This document summarizes research on women's experiences with maternity care and proposes solutions to promote more compassionate care. It notes that only half of women surveyed had the birth they wanted and many felt their experiences negatively affected their self-image. International research also found instances of disrespect and abuse in institutional maternity care. The document advocates for both macro-level solutions like adopting human rights frameworks and micro-level solutions like role modeling compassionate care. It emphasizes that small acts of kindness can transform traumatic experiences and promoting virtuous cycles of love over manufactured fear can improve care.