Explores the foundation of Legal Abuse Syndrome and has proven that a constant negative result from any courtroom experience produces Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome in litigants. Before you go to any court, understand that Justice is not a part of the equation and prepare yourself for the possibilities of being in a situation that is based in judge and attorney created rules rather than common sense. The full program is available at http://www.libertyandjusticeforall.tv/family_court2.htm .
These are not “PARENTS” who are out to avoid financial obligations or to ignore their children. These are PARENTS who are heart-sick, worried, scared and frustrated by not being able to spend time with their children. These are PARENTS who are fighting desperately for normal every day contact with their children.
The document discusses various topics related to marriage, divorce, and annulment. It provides information on:
- Common reasons people get married and the legal aspects of marriage
- Celebrities' prenuptial agreements, including specific details on Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes, Denise Richards and Charlie Sheen, and Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom's prenups
- Grounds for annulment such as fraud, coercion, mental incapacity, and physical incapacity
- Divorce statistics including rates of divorce for first, second, and third marriages
- Factors considered in property division and alimony decisions during a divorce
Parental Alienation is a term used to describe the behavior of a parent and often other family members who manipulate a child's mind with the motive of severing all ties between the child and the other parent. The agenda is packed with various tactics and actions are pre-meditated. When the pressure on the child to remain loyal to the alienating parent becomes too intense, the child gives up, and total rejection of the other parent becomes reality.
Divorce rates have increased in recent decades in many industrialized nations. Divorce is more common today due to decreased social stigma and increased opportunities for women's financial independence. Approximately one-third of marriages today involve stepfamilies. Common reasons for divorce include incompatibility, separation, addiction, abuse, and infidelity. Children experience various emotions during their parents' divorce, including denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and eventual acceptance. The "Four Horsemen of Divorce" - criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling - accurately predict divorce in over 90% of cases. Maintaining positivity, humility, forgiveness, and commitment can help prevent divorce.
The document discusses marriage, divorce, and annulment laws. It provides information on prenuptial agreements, common law marriage, grounds for annulment and divorce, divorce statistics, property division during divorce, alimony, and palimony. Celebrities' prenuptial agreements and divorces are used as examples.
The Effects of Divorce on Young Adults and Distinctions in their Psychologica...Tamarau" Manfred Gunuboh
This document summarizes research on the effects of parental divorce on young adults' psychological well-being. Several studies found that young adults from divorced families reported more negative attitudes about marriage and commitment in relationships. They also showed slightly higher rates of depression, anxiety, anger and lower self-esteem. However, one recent study found no significant difference in self-esteem between young adults from divorced versus intact families when social support was accounted for. In general, the literature suggests parental divorce can negatively impact young adults' psychology and relationships.
Difference between Annulment and DivorceAlex Layda
An annulment cancels a marriage as if it never existed by declaring the marriage invalid, while a divorce legally ends a valid marriage and allows both parties to remarry. Annulments can be granted for reasons like bigamy, forced consent, fraud, incestuous relationships, mental illness or incapacity at the time of marriage, inability to consummate the marriage, or underage marriage without consent. Divorces are typically granted for reasons like adultery, desertion, or physical/emotional abuse during the marriage.
Children may experience stress from changes in their family structure like divorce through fear of abandonment, loss of attachment with a parent, and hostility between parents. A child grieving the divorce may go through shock, denial, and anger as a natural process of restoring self-confidence. Older children between ages 9-12 may feel anger, loneliness, shock, surprise, and fear and potentially reject one parent. Maintaining knowledgeable, experienced, and involved parenting can help children cope practically with divorce. The longer and more conflictual the legal divorce proceedings, the worse the relationship between co-parents may be perceived by both parents.
Explores the foundation of Legal Abuse Syndrome and has proven that a constant negative result from any courtroom experience produces Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome in litigants. Before you go to any court, understand that Justice is not a part of the equation and prepare yourself for the possibilities of being in a situation that is based in judge and attorney created rules rather than common sense. The full program is available at http://www.libertyandjusticeforall.tv/family_court2.htm .
These are not “PARENTS” who are out to avoid financial obligations or to ignore their children. These are PARENTS who are heart-sick, worried, scared and frustrated by not being able to spend time with their children. These are PARENTS who are fighting desperately for normal every day contact with their children.
The document discusses various topics related to marriage, divorce, and annulment. It provides information on:
- Common reasons people get married and the legal aspects of marriage
- Celebrities' prenuptial agreements, including specific details on Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes, Denise Richards and Charlie Sheen, and Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom's prenups
- Grounds for annulment such as fraud, coercion, mental incapacity, and physical incapacity
- Divorce statistics including rates of divorce for first, second, and third marriages
- Factors considered in property division and alimony decisions during a divorce
Parental Alienation is a term used to describe the behavior of a parent and often other family members who manipulate a child's mind with the motive of severing all ties between the child and the other parent. The agenda is packed with various tactics and actions are pre-meditated. When the pressure on the child to remain loyal to the alienating parent becomes too intense, the child gives up, and total rejection of the other parent becomes reality.
Divorce rates have increased in recent decades in many industrialized nations. Divorce is more common today due to decreased social stigma and increased opportunities for women's financial independence. Approximately one-third of marriages today involve stepfamilies. Common reasons for divorce include incompatibility, separation, addiction, abuse, and infidelity. Children experience various emotions during their parents' divorce, including denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and eventual acceptance. The "Four Horsemen of Divorce" - criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling - accurately predict divorce in over 90% of cases. Maintaining positivity, humility, forgiveness, and commitment can help prevent divorce.
The document discusses marriage, divorce, and annulment laws. It provides information on prenuptial agreements, common law marriage, grounds for annulment and divorce, divorce statistics, property division during divorce, alimony, and palimony. Celebrities' prenuptial agreements and divorces are used as examples.
The Effects of Divorce on Young Adults and Distinctions in their Psychologica...Tamarau" Manfred Gunuboh
This document summarizes research on the effects of parental divorce on young adults' psychological well-being. Several studies found that young adults from divorced families reported more negative attitudes about marriage and commitment in relationships. They also showed slightly higher rates of depression, anxiety, anger and lower self-esteem. However, one recent study found no significant difference in self-esteem between young adults from divorced versus intact families when social support was accounted for. In general, the literature suggests parental divorce can negatively impact young adults' psychology and relationships.
