Alexandra Arrivillaga discusses things you will learn while traveling alone. Published originally at alexandraarrivillaga.net

1. Things You’ll Learn While Traveling Solo
You are no longer the same person once you experience travel. It gives you a perspective
that can only kick in first-hand. Nothing online compares to the reality of the sights,
sounds, smells, cultural traditions, or the people you meet. When you travel alone, this
effect is magnified. Here are some things you’ll learn when traveling alone.
You Can Be Selfish
You are not responsible for accommodating anyone else. You are free to choose your
itinerary and path. The only person you need to consider while traveling alone is yourself.
If you are hungry and you see a fun place, go and eat there. Make conversation with
people around you. Nobody is waiting for you to hurry up and leave. Do you want to see
the Louvre? Go ahead! Are you interested in climbing Mount Kilimanjaro? Put your hiking
boots on. Enjoy the chance to travel at your own pace and with total independence. There
will be years of touring with others ahead.
You Can Be Yourself
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2. The vast majority of individuals you meet overseas are people you will never see again, so
keep that in mind. You can be your true self. You can even try on personas. This is an
excellent stage to practice finding the real you, so take off your mask. Nobody knows or
expects anything from you. You are free from labels. Step outside of your comfort zone
and see how it feels to be assertive, social, or nonconformist.
You learn How to Plan
Being independent has its challenges, too. Nobody is with you to plan things or organize
accommodations, tours, or meals. You must think ahead and prepare clothing choices,
sunscreen, water, snacks, transportation, reservations, and tickets for attractions you want
to experience. However, it is also essential to keep an open mind. Some of the best
adventures happen spontaneously. Be available to change, even if it makes you
uncomfortable.
You Can Expand Your Vocabulary
Preparing a few common phrases ahead of time when traveling is highly recommended,
especially alone. Even if you understand a language, remember that different regions have
different dialects that might sound alien. Mostly, it’s the effort that counts. People show
appreciation and graciousness when they see a foreigner struggling to assimilate rather
than barking English at everyone. Body language is also a suitable method of conveying
certain things.
Your Self-Confidence Shines
When you travel alone and succeed in any accomplishment, whether it’s successfully
ordering a meal, navigating directions, or protecting yourself from a dangerous situation,
there is a sense of pride and confidence that comes from knowing you are not dependent
upon anybody else. Traveling alone helps you become more self-assured and mature as a
person. You demonstrate to yourself that you are capable of resolving issues as they come
up. You learn to like yourself and enjoy your own company.
© Alexandra Arrivillaga 2022
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