In this talk, René Smits explores the subject of societal connection: how society seems broken and true listening abandoned and what can be done to restore the human connection. Partially based on Vivek Murthy’s book , the talk will explore how to counter alienation and how to bridge divisions. Beginning with an inventory of the current state of affairs in societal interaction (deep divisions, strongly embedded ‘tribes’, echo chambers on social media, fake news, abhorrence from different viewpoints and even from the very persons adhering to them), I try and explore individual actions that can be taken, and collective responses that may be initiated, to counter division and to bring back connection, ultimately based on love.