Difference between Annulment and DivorceAlex Layda
An annulment cancels a marriage as if it never existed by declaring the marriage invalid, while a divorce legally ends a valid marriage and allows both parties to remarry. Annulments can be granted for reasons like bigamy, forced consent, fraud, incestuous relationships, mental illness or incapacity at the time of marriage, inability to consummate the marriage, or underage marriage without consent. Divorces are typically granted for reasons like adultery, desertion, or physical/emotional abuse during the marriage.
Children may experience stress from changes in their family structure like divorce through fear of abandonment, loss of attachment with a parent, and hostility between parents. A child grieving the divorce may go through shock, denial, and anger as a natural process of restoring self-confidence. Older children between ages 9-12 may feel anger, loneliness, shock, surprise, and fear and potentially reject one parent. Maintaining knowledgeable, experienced, and involved parenting can help children cope practically with divorce. The longer and more conflictual the legal divorce proceedings, the worse the relationship between co-parents may be perceived by both parents.
This presentation was done for Florida Child Abuse Prevention and Permanency Council. PAAO-US has since been acknowledged as a planning partner so to further educate about this behavioral form of child abuse.
Happily ever after divorce in the philippinesGaaradam
This document discusses divorce in the Philippine society. It begins by defining marriage and divorce. It then outlines the different types of legal separations in the Philippines besides divorce, such as annulment, legal separation, informal separation, and desertion. The document also discusses the grounds for annulment and legal separation under Philippine law. It examines why divorce legislation has faced delays in the Philippines, which is largely influenced by the Catholic Church and Filipino cultural values that emphasize strong family ties and marital sacredness. The document concludes by presenting the opposing views between the Church, which is against divorce, and women's rights activists, who argue divorce is necessary to protect women from harm.
This document provides information for parents going through divorce to help their children. It discusses the stages of divorce and how children are affected at different ages. Key points are that children need involvement from both parents, divorce creates changes that affect children, and developing positive communication skills and reducing conflict can help children adjust. Maintaining meaningful relationships and involvement from both parents through the divorce process is important for children.
This document discusses the problems experienced by children of divorced parents and the needs of these children. Regarding problems, it notes that children may feel responsible for the divorce, become messengers or negotiators between parents, be confused about love, and experience insecurity and instability. They may also develop anger and disobedience. In terms of needs, the document states that children of divorced parents need reassurance of parental love, knowledge of living/custody arrangements, spending time with parents, discussing feelings, and reduced parental stress. The overall focus is on the psychological and emotional challenges for children when their parents divorce.
Changes in divorce law since 1949 have made divorce easier, quicker, and cheaper to obtain. The declining stigma around divorce and changing social attitudes toward marriage have contributed to rising divorce rates. Secularization and declining religious influence in society have reduced the view of marriage as a sacred, lifelong commitment. Rising expectations of marriage and unrealistic ideals promoted in media have led to more divorces when marriages do not meet high expectations. Greater independence and empowerment of women through paid work and women's rights movements have enabled more women to initiate divorces from unsatisfying marriages.
Gabrielle Reif- Children of Divorce PowerPointGabby Reif
The document proposes that therapeutic measures such as counseling should be mandated by courts for children of divorce for at least one year after the divorce. Counseling can help children cope with their emotions, understand the divorce, and diminish long-term negative effects. While it may increase workload and costs, proponents argue that counseling can help prevent behavioral problems from arising and is more effective than letting parents monitor problems. Mandating counseling could help break the cycle of children of divorcees being more likely to divorce themselves as adults.
The document discusses the effects of divorce on children and the role of schools. It notes that divorce impacts many aspects of a child's life, including their relationships, behavior, emotions, and development. Children experience sadness, anger, and other difficulties depending on their age when parents divorce. Schools can help by providing counseling support groups, and ensuring teachers and administrators understand how to assist children experiencing divorce. The document outlines physical, behavioral, and emotional signs of abuse and notes the important role schools play in supporting students through this challenging time.
Starting a Family: The Adoption Process for Gay and Lesbian CouplesAllyson Lindsey
This document provides an overview of the adoption process for gay and lesbian couples. It discusses preparing emotionally and financially, understanding the costs and time commitment involved, navigating state laws on adoption, and completing the required home study process. The home study involves interviews, background checks, home visits, and an evaluation of the prospective parents' ability to provide a stable and nurturing home environment for an adopted child. Resources for LGBTQ adoptions and financial assistance are also presented. The overall message is that adopting as a gay or lesbian couple requires diligence and perseverance but can result in forming a loving family.
This document discusses the effects that parental divorce can have on children's future relationships. It notes that children of divorced parents are more likely to get divorced themselves and have difficulties with trust and commitment in relationships. However, it also mentions some factors that can mitigate these effects, such as the parents maintaining civility and cooperation, and notes that divorce effects on children are more mild today than in the past. The document explores these topics through personal anecdotes and references to academic studies and articles.
How does adultery affect custody for men vs. womenCory Wall
Adultery does not directly affect child custody or asset distribution in Utah divorce proceedings. However, it can indirectly influence custody and settlement negotiations. Specifically, adultery may impact negotiations if it caused excessive emotional turmoil or the cheating spouse exposed children to inappropriate behavior. In determining custody, courts consider multiple factors related to the child's best interests, not a parent's moral conduct during the marriage like adultery. The main impact of adultery is that it often intensifies the emotions of both spouses, which can interfere with rational settlement negotiations.
Dr. Deena Stacer teaches an online program about high conflict coparenting. She has a PhD in psychology and experience mediating over 850 divorces. Her program teaches parents strategies for disengaging from conflict with the other parent to protect their children from emotional damage. One approach she recommends is "parallel parenting", also called "Mom's World, Dad's World", where parents minimize communication and make independent rules in their own time with the children. This style can help reduce conflict when parents cannot agree on parenting issues.
Effects of Divorce on Children as a Function of Age, Sex, and ParentingRandi Hovey
The document discusses research on the effects of divorce on children. It finds that while divorce can increase behavioral problems, lower academic achievement, and mental health issues for children, controlling for factors like parenting quality, socioeconomic status, and parent mental health finds minimal differences between children of divorced and non-divorced families. The effects of divorce appear to depend most on keeping children's environment stable, parents effectively managing stress, allowing contact with both parents, and engaging in strong parenting.
The National Down Syndrome Adoption Network (NDSAN) was founded in 1981 to ensure that every child with Down syndrome has the opportunity to grow up in a loving family. The NDSAN provides services to birth parents, adoptive families, and children with Down syndrome. Throughout the document, information is provided about various children currently available for adoption who have Down syndrome. Advice and resources are also provided for families pursuing adoption of a child with Down syndrome.
This document discusses the law surrounding minors and releases from liability. It begins by stating that releases are considered contracts, but minors generally cannot sign contracts. Additionally, parents cannot typically sign away a minor's right to sue for injuries. The document then discusses various court cases that have examined issues like whether a minor can disaffirm a release signed as a minor after turning 18, whether parents can indemnify third parties for injuries to their minor children, and whether third parties like group leaders can sign releases on behalf of minors. It notes that most states do not allow parents to sign away a minor's right to sue, but a few (like California, Ohio, North Dakota, and Massachusetts) have allowed limited parental waivers
This document discusses divorce and the need for divorce reform legislation. It provides background on divorce rates in the US being the highest in the world despite high levels of religious affiliation. It notes several negative impacts of divorce on children including higher rates of emotional, behavioral and physical abuse problems. The document also discusses the taxpayer costs of divorce being at least $112 billion annually when factoring programs like welfare, Medicaid and more. Overall it argues divorce reform is needed to help reduce the harms and costs of divorce to families and society.
The document discusses religious views on marriage and divorce from several perspectives. It outlines views from Catholicism, Eastern Orthodoxy, Protestantism, Judaism, and realities regarding the influence of religion on divorce rates. Catholicism sees marriage as a sacred bond intended for procreation that cannot be dissolved. Eastern Orthodoxy also views marriage as a sacred mystery. Protestantism emphasizes marriage as demonstrating God's love while allowing for divorce and remarriage. Judaism focuses on the relationship between husband and wife to fulfill spiritual and practical obligations, and allows divorce through a formal process of granting a "get" document. In reality, while religion influences behaviors, differences in religious affiliation may not necessarily lead to differences in rates of single parenthood or divorce
This document provides information from a presentation on supporting children through family separation. It discusses how children may experience grief, loss, and behavioral changes after separation. It emphasizes protecting children from parental conflict, maintaining security and routines for children, and facilitating the child's relationship with both parents. The presentation covers tips for helping children manage emotions, supporting yourself during the process, and being a facilitative gatekeeper regarding the child's time with each parent.
This presentation was used for the Bridge the Gap CLE at Fordham Law School in January 2015. I co-presented with another family lawyer. My part of the presentation covers the jurisdictional differences between Supreme Court and Family Court, the different divorce paths in New York (e.g., contested divorce, uncontested divorce), Notice of Automatic Orders, matrimonial agreements (e.g, prenuptial agreements), grounds for an annulment and grounds for a divorce, equitable distribution, child support and spousal maintenance.
Douglas Pinkham Discusses Different Types of Family Law CasesDouglas Pinkham
Douglas Pinkham discusses the different types of family law cases including divorce, paternity cases, domestic violence cases, child custody issues, child support matters, and same-sex partner cases. Divorce is the most common and involves dividing assets and determining support and custody. Paternity cases establish parentage and child support for unmarried parents. Domestic violence accusations impact custody, visitation, and support decisions. Child custody involves decisions about physical and legal control over children. Child support amounts depend on factors like visitation time. Same-sex partner cases involve the same issues as other divorces regarding children and assets.
Although same-sex couples now are able to obtain dissolutions of their marriages in many states, there are still complicating factors facing divorcing LGBT couples. Some of these factors include different tax treatment, division of pension plans, child support, custody issues and the rights of married vs. unmarried same sex couples.
Every Day Dad-the Guide to Become a Better FatherScott Hammond
Scott Hammond's book "Every Day Dad: The Guide to Becoming a Better Father" provides guidance to fathers on how to improve their parenting skills. The book includes acknowledgments, endorsements from other authors and speakers, and a table of contents listing the chapter topics. The first chapter addresses common problems and dysfunctional behaviors fathers may experience, while the second chapter focuses on stress, anger and developing a positive attitude. The book is intended to give fathers practical advice and strategies to succeed in their role as parents.
Divorce is a legal process that dissolves a marriage and restores individuals to single status. No-fault divorce does not require proof of wrongdoing. Around 50% of first marriages, 67% of second, and 74% of third marriages end in divorce. Children of divorced parents are more likely to have problems in school, abuse substances, and divorce as adults. After divorce, 90% of mothers have custody while divorced men struggle with relationships and debt. Divorce rates vary globally with the US having the highest rate at 4.95 per 1000 people. Around 25% of mainline Protestants and Catholics have been divorced. Some argue polygamy provides stability and childcare support while others say it goes against
This presentation was done for Florida Child Abuse Prevention and Permanency Council. PAAO-US has since been acknowledged as a planning partner so to further educate about this behavioral form of child abuse.
Happily ever after divorce in the philippinesGaaradam
This document discusses divorce in the Philippine society. It begins by defining marriage and divorce. It then outlines the different types of legal separations in the Philippines besides divorce, such as annulment, legal separation, informal separation, and desertion. The document also discusses the grounds for annulment and legal separation under Philippine law. It examines why divorce legislation has faced delays in the Philippines, which is largely influenced by the Catholic Church and Filipino cultural values that emphasize strong family ties and marital sacredness. The document concludes by presenting the opposing views between the Church, which is against divorce, and women's rights activists, who argue divorce is necessary to protect women from harm.
This document provides information for parents going through divorce to help their children. It discusses the stages of divorce and how children are affected at different ages. Key points are that children need involvement from both parents, divorce creates changes that affect children, and developing positive communication skills and reducing conflict can help children adjust. Maintaining meaningful relationships and involvement from both parents through the divorce process is important for children.
This document discusses the problems experienced by children of divorced parents and the needs of these children. Regarding problems, it notes that children may feel responsible for the divorce, become messengers or negotiators between parents, be confused about love, and experience insecurity and instability. They may also develop anger and disobedience. In terms of needs, the document states that children of divorced parents need reassurance of parental love, knowledge of living/custody arrangements, spending time with parents, discussing feelings, and reduced parental stress. The overall focus is on the psychological and emotional challenges for children when their parents divorce.
Changes in divorce law since 1949 have made divorce easier, quicker, and cheaper to obtain. The declining stigma around divorce and changing social attitudes toward marriage have contributed to rising divorce rates. Secularization and declining religious influence in society have reduced the view of marriage as a sacred, lifelong commitment. Rising expectations of marriage and unrealistic ideals promoted in media have led to more divorces when marriages do not meet high expectations. Greater independence and empowerment of women through paid work and women's rights movements have enabled more women to initiate divorces from unsatisfying marriages.
Gabrielle Reif- Children of Divorce PowerPointGabby Reif
The document proposes that therapeutic measures such as counseling should be mandated by courts for children of divorce for at least one year after the divorce. Counseling can help children cope with their emotions, understand the divorce, and diminish long-term negative effects. While it may increase workload and costs, proponents argue that counseling can help prevent behavioral problems from arising and is more effective than letting parents monitor problems. Mandating counseling could help break the cycle of children of divorcees being more likely to divorce themselves as adults.
The document discusses the effects of divorce on children and the role of schools. It notes that divorce impacts many aspects of a child's life, including their relationships, behavior, emotions, and development. Children experience sadness, anger, and other difficulties depending on their age when parents divorce. Schools can help by providing counseling support groups, and ensuring teachers and administrators understand how to assist children experiencing divorce. The document outlines physical, behavioral, and emotional signs of abuse and notes the important role schools play in supporting students through this challenging time.
Starting a Family: The Adoption Process for Gay and Lesbian CouplesAllyson Lindsey
This document provides an overview of the adoption process for gay and lesbian couples. It discusses preparing emotionally and financially, understanding the costs and time commitment involved, navigating state laws on adoption, and completing the required home study process. The home study involves interviews, background checks, home visits, and an evaluation of the prospective parents' ability to provide a stable and nurturing home environment for an adopted child. Resources for LGBTQ adoptions and financial assistance are also presented. The overall message is that adopting as a gay or lesbian couple requires diligence and perseverance but can result in forming a loving family.
This document discusses the effects that parental divorce can have on children's future relationships. It notes that children of divorced parents are more likely to get divorced themselves and have difficulties with trust and commitment in relationships. However, it also mentions some factors that can mitigate these effects, such as the parents maintaining civility and cooperation, and notes that divorce effects on children are more mild today than in the past. The document explores these topics through personal anecdotes and references to academic studies and articles.
How does adultery affect custody for men vs. womenCory Wall
Adultery does not directly affect child custody or asset distribution in Utah divorce proceedings. However, it can indirectly influence custody and settlement negotiations. Specifically, adultery may impact negotiations if it caused excessive emotional turmoil or the cheating spouse exposed children to inappropriate behavior. In determining custody, courts consider multiple factors related to the child's best interests, not a parent's moral conduct during the marriage like adultery. The main impact of adultery is that it often intensifies the emotions of both spouses, which can interfere with rational settlement negotiations.
Dr. Deena Stacer teaches an online program about high conflict coparenting. She has a PhD in psychology and experience mediating over 850 divorces. Her program teaches parents strategies for disengaging from conflict with the other parent to protect their children from emotional damage. One approach she recommends is "parallel parenting", also called "Mom's World, Dad's World", where parents minimize communication and make independent rules in their own time with the children. This style can help reduce conflict when parents cannot agree on parenting issues.
Effects of Divorce on Children as a Function of Age, Sex, and ParentingRandi Hovey
The document discusses research on the effects of divorce on children. It finds that while divorce can increase behavioral problems, lower academic achievement, and mental health issues for children, controlling for factors like parenting quality, socioeconomic status, and parent mental health finds minimal differences between children of divorced and non-divorced families. The effects of divorce appear to depend most on keeping children's environment stable, parents effectively managing stress, allowing contact with both parents, and engaging in strong parenting.
The National Down Syndrome Adoption Network (NDSAN) was founded in 1981 to ensure that every child with Down syndrome has the opportunity to grow up in a loving family. The NDSAN provides services to birth parents, adoptive families, and children with Down syndrome. Throughout the document, information is provided about various children currently available for adoption who have Down syndrome. Advice and resources are also provided for families pursuing adoption of a child with Down syndrome.
This document discusses the law surrounding minors and releases from liability. It begins by stating that releases are considered contracts, but minors generally cannot sign contracts. Additionally, parents cannot typically sign away a minor's right to sue for injuries. The document then discusses various court cases that have examined issues like whether a minor can disaffirm a release signed as a minor after turning 18, whether parents can indemnify third parties for injuries to their minor children, and whether third parties like group leaders can sign releases on behalf of minors. It notes that most states do not allow parents to sign away a minor's right to sue, but a few (like California, Ohio, North Dakota, and Massachusetts) have allowed limited parental waivers
This document discusses divorce and the need for divorce reform legislation. It provides background on divorce rates in the US being the highest in the world despite high levels of religious affiliation. It notes several negative impacts of divorce on children including higher rates of emotional, behavioral and physical abuse problems. The document also discusses the taxpayer costs of divorce being at least $112 billion annually when factoring programs like welfare, Medicaid and more. Overall it argues divorce reform is needed to help reduce the harms and costs of divorce to families and society.
The document discusses religious views on marriage and divorce from several perspectives. It outlines views from Catholicism, Eastern Orthodoxy, Protestantism, Judaism, and realities regarding the influence of religion on divorce rates. Catholicism sees marriage as a sacred bond intended for procreation that cannot be dissolved. Eastern Orthodoxy also views marriage as a sacred mystery. Protestantism emphasizes marriage as demonstrating God's love while allowing for divorce and remarriage. Judaism focuses on the relationship between husband and wife to fulfill spiritual and practical obligations, and allows divorce through a formal process of granting a "get" document. In reality, while religion influences behaviors, differences in religious affiliation may not necessarily lead to differences in rates of single parenthood or divorce
This document provides information from a presentation on supporting children through family separation. It discusses how children may experience grief, loss, and behavioral changes after separation. It emphasizes protecting children from parental conflict, maintaining security and routines for children, and facilitating the child's relationship with both parents. The presentation covers tips for helping children manage emotions, supporting yourself during the process, and being a facilitative gatekeeper regarding the child's time with each parent.
This presentation was used for the Bridge the Gap CLE at Fordham Law School in January 2015. I co-presented with another family lawyer. My part of the presentation covers the jurisdictional differences between Supreme Court and Family Court, the different divorce paths in New York (e.g., contested divorce, uncontested divorce), Notice of Automatic Orders, matrimonial agreements (e.g, prenuptial agreements), grounds for an annulment and grounds for a divorce, equitable distribution, child support and spousal maintenance.
Douglas Pinkham Discusses Different Types of Family Law CasesDouglas Pinkham
Douglas Pinkham discusses the different types of family law cases including divorce, paternity cases, domestic violence cases, child custody issues, child support matters, and same-sex partner cases. Divorce is the most common and involves dividing assets and determining support and custody. Paternity cases establish parentage and child support for unmarried parents. Domestic violence accusations impact custody, visitation, and support decisions. Child custody involves decisions about physical and legal control over children. Child support amounts depend on factors like visitation time. Same-sex partner cases involve the same issues as other divorces regarding children and assets.
Although same-sex couples now are able to obtain dissolutions of their marriages in many states, there are still complicating factors facing divorcing LGBT couples. Some of these factors include different tax treatment, division of pension plans, child support, custody issues and the rights of married vs. unmarried same sex couples.
Every Day Dad-the Guide to Become a Better FatherScott Hammond
Scott Hammond's book "Every Day Dad: The Guide to Becoming a Better Father" provides guidance to fathers on how to improve their parenting skills. The book includes acknowledgments, endorsements from other authors and speakers, and a table of contents listing the chapter topics. The first chapter addresses common problems and dysfunctional behaviors fathers may experience, while the second chapter focuses on stress, anger and developing a positive attitude. The book is intended to give fathers practical advice and strategies to succeed in their role as parents.
Divorce is a legal process that dissolves a marriage and restores individuals to single status. No-fault divorce does not require proof of wrongdoing. Around 50% of first marriages, 67% of second, and 74% of third marriages end in divorce. Children of divorced parents are more likely to have problems in school, abuse substances, and divorce as adults. After divorce, 90% of mothers have custody while divorced men struggle with relationships and debt. Divorce rates vary globally with the US having the highest rate at 4.95 per 1000 people. Around 25% of mainline Protestants and Catholics have been divorced. Some argue polygamy provides stability and childcare support while others say it goes against
The document discusses designing teams and processes to adapt to changing needs. It recommends structuring teams so members can work within their competencies and across projects fluidly with clear roles and expectations. The design process should support the team and their work, and be flexible enough to change with team, organization, and project needs. An effective team culture builds an environment where members feel free to be themselves, voice opinions, and feel supported.
UX, ethnography and possibilities: for Libraries, Museums and ArchivesNed Potter
1) The document discusses how the University of York Library has used various user experience (UX) techniques like ethnographic observation and interviews to better understand user needs and behaviors.
2) Some changes implemented based on UX findings include installing hot water taps, changing hours, and adding blankets - aimed at improving the small details of user experience.
3) The presentation encourages other libraries, archives and museums to try incorporating UX techniques like behavioral mapping and cognitive interviews to inform design changes that enhance services for users.
An immersive workshop at General Assembly, SF. I typically teach this workshop at General Assembly, San Francisco. To see a list of my upcoming classes, visit https://generalassemb.ly/instructors/seth-familian/4813
I also teach this workshop as a private lunch-and-learn or half-day immersive session for corporate clients. To learn more about pricing and availability, please contact me at http://familian1.com
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Read the full story on the Drift blog here: http://blog.drift.com/sales-team-tips
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Genocide in International Criminal Law.pptxMasoudZamani13
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Lifting the Corporate Veil. Power Point Presentationseri bangash
"Lifting the Corporate Veil" is a legal concept that refers to the judicial act of disregarding the separate legal personality of a corporation or limited liability company (LLC). Normally, a corporation is considered a legal entity separate from its shareholders or members, meaning that the personal assets of shareholders or members are protected from the liabilities of the corporation. However, there are certain situations where courts may decide to "pierce" or "lift" the corporate veil, holding shareholders or members personally liable for the debts or actions of the corporation.
Here are some common scenarios in which courts might lift the corporate veil:
Fraud or Illegality: If shareholders or members use the corporate structure to perpetrate fraud, evade legal obligations, or engage in illegal activities, courts may disregard the corporate entity and hold those individuals personally liable.
Undercapitalization: If a corporation is formed with insufficient capital to conduct its intended business and meet its foreseeable liabilities, and this lack of capitalization results in harm to creditors or other parties, courts may lift the corporate veil to hold shareholders or members liable.
Failure to Observe Corporate Formalities: Corporations and LLCs are required to observe certain formalities, such as holding regular meetings, maintaining separate financial records, and avoiding commingling of personal and corporate assets. If these formalities are not observed and the corporate structure is used as a mere façade, courts may disregard the corporate entity.
Alter Ego: If there is such a unity of interest and ownership between the corporation and its shareholders or members that the separate personalities of the corporation and the individuals no longer exist, courts may treat the corporation as the alter ego of its owners and hold them personally liable.
Group Enterprises: In some cases, where multiple corporations are closely related or form part of a single economic unit, courts may pierce the corporate veil to achieve equity, particularly if one corporation's actions harm creditors or other stakeholders and the corporate structure is being used to shield culpable parties from liability.
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The TRUTH About Divorce that lawyers will never tell you
1. Divorce! Rescue or Disaster? Wrong choices threaten your family and your assets
2. Divorce! Rescue or Disaster? Wrong choices threaten your family and your assets
3. Divorce numbers are staggering Risk of loss during divorce is very high Money and children form the basis for legal disputes Contentious divorces are like a war – nobody really wins Divorce is never so horrible that you cannot make it worse Areas Covered 3
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5. You are not willing to take it any more 5 But most of all you are thinking about divorce because You feel you MUSTget out… now!
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7. That would mean that in just the couples alone there were over 2 million people involved
8. There are at least 8 divorces every minute of every business day in the United States
9. 75% of filings were by women6 And there are a lot of people just like you Sources: National Vital Statistics Reports – NVSS – CDEC- US Dept of Health and Human Services – Data for 2006 – 8/28/2007 – volume 55, number 20
16. Hire a mediator Take the high road Consult the correct experts Take the shortest path Save the co-parenting relationship 9 How do I get what I want?
19. There may be a threat to harm you or a person or pet loved by you
20. It could result in unjust punishment to children – “I have to do this because of you”
21. The children could be involved – “See what your *mommy or daddy* has done. *She or he* has been bad and must be punished11 There is danger when you reveal your intention Sources: Recognizing Abuse in a Legal Divorce – Laura Johnson – SmartDivorce.com
25. Taking away your freedoms12 You may need to protect yourself from: Sources: Recognizing Abuse in a Legal Divorce – Laura Johnson – SmartDivorce.com
31. 80% Loneliness is the greatest fear13 Knowing what mayhappen to you is hard Sources: Divorce, Abuse and Stress – Poll Results for Women by April Lorier – 2007 eZine
32. Children of divorced families are (more than) twice as likely to suffer serious social, psychological, emotional or academic problems 14 Knowing what may happen to your children is even harder Sources: NPR Interview – 01/31/2002 – E. Mavis Hetherington, professor emeritus of psychology at U of Virginia
33. 15 Seven critical mistakesin divorce Making legal and financial mistakes based on emotion Negotiating without all the important information and documents Thinking that the divorce process must be adversarial Thinking that divorce has to be expensive Not getting professional help Not knowing the real value of your assets Not controlling the process Sources: Avoiding the Seven Critical Mistakes in Divorce – Joan Coullahan, CDFA, LLC - 2005
34. 16 On top of everything elsethere are predators Divorce Attorneys generally charge by the hour ($200 - $400) – it is in their interest to create a contentious situation using as much time as possible Truthfully, your lawyer IS NOT YOUR FRIEND! They are not therapists, experts on taxes nor financial strategists. Use them as little as possible… Sources: Morning Call (Allentown, PA) – Gregory Carp – July 9th, 2006 – Divorce breaks pocketbooks as well as hearts
37. If the wife initiates the divorce the husband will often link the house and kids to saving the structure of his life
38. The ideology of 75% of the custody fights is ‘You want a divorce, you go; I’ll keep the house and kids’18 Once the process has started things may escalate Sources: Denver Rocky Mountain News – Mark Wolf quoting Sam Margulies author of the book – A Man’s Guide to Civilized Divorce – July 24th, 2004
39. I will tell the court about your behavior and you will never get the children. Why are you trying to take my money from me? Either do this my way, or you won’t get a dime. I'll go to jail before I'll pay you a dime. I'll quit my job before I'll pay you that amount of support. 19 You may start to hear threats Sources: Dishon & Block, APC Aaron Dishon, Esq. California Divorce Attorney – California Divorce.info – 12/11/2007 – Top Threats Made During A Divorce
40. Your attorney is a loser/inexperienced OR my attorney can represent you as well as I, why don’t we just save money and use one attorney. Your attorney is making me provide all kinds of documents. Call him and tell him to cancel all “discovery” requests”, he is just running up your bill. You'll never see the kids again. I will drag out this case forever-- I would rather pay my attorney than pay you—I will fight you to the bitter end. I am going to file for divorce in Nevada (or some other state or country). 20 And more threats… Sources: Dishon & Block, APC Aaron Dishon, Esq. California Divorce Attorney – California Divorce.info – 12/11/2007 – Top Threats Made During A Divorce
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42. ”…children will say the divorce was the worst thing that happened in their lives – and I have never seen a victimless divorce.”
43. Parents may begin to act emotionally and irrationally about the children
44. They will attempt to cut off the other spouse’s contact with the children
45. They may use the children as “spies” or messengers
46. Often the other parent is criticized in front of the child21 And your childrennow start to suffer Sources: NPR Interview – 01/31/2002 – E. Mavis Hetherington, professor emeritus of psychology at U of Virginia | “Guy” Ferraro, president of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers – PR Newswire – June 5th, 2007 | St. Johns Law Review 2003
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48. Moderate to high levels of maternal interference in the relationship with the father causes issues with intimacy
49. When the father interferes with the co-parenting relationship there are higher chances of having more difficulty of intimacy with males22 Assessing your spouse’s position on co-parenting is important Sources: Journal of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry – 2/1/1995 – Robert Bolgar, Joel Paris, Hallie Zweig-Frank
52. Loss of these relationships is harmful to the children and often to the relatives (especially grandparents)
53. Some parents will exclude the divorcing spouse’s relatives from any contact with themselves or the children23 Even your relatives may become distant Sources: Boston Globe – Nina McCain quoting psychiatrist Arthur Kornhaber author of books on grandparents and grandchildren – 11/23/88
59. The longer the divorce lasts the more deadly it becomes24 Your health starts to deteriorate Sources: MMEGI – March 9th, 2007 – Lauri Kubuitsile – Divorce Can Even Kill
72. The longer the actual divorce process lasts the worse everything becomes!27 And the expensesstart to roll-up
73. A Memphis divorce attorney describes it as: Lawyer Time vs Real People Time He talks about how a client was upset with him for the slow progress he was making in their case. He makes a number of points about how the legal system can be very slow, especially in contentious cases. He says that he will tell the client that he will try and “get some things done next week”. Then he goes on to say that “trying” is a low priority behind gym time, a hot date or getting a new client. His deadline is very slow to the client and “a month or two is nothing in lawyer world” 28 How does your attorney feel about the length of the divorce? Sources: Memphis Divorce Law Blog – David M. Sandy – Lawyer Time vs Real People Time – 11/26/2007
78. And grief, anger, confusion, and fear take a terrible toll on the mental, emotional and physical health of the participants29 For decades people have chosen to make enemies Sources: (Minnesota) Star Tribune April 1st, 2007 – Gail Rosenblum – A Different Divorce
85. Children in sole-custody settings were more poorly adjusted than those in joint custody (depression, deviance, school effort, school grades)Children do not always fare well after a divorce 31 Sources: Adolescents After Divorce – Buchanan, C., Maccoby, and Dornbusch, Harvard University Press, 1996
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87. 3 out of 4 custodial mothers move at least once within the four years immediately following a divorce
88. Of those that relocate, one-half move more than one time
89. One concerned, loving parent may lose their relationship through no fault of their own
90. The parent suffers – the children suffer32 Sources: St. John’s Law Review – Lucy S. McGough – April 1, 2003 – Starting over: the heuristics of family relocation decision making
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92. Parallel: the parenting relationships do not interfere with each other – they may have different rules and regulations – the couple does not communicate with each other
93. Cooperative: both participate equally in raising the children – they consult on the children’s problems and the children’s activities – they are child focused and have developed a mutual respect to achieve the best result for the childSources: NPR Interview – 01/31/2002 – E. Mavis Hetherington, professor emeritus of psychology at U of Virginia
94. 34 The parenting relationship suffers – the kids pay Sources: NPR Interview – 01/31/2002 – E. Mavis Hetherington, professor emeritus of psychology at U of Virginia
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96. But there is hope!There are positive steps you can take and a approach that you can use that will serve you and yours through this difficult time
97. Even though, children of divorced families are (more than) twice as likely to suffer serious social, psychological, emotional or academic problems – 80% of them make it through without these serious problems – that is your goal! 37 Divorce will cause some damage to your children, but consider… Sources: NPR Interview – 01/31/2002 – E. Mavis Hetherington, professor emeritus of psychology at U of Virginia
102. And attempts to avoid creating enemies38 Wouldn’t it be better to follow the peaceful route? Sources: (Minnesota) Star Tribune April 1st, 2007 – Gail Rosenblum – A Different Divorce
110. Share a daily meal (32% of divorced children do not share a daily meal with their family)
111. Make children the center of the family (66% of divorced children feel they are not)
112. Do not discuss adult topics with the children (58% say they always felt like adults) allow them to be children
113. Reinforce their safety – again and again (30% do not feel emotionally safe)41 First, minimizethe damage by… Sources: Between Two Worlds: The Inner Lives of Children of Divorce – Elizabeth Marquardt
118. Assist the other parent in having meaningful contact with the children42 Second, minimize the damage by being appropriately honest Sources: Journal of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry – What About the Kids? Raising Your Children Before, During and After Divorce
119. Watch for the warning signs of divorce-related depression or anxiety Changes in your child’s emotional responses Changes in your child’s behavior Let’s look at each of these to see when you might call in the professional 43 Third, minimize the damage by getting professional help Sources: Coping with Divorce – HelpGuide.org
130. Suicide: talks about killing one’s self - death45 Watch for changes in your child’s behavior Sources: Coping with Divorce – HelpGuide.org
131. Help them work through distrust or pain – especially with your co-parent and co-grandparents Explain what this experience has taught you – in a positive way Encourage their appropriate relationships with friends, co-parent and grandparents 46 Protect your children by supporting their relationships
137. I am losing everything that is important to me – friends, home, siblings, and my neighborhood47 Getting past the distrustand betrayal in your children Sources: Practical strategies for helping children of divorce in today’s classroom – Childhood Education – Aug 1999 – Miller, Morrison, and Ryan
138. Support the school counselor Normal active – age appropriate – routine will develop some relationships Activities that include their friends Where possible involve both sets of grandparents Also aunts, uncles and cousins can help re-establish a sense of belonging Look for a support group of their peers Family Service America, Inc (800) 221-2681 is a great resource 48 Your children needvarious types of relationships Sources: Divorce and the American Family – Current Health 2 – Nov 1, 1996 – Nancy Dreger
146. You stand by your beliefs- demonstrate integrity49 Show your kids what you would like them to become Sources: Denver Rocky Mountain News – June 6th, 1999 – Janet Simons – Teach by Example…
152. But do not show you kids your anger nor your depression – their life is rough enough right now without worrying about you as well50 Control your anger and your depression – for them Sources: Newsweek – Sep 27, 2004 – For a Happy Heart; Depression, loneliness and anger all take a toll on your cardiac health.
156. Refrain from dating and promiscuous behavior particularly during the divorce
157. Show interest and respect in their friends51 Demonstrate how proper relationships should function
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159. Many couples are finding that with a little effort they can be friends even though they cannot be married
160. Your divorce partner will always be the other parent of any children that you share – don’t punish the children
161. The price for continuing acrimony is just too high - acknowledge your part in the failure of the marriage52 Make peace with yourdivorce partner
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163. They generally want to help with the kids and may help their healing process
164. Be frank with them in requesting that they stay neutral and that they stay friends with you
165. Help them to understand that you are doing everything in your power to create a peaceful divorce
166. Listen to and acknowledge their pain53 Make efforts to reconcile with your divorce partner’s parents
167. Do not be offended when they withdraw – they are frightened and uncomfortable – it’s not personal Let them know it’s okay to keep a distance during the divorce and that you understand their discomfort Send emails or messages for birthdays and events letting them know that you consider the relationship still intact Ask to get together, maybe in a group setting, after the divorce 54 Retaining your friends means reaching out Sources: Chicago Sun-Times – Friends Fear Taking Sides When the Divorce Goes Public – Karen S. Peterson – May 25, 1995
168. Allow grieving to occur – it is a natural reaction to loss – don’t fight it – grief doesn’t so much go away as it becomes irrelevant after a time – the pain will pass if you let it… Choose to move forward – make a conscious effort to get up and move your life forward each day – set short and long term goals and make your actions move you towards them – record your progress Prioritize – List the chores that need to be done, bills paid, etc. – create a list and a plan each day and reward yourself as you accomplish the items 55 Suggestions for emotional coping Sources: Emotional Coping and Divorce – CenterSite.net – Riverwood Center
185. Avoid making large decisions after your divorce for a while58 Emotional copingsuggestions continued Sources: Emotional Coping and Divorce – CenterSite.net – Riverwood Center
186. Open a checking account in your name only – try to add an amount that you may need to transition during the divorce Get a credit card(s) in your name only – establish individual credit and create an emergency resource Create a budget of your expenses as a single person – be accurate, but frugal - include the children’s expenses, if appropriate 59 Taking care of immediate financial safety Sources: A Civil Divorce – Kiplinger’s Personal Finance Magazine – July 1, 2005 – Mark K. Solheim
187. Create a list of all current assets and liabilities (you may want to hire an accountant to help you with this) Document all existing financial agreements Get copies of all existing financial documents Don’t forget taxes, insurances, beneficiaries and estate and retirement planning Check on the availability of a certified divorce financial planner 60 Financial Safety(continued) Sources: A Civil Divorce – Kiplinger’s Personal Finance Magazine – July 1, 2005 – Mark K. Solheim
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189. Of those hits that express a preference, over 95% of the experts will recommend going to a Certified Mediator firstto handle your divorce and avoid the big charges
190. The advantages are many and the downside few, but this will not work for everyone
191. So let’s look at the data on the Mediator and see if this is for you61 “I’m confused by thenumber of options” Sources: Empire Research Group 2008
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193. Some are therapists, some are faith based, some are even accountants and some are attorneys
194. In the peaceful divorce the primary function of the mediator is to mediate an equitable solution on the property, assets and liabilities and to help them come to a solution on visiting and parenting arrangements
195. Mediators help others coexist peacefully62 The Mediator and mediation who and what are they?
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197. The mediator should be an attorney with divorce experience
203. Don’t try to use a mediator if the contentious nature of the divorce is such that the emotions preclude any attempt at a peaceful resolution65 Who should and shouldnot use a mediator
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205. Use online data to research the laws and resources available in your state and then locally hire the resource(s) that make the most sense66 Wouldn’t I save much more with an online service?
206. 67 And the one common sense financial safety strategy Make the divorce process as short as possible!
211. Ed Sherman, California law attorney and author of “Make any Divorce Better”68 Five divorce expertsgive sound advice Sources: The Washington Post – How Can I Get a Good Divorce? Jennifer Huget – 12/18/07
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213. “But get a second opinion – if you seek counsel with a highly qualified clinical psychologist or family therapist you will get an objective viewpoint – before you go to a divorce lawyer”69 Richard Mikesell Clinical Psychologist Sources: The Washington Post – How Can I Get a Good Divorce? Jennifer Huget – 12/18/07
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215. Meet with a lawyer or mediator for a one hour consultation – to learn the rules in that state – general property division, child support guidelines etc.
216. Meet with a mediator or family therapist to work out the child-custody guidelines and visitation arrangements
217. Keep the kids out it – they are not prizes –they need both parents70 Belinda RachmanCertified Mediator Sources: The Washington Post – How Can I Get a Good Divorce? Jennifer Huget – 12/18/07
220. Get a grip – acknowledge your feelings, but recognize what you need to do on a day to day basis
221. Create a business-like relationship – you may never be friends again, but you and your spouse both need to function rationally to get through this with the least damage71 Robert EmeryProfessor of Psychology Sources: The Washington Post – How Can I Get a Good Divorce? Jennifer Huget – 12/18/07
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223. Don’t assume it’s easy if there are no kids – give the process the same attention and care as if kids were involved
224. Confide with care – don’t vent to mutual friends – you will regret it later
225. Be well – take care of yourself – find a safe haven to talk – sleep – get a massage – get professional help if needed72 Constance AhronsProfessor Emeritus of Sociology Sources: The Washington Post – How Can I Get a Good Divorce? Jennifer Huget – 12/18/07
230. Agree not to discuss personal stuff – when you are discussing divorce stuff – set a separate time for that
231. Be well – for your child73 Ed ShermanFamily Law Attorney Ed Sherman - California law attorney and author of “Make any Divorce Better” Sources: The Washington Post – How Can I Get a Good Divorce? Jennifer Huget – 12/18/07
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233. Unless there is a “huge power balance” between husband and wife
234. Doing divorce right can help give you and your ex and your kids a much better chance for happiness74 All five agree that…
253. If she cannot help you then she will try and guide you to most peaceful path still available to you77 Helping all couples finda better way
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Editor's Notes
Divorces per minute are based on 1,000,000/year. Using business days, when divorces would occur, and eliminating 6 holidays per year there are:8 hours in the business day or 480 minutes which is 2400 business minutes/weekIf we use 6 holidays then the annual number is reduced by 6 times 480 or 2880 business minutesThe annual number of business minutes would then be 2400 minutes/week times 52 weeks -2880 minutes or 121980 business minutes per annumDivide 1,000,000 divorces/year by 121,980 minutes/year 8 divorces/minute
Many spouses will just react without thinking and try and punish or control you
The danger could be physical and/or emotional
Going through these stats could touch the fears of the participants and bring them out
The danger could be physical and/or emotional
And what’s worse is that advice from the person who should be your greatest advocate, could be the most dangerous of all to you and your loved ones
This is referring to interfering with the other parent’s parenting techniques and the damage it causes…
You should stress the final point several times…
Here is where you bring up that an unscrupulous California attorney may drag out the process until they own your home…
This slide is to demonstrate how casual the typical attorney is with the amount of time a divorce takes
This and other studies emphasize again and again that joint custody is more successful – for the children – than sole custody – children need both parents actively in their lives
This and other studies emphasize again and again that joint custody is more successful – for the children – than sole custody – children need both parents actively in their lives
Of course you want to note that this really a continuum and may be more less in one of the areas. In other words it could be that a couple is pretty hostile, but only interferes occasionally with the parenting of the other and so on…
That only 25% of parent are able to develop cooperative relationships demonstrates how hard it is to focus on the child instead of personal agendas or pain
This starts to make the participant aware of the additional expenses and the possible change in life-style post divorce
The danger could be physical and/or emotional
There are divorce support groups for several children’s age groups
This was the most complete series of steps for emotional protection that I found
Most of this area is just about getting through the divorce process – they will want to have walked through all of these steps before they even broach the topic of divorce
Emphasize again and again – the participant should always be looking for ways to shorten the process without compromising their